Re: Re: potty accidents after potty training,kyla dr today........

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Have you talked to her ped about this to make sure

there are no other medical problems? who was

potty trained for at least year was having - not

really accidents but after she was done would get off

the potty and after walking away a few drops would

fall into her panties. This is because she has labia

adhesions. I maybe asking before reading all the

posts but just a suggestion.

B

5 1/2 and Kelli 2 3/4

--- blondesteph_00 wrote:

> --i hope i don'tsound like i beat her when she has

> accidents, i

> DON'T.......can't say any of us don't get frustrated

> sometimes, and

> she does get in trouble, she has a reward system she

> gets money in

> her tinkerbell bank when the day is over for no

> accidents and for

> being a big helper for me,,,,,,i hope i don't sound

> like a bad mom,

> because i don't think i am.........she goes to the

> doctor today, for

> this and she has had headaches for the last few days

> and woke up

> today with a 104 fever will post when we know

> something, thanks

> stephanie kyla 4 rss jonahtan 19 months, non rss

>

> In RSS-Support , " pcpets "

> <pcpets@a...> wrote:

> > Hey ,

> >

> > As the mother of 4 and g-ma to 3, I would suggest

> NOT making a big

> deal

> > about ANY accidents, and especially NOT spanking

> her for them. I

> would also

> > make sure to have her checked medically, so that

> you know it isn't

> an

> > infection problem that is causing the accidents.

> >

> > My 4 yr old g-daughter will do ANYTHING (be it

> positive or

> negative) for

> > extra attention. I found that when she's getting

> into a lot of

> trouble, it

> > usually means that she hasn't had enough positive

> attention for the

> good

> > things she's done. Whether or not it's true, she

> FEELS like she's

> not

> > getting enough attention.

> >

> > You also might want to initiate a reward system

> for going the whole

> day

> > without an accident. It might be something like a

> sticker for each

> day

> > without an accident and when she gets 7 stickers

> in a row, you'll

> take her

> > to the dollar store for a toy??

> >

> > Until then, I would make sure I had an extra set

> of clothing

> wherever I

> > went, and would make her change herself, if she is

> developmentally

> able. I

> > might express some disappointment at the accident,

> but no anger,

> and express

> > my hope that she would do better for the rest of

> the day.

> >

> > Hope this helps! Know that you're not alone. This

> happens with a

> LOT of

> > kids!

> >

> > Pat (g-ma to , RSS, 3 yrs 5 months old,

> 23#, 33 " , G-tube,

> GHT)

>

>

>

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