To the List from BeckyB.-Answers--Not CF

[Guest guest]

Hi Everyone! Happy New Year!I would like to try to answer some questions I've

seen asked lately.The answers are very personal which is why I did not post here

about personal problems.If you are easily shocked( WARNING ) DO NOT READ ANY

FURTHER!!In October my 18 year old son was caught in a situation with my 2 year

old granddaughter that led us to kick him out of our home.In the next 2 weeks it

came out that my 18 year old son had been molested by the same pervert who

molested 2 of my daughters(my oldest daughter testified before a grand jury and

put him away for 5 to 10 years he comes up for parole this year)my heart was

breaking .I helped support my darling daughter in law and my son her hubby and

my sweet granddaughter Jassy(just some of the stress).All of this happened in NY

in my dream house which turned into a house of horrors full of nightmares that

lasted all day long.I got to where I wasn't sleeping and was so full of hatred

towards the pervert I hated the way I felt,I hated my house,and wanted to

leave.My hubby who is normally the most even tempered man lost it one morning at

4-4:30 am and slapped our 10 year old VERY HARD it left a mark on his face for

1-1/2 weeks it broke blood vessels and you could see the outline of his hand.I

think that was the straw that broke me.I told my hubby to leave and not to come

back.I soon realized I would lose the house if I stayed there (I think I would

have lost my sanity truly).I packed up my hubby's car as full of the kids

clothes and all 4 kids and came to ,TN where my parents live.It became

apparent my parents have severe health problems.My Dad worked for Y-12 in

Oakridge,TN for over 20 years he was exposed to hepatitis(sp?) and he has

diabetes he is 68.My Mother has Lupus she was dx'd one week before Rebekah was

born she also has arthritis and she is 78.We wound up in a shelter in downtown

Knoxville homeless right before Christmas.My kids have been ill from viruses

going around the shelter(Rebekah wore a mask ALL the time there)STRESS,STRESS! I

really do believe that what doesn't kill you makes you a stronger person.I have

limited acess to the computer at the Inn we are at.I have to credit Tucker

for telling me about Levy at Reach 4 the Stars the same day I called

she told me to call and the very same day he got us out of the shelter and

into the Marriott Residence Inn near cedar bluff exit.Such a beautiful place to

spend the New Year.I havn't meant to ignore any questions this has been so

painful I just needed some time to heal.I Thank Everyone for the support.I am

doing OK I have Gabrial he is 4 ,and Rebekah she is 6,and she is 8,and

he is 10.We are trying to find a place to live and are trying to get our

lives together and find the Joy in everyday things that we all took for granted

just a few weeks ago.I think I have said all I can for now I have been with this

list since before it came to Yahoo back at Onelist.I think it was in 99 and I

have watched this list grow and become a world wide support so no parent has to

feel alone as most of us did when our kids were dx'd.I have shared my experience

and my life with so many of you it seems as if I have a huge extended family.I

have felt so much Love and Support here that I felt right at home.Thank You All

with All my Heart! BeckyB.--Mama to 8-2w/cf-and Nana to 2

[Guest guest]

Becky; this is awful, and IS cf-related in a way. You do what you need to do!

n

To the List from BeckyB.-Answers--Not CF

Hi Everyone! Happy New Year!I would like to try to answer some questions I've

seen asked lately.The answers are very personal which is why I did not post here

about personal problems.If you are easily shocked( WARNING ) DO NOT READ ANY

FURTHER!!In October my 18 year old son was caught in a situation with my 2 year

old granddaughter that led us to kick him out of our home.In the next 2 weeks it

came out that my 18 year old son had been molested by the same pervert who

molested 2 of my daughters(my oldest daughter testified before a grand jury and

put him away for 5 to 10 years he comes up for parole this year)my heart was

breaking .I helped support my darling daughter in law and my son her hubby and

my sweet granddaughter Jassy(just some of the stress).All of this happened in NY

in my dream house which turned into a house of horrors full of nightmares that

lasted all day long.I got to where I wasn't sleeping and was so full of hatred

towards the pervert I hated the way I felt,I hated my house,and wanted to

leave.My hubby who is normally the most even tempered man lost it one morning at

4-4:30 am and slapped our 10 year old VERY HARD it left a mark on his face for

1-1/2 weeks it broke blood vessels and you could see the outline of his hand.I

think that was the straw that broke me.I told my hubby to leave and not to come

back.I soon realized I would lose the house if I stayed there (I think I would

have lost my sanity truly).I packed up my hubby's car as full of the kids

clothes and all 4 kids and came to ,TN where my parents live.It became

apparent my parents have severe health problems.My Dad worked for Y-12 in

Oakridge,TN for over 20 years he was exposed to hepatitis(sp?) and he has

diabetes he is 68.My Mother has Lupus she was dx'd one week before Rebekah was

born she also has arthritis and she is 78.We wound up in a shelter in downtown

Knoxville homeless right before Christmas.My kids have been ill from viruses

going around the shelter(Rebekah wore a mask ALL the time there)STRESS,STRESS! I

really do believe that what doesn't kill you makes you a stronger person.I have

limited acess to the computer at the Inn we are at.I have to credit Tucker

for telling me about Levy at Reach 4 the Stars the same day I called

she told me to call and the very same day he got us out of the shelter and

into the Marriott Residence Inn near cedar bluff exit.Such a beautiful place to

spend the New Year.I havn't meant to ignore any questions this has been so

painful I just needed some time to heal.I Thank Everyone for the support.I am

doing OK I have Gabrial he is 4 ,and Rebekah she is 6,and she is 8,and

he is 10.We are trying to find a place to live and are trying to get our

lives together and find the Joy in everyday things that we all took for granted

just a few weeks ago.I think I have said all I can for now I have been with this

list since before it came to Yahoo back at Onelist.I think it was in 99 and I

have watched this list grow and become a world wide support so no parent has to

feel alone as most of us did when our kids were dx'd.I have shared my experience

and my life with so many of you it seems as if I have a huge extended family.I

have felt so much Love and Support here that I felt right at home.Thank You All

with All my Heart! BeckyB.--Mama to 8-2w/cf-and Nana to 2

-------------------------------------------

The opinions and information exchanged on this list should IN NO WAY

be construed as medical advice.

PLEASE CONSULT YOUR PHYSICIAN BEFORE CHANGING ANY MEDICATIONS OR TREATMENTS.

------------------------------------

[Guest guest]

Becky,

I thought that you were the lady with 8 children. Sometimes I can't

remember who's who. I am sorry that things are so difficult for you

right now. Your children are lucky to have you. I hope that you

find a great apartment and get settled quickley. If you send us your

apartment address, we can all send you some of our stuff. Most

people have too much stuff anyway. What you don't like, you can give

away. I could send you some toys too.

Please keep in touch. We care.

Gale

> Hi Everyone! Happy New Year!I would like to try to answer some

questions I've seen asked lately.The answers are very personal which

is why I did not post here about personal problems.If you are easily

shocked( WARNING ) DO NOT READ ANY FURTHER!!In October my 18 year old

son was caught in a situation with my 2 year old granddaughter that

led us to kick him out of our home.In the next 2 weeks it came out

that my 18 year old son had been molested by the same pervert who

molested 2 of my daughters(my oldest daughter testified before a

grand jury and put him away for 5 to 10 years he comes up for parole

this year)my heart was breaking .I helped support my darling daughter

in law and my son her hubby and my sweet granddaughter Jassy(just

some of the stress).All of this happened in NY in my dream house

which turned into a house of horrors full of nightmares that lasted

all day long.I got to where I wasn't sleeping and was so full of

hatred towards the pervert I hated the way I felt,I hated my

house,and wanted to leave.My hubby who is normally the most even

tempered man lost it one morning at 4-4:30 am and slapped our 10 year

old VERY HARD it left a mark on his face for 1-1/2 weeks it broke

blood vessels and you could see the outline of his hand.I think that

was the straw that broke me.I told my hubby to leave and not to come

back.I soon realized I would lose the house if I stayed there (I

think I would have lost my sanity truly).I packed up my hubby's car

as full of the kids clothes and all 4 kids and came to ,TN

where my parents live.It became apparent my parents have severe

health problems.My Dad worked for Y-12 in Oakridge,TN for over 20

years he was exposed to hepatitis(sp?) and he has diabetes he is

68.My Mother has Lupus she was dx'd one week before Rebekah was born

she also has arthritis and she is 78.We wound up in a shelter in

downtown Knoxville homeless right before Christmas.My kids have been

ill from viruses going around the shelter(Rebekah wore a mask ALL the

time there)STRESS,STRESS! I really do believe that what doesn't kill

you makes you a stronger person.I have limited acess to the computer

at the Inn we are at.I have to credit Tucker for telling me

about Levy at Reach 4 the Stars the same day I called she

told me to call and the very same day he got us out of the

shelter and into the Marriott Residence Inn near cedar bluff

exit.Such a beautiful place to spend the New Year.I havn't meant to

ignore any questions this has been so painful I just needed some time

to heal.I Thank Everyone for the support.I am doing OK I have Gabrial

he is 4 ,and Rebekah she is 6,and she is 8,and he is

10.We are trying to find a place to live and are trying to get our

lives together and find the Joy in everyday things that we all took

for granted just a few weeks ago.I think I have said all I can for

now I have been with this list since before it came to Yahoo back at

Onelist.I think it was in 99 and I have watched this list grow and

become a world wide support so no parent has to feel alone as most of

us did when our kids were dx'd.I have shared my experience and my

life with so many of you it seems as if I have a huge extended

family.I have felt so much Love and Support here that I felt right at

home.Thank You All with All my Heart! BeckyB.--Mama to 8-2w/cf-and

Nana to 2

[Guest guest]

(((((((Becky B.))))))),

OMG!I dont know what to say to you...yet I feel compelled to

respond.I dont want to tell you i'm sorry because i know its not

enough.Your post made tears roll down my cheeks.(unfortunately what

is a quality of my character is also a defect of my character...I'm

extremely sensitive to others pain, especially the emotional impact

of troubling situations).I feel for you; i know this has to be such a

hard time for you all.I want to tell you i think you did the right

thing, but only you know that.Bless your heart for what you and your

loved ones have suffered.

Please feel free to email me if you ever feel like talking...or just

plain old dumping.

WARNING TO YOU!!!!Anything I've evr prayed for that came from the

bottom of my heart has ALWAYS been answered(well, bet you can guess

one I'm still waiting on), and tonight i pray that you find the

courage, strength, and support you deserve to help you and your loved

ones adjust...

Wishing you only the very best,

Patty, mom to Tyler,8wcf Austin4wocf and Selena3wocf

> Hi Everyone! Happy New Year!I would like to try to answer some

questions I've seen asked lately.The answers are very personal which

is why I did not post here about personal problems.If you are easily

shocked( WARNING ) DO NOT READ ANY FURTHER!!In October my 18 year old

son was caught in a situation with my 2 year old granddaughter that

led us to kick him out of our home.In the next 2 weeks it came out

that my 18 year old son had been molested by the same pervert who

molested 2 of my daughters(my oldest daughter testified before a

grand jury and put him away for 5 to 10 years he comes up for parole

this year)my heart was breaking .I helped support my darling daughter

in law and my son her hubby and my sweet granddaughter Jassy(just

some of the stress).All of this happened in NY in my dream house

which turned into a house of horrors full of nightmares that lasted

all day long.I got to where I wasn't sleeping and was so full of

hatred towards the pervert I hated the way I felt,I hated my

house,and wanted to leave.My hubby who is normally the most even

tempered man lost it one morning at 4-4:30 am and slapped our 10 year

old VERY HARD it left a mark on his face for 1-1/2 weeks it broke

blood vessels and you could see the outline of his hand.I think that

was the straw that broke me.I told my hubby to leave and not to come

back.I soon realized I would lose the house if I stayed there (I

think I would have lost my sanity truly).I packed up my hubby's car

as full of the kids clothes and all 4 kids and came to ,TN

where my parents live.It became apparent my parents have severe

health problems.My Dad worked for Y-12 in Oakridge,TN for over 20

years he was exposed to hepatitis(sp?) and he has diabetes he is

68.My Mother has Lupus she was dx'd one week before Rebekah was born

she also has arthritis and she is 78.We wound up in a shelter in

downtown Knoxville homeless right before Christmas.My kids have been

ill from viruses going around the shelter(Rebekah wore a mask ALL the

time there)STRESS,STRESS! I really do believe that what doesn't kill

you makes you a stronger person.I have limited acess to the computer

at the Inn we are at.I have to credit Tucker for telling me

about Levy at Reach 4 the Stars the same day I called she

told me to call and the very same day he got us out of the

shelter and into the Marriott Residence Inn near cedar bluff

exit.Such a beautiful place to spend the New Year.I havn't meant to

ignore any questions this has been so painful I just needed some time

to heal.I Thank Everyone for the support.I am doing OK I have Gabrial

he is 4 ,and Rebekah she is 6,and she is 8,and he is

10.We are trying to find a place to live and are trying to get our

lives together and find the Joy in everyday things that we all took

for granted just a few weeks ago.I think I have said all I can for

now I have been with this list since before it came to Yahoo back at

Onelist.I think it was in 99 and I have watched this list grow and

become a world wide support so no parent has to feel alone as most of

us did when our kids were dx'd.I have shared my experience and my

life with so many of you it seems as if I have a huge extended

family.I have felt so much Love and Support here that I felt right at

home.Thank You All with All my Heart! BeckyB.--Mama to 8-2w/cf-and

Nana to 2

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 1/6/2004 8:43:26 PM Central Standard Time, hlbbet@...

writes:

BeckyB

I am so sorry to hear about the things you are going through right now but

you are a very strong person and I know you can do it!! Anyone that can raise 8

kids can do anything LOL! Could you please send us an e-mail of the things you

need so we can help in anyway?? And send you address so we can send them. I

have some Skandishakes if you need them or anything else you need. Please let

us know hang in there!! Deb A

[Guest guest]

note : She is the gal with 8 kids, The older ones didn't come they were

already elsewhere.

The oldest is married with 2 children too.

Maybe she will be able to get back to computer & answer herself.

LOVE & HUGS,

GRDMBEV

Re: To the List from BeckyB.-Answers--Not CF

Becky,

I thought that you were the lady with 8 children. Sometimes I can't

remember who's who. I am sorry that things are so difficult for you

right now. Your children are lucky to have you. I hope that you

find a great apartment and get settled quickley. If you send us your

apartment address, we can all send you some of our stuff. Most

people have too much stuff anyway. What you don't like, you can give

away. I could send you some toys too.

Please keep in touch. We care.

Gale

> Hi Everyone! Happy New Year!I would like to try to answer some

questions I've seen asked lately.The answers are very personal which

is why I did not post here about personal problems.If you are easily

shocked( WARNING ) DO NOT READ ANY FURTHER!!In October my 18 year old

son was caught in a situation with my 2 year old granddaughter that

led us to kick him out of our home.In the next 2 weeks it came out

that my 18 year old son had been molested by the same pervert who

molested 2 of my daughters(my oldest daughter testified before a

grand jury and put him away for 5 to 10 years he comes up for parole

this year)my heart was breaking .I helped support my darling daughter

in law and my son her hubby and my sweet granddaughter Jassy(just

some of the stress).All of this happened in NY in my dream house

which turned into a house of horrors full of nightmares that lasted

all day long.I got to where I wasn't sleeping and was so full of

hatred towards the pervert I hated the way I felt,I hated my

house,and wanted to leave.My hubby who is normally the most even

tempered man lost it one morning at 4-4:30 am and slapped our 10 year

old VERY HARD it left a mark on his face for 1-1/2 weeks it broke

blood vessels and you could see the outline of his hand.I think that

was the straw that broke me.I told my hubby to leave and not to come

back.I soon realized I would lose the house if I stayed there (I

think I would have lost my sanity truly).I packed up my hubby's car

as full of the kids clothes and all 4 kids and came to ,TN

where my parents live.It became apparent my parents have severe

health problems.My Dad worked for Y-12 in Oakridge,TN for over 20

years he was exposed to hepatitis(sp?) and he has diabetes he is

68.My Mother has Lupus she was dx'd one week before Rebekah was born

she also has arthritis and she is 78.We wound up in a shelter in

downtown Knoxville homeless right before Christmas.My kids have been

ill from viruses going around the shelter(Rebekah wore a mask ALL the

time there)STRESS,STRESS! I really do believe that what doesn't kill

you makes you a stronger person.I have limited acess to the computer

at the Inn we are at.I have to credit Tucker for telling me

about Levy at Reach 4 the Stars the same day I called she

told me to call and the very same day he got us out of the

shelter and into the Marriott Residence Inn near cedar bluff

exit.Such a beautiful place to spend the New Year.I havn't meant to

ignore any questions this has been so painful I just needed some time

to heal.I Thank Everyone for the support.I am doing OK I have Gabrial

he is 4 ,and Rebekah she is 6,and she is 8,and he is

10.We are trying to find a place to live and are trying to get our

lives together and find the Joy in everyday things that we all took

for granted just a few weeks ago.I think I have said all I can for

now I have been with this list since before it came to Yahoo back at

Onelist.I think it was in 99 and I have watched this list grow and

become a world wide support so no parent has to feel alone as most of

us did when our kids were dx'd.I have shared my experience and my

life with so many of you it seems as if I have a huge extended

family.I have felt so much Love and Support here that I felt right at

home.Thank You All with All my Heart! BeckyB.--Mama to 8-2w/cf-and

Nana to 2

-------------------------------------------

The opinions and information exchanged on this list should IN NO WAY

be construed as medical advice.

PLEASE CONSULT YOUR PHYSICIAN BEFORE CHANGING ANY MEDICATIONS OR TREATMENTS.

------------------------------------

[Guest guest]

Becki,

I am sorry for all that your family has gone through. You seem to be a

very strong person. You do what you need to do to survive and keep your

sanity. I will keep your whole family in my thoughts.

(Australia)

To the List from BeckyB.-Answers--Not CF

Hi Everyone! Happy New Year!I would like to try to answer some questions

I've seen asked lately.The answers are very personal which is why I did

not post here about personal problems.If you are easily shocked( WARNING

) DO NOT READ ANY FURTHER!!In October my 18 year old son was caught in a

situation with my 2 year old granddaughter that led us to kick him out

of our home.In the next 2 weeks it came out that my 18 year old son had

been molested by the same pervert who molested 2 of my daughters(my

oldest daughter testified before a grand jury and put him away for 5 to

10 years he comes up for parole this year)my heart was breaking .I

helped support my darling daughter in law and my son her hubby and my

sweet granddaughter Jassy(just some of the stress).All of this happened

in NY in my dream house which turned into a house of horrors full of

nightmares that lasted all day long.I got to where I wasn't sleeping and

was so full of hatred towards the pervert I hated the way I felt,I hated

my house,and wanted to leave.My hubby who is normally the most even

tempered man lost it one morning at 4-4:30 am and slapped our 10 year

old VERY HARD it left a mark on his face for 1-1/2 weeks it broke blood

vessels and you could see the outline of his hand.I think that was the

straw that broke me.I told my hubby to leave and not to come back.I soon

realized I would lose the house if I stayed there (I think I would have

lost my sanity truly).I packed up my hubby's car as full of the kids

clothes and all 4 kids and came to ,TN where my parents live.It

became apparent my parents have severe health problems.My Dad worked for

Y-12 in Oakridge,TN for over 20 years he was exposed to hepatitis(sp?)

and he has diabetes he is 68.My Mother has Lupus she was dx'd one week

before Rebekah was born she also has arthritis and she is 78.We wound up

in a shelter in downtown Knoxville homeless right before Christmas.My

kids have been ill from viruses going around the shelter(Rebekah wore a

mask ALL the time there)STRESS,STRESS! I really do believe that what

doesn't kill you makes you a stronger person.I have limited acess to the

computer at the Inn we are at.I have to credit Tucker for telling

me about Levy at Reach 4 the Stars the same day I called she

told me to call and the very same day he got us out of the shelter

and into the Marriott Residence Inn near cedar bluff exit.Such a

beautiful place to spend the New Year.I havn't meant to ignore any

questions this has been so painful I just needed some time to heal.I

Thank Everyone for the support.I am doing OK I have Gabrial he is 4 ,and

Rebekah she is 6,and she is 8,and he is 10.We are trying

to find a place to live and are trying to get our lives together and

find the Joy in everyday things that we all took for granted just a few

weeks ago.I think I have said all I can for now I have been with this

list since before it came to Yahoo back at Onelist.I think it was in 99

and I have watched this list grow and become a world wide support so no

parent has to feel alone as most of us did when our kids were dx'd.I

have shared my experience and my life with so many of you it seems as if

I have a huge extended family.I have felt so much Love and Support here

that I felt right at home.Thank You All with All my Heart! BeckyB.--Mama

to 8-2w/cf-and Nana to 2

-------------------------------------------

The opinions and information exchanged on this list should IN NO WAY

be construed as medical advice.

PLEASE CONSULT YOUR PHYSICIAN BEFORE CHANGING ANY MEDICATIONS OR

TREATMENTS.

------------------------------------

[Guest guest]

Oh Becky,

I am so sorry this has all happened. My heart breaks for you and the whole

family. What a terrible thing to have to go through. We are all here for you

whenever you need us. I have you all in my " special thoughts " .

mom of 5 with CF and one on the way

To the List from BeckyB.-Answers--Not CF

Hi Everyone! Happy New Year!I would like to try to answer some questions I've

seen asked lately.The answers are very personal which is why I did not post here

about personal problems.If you are easily shocked( WARNING ) DO NOT READ ANY

FURTHER!!In October my 18 year old son was caught in a situation with my 2 year

old granddaughter that led us to kick him out of our home.In the next 2 weeks it

came out that my 18 year old son had been molested by the same pervert who

molested 2 of my daughters(my oldest daughter testified before a grand jury and

put him away for 5 to 10 years he comes up for parole this year)my heart was

breaking .I helped support my darling daughter in law and my son her hubby and

my sweet granddaughter Jassy(just some of the stress).All of this happened in NY

in my dream house which turned into a house of horrors full of nightmares that

lasted all day long.I got to where I wasn't sleeping and was so full of hatred

towards the pervert I hated the way I felt,I hated my house,and wanted to

leave.My hubby who is normally the most even tempered man lost it one morning at

4-4:30 am and slapped our 10 year old VERY HARD it left a mark on his face for

1-1/2 weeks it broke blood vessels and you could see the outline of his hand.I

think that was the straw that broke me.I told my hubby to leave and not to come

back.I soon realized I would lose the house if I stayed there (I think I would

have lost my sanity truly).I packed up my hubby's car as full of the kids

clothes and all 4 kids and came to ,TN where my parents live.It became

apparent my parents have severe health problems.My Dad worked for Y-12 in

Oakridge,TN for over 20 years he was exposed to hepatitis(sp?) and he has

diabetes he is 68.My Mother has Lupus she was dx'd one week before Rebekah was

born she also has arthritis and she is 78.We wound up in a shelter in downtown

Knoxville homeless right before Christmas.My kids have been ill from viruses

going around the shelter(Rebekah wore a mask ALL the time there)STRESS,STRESS! I

really do believe that what doesn't kill you makes you a stronger person.I have

limited acess to the computer at the Inn we are at.I have to credit Tucker

for telling me about Levy at Reach 4 the Stars the same day I called

she told me to call and the very same day he got us out of the shelter and

into the Marriott Residence Inn near cedar bluff exit.Such a beautiful place to

spend the New Year.I havn't meant to ignore any questions this has been so

painful I just needed some time to heal.I Thank Everyone for the support.I am

doing OK I have Gabrial he is 4 ,and Rebekah she is 6,and she is 8,and

he is 10.We are trying to find a place to live and are trying to get our

lives together and find the Joy in everyday things that we all took for granted

just a few weeks ago.I think I have said all I can for now I have been with this

list since before it came to Yahoo back at Onelist.I think it was in 99 and I

have watched this list grow and become a world wide support so no parent has to

feel alone as most of us did when our kids were dx'd.I have shared my experience

and my life with so many of you it seems as if I have a huge extended family.I

have felt so much Love and Support here that I felt right at home.Thank You All

with All my Heart! BeckyB.--Mama to 8-2w/cf-and Nana to 2

-------------------------------------------

The opinions and information exchanged on this list should IN NO WAY

be construed as medical advice.

PLEASE CONSULT YOUR PHYSICIAN BEFORE CHANGING ANY MEDICATIONS OR TREATMENTS.

------------------------------------