Lost cf brother

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Hi yall!!!

I am very troubled by sommething that i hope one of you can help me

with.My exhusband went on to have another child with a woman sometime

after we divorced.They had a child named Cody.He just turned 4 in

dec.Cody also has cf.His mother and my ex are irresponsible(idiots,

for lack of a better term), and had their son taken away.Neither

coukld stay away from drinking long eneough to get himback and now i

believe he has been adopted by the foster parents(thank god).The

problem?Cody was very sick when we knew him as a baby, and i think

between that and the fact that he has a lost brother somewhere my cf

son, Tyler is yearning to find out about him.

Does Tyler still have a right to communicate with this boy as his 1/2

blood brother?Codys only 4 as i said, but tyler's been speaking of

him since Cody left and that was shortly after he was born, so i'm

asuming he wont let up.I'm not saying i want to track him down now,

but i would like to reassure ty that in the future he could talk with

him.

Tyler wants nothing to do w/any other cfer except this one, and i

understand his feelings.

So what do you think?Is he allowed to, and if so whats a tactful way

of doing this?All i know about him is he goes to the same cf dr in MI

that Ty did when we lived there.

Thanks,

Patty, mom to ty,8wcf and 2 wocf

Sorry for the lengthiness of this post, heehee