Re: my boyfriend is scared

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Hi ,

Just tell your friend that all the extra weight you are carrying around

is having a negative impact on your feet. Tell him corns, callouses, hammer toes

and fallen arches are not pretty. After your MGB your feet will be much

healthier. Surely he will appreciate that.

Best Wishes,

Genz

Kleinman wrote:

> Hi Everybody,

>

> Up till now, everyone that I am close to--family and friends-- have been

> very supportive and very excited about the surgery. Until last night.

>

> I had been casually dating a friend for almost a year after coming out of a

> 10 year relationship. This guy is very sweet but he hadn't had a girlfriend

> in 7 years (since he'd graduated college, he's now almost 30, I'm 26) and

> was not eager to jump into a relationship and I didn't want to commit to

> anyone after just coming out of a MAJOR long-term relationship. 2 weeks ago,

> he told me that he loved me and we are getting more serious.

>

> He does not believe in going to doctors unless you are deathly ill.

>

> Last night I told him I was ready to schedule surgery. He's terrified. I

> didn't know how to reassure him. I just told him that I know in my heart

> that I am helping myself in the best way possible. I told him that I KNOW

> that I will be fine. I thought he was going to cry. He can't come to NC with

> me, his family owns a business that is terrible busy during December. Its

> wonderful to know that he cares about me but I'm not dealing well with

> taking care of his needs. When my ex-boyfriend wanted something, I usually

> told him to blow off. I don't want to do that again.

>

> The weird thing is that this guy is more interested in the appearance of my

> feet than the rest of my body. He's not turned off by my belly because he

> has a foot fetish. So to all my friends who have said they would like to

> meet a good man who doesn't mind heavy women,,,foot fetishest make great

> partners.

>

> -, 26, MD sp. ed. teacher.

>

> Kleinman

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[Guest guest]

>>Just tell your friend that all the extra weight you are carrying around is

having a negative impact on your feet. Tell him corns, callouses, hammer toes

and fallen arches are not pretty.

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Genz,

I almost tinkled in my britches when I read this.....

XOXO,

Cindy the PHAT chick

[Guest guest]

Genz,

Almost tinkled w/ LAUGHTER...not just the incontinence

problem.......hehehehehe... (oh there I go again, cracking ME up

......phew, thought I'd better splain myself.

PHAT chick Cindy