RE: Sometimes life has a way of changing your plans

[Guest guest]

Dear ,

So sorry to hear about your husband. I hope he will be ok. I will certainly

remember him in my prayers.

Pat

Nevada still pre op

[Guest guest]

Dear ,

There are redirections in life that, at the time, we may not understand, but

eventually are made clear to us. Everything will work out alright. Just

focus on your family like you're doing. The MGB can wait. I'll keep you

and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

**Bet you're already a beautiful butterfly!!

.

>From: srozycki@...

>Reply-To: MiniGastricBypass (AT) egroups (DOT) com

>To: MiniGastricBypass (AT) egroups (DOT) com

>Subject: Sometimes life has a way of changing your

>plans

>Date: Mon, 13 Nov 2000 04:42:45 -0000

>

>Dear Fellow MGB'ers

>Well, after waiting 9 months and chainging insurance companies, I

>have to make the decision to hold off having the MGB for awhile.

>

>My husband had a heart attack on Friday, the CATH procedure came out

>negative, but caused him to have a stroke. It is one of the risks

>that can happen. Thank God he will be OK, but it will take some time.

>

>I was planning on requesting a January date with Dr. R., but need to

>let my husband Tom get back on his feet. I also feel it would be too

>much stress to put on the kids in two short months. This is the

>first time they have seen that one of their parents in not

>invincable. It has them very scared. I too am worried but

>optimistic that everything was caught in time. It is not time right

>now to put myself first. This has been a wake up call, and some

>lifestyle changes have to be made. Maybe when I am ready to dance

>with Dr. R. I will weigh a little less and have developed better

>eating habits.

>

>It has been wonderful, seeing the successes, and disheartning to see

>some of the dissapointments you all have shared. I wish each and

>everyone of you well and continued success. I know where to turn if I

>need you, you all are truly a support group. I will not have time in

>the upcoming months to spend the time on the computer, so I bid you

>so long for now.

>

>I have seen the out pouring of prayers on this list often, please

>keep my husband in your prayers. Thank you and God Bless,

>, Denver, NC

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

: I'm sorry to hear about your husband's health problems. I do believe

that everything happens for a reason and that we just need to ride with it and

all will turn out ok. Kids get scared because they think we are invincable.

Here's a hug . We'll be here to welcome you back when the time is right.

Take good care of your husband and good care of you! You're strong...you're a

Joisey girl!

Flo

> ** Original Subject: RE: Sometimes life has a way of

changing your plans

> **

> ** Original Date: Sun, 12 Nov 2000 21:42:02 -0700

> ** Original Message follows...

>

> Dear Fellow MGB'ers

> Well, after waiting 9 months and chainging insurance companies, I

> have to make the decision to hold off having the MGB for awhile.

>

> My husband had a heart attack on Friday, the CATH procedure came out

> negative, but caused him to have a stroke. It is one of the risks

> that can happen. Thank God he will be OK, but it will take some time.

>

> I was planning on requesting a January date with Dr. R., but need to

> let my husband Tom get back on his feet. I also feel it would be too

> much stress to put on the kids in two short months. This is the

> first time they have seen that one of their parents in not

> invincable. It has them very scared. I too am worried but

> optimistic that everything was caught in time. It is not time right

> now to put myself first. This has been a wake up call, and some

> lifestyle changes have to be made. Maybe when I am ready to dance

> with Dr. R. I will weigh a little less and have developed better

> eating habits.

>

> It has been wonderful, seeing the successes, and disheartning to see

> some of the dissapointments you all have shared. I wish each and

> everyone of you well and continued success. I know where to turn if I

> need you, you all are truly a support group. I will not have time in

> the upcoming months to spend the time on the computer, so I bid you

> so long for now.

>

> I have seen the out pouring of prayers on this list often, please

> keep my husband in your prayers. Thank you and God Bless,

> , Denver, NC

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

,

Your husband, as well as you and the children are in my prayers. Thanks for

the note. I believe that you've made the right decision.

In Christian Love,

Bells