Guest guest Posted January 20, 2004 Report Share Posted January 20, 2004 Becky, maybe you could double check...housing in MI says exactly what you did except only for priority I....priority II is a longer waiting list but because you are not currently homeless.Maybe its that way where u r and they might have explained it funny...wont hurt to check.I read all your updates and think and pray for you often.Bless your heart for what you,ve been through.....youre one tough cookie.Yesyerday (its now 12:04 so i can say yesterday,lol) was a terrible day for me as well.But I;m certain if we grin and bear it we will come out strong, wise, and happy.Until then I'll pray for u!It seems to work:):) Sorry about the typos but trying to type in the dark so as not to wake up thi damned drunk on the floor next to my feet,lol, and cant hardly see a thing.HEHE. P/S. i know its really crummy but if you have to ,try to hang in there for housing.....after on it one year u can move anywhere u want in country and u pay next to nothing....it stinks to be in this spot now, but will be worth it in the long run. Patty, in the sushine state whos delighted itss tomorrow....omg i love a bbrand new start every 24 hours, what a gift! > Hi Everyone ! Today has been the pits.I had a good cry and I am trying to figure if I can stand living in a 2 bedroom place with 4 kids.I went to the housing help and they told me if I rent a house/mobile home or ANY other place to live I will not be eligible for help with housing(DUH)they expect me to remain homeless for 3 to 6 months to get their help( they are CRAZY).All the places I have called either don't want 4 kids with one parent or are way too expensive for 3 bedrooms and 2 bedrooms aren't too far behind them.I want to have a place to live and I am soooooo frustrated at continually being told no or being shocked at the expense .I don't know what to do right now.After the kids being out for a 4 day weekend I am REALLY wanting my own place .On a better note Rebekah is all set up for a tutor to come see her 2-3 times a week.Please keep us in your prayers /thoughts.Thanks You All are the best!!BeckyB.Mama to 8-2w/cf-Nana to 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 20, 2004 Report Share Posted January 20, 2004 I know that it will be cramped to live in a two bedroom apartment with four kids. I shared a bedroom with my three sisters. I liked having them in my room. We whispered to each other after we were supposed to be sleeping. I felt more secure with my sisters in the same room, especially during a thunder storm. We had bunk beds. Our house only had one bathroom too. Before you took a bath, you had to ask everyone if they needed to use the restroom. :>) I think that even a two bedroom apartment will feel better than a hotel room. Shame on those people who won't rent to a single mother with four children. Love, Gale > Hi Everyone ! Today has been the pits.I had a good cry and I am trying to figure if I can stand living in a 2 bedroom place with 4 kids.I went to the housing help and they told me if I rent a house/mobile home or ANY other place to live I will not be eligible for help with housing(DUH)they expect me to remain homeless for 3 to 6 months to get their help( they are CRAZY).All the places I have called either don't want 4 kids with one parent or are way too expensive for 3 bedrooms and 2 bedrooms aren't too far behind them.I want to have a place to live and I am soooooo frustrated at continually being told no or being shocked at the expense .I don't know what to do right now.After the kids being out for a 4 day weekend I am REALLY wanting my own place .On a better note Rebekah is all set up for a tutor to come see her 2-3 times a week.Please keep us in your prayers /thoughts.Thanks You All are the best!!BeckyB.Mama to 8-2w/cf-Nana to 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 21, 2004 Report Share Posted January 21, 2004 HEY GAL, I wish you had called. I am very sorry that this has happened. You need to be in a another place. If you took the two bedroom, would they move you up when one came available.?? It is most likely they only way they can do it ----if they don't have one now. Wouldn't that be better than NOT being on your own place. I don't know how long the current arrangement will go . Have you spoken to anyone at stars for advise? Maybe they will have some ideas or contacts......I was so hoping the church folks would know of some place too. It is better than the shelter though. PLEASE call me tomorrow. I am very happy with the school coming thru. That is a big leap. You stood up & they saw the light of a very determined mom.....Bless your heart!! .Give me a call LOVE & HUGS, GrandmoMBEV cfparents-HOUSING UPDATE-BECKY B Hi Everyone ! Today has been the pits.I had a good cry and I am trying to figure if I can stand living in a 2 bedroom place with 4 kids.I went to the housing help and they told me if I rent a house/mobile home or ANY other place to live I will not be eligible for help with housing(DUH)they expect me to remain homeless for 3 to 6 months to get their help( they are CRAZY).All the places I have called either don't want 4 kids with one parent or are way too expensive for 3 bedrooms and 2 bedrooms aren't too far behind them.I want to have a place to live and I am soooooo frustrated at continually being told no or being shocked at the expense .I don't know what to do right now.After the kids being out for a 4 day weekend I am REALLY wanting my own place .On a better note Rebekah is all set up for a tutor to come see her 2-3 times a week.Please keep us in your prayers /thoughts.Thanks You All are the best!!BeckyB.Mama to 8-2w/cf-Nana to 2 ------------------------------------------- The opinions and information exchanged on this list should IN NO WAY be construed as medical advice. PLEASE CONSULT YOUR PHYSICIAN BEFORE CHANGING ANY MEDICATIONS OR TREATMENTS. ------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 21, 2004 Report Share Posted January 21, 2004 Kind of a pity that your present abode could not have been rented by a relative with whom you would ostensibly be " staying! " My father was a lawyer, and I suspect that there is a bit of " work the system " in me--helps with survival! Love to all of you, Becky, n Rojas cfparents-HOUSING UPDATE-BECKY B Hi Everyone ! Today has been the pits.I had a good cry and I am trying to figure if I can stand living in a 2 bedroom place with 4 kids.I went to the housing help and they told me if I rent a house/mobile home or ANY other place to live I will not be eligible for help with housing(DUH)they expect me to remain homeless for 3 to 6 months to get their help( they are CRAZY).All the places I have called either don't want 4 kids with one parent or are way too expensive for 3 bedrooms and 2 bedrooms aren't too far behind them.I want to have a place to live and I am soooooo frustrated at continually being told no or being shocked at the expense .I don't know what to do right now.After the kids being out for a 4 day weekend I am REALLY wanting my own place .On a better note Rebekah is all set up for a tutor to come see her 2-3 times a week.Please keep us in your prayers /thoughts.Thanks You All are the best!!BeckyB.Mama to 8-2w/cf-Nana to 2 ------------------------------------------- The opinions and information exchanged on this list should IN NO WAY be construed as medical advice. PLEASE CONSULT YOUR PHYSICIAN BEFORE CHANGING ANY MEDICATIONS OR TREATMENTS. ------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 21, 2004 Report Share Posted January 21, 2004 Becky--the only thing worse than 4 kids in a 2 bedroom would be having your husband with you! I think that once you perservere with CF you can live through anything life has to offer..... Hang in there. Think of the positive its less to clean! I am sure things will improve - you will find a way to make them!!!! Rosemary in NY with 3 children (13, 11 and 7) with CF. I have a dog named TOBI and have coined the phrase " BREATHE DAMMIT " my new favorite quote is Any idiot can face a crisis - it's day to day living that wears you out. Anton Chekhov Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 21, 2004 Report Share Posted January 21, 2004 Rosemary, You make me laugh out loud! Thanks for the smile, Gale > Becky--the only thing worse than 4 kids in a 2 bedroom would be having your > husband with you! I think that once you perservere with CF you can live > through anything life has to offer..... Hang in there. Think of the positive its > less to clean! I am sure things will improve - you will find a way to make > them!!!! > > > Rosemary in NY with 3 children (13, 11 and 7) > with CF. I have a dog named TOBI and have > coined the phrase " BREATHE DAMMIT " > my new favorite quote is > Any idiot can face a crisis - > it's day to day living that wears you out. > Anton Chekhov > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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