CP--Wedding back to

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--You stated: " 's mother ended up jumping down Nikki's

throat when she found out Nikki wasn't planning on having 's

parents names on the wedding invitation. " OHMYGOSH--You're not going

to believe this, but when we rec'd the invitation last week, my

husband came running downstairs (where my youngest and I were

watching TV) and said: " Suzy, aren't OUR names supposed to be on the

invitations as well? " I said not necessarily. Yes, I put HIS

parents' names on OUR invitations 28 yrs. ago, because I was told by

his family to do so! He got all bent out of shape because our names

were not on them and had to call up his son to give him an earful!

Just what they need right now. I, like YOU, am always the one trying

to keep peace in this family. My son was actually going to send out

a revised invitation and I said " Don't you dare do that! " Of course,

hubby called all his family and they all agreed with him! I guess he

feels that since we're paying for the rehearsal dinner AND all of the

flowers (which are quite exorbitant!!), that we should be on them as

well. He's still not over it, but at least he's talking now! Played

the " silent treatment " for a while! I, too, am looking VERY forward

to the wedding, but will be very glad when it's all over with and

they're settled in! They're going to the Sandals Resort for their

honeymoon.

Your dilemma sounds a lot like ours! I can only pray to the good

Lord that peace stays in this family until everything is over with!

Lord help us all!

Darn it -- when I'm upset, I eat too much CRAP, and then don't feel

well with the darned CP pain! I definitely need help! Had to work

late today too, and just got home an hr. ago. I hate eating late!

Have a good evening and weekend!