Cyndi-feelings of guilt

[Guest guest]

There are a lot of things that I feel guilty for in my life but

getting money from my husband is not one of them. You shouldn't

feel bad for one second and if you ask me you earned every dollar

you have gotten from him. Shoot girl; you gave birth to his

children who then had his grandchildren. He is indebted to you for

life just for that alone.

Does he not come home to a clean house, his clothes washed, his

dinner fixed. Who does all the grocery shopping? Who really raised

those children, picked them up from school; took them to the doctor,

soft ball games and dance classes. Who took him to the doctor all

those years?

My husband gives me X number of dollars each week. I dont feel one

ounce of guilt. Yes I worked and made a nice earning and now I

cant. But for 25 years I have looked after that man and even

working I still did all the cooking, cleaning, childrearing, and

countless other tasks. When he came home from work he would sit

down with a cold beer or tinker with his toys while I did all the

chores (that stopped a few years ago and I made him pitch in more--

getting old..lol). Even being sick I have still taken care of the

house, the kids and him. He has taken good care of me as well and

has made a lot of sacrifices because of my illness. So he's not all

bad.

Cyndi please dont feel quilty for one second; you have earned every

penny he makes just as well as he has. He would not be where he is

today without you. Your marriage is a partnership, 50/50, for

better or worse, remember.

Chrissy