Guest guest Posted February 23, 2004 Report Share Posted February 23, 2004 Thanks, Natalia I hope it's not all for naught. I saw n's post about the possibility she's a hacker. I think the likelihood is that she's legitimate, but you never know. all my best, C Mommy to Mick and Alli, 4 yo twins wcf --- Natalia Boguslawska wrote: > Wow, thanks . > Some amazing things is this post. That's great, and > I am sure is much > much appreciated!! > > Natalia > 24 w CF > > > On Monday, February 23, 2004, at 04:07 PM, linda > conway wrote: > > > Hi Natalia, > > > > I'll give you the benefit of my experience here. > > My twins, Mick and Alli, were born at 25.5 weeks > > gestation, and were on ventilators for several > months > > before they were diagnosed with CF and given the > > appropriate treatments. Although this allowed my > > son and daughter to be weaned from ventilators, an > > aspiration episode caused my daughter to go back > on > > for much longer. > > > > As a result, both children have oral aversions > that > > required a feeding tube, and on-going feeding > therapy. > > My son, who suffers less from reflux (but has it > to > > a small degree) does much better at feeding > therapy > > than my daughter, who throws up at least twice a > day, > > despite getting all the meds known to man (except > > propulsid, which is off the market). Both have had > > nissen fundoplications, which is a surgery > designed to > > tighten the sphincter between the stomach and > > esophagus, to prevent vomitting. But, 's > > loosened up, though not enough to warrant another > > surgery. > > > > I'm sure these are extreme cases, but their > current > > issues are more related to the reflux now than the > > extended stay on the ventilators. I would suggest > > that your friend see a gastro-enterologist about > the > > possibility of her daughter having reflux (it can > be > > silent). She should also see a feeding therapist, > if > > the situation is severe. > > > > Some parents are driven to distraction by their > > children's picky eating habits, and you didn't > > actually say how old she was. So, just in case it > > isn't a case of relux causing aversion, here are > some > > other reasons for a child not eating: > > > > 1. She's teething. Infants and toddlers often lose > > their appetites when they're teething. It can be a > > challenge to get them to eat anything at this > time. > > Fortunately, as their teeth grow in and the > discomfort > > leaves, they grow out of this. Your pediatrician > can > > help with this one. > > > > 2. She has some kind of tactile sensitivity. Many > > children who have undergone alot of procedures > where > > they get pricked and prodded a great deal (and cf > > kids fall into this category), become highly > > sensitized to textures and touch. This can even > > mean the textures and temperatures in food! A > > good feeding therapist would help here. > > > > 3. The normal range of pickiness found in some > > children. I was extremely picky as a child, though > > there were some foods I particularly liked, most > would > > make me gag - green vegetables, spaghetti sauce. > This > > can be especially worrisome for a cf child. > Usually, > > over time, these children start developing more > > tastes for different foods - I certainly did! ;-) > > Just keep giving her the foods she likes (even if > > it's only one kind at first) and continue > introducing > > new foods. Also, re-introduce foods she didn't > like > > before, because she may change her mind about them > > later. NEVER EVER force food on her, and always > make > > the experience pleasant and fun. > > > > Surgery (getting a mic-key button in this case) > > is always the last resort, but if her child is > > dangerously close to malnutrition and severely > > underweight, it may be the best solution for her > now. > > She can deal with the feeding issues at the same > time > > she is getting well-nourished with the tube. > > > > As a final thought - don't solve this alone - get > > professional help starting with a > gastro-enterologist > > (one with alot of cf patients and patients with > > feeding issues), and get referrals to a good > feeding > > therapist. > > > > Best of luck to your friend and her daughter. If > > she'd like to correspond with me further about > this > > please pass on my e-mail address: > > > > pswyd@... > > > > hugs, > > > > C > > Mommy to Mick and Alli, 4 yo twins wcf > > > > > > > > --- Natalia Boguslawska > wrote: > > > Can you guys do me a favour. I got an email > from a > > > lady that will not > > > give me her name, and she asks for support about > her > > > CF child that will > > > not eat a lot. This has caused many problems. > > > She wants to hear some stories about other kids > that > > > don't want to eat, > > > some solutions, feeding tubes etc. > > > She really appreciates it. I am flattered that > she > > > chose me to help > > > her, and take her request seriously. So let's > share > > > our stories. I > > > know that this is a huge problem for a lot of CF > > > kids, including the > > > non-kids like myself that has always had trouble > > > eating enough. > > > > > > Thanks everyone!! > > > Natalia > > > 24 w CF > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ------------------------------------------- > > The opinions and information exchanged on this > list should IN NO WAY > > be construed as medical advice. > > > > PLEASE CONSULT YOUR PHYSICIAN BEFORE CHANGING ANY > MEDICATIONS OR > > TREATMENTS. > > > > ------------------------------------ > > > > > > > <image.tiff> > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 23, 2004 Report Share Posted February 23, 2004 Natalia, Oops! I didn't see the latest post from n and you regarding your friend. That'll teach me to read all my e-mails before posting. hugs, C --- linda conway wrote: > Thanks, Natalia > > I hope it's not all for naught. I saw n's post > about the possibility she's a hacker. I think the > likelihood is that she's legitimate, but you never > know. > > all my best, > > C > Mommy to Mick and Alli, 4 yo twins wcf > > --- Natalia Boguslawska wrote: > > Wow, thanks . > > Some amazing things is this post. That's great, > and > > I am sure is much > > much appreciated!! > > > > Natalia > > 24 w CF > > > > > > On Monday, February 23, 2004, at 04:07 PM, linda > > conway wrote: > > > > > Hi Natalia, > > > > > > I'll give you the benefit of my experience here. > > > My twins, Mick and Alli, were born at 25.5 weeks > > > gestation, and were on ventilators for several > > months > > > before they were diagnosed with CF and given the > > > appropriate treatments. Although this allowed my > > > son and daughter to be weaned from ventilators, > an > > > aspiration episode caused my daughter to go back > > on > > > for much longer. > > > > > > As a result, both children have oral aversions > > that > > > required a feeding tube, and on-going feeding > > therapy. > > > My son, who suffers less from reflux (but has it > > to > > > a small degree) does much better at feeding > > therapy > > > than my daughter, who throws up at least twice a > > day, > > > despite getting all the meds known to man > (except > > > propulsid, which is off the market). Both have > had > > > nissen fundoplications, which is a surgery > > designed to > > > tighten the sphincter between the stomach and > > > esophagus, to prevent vomitting. But, 's > > > loosened up, though not enough to warrant > another > > > surgery. > > > > > > I'm sure these are extreme cases, but their > > current > > > issues are more related to the reflux now than > the > > > extended stay on the ventilators. I would > suggest > > > that your friend see a gastro-enterologist about > > the > > > possibility of her daughter having reflux (it > can > > be > > > silent). She should also see a feeding > therapist, > > if > > > the situation is severe. > > > > > > Some parents are driven to distraction by their > > > children's picky eating habits, and you didn't > > > actually say how old she was. So, just in case > it > > > isn't a case of relux causing aversion, here are > > some > > > other reasons for a child not eating: > > > > > > 1. She's teething. Infants and toddlers often > lose > > > their appetites when they're teething. It can be > a > > > challenge to get them to eat anything at this > > time. > > > Fortunately, as their teeth grow in and the > > discomfort > > > leaves, they grow out of this. Your pediatrician > > can > > > help with this one. > > > > > > 2. She has some kind of tactile sensitivity. > Many > > > children who have undergone alot of procedures > > where > > > they get pricked and prodded a great deal (and > cf > > > kids fall into this category), become highly > > > sensitized to textures and touch. This can even > > > mean the textures and temperatures in food! A > > > good feeding therapist would help here. > > > > > > 3. The normal range of pickiness found in some > > > children. I was extremely picky as a child, > though > > > there were some foods I particularly liked, most > > would > > > make me gag - green vegetables, spaghetti sauce. > > This > > > can be especially worrisome for a cf child. > > Usually, > > > over time, these children start developing more > > > tastes for different foods - I certainly did! > ;-) > > > Just keep giving her the foods she likes (even > if > > > it's only one kind at first) and continue > > introducing > > > new foods. Also, re-introduce foods she didn't > > like > > > before, because she may change her mind about > them > > > later. NEVER EVER force food on her, and always > > make > > > the experience pleasant and fun. > > > > > > Surgery (getting a mic-key button in this case) > > > is always the last resort, but if her child is > > > dangerously close to malnutrition and severely > > > underweight, it may be the best solution for her > > now. > > > She can deal with the feeding issues at the same > > time > > > she is getting well-nourished with the tube. > > > > > > As a final thought - don't solve this alone - > get > > > professional help starting with a > > gastro-enterologist > > > (one with alot of cf patients and patients with > > > feeding issues), and get referrals to a good > > feeding > > > therapist. > > > > > > Best of luck to your friend and her daughter. If > > > she'd like to correspond with me further about > > this > > > please pass on my e-mail address: > > > > > > pswyd@... > > > > > > hugs, > > > > > > C > > > Mommy to Mick and Alli, 4 yo twins wcf > > > > > > > > > > > > --- Natalia Boguslawska > > wrote: > > > > Can you guys do me a favour. I got an email > > from a > > > > lady that will not > > > > give me her name, and she asks for support > about > > her > > > > CF child that will > > > > not eat a lot. This has caused many problems. > > > > She wants to hear some stories about other > kids > > that > > > > don't want to eat, > > > > some solutions, feeding tubes etc. > > > > She really appreciates it. I am flattered > that > > she > > > > chose me to help > > > > her, and take her request seriously. So let's > > share > > > > our stories. I > > > > know that this is a huge problem for a lot of > CF > > > > kids, including the > > > > non-kids like myself that has always had > trouble > > > > eating enough. > > > > > > > > Thanks everyone!! > > > > Natalia > > > > 24 w CF > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > === message truncated === Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 23, 2004 Report Share Posted February 23, 2004 , apparently, she is legitimate; the cf lists have randomly had some woman from another nation pleading for help with her child's nutrition; my virus scanner caught it and warned me--every time--glad that this was not so here! We do take our risks, throwing our souls and woes out into outer space-- by the way, look at the Moon and her little follower, Venus tonight, 89 miles apart, I think the S.F.Chronicle said--gorgeous! Love, n Re: Conway..eating issues, thanks!! > Natalia, > > Oops! I didn't see the latest post from n and > you regarding your friend. That'll teach me to read > all my e-mails before posting. > > hugs, > > C > > --- linda conway wrote: > > Thanks, Natalia > > > > I hope it's not all for naught. I saw n's post > > about the possibility she's a hacker. I think the > > likelihood is that she's legitimate, but you never > > know. > > > > all my best, > > > > C > > Mommy to Mick and Alli, 4 yo twins wcf > > > > --- Natalia Boguslawska wrote: > > > Wow, thanks . > > > Some amazing things is this post. That's great, > > and > > > I am sure is much > > > much appreciated!! > > > > > > Natalia > > > 24 w CF > > > > > > > > > On Monday, February 23, 2004, at 04:07 PM, linda > > > conway wrote: > > > > > > > Hi Natalia, > > > > > > > > I'll give you the benefit of my experience here. > > > > My twins, Mick and Alli, were born at 25.5 weeks > > > > gestation, and were on ventilators for several > > > months > > > > before they were diagnosed with CF and given the > > > > appropriate treatments. Although this allowed my > > > > son and daughter to be weaned from ventilators, > > an > > > > aspiration episode caused my daughter to go back > > > on > > > > for much longer. > > > > > > > > As a result, both children have oral aversions > > > that > > > > required a feeding tube, and on-going feeding > > > therapy. > > > > My son, who suffers less from reflux (but has it > > > to > > > > a small degree) does much better at feeding > > > therapy > > > > than my daughter, who throws up at least twice a > > > day, > > > > despite getting all the meds known to man > > (except > > > > propulsid, which is off the market). Both have > > had > > > > nissen fundoplications, which is a surgery > > > designed to > > > > tighten the sphincter between the stomach and > > > > esophagus, to prevent vomitting. But, 's > > > > loosened up, though not enough to warrant > > another > > > > surgery. > > > > > > > > I'm sure these are extreme cases, but their > > > current > > > > issues are more related to the reflux now than > > the > > > > extended stay on the ventilators. I would > > suggest > > > > that your friend see a gastro-enterologist about > > > the > > > > possibility of her daughter having reflux (it > > can > > > be > > > > silent). She should also see a feeding > > therapist, > > > if > > > > the situation is severe. > > > > > > > > Some parents are driven to distraction by their > > > > children's picky eating habits, and you didn't > > > > actually say how old she was. So, just in case > > it > > > > isn't a case of relux causing aversion, here are > > > some > > > > other reasons for a child not eating: > > > > > > > > 1. She's teething. Infants and toddlers often > > lose > > > > their appetites when they're teething. It can be > > a > > > > challenge to get them to eat anything at this > > > time. > > > > Fortunately, as their teeth grow in and the > > > discomfort > > > > leaves, they grow out of this. Your pediatrician > > > can > > > > help with this one. > > > > > > > > 2. She has some kind of tactile sensitivity. > > Many > > > > children who have undergone alot of procedures > > > where > > > > they get pricked and prodded a great deal (and > > cf > > > > kids fall into this category), become highly > > > > sensitized to textures and touch. This can even > > > > mean the textures and temperatures in food! A > > > > good feeding therapist would help here. > > > > > > > > 3. The normal range of pickiness found in some > > > > children. I was extremely picky as a child, > > though > > > > there were some foods I particularly liked, most > > > would > > > > make me gag - green vegetables, spaghetti sauce. > > > This > > > > can be especially worrisome for a cf child. > > > Usually, > > > > over time, these children start developing more > > > > tastes for different foods - I certainly did! > > ;-) > > > > Just keep giving her the foods she likes (even > > if > > > > it's only one kind at first) and continue > > > introducing > > > > new foods. Also, re-introduce foods she didn't > > > like > > > > before, because she may change her mind about > > them > > > > later. NEVER EVER force food on her, and always > > > make > > > > the experience pleasant and fun. > > > > > > > > Surgery (getting a mic-key button in this case) > > > > is always the last resort, but if her child is > > > > dangerously close to malnutrition and severely > > > > underweight, it may be the best solution for her > > > now. > > > > She can deal with the feeding issues at the same > > > time > > > > she is getting well-nourished with the tube. > > > > > > > > As a final thought - don't solve this alone - > > get > > > > professional help starting with a > > > gastro-enterologist > > > > (one with alot of cf patients and patients with > > > > feeding issues), and get referrals to a good > > > feeding > > > > therapist. > > > > > > > > Best of luck to your friend and her daughter. If > > > > she'd like to correspond with me further about > > > this > > > > please pass on my e-mail address: > > > > > > > > pswyd@... > > > > > > > > hugs, > > > > > > > > C > > > > Mommy to Mick and Alli, 4 yo twins wcf > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --- Natalia Boguslawska > > > wrote: > > > > > Can you guys do me a favour. I got an email > > > from a > > > > > lady that will not > > > > > give me her name, and she asks for support > > about > > > her > > > > > CF child that will > > > > > not eat a lot. This has caused many problems. > > > > > She wants to hear some stories about other > > kids > > > that > > > > > don't want to eat, > > > > > some solutions, feeding tubes etc. > > > > > She really appreciates it. I am flattered > > that > > > she > > > > > chose me to help > > > > > her, and take her request seriously. So let's > > > share > > > > > our stories. I > > > > > know that this is a huge problem for a lot of > > CF > > > > > kids, including the > > > > > non-kids like myself that has always had > > trouble > > > > > eating enough. > > > > > > > > > > Thanks everyone!! > > > > > Natalia > > > > > 24 w CF > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > === message truncated === > > > > ------------------------------------------- > The opinions and information exchanged on this list should IN NO WAY > be construed as medical advice. > > PLEASE CONSULT YOUR PHYSICIAN BEFORE CHANGING ANY MEDICATIONS OR TREATMENTS. > > ------------------------------------ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 n, We caught that! It was beautiful! I'm so glad the weather was better last Monday than it was yesterday or today. --- n Rojas wrote: > , apparently, she is legitimate; the cf lists > have randomly had some > woman > from another nation pleading for help with her > child's nutrition; my virus > scanner > caught it and warned me--every time--glad that this > was not so here! > We do take our risks, throwing our souls and woes > out into outer space-- > by the way, look at the Moon and her little > follower, Venus tonight, 89 > miles > apart, I think the S.F.Chronicle said--gorgeous! > Love, n > Re: Conway..eating > issues, thanks!! > > > > Natalia, > > > > Oops! I didn't see the latest post from n and > > you regarding your friend. That'll teach me to > read > > all my e-mails before posting. > > > > hugs, > > > > C > > > > --- linda conway wrote: > > > Thanks, Natalia > > > > > > I hope it's not all for naught. I saw n's > post > > > about the possibility she's a hacker. I think > the > > > likelihood is that she's legitimate, but you > never > > > know. > > > > > > all my best, > > > > > > C > > > Mommy to Mick and Alli, 4 yo twins wcf > > > > > > --- Natalia Boguslawska > wrote: > > > > Wow, thanks . > > > > Some amazing things is this post. That's > great, > > > and > > > > I am sure is much > > > > much appreciated!! > > > > > > > > Natalia > > > > 24 w CF > > > > > > > > > > > > On Monday, February 23, 2004, at 04:07 PM, > linda > > > > conway wrote: > > > > > > > > > Hi Natalia, > > > > > > > > > > I'll give you the benefit of my experience > here. > > > > > My twins, Mick and Alli, were born at 25.5 > weeks > > > > > gestation, and were on ventilators for > several > > > > months > > > > > before they were diagnosed with CF and given > the > > > > > appropriate treatments. Although this > allowed my > > > > > son and daughter to be weaned from > ventilators, > > > an > > > > > aspiration episode caused my daughter to go > back > > > > on > > > > > for much longer. > > > > > > > > > > As a result, both children have oral > aversions > > > > that > > > > > required a feeding tube, and on-going > feeding > > > > therapy. > > > > > My son, who suffers less from reflux (but > has it > > > > to > > > > > a small degree) does much better at feeding > > > > therapy > > > > > than my daughter, who throws up at least > twice a > > > > day, > > > > > despite getting all the meds known to man > > > (except > > > > > propulsid, which is off the market). Both > have > > > had > > > > > nissen fundoplications, which is a surgery > > > > designed to > > > > > tighten the sphincter between the stomach > and > > > > > esophagus, to prevent vomitting. But, > 's > > > > > loosened up, though not enough to warrant > > > another > > > > > surgery. > > > > > > > > > > I'm sure these are extreme cases, but their > > > > current > > > > > issues are more related to the reflux now > than > > > the > > > > > extended stay on the ventilators. I would > > > suggest > > > > > that your friend see a gastro-enterologist > about > > > > the > > > > > possibility of her daughter having reflux > (it > > > can > > > > be > > > > > silent). She should also see a feeding > > > therapist, > > > > if > > > > > the situation is severe. > > > > > > > > > > Some parents are driven to distraction by > their > > > > > children's picky eating habits, and you > didn't > > > > > actually say how old she was. So, just in > case > > > it > > > > > isn't a case of relux causing aversion, here > are > > > > some > > > > > other reasons for a child not eating: > > > > > > > > > > 1. She's teething. Infants and toddlers > often > > > lose > > > > > their appetites when they're teething. It > can be > > > a > > > > > challenge to get them to eat anything at > this > > > > time. > > > > > Fortunately, as their teeth grow in and the > > > > discomfort > > > > > leaves, they grow out of this. Your > pediatrician > > > > can > > > > > help with this one. > > > > > > > > > > 2. She has some kind of tactile sensitivity. > > > Many > > > > > children who have undergone alot of > procedures > > > > where > > > > > they get pricked and prodded a great deal > (and > > > cf > > > > > kids fall into this category), become highly > > > > > sensitized to textures and touch. This can > even > > > > > mean the textures and temperatures in food! > A > > > > > good feeding therapist would help here. > > > > > > > > > > 3. The normal range of pickiness found in > some > > > > > children. I was extremely picky as a child, > > > though > > > > > there were some foods I particularly liked, > most > > > > would > > > > > make me gag - green vegetables, spaghetti > sauce. > > > > This > > > > > can be especially worrisome for a cf child. > > > > Usually, > > > > > over time, these children start developing > more > > > > > tastes for different foods - I certainly > did! > > > ;-) > > > > > Just keep giving her the foods she likes > (even > > > if > > > > > it's only one kind at first) and continue > > > > introducing > === message truncated === Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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