Guest guest Posted January 18, 2007 Report Share Posted January 18, 2007 Is this the place to vent some frustration? My daughter came home from school crying at lunch today...as the snack monitors today told her at snack break that she could not spread her honey on her chicken cupcakes... " honey is not allowed in the classroom...Put it back in your lunch bag " .I wasn't too concerned ....as I thought it was a funny.mix up... So I sent a very nice note back with her telling her teacher how upset she was, and that her chicken cupcakes don't taste too yummy without honey on them...I told her teacher she would have more honey in her lunch...that it was nice that the monitors took their job seriously(with the allergies )...Please have a talk to them. Well, I got a note home tonight from her teacher.... All it said was " there is someone in the class allergic to honey " . I gave the Vice Principal a call, and all she said is " we have to be careful with allergies " .. I explained my situation ..as honey is in everything..I told her that unless the child had anaphylaxis to honey she can not ban the honey... she talked to the teacher...and called me right back... 10 minutes later..they had no time to talk to the allergic child's parent.I know this child does not have an Epipen...there has never been a note home about food allergies. The last note home ask parents to come read to the kids on thursdays... " and you can bring them treats " ...nothing about allergies!!! ..She told me that the teacher was sending a note home.........What I said...she suggested putting my child in the hallway to eat her snack if she brought honey........OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! I told her... " why don't we remove the eggs, and milk from the room as well, as my is allergic to that!!!!!! I told her she would not be putting my child in the hallway....she doesn't get it!...what harm this would do to her...putting her in the hallway for lunch everyday. I told her she better not ban the honey unless this child has a doctors note stating this is very necessary. THIS IS DISCRIMINATION..they think they can decide what food you should and should not eat at school... Or maybe they are just tick off because my celiac child is just a pain because I demand that the kids wash after eating...they have to clean the desks after chocolate cupcakes are smeared all over the desks(because they feed the other kids cookies and cupcakes all the time....AND THE DON'T EVEN GIVE MY RACHEL A STICKER). They have a note from my doctor and a phamphlet explaining my daughter's very sensitive gluten concerns.....but they are not washing anymore..!! They just think I'm crazy about the gluten...and that I feed my kids crazy food...What is next let's ban avocades...if my son likes them.....because no-one but our SCD kids eat them...I'm sure that will be next. I hope the Principal is more reasonable...I'm sure I will be talking to him next...Or maybe I will be talking to his boss next.... I really don't want to create any friction between 's teacher and Me...she is a very good teacher...she probably doesn't get it when she leaves her out...it's only one year...next year she will have a more sensitive teacher...I hope... But what in the world am I going to do if for the few years I can't send honey for the kiddos...I can handle the no nuts... I was having such a wonderful week...Oh well...time for some wine NO HONEY! THAT'S JUST NUTS! Cathy Mom to (6), (9) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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