Guest guest Posted November 2, 2005 Report Share Posted November 2, 2005 Jodi - thanks. Would you believe my dh got home about 10 minutes after I put Ian to bed. I told him to go upstairs and rock Ian since he was still awake. My dh told me after the fact that Ian said these EXACT words - sadly - to him while he was rocking Ian " mommy checked my blood sugars " . I could have died. HE IS VERY SMART. My children have very scary but exceptional memories! I love him so much - I just have this problem with inflicting even the minutest of pain on either of them. They also hold grudges (they got that from their father). Anyway, I know it's the right thing to do and I will do it - but, I will have the worst time forgiving myself. And, I know you are right - that Ian will be okay - it's not that bad getting a little prick in the finger - he's just so sensitive and my sweetie pie. will hate me because he's just like me - that's a given (LOL) - but, Ian - it's just so sad........ Thanks for the pep talk though. I do appreciate it. - H - > > Ian will NOT hate you! You are his mommy. I mean, to be very extreme > here, even kids who are abused love their moms. Ian will get used to > it and he won't hold it against you. Remember, he does not know any > better. This is part of his life and he will come to accept it. I > know it's hard to believe and to imagine and it goes against what we > wished for our children to be and to have. Ian will be okay. > > Jodi Z > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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