Guest guest Posted March 12, 2006 Report Share Posted March 12, 2006 Hello everyone! I have missed you all so, so much. I hope everyone is well – I have not been able to keep up with everyone's posts – BUT – I have some exciting news to share with you. No – I'm not pregnant! LOL SUPPORT is an incredibly significant expression or desire for encouragement that at times may not always be prevalent in a person's life; specifically relating to RSS – sometimes due to lack of familial support, friends, or even non-existent or remedial physician recognition. Sometimes SUPPORT can be found in many places when the aforementioned connections are not available – such as an internet support group, clubs, non-profit foundations, church and others. I've always believed that there can always be an opportunity to support someone in need and there doesn't have to be only one option for which to access support. For this reason – I have developed with the support, encouragement, participation, and guidance of some very dear friends another support group website - and you all know these wonderful women: Jodi Z, Debby B and Jodi R. I hope you will take the opportunity to come visit our new Support Forum at http://www.-SilverSupport.com Those of us who created this website realize the importance of just being there for someone else. We have learned what it means to be with, and more importantly, without, support. We understand the need for support. It is our goal to be the support for others that we all so desire to acquire during our lives as we manage our children with Silver Syndrome. Hope to see you soon!!! We are LIVE starting tonight!! Fondly, and always thinking of you – Advocate (H) <excited grin> PS - I'll be at the site if you want to say hello! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 12, 2006 Report Share Posted March 12, 2006 I am incredibly disappointed with the contents of this email. I have been a member here for over 4 years, over that time I have learnt everything I need to know about RSS, I have been supported, I have had opinions that have been accepted AND not accepted. I have agreed with opinions and disagreed. Never once have I felt I couldnt have an opinion or say how I felt. MOST importantly I have never forgotten the reason I am here on this site is because of my son who has Silver Syndrome. If we as parents fragment everytime one of us doesnt agree with the other, I believe there will soon be many RRS support groups. I wish this new group well and hope that it is achieves what it sets out to. My disappointment is the suggestion that support specifically relating to RSS is not found here. That is exactly what is found here. Perhaps support of other issues in an RSS parent/relatives life is not. I see this site(RSS yahoo) as an international community of RSS children and their families. I hope it continues to give information and support, in an enviroment willing to listen to anyones views. Jody(mum to Liam (RSS) and cameron) > > Hello everyone! I have missed you all so, so much. I hope everyone > is well – I have not been able to keep up with everyone's posts – > BUT – I have some exciting news to share with you. > > No – I'm not pregnant! LOL > > SUPPORT is an incredibly significant expression or desire for > encouragement that at times may not always be prevalent in a > person's life; specifically relating to RSS – sometimes due to lack > of familial support, friends, or even non-existent or remedial > physician recognition. Sometimes SUPPORT can be found in many > places when the aforementioned connections are not available – such > as an internet support group, clubs, non-profit foundations, church > and others. > > I've always believed that there can always be an opportunity to > support someone in need and there doesn't have to be only one option > for which to access support. For this reason – I have developed > with the support, encouragement, participation, and guidance of some > very dear friends another support group website - and you all know > these wonderful women: Jodi Z, Debby B and Jodi R. > > I hope you will take the opportunity to come visit our new Support > Forum at http://www.-SilverSupport.com > > Those of us who created this website realize the importance of just > being there for someone else. We have learned what it means to be > with, and more importantly, without, support. We understand the need > for support. It is our goal to be the support for others that we all > so desire to acquire during our lives as we manage our children with > Silver Syndrome. > > Hope to see you soon!!! We are LIVE starting tonight!! > > Fondly, and always thinking of you – Advocate (H) > > <excited grin> PS - I'll be at the site if you want to say hello! > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 13, 2006 Report Share Posted March 13, 2006 Jody, I have to say that I agree with you! I have been a member of this list for over 3.5 years, and I have found it to be a supportive, caring and informative community. I have made lifelong friendships. Bran is now 4, and his issues are no longer life threatening. But back in the beginning, I don't know what I would have done without the knowledge and support I received from this wonderful group of people. It saddens me to think that this wonderful group of people might become fragmented because of a difference of opinions. I, too, wish this new group success, but I hope that they will still feel free to participate here as well. Pat (g-ma to , RSS, 4yrs 2m old, 28# 10oz, 35 " , G-tube, GHT) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 13, 2006 Report Share Posted March 13, 2006 > > I am incredibly disappointed with the contents of this email. _________________________________________________________________ I'm sorry you feel that way. __________________________________________________________________ I have been a member here for over 4 years, over that time I have learnt everything I need to know about RSS, I have been supported, >I have had opinions that have been accepted AND not accepted. I have> agreed with opinions and disagreed. Never once have I felt I couldnt have an opinion or say how I felt. MOST importantly I have never forgotten the reason I am here on this site is because of my son who has Silver Syndrome. ____________________________________________________________________ No one is suggesting otherwise. ___________________________________________________________________ > If we as parents fragment everytime one of us doesnt agree with the > other, I believe there will soon be many RRS support groups. I wish > this new group well and hope that it is achieves what it sets out to. ___________________________________________________________________ That's not why this site was put up. Actually, it was my suggestion in February. I have the capabilities to design and institute a site, the server space, and just thought it was a natural evolution that would provide knowledge that is currently not available. For instance, pictures of tubes and why one is used over another. The site is in its infancy. Hopefully we can continue to grow over time and be helpful. _____________________________________________________________________ > My disappointment is the suggestion that support specifically > relating to RSS is not found here. That is exactly what is found > here. Perhaps support of other issues in an RSS parent/relatives > life is not. ____________________________________________________________________ That is, of course, one of the reasons for the new forum. There is a place there to discuss non-RSS issues. It's easy to avoid if you don't want to become involved. Yahoo Groups is not user friendly. You can't ignore things readily. You can't readily pick and choose what you want to read. You can't quickly and readily catch up on posts you are following. If you read it in email it can be a horrendous task. I also understand the concern about fracturing. But I think the two groups can ride the waves side-by-side. There's something in it for everyone. And they are two different mediums, allowing different things to happen in different ways. _________________________________________________________________ > I see this site(RSS yahoo) as an international community of RSS > children and their families. I hope it continues to give information > and support, in an enviroment willing to listen to anyones views. ___________________________________________________________________ I certainly hope that it does carry on for many years into the future. For as long as RSS continues to baffle parents and science. Dianne - Grandmother to Ian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 13, 2006 Report Share Posted March 13, 2006 Good luck with your new group.It looks very well organized. Beautiful stories. I can't speak for all, but I felt as though I was intruding on someone's private conversation when I try to ask a question on this site.(I don't post often). Anyway, now that there is a site for " other chats " , I see it as the best of both worlds. I think it's great! Take care, Molllison, Raven (age 5 RSS) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 13, 2006 Report Share Posted March 13, 2006 I'm with you! I've been on the new site and found it very informative. I found the g-tube information especially helpful and could relate to alot of it. I will be taking advantage of both sites. Lately, my daughter has been doing pretty well, and I have been busy with other projects and dealing with family issues, so I have been silent for a while. I've just been reading the posts and keeping up with what's going on with everyone. I've also been praying for all of our kids, there has been so much going on with them. Anyway, I'm glad that there is finally more information out there. I love what the MAGIC foundation and this group has done for me and now I have another group for even more support. Let's stop this arguing back and forth and just be here for each other. Sheldon Sime wrote: Ok People lets all stop for a second and take a deep breath. Now than, this is just my opinion and know one else's so please tear me up if you want but know one else. Ok than i think we are all adults here and the reason we are here is to seek help with questions we may have about our children and Grandchildren and to carry on a friendship we have made with one another whether it be about RSS or not. Come on people life is to short for this kind of garbage. Just think about what the kids are dealing with. This was and still will be a great site for all to enjoy. But what is wrong with another site for us to enjoy. Do we only have one gas station in town or one grocery store in town or one restaurant in town to enjoy. No i don't think so. So than let's just forget about the past for we cannot undue it and concentrate on what we can do and that is to find as much information we can for our kids whether it be here or somewhere else and do not condem someone for branching out ok. No one is asking anyone to change site's. Heck join them both. Than you can chat like crazy with 2 site's. Ok i said my peace now let's just all have a group hug and smile for we never know what tomorrow will bring. Sheldon(G-Pa to Laikyn,RSS,G-Tube, GHT, and other stuff i don't understand) from the Great State of North Dakota Re: CHAT: EXCITING ANNOUNCEMENT > > I am incredibly disappointed with the contents of this email. _________________________________________________________________ I'm sorry you feel that way. __________________________________________________________________ I have been a member here for over 4 years, over that time I have learnt everything I need to know about RSS, I have been supported, >I have had opinions that have been accepted AND not accepted. I have> agreed with opinions and disagreed. Never once have I felt I couldnt have an opinion or say how I felt. MOST importantly I have never forgotten the reason I am here on this site is because of my son who has Silver Syndrome. ____________________________________________________________________ No one is suggesting otherwise. ___________________________________________________________________ > If we as parents fragment everytime one of us doesnt agree with the > other, I believe there will soon be many RRS support groups. I wish > this new group well and hope that it is achieves what it sets out to. ___________________________________________________________________ That's not why this site was put up. Actually, it was my suggestion in February. I have the capabilities to design and institute a site, the server space, and just thought it was a natural evolution that would provide knowledge that is currently not available. For instance, pictures of tubes and why one is used over another. The site is in its infancy. Hopefully we can continue to grow over time and be helpful. _____________________________________________________________________ > My disappointment is the suggestion that support specifically > relating to RSS is not found here. That is exactly what is found > here. Perhaps support of other issues in an RSS parent/relatives > life is not. ____________________________________________________________________ That is, of course, one of the reasons for the new forum. There is a place there to discuss non-RSS issues. It's easy to avoid if you don't want to become involved. Yahoo Groups is not user friendly. You can't ignore things readily. You can't readily pick and choose what you want to read. You can't quickly and readily catch up on posts you are following. If you read it in email it can be a horrendous task. I also understand the concern about fracturing. But I think the two groups can ride the waves side-by-side. There's something in it for everyone. And they are two different mediums, allowing different things to happen in different ways. _________________________________________________________________ > I see this site(RSS yahoo) as an international community of RSS > children and their families. I hope it continues to give information > and support, in an enviroment willing to listen to anyones views. ___________________________________________________________________ I certainly hope that it does carry on for many years into the future. For as long as RSS continues to baffle parents and science. Dianne - Grandmother to Ian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 13, 2006 Report Share Posted March 13, 2006 Hi , Your message gave me a big smile. When I spoke with several weeks ago about her starting a new group, one of her complaints was that this group was not close enough and that it was a little too impersonal for her. She wanted to create a more intimate (warm and fuzzy) atmosphere. So tonight, here you suggest this group is too personal and you feel you are intruding on private conversations. That's rich! Well, I'm glad you feel you have found something you like in both. It is always good to have an alternative point of view. should do well with her group. She is a very energetic person. Thanks for the irony!! Ken M > > Good luck with your new group.It looks very well organized. Beautiful > stories. I can't speak for all, but I felt as though I was intruding > on someone's private conversation when I try to ask a question on this > site.(I don't post often). Anyway, now that there is a site for " other > chats " , I see it as the best of both worlds. I think it's great! Take > care, Molllison, Raven (age 5 RSS) > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 14, 2006 Report Share Posted March 14, 2006 Sheldon, Just to add my two cents (but I'm not sure it is even worth that much lol), I am sorry to see this happen. Unlike a lot of other RSS moms (and there are more moms here than dads), I work very full- time. I simply do not have the time to check more than one group in a day. I also feel that there are a limited number of us out there and that there is strenght in numbers. What if I post a question here and the one person with the answer is there? It means that I don't get the " support " that I have come to depend on. Anyway, I here is a smile for you today Judith, Steve, (RSS) and (non RSS) 6 year old twins > > > > I am incredibly disappointed with the contents of this email. > _________________________________________________________________ > I'm sorry you feel that way. > > __________________________________________________________________ > > I have been a member here for over 4 years, over that time I have > learnt everything I need to know about RSS, I have been supported, >I > have had opinions that have been accepted AND not accepted. I have> > agreed with opinions and disagreed. Never once have I felt I couldnt > have an opinion or say how I felt. MOST importantly I have never > forgotten the reason I am here on this site is because of my son who > has Silver Syndrome. > ____________________________________________________________________ > No one is suggesting otherwise. > ___________________________________________________________________ > > > If we as parents fragment everytime one of us doesnt agree with the > > other, I believe there will soon be many RRS support groups. I wish > > this new group well and hope that it is achieves what it sets out to. > ___________________________________________________________________ > That's not why this site was put up. Actually, it was my suggestion > in February. I have the capabilities to design and institute a site, > the server space, and just thought it was a natural evolution that > would provide knowledge that is currently not available. For > instance, pictures of tubes and why one is used over another. The > site is in its infancy. Hopefully we can continue to grow over time > and be helpful. > > _____________________________________________________________________ > > > My disappointment is the suggestion that support specifically > > relating to RSS is not found here. That is exactly what is found > > here. Perhaps support of other issues in an RSS parent/relatives > > life is not. > ____________________________________________________________________ > That is, of course, one of the reasons for the new forum. There is a > place there to discuss non-RSS issues. It's easy to avoid if you > don't want to become involved. > > Yahoo Groups is not user friendly. You can't ignore things readily. > You can't readily pick and choose what you want to read. You can't > quickly and readily catch up on posts you are following. If you read > it in email it can be a horrendous task. > > I also understand the concern about fracturing. But I think the two > groups can ride the waves side-by-side. There's something in it for > everyone. And they are two different mediums, allowing different > things to happen in different ways. > _________________________________________________________________ > > > I see this site(RSS yahoo) as an international community of RSS > > children and their families. I hope it continues to give information > > and support, in an enviroment willing to listen to anyones views. > ___________________________________________________________________ > > I certainly hope that it does carry on for many years into the future. > For as long as RSS continues to baffle parents and science. > > Dianne - Grandmother to Ian > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 14, 2006 Report Share Posted March 14, 2006 , I hope you are feeling more comfortable about chiming in! Ask any questions you may have and you are bound to get someone's response! I agree with Ken that sometimes irony is just worth smiling about! Dayna _____ From: RSS-Support [mailto:RSS-Support ] On Behalf Of kmerrith Sent: Monday, March 13, 2006 11:46 PM To: RSS-Support Subject: Re: CHAT: EXCITING ANNOUNCEMENT Hi , Your message gave me a big smile. When I spoke with several weeks ago about her starting a new group, one of her complaints was that this group was not close enough and that it was a little too impersonal for her. She wanted to create a more intimate (warm and fuzzy) atmosphere. So tonight, here you suggest this group is too personal and you feel you are intruding on private conversations. That's rich! Well, I'm glad you feel you have found something you like in both. It is always good to have an alternative point of view. should do well with her group. She is a very energetic person. Thanks for the irony!! Ken M > > Good luck with your new group.It looks very well organized. Beautiful > stories. I can't speak for all, but I felt as though I was intruding > on someone's private conversation when I try to ask a question on this > site.(I don't post often). Anyway, now that there is a site for " other > chats " , I see it as the best of both worlds. I think it's great! Take > care, Molllison, Raven (age 5 RSS) > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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