breasties after surguries of many kinds/ and men's reactions

[Guest guest]

-just to mention that women who have had a breast removed or had extensive

lumpectomies are also sexy beings, still have sensitive chest tissue, --and

shoulld a woman chose so, reconstructions have never been better than they are

now

when done by a skilled surgeon. 90% about being sexy is an attitude, and an

artform, not equipment.

Thre is no doubt that a woman is not her breasts, but it is also true that

her breasts are as delicate and sensitive as hands or waists or other parts of

the body, and that her breasts carry double duty as nourishers of humanity in

more ways than one, as well as being a sensual cue to herself and others. Some

women pay no attention to the subtleties of their body. Others pay much

attention. I don't know that either is better or right. Just different.

I think though that the men on the list can assure women, as the most recent

one did, that what is touted in media and what is personal to a man (or woman

who loves breasts) are two different realities. I hate it when men are treated

ike they only have one thought. They're complicated beings that hardly ever

get a chance to even think through with each other or their loved ones what

they really do THINK and FEEL about most everything. TV, media, Commedians say,

Guys are like this (some narrow stereotypical version that is good for the

quick laugh.) Everyone laughs. And the subject is dropped. The men never get a

chance to say what they really think.

I notice on the gb lists that the men on the lists are often quite well

spoen, thoughtful, stand outside the stereotypes. This is a good and blessed

thing.

just my two cent's worth.

love,

ceep mom