Guest guest Posted November 9, 2005 Report Share Posted November 9, 2005 Donna, You and your children are in my thoughts and prayers. Where do you live? You may have more options in the legal system than you think. B and Kelli Donna wrote: ok i know that y'all don;t know us or what has happened in the past 3 years. but maybe someomn else has gone thru this and can help. first when Eva & Mikey's dad and i got divorced we agreed on joint custody, w/ me having physical. well that did'nt last to long. he then took them for a weekend and i really have;nt had them back since.. no money for a atty. and the cops don;tcare here. so when i wad able to go to court then we agreed to the same just he would have physical. there were times that i would'nt see my kids or even get to talk to them for months at a time. he does'nt let me know about anything to do w/ them. wellwhen he got remarried to a woman( i use the term loosely) she has 5 kids and 2nd g-kid on way. i thiught that this wa a good thing. OH MY GOD! wad i delusional. she has made it worse. my kids are told that i don't love them, 'm a whore slut name it i'm it. this is her 5th marriage. he thinks it's her 3rd. got a call from 1 of her x's informing me how horrible she is. well there are many things that i won't go into here. but the word is that she has been charged w/ child abuse in 2 other counties and hubby #1 is convicted child molester and her oldest daughter the same. only hers was as a juvinile so no records on that. she has verbabally attacked me in front of the kids before and her mother did also and didin front of my x who did nothing to stop her. she called me all the usual names and pushed my son behind her told them again i was a liar and i did'nt love them. threatened to slap me also. my Eva was standing there w/ her mouth hanging open. i did'nt dare get out of the van for fear that she really would try to do something in front of my babys. she is old like 80. and very decrepid. she would've broke her hand on my head. brittle looking if you know what i mean. well i get to go sit in the dr's. tomorrow w/ them. he would'nt tell me where it was or the time. so i called. my mom does;nt want to get involved but she is going. my parents are'nt very supportive at all. since i'm divorced then that is a mortal sin in this family. i'm the first one to do that. i guess i also want y'all to pray not for me but my kids. that they be protected from these evil people that he has brought in their life. and that they can discern the truth. and that the truth be brought to light soon. my boy trows a fit to stay w/ me. the woman s verbally abusive to him but DFC says that is'nt against the law. soif i know i have y'all and God on my side tomorrow then i'll feel so much stonger. this is taking it's toll on me mentally. Thank You and God Bless, Donna, Eva G' ,mommy Donna~ --------------------------------- Yahoo! FareChase - Search multiple travel sites in one click. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 11, 2005 Report Share Posted November 11, 2005 I'm so sorry to hear all that you are going through. My thoughts and prayers will forever be with you and your children. How a father could ever take his children from thier mother I wil never know. I pray god rectifies this situation before any haem can be done. Please keep me posted as I am truley worried you and yours. In faith, Reah and Chloe:)28mo.17lbs,31in Donna wrote: ok i know that y'all don;t know us or what has happened in the past 3 years. but maybe someomn else has gone thru this and can help. first when Eva & Mikey's dad and i got divorced we agreed on joint custody, w/ me having physical. well that did'nt last to long. he then took them for a weekend and i really have;nt had them back since.. no money for a atty. and the cops don;tcare here. so when i wad able to go to court then we agreed to the same just he would have physical. there were times that i would'nt see my kids or even get to talk to them for months at a time. he does'nt let me know about anything to do w/ them. wellwhen he got remarried to a woman( i use the term loosely) she has 5 kids and 2nd g-kid on way. i thiught that this wa a good thing. OH MY GOD! wad i delusional. she has made it worse. my kids are told that i don't love them, 'm a whore slut name it i'm it. this is her 5th marriage. he thinks it's her 3rd. got a call from 1 of her x's informing me how horrible she is. well there are many things that i won't go into here. but the word is that she has been charged w/ child abuse in 2 other counties and hubby #1 is convicted child molester and her oldest daughter the same. only hers was as a juvinile so no records on that. she has verbabally attacked me in front of the kids before and her mother did also and didin front of my x who did nothing to stop her. she called me all the usual names and pushed my son behind her told them again i was a liar and i did'nt love them. threatened to slap me also. my Eva was standing there w/ her mouth hanging open. i did'nt dare get out of the van for fear that she really would try to do something in front of my babys. she is old like 80. and very decrepid. she would've broke her hand on my head. brittle looking if you know what i mean. well i get to go sit in the dr's. tomorrow w/ them. he would'nt tell me where it was or the time. so i called. my mom does;nt want to get involved but she is going. my parents are'nt very supportive at all. since i'm divorced then that is a mortal sin in this family. i'm the first one to do that. i guess i also want y'all to pray not for me but my kids. that they be protected from these evil people that he has brought in their life. and that they can discern the truth. and that the truth be brought to light soon. my boy trows a fit to stay w/ me. the woman s verbally abusive to him but DFC says that is'nt against the law. soif i know i have y'all and God on my side tomorrow then i'll feel so much stonger. this is taking it's toll on me mentally. Thank You and God Bless, Donna, Eva G' ,mommy Donna~ --------------------------------- Yahoo! FareChase - Search multiple travel sites in one click. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 11, 2005 Report Share Posted November 11, 2005 Oh, Donna, my heart, thoughts and prayers are with you and your beautiful children. Too often I see situations like this and it is just heartbreaking. At the moment, I can think of two families that have children that I teach and I have seen the effects this has on them. I do my best to make school a pleasant place for them, but their homelives are hell. I do believe in the power of prayer and I'm hoping that all the prayers and good thoughts we are sending will help you and your children. I don't understand why things work out this way, but there must be a reason somewhere. If only we could find that out now so we could comprehend..... Just know that we are here for you. It may not be much, but you have lots of cyber friends backing you up wherever you go. Jodi Z Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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