Guest guest Posted December 15, 2003 Report Share Posted December 15, 2003 Maureen, I am about to enter flat-chesteddom too! Like you, my weight loss pretty much obliterated all of my breast tissue, leaving me with just some losely hanging skin-knee-socks. UGH! My PS already told me I will likely wind up either an A cup or a small B. When I consider that at my biggest, I was wearing like a 52 I (eye) bra, this will be quite a " new " experience. So, just to get a better physical sense of what is to come, I went out and bought a couple of bras, one in an A cup one in a B cup, put them on and squished my chesty knee sockies into them, and you know what ???? I think I looked FANTASTIC! Then I started noticing all the famous fashionistas who were more compactly endowed. Like Gwynneth Paltrow, and Debra Messing, and (my absolute favorite) Kidman, and Kate Hudson etc. Hey not such bad company there! LOL! Now if only I could afford Chanel, a la , life would be perfect! Anyway, I am determined to not enter the realm of implants, though honestly I am trying to prepare myself for a jolt re my new breast-size. I am sure I will have some adapting to do! As much as I am trying to anticipate this new body image, frankly I won't know for sure how I'll feel until I have " arrived. " I expect I will be fine. I do acknowledge that for us women, breast size and our feelings in that respect are big issues. Even for someone like me, who has always been well-endowed and who has ALWAYS said, as far back as I can remember as a young woman, that I wanted to be flat-chested. When I was a teen, the big show on TV was " The Avengers " and to this day, Emma Peele is my body ideal -- tall, very slender, lithe, athletic, and SMALL breasted! So, in a very real sense, I will be coming very close after breast surgery to my ideal body type. I am dearly hoping that I don't find myself experiencing in real life that cautionary warning of hell being that for which we have always wished! The way I am approaching it is that having small but perky breasts has got to be a HUGE improvement than having these things that get caught in my waistband. LMAO! Hope you are mending well from your breast surgery. Your post couldn't have come at a better time for me, as this whole boob issue has been on my mind lately. Just think, we will BOTH go braless with abandon this summer!!! YIPEE! Lucille In a message dated 12/15/2003 1:28:33 AM Eastern Standard Time, Graduate-OSSG writes: > I too am home today having had a breast reduction this past Wednesday. > Since I had almost no breast tissue left, I'm flat chested now. Everything has > changed about me having lost 140 lbs why not them too. To be truthful they > always got in my way and most men talked to them and not me. You know what I > mean? > The weather outside here in Vegas is, yes, gloomy, gray, raining and > windy. I tried to eat a boca burger but it didn't like me. I have lost my > appetite. Never said that in the past;). My lights are flickering so I'll sign > off for now. And it helps me to put some positive affirmations around so as to > remind me of how far I have come. Maureen > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 15, 2003 Report Share Posted December 15, 2003 How you ultimately look will also be based on the experience level of your PS. I had almost no breast tissue to work with and I was told I was going to end up a B if lucky. I decided not to go to the PS mostly used by ppl in my support group and broke off from the gang to visit the Chief of PS at a major hospital in Chicago. When I went into surgery he told me it would take approx. 3 hours. I began to wake up and thought I was in recovery until I notice a big light overhead and I glanced over at my surgeon who was just taking his gloves off and he winked at me and said, " Yep...you are still in OR...it took me 6 hours to form you the way I wanted. " He massaged what little I had making every bit of breast tissue count for something and placed my nipples in a perfect spot to give me that " Glyneth Paltrow " look instead of " small dogs nose " or that " ski-slope " look I saw on many of my GB friends. (You know the drill. All of your friends that had breast surgery grab you, drag you to the john and rip their blouses off to show off their new tata's.) That was a year ago and I can't tell you how happy I am that I searched out that type of plastic surgeon. He also would not combine the breast job with a braekioplasty (sp) because of the time he was sure he would have to dedicate to my chest area. I was disappointed at first but thrilled at his decision once I saw the work he put into it. Without asking him to, he cut around the sides and took off some of the drooppy skin and tightened up that area also.(You can see a bit of the results on my " flexing " pic in the Photo's section.) When he came into my room for a visit and we looked at the results of his artistry and time he said, " Now, aren't you glad I didn't do two surgical procedures at once? " My answer was obvious. If for whatever reason (money, insurance purposes, desire, yadda yadda) you have both procedures done at once, make sure the PS is willing to put in MUCH time to do the best job on your boobs and be willing to work past the other surgeries he has planned for the day should he run into difficulties. We have VERY little breast tissue to work on at the end of the day and a ton of skin to remove. It is no easy feat to get it right. Carol G. > Maureen, I am about to enter flat-chesteddom too! Like you, my weight loss > pretty much obliterated all of my breast tissue, leaving me with just some > losely hanging skin-knee-socks. UGH! My PS already told me I will likely > wind up either an A cup or a small B. When I consider that at my biggest, I was > wearing like a 52 I (eye) bra, this will be quite a " new " experience. So, > just to get a better physical sense of what is to come, I went out and bought a > couple of bras, one in an A cup one in a B cup, put them on and squished my > chesty knee sockies into them, and you know what ???? I think I looked > FANTASTIC! Then I started noticing all the famous fashionistas who were more > compactly endowed. Like Gwynneth Paltrow, and Debra Messing, and (my absolute > favorite) Kidman, and Kate Hudson etc. Hey not such bad company there! > LOL! Now if only I could afford Chanel, a la , life would be > perfect! > > Anyway, I am determined to not enter the realm of implants, though honestly I > am trying to prepare myself for a jolt re my new breast-size. I am sure I > will have some adapting to do! As much as I am trying to anticipate this new > body image, frankly I won't know for sure how I'll feel until I have > " arrived. " I expect I will be fine. I do acknowledge that for us women, breast > size and our feelings in that respect are big issues. Even for someone like > me, who has always been well-endowed and who has ALWAYS said, as far back as I > can remember as a young woman, that I wanted to be flat-chested. When I was a > teen, the big show on TV was " The Avengers " and to this day, Emma Peele is my > body ideal -- tall, very slender, lithe, athletic, and SMALL breasted! > So, in a very real sense, I will be coming very close after breast surgery to my > ideal body type. > > I am dearly hoping that I don't find myself experiencing in real life that > cautionary warning of hell being that for which we have always wished! The > way I am approaching it is that having small but perky breasts has got to be a > HUGE improvement than having these things that get caught in my waistband. > LMAO! > > Hope you are mending well from your breast surgery. Your post couldn't > have come at a better time for me, as this whole boob issue has been on my mind > lately. Just think, we will BOTH go braless with abandon this summer!!! > YIPEE! > > Lucille > > > In a message dated 12/15/2003 1:28:33 AM Eastern Standard Time, > Graduate-OSSG writes: > > > > I too am home today having had a breast reduction this past Wednesday. > > Since I had almost no breast tissue left, I'm flat chested now. Everything has > > changed about me having lost 140 lbs why not them too. To be truthful they > > always got in my way and most men talked to them and not me. You know what I > > mean? > > The weather outside here in Vegas is, yes, gloomy, gray, raining and > > windy. I tried to eat a boca burger but it didn't like me. I have lost my > > appetite. Never said that in the past;). My lights are flickering so I'll sign > > off for now. And it helps me to put some positive affirmations around so as to > > remind me of how far I have come. Maureen > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 15, 2003 Report Share Posted December 15, 2003 Add me to the list of flat chested women! I was a 50 DD at my biggest, I was never big before I got fat, I was probably a B or a C cup---but since my weight loss I am now an A cup and it is SO weird after being so big for so many years. I put on a wool sweater yesterday and I looked flat chested, it was weird! But, I do like being smaller---it's certainly easier on my back! And, I'm not hanging too badly, so that's a plus. I look forward to going braless, I've always hated wearing a bra so it'll be a treat to not wear one and it'll be ok! The best part, I can now go to 's Secret and get any bra I want----they never had anything above a 38 when I went in there before. :-) (the one in Cleveland) > Maureen, I am about to enter flat-chesteddom too! Like you, my weight loss > pretty much obliterated all of my breast tissue, leaving me with just some > losely hanging skin-knee-socks. UGH! My PS already told me I will likely > wind up either an A cup or a small B. When I consider that at my biggest, I was > wearing like a 52 I (eye) bra, this will be quite a " new " experience. So, > just to get a better physical sense of what is to come, I went out and bought a > couple of bras, one in an A cup one in a B cup, put them on and squished my > chesty knee sockies into them, and you know what ???? I think I looked > FANTASTIC! Then I started noticing all the famous fashionistas who were more > compactly endowed. Like Gwynneth Paltrow, and Debra Messing, and (my absolute > favorite) Kidman, and Kate Hudson etc. Hey not such bad company there! > LOL! Now if only I could afford Chanel, a la , life would be > perfect! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 15, 2003 Report Share Posted December 15, 2003 I called them " over the shoulder boulder-holders " or a boa constrictor. We all know that big " Ahhhhh " when we take 'em off! LOL in NJ *********************** > The very first thing I have done all my life when I got home was rip off my " harness " --- that's what I always called my bra. HATED the damn things always! Having big breasts, they FELT like harnesses! > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 15, 2003 Report Share Posted December 15, 2003 I got it all crossed, babygirl! I'm thrilled you have a great PS you have confidence in. Those are going to be some fine boobs when he is done with you Godspeed! Carol G Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2003 Report Share Posted December 17, 2003 , I have two words for you: Cindy Crawford. Cindy Crawford is a B cup (don't ask me how I know this I just do! LOL!) Point being there are plenty of beautiful girls/women out there with small breasts (and frankly I think a B cup is NOT small, it's just that " we " are so used to going into the double alphabet with our bra cup sizes.) I appreciate VERY much, however, what you are saying about adjusting to the change, and becoming comfortable with it. Give yourself some more time, you are still new to the world of not having an aching back. There is an old saying about breast-size (and I don't mean to exclude all you more amply endowed ladies out there by repeating this): if you have enough to fit into a champagne glass, than you have enough! Signed, Someone who has a champagne glass ready to take a measurement! Lucille In a message dated 12/16/2003 7:54:49 PM Eastern Standard Time, lgallagher95830@... writes: > Maureen and Lucille, > > I had a breast reduction in March and went from a 36DD to a small 36B. I > have to tell you, it's a shock. Or it was for me. I waffle between loving it > and not. I miss the attention that I got for being " huge " with a little > waste and long legs. But then, I look more proportionate now. Clothes fit > better too, but it's tough. I'm having some problems with it mentally. It's > kinda like guys and their " you know. " It defines womanhood. I'm glad that I did > it for one reason, that I haven't gotten one tension headache in my neck > since the reduction. And the middle of my back doesn't hurt anymore. But I do > miss " the girls. " But I'm little and perky now. See what I mean? I can't > decide whether I like it or not. LOL > > Just my 2 cents on the boobie issue, > G > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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