Re: Men / Packages/ and Foolishness

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In a message dated 12/14/2003 1:28:42 PM Central Standard Time,

BethVBG@... writes:

> for the most part, I love it. It may seem shallow, but I enjoy being

> objectified for a change

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It's not shallow. We've been socialized (read " brainwashed " ) to believe it's

desirable to be desired. I've wished all my life I could be a sex object, just

for a little while at least. Even with the surgery it won't happen bcuz I

can't get below 225 with my failed stoma.

Carol A

[Guest guest]

Carol,

Being a sex object (i.e. " desirable " ) is not about a wt. At 300+

lbs I had no problems attracting the opposite sex. I truly believe

that we are attracted to people that exude that particular sexy

attitude no matter what size they are. Are the 98 lb hard bodies

gonna attract more attention? Probably, but are these going to be

attractions that last a life time? Probably not. I'll take quality

over quantity any day.

Just my $.02 worth!

Reba

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> It's not shallow. We've been socialized (read " brainwashed " ) to

believe it's

> desirable to be desired. I've wished all my life I could be a sex

object, just

> for a little while at least. Even with the surgery it won't happen

bcuz I

> can't get below 225 with my failed stoma.

>

> Carol A

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

You're not an evil one, Janice, you're a LIVE one! And I mean that in the

nicest way, trust me!

Signed,

Someone who believes not ALL good things come in small packages! LOL!

Lucille

In a message dated 12/17/2003 1:59:01 PM Eastern Standard Time,

Graduate-OSSG writes:

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> ok i must confess when i saw the re line men and packages

> i eagerly awaited a different topic LOL

>

> /evil grin

>

> janice

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