NYC

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: I'm in NYC also, though I use Equinox (19 St).

ellen

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In a message dated 6/27/01 12:53:35 AM Pacific Daylight Time,

writes:

> Hi ! How are you doing and what is going on with your kids and

> brother?

> Are you adjusting to life without your Dad okay?

> Gail

>

>

> Hi Gail, that is so sweet of you to think of me! Yes, we are finally

getting used to the fact that my Dad, who we thought would be around forever,

is gone forever, but still asks for his " Pop Pop " , which throws us into

the dilemma of what to tell him. He says " Pop Pop, home? " , whenever he

doesn't see him at our house and questions as to where he is lately.

I'm dreading the trip to NYC in a way, because it will be the first time I

see my brother and his family since Dad's passing, and also the first time in

many many years, that we'll visit the " old neighborhood " where we grew up,

went to school and attended church.

As Leah told me, " it must be done " .........

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In a message dated 6/27/01 11:55:25 AM Pacific Daylight Time, Ltb3105@...

writes:

<< I'm dreading the trip to NYC in a way, because it will be the first time I

see my brother and his family since Dad's passing, and also the first time

in

many many years, that we'll visit the " old neighborhood " where we grew up,

went to school and attended church.

As Leah told me, " it must be done " .........

>>

Gosh ,

Good luck with the trip. Sometimes that can heal wounds, and sometimes it

can open a whole other can of worms. Must be hard when asks about his

Pop Pop so much huh? I wonder if it's harder to not understand death and

always wait to see the person. Or, if it's harder to know what death is and

know you don't need to wait and watch for that person anymore? When ya

going to NYC?

Gail

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laura,

don't drag me into this!!!!loololo just kidding.... use me anytime baby

anytime.... i do personally think that it's easier to heal the inside if you

face up or revisit the place that it occurred or where the memories

are...it's easier to have more peace at heart, closure is hard to comeby,

but at least internally healing is better than fresh wounds.... hang in

there laura and know we are here with you to nyc, dallas,or the moon.....

leah

>From: smilinggail@...

>Reply-

>

>Subject: Re: Re: NYC

>Date: Wed, 27 Jun 2001 16:39:04 EDT

>

>In a message dated 6/27/01 11:55:25 AM Pacific Daylight Time,

>Ltb3105@...

>writes:

>

><< I'm dreading the trip to NYC in a way, because it will be the first time

>I

> see my brother and his family since Dad's passing, and also the first

>time

>in

> many many years, that we'll visit the " old neighborhood " where we grew

>up,

> went to school and attended church.

>

> As Leah told me, " it must be done " .........

>

> >>

>

>

>Gosh ,

>Good luck with the trip. Sometimes that can heal wounds, and sometimes it

>can open a whole other can of worms. Must be hard when asks about

>his

>Pop Pop so much huh? I wonder if it's harder to not understand death and

>always wait to see the person. Or, if it's harder to know what death is and

>know you don't need to wait and watch for that person anymore? When ya

>going to NYC?

>Gail

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In a message dated 6/27/01 2:55:21 PM Eastern Daylight Time, Ltb3105@...

writes:

> I'm dreading the trip to NYC in a way, because it will be the first time I

> see my brother and his family since Dad's passing, and also the first time

> in

> many many years, that we'll visit the " old neighborhood " where we grew up,

> went to school and attended church.

>

> As Leah told me, " it must be done " .........

,

Dear!! I totally agree with what Leah said. It really does help to

revisit those memories. It's very cathartic! Take it from someone who's

been through it twice. You know, I remember years ago Duff and I had taken

a trip to New England. We were just taking a drive and enjoying the sites,

listening to the Mills Brothers on tape. I turned to Duff and said that

when my father passes, I'm sure I'd never be able to listen to them. It

would surely be too painful (my Dad was a Mills Brothers/Nat King Cole/Bing

Crosby fanatic). But guess what? When he died I became fanatical. It

was the ONLY music I listened to and I listened ALL DAY LONG!!!!! It truly

helped me grieve and in some way, gave me a great deal of comfort. It's

been 4 years and I still listen to my Dad's CD's (Plus I got all his records

since I'm the only one still with a turntable), but am now able to listen to

all *my* stuff too.....;-)

, I've been thinking. This whole thing may also change your

relationship with your brother. For good or bad, I don't know. But I do

know that it's been my experience that sibling relationships do go through an

evolution in this whole process. I've been lucky; ours has been very very

good.

Good luck dear, and let us know how you make out!!

{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Donna

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Hi :

{{{{{{{{{LINDA}}}}}}}}}}

Take care, thanks for sharing your good news, this really helps us further

from " ground zero " .

I am so sorry for what you and your family are going through.

Thank you also for the great news of the birth of Dr. Fitzgibbon's

daughter. Good news like this helps to heal us during these terrrible

times. Take care, I hope things settle down some soon. Aloha, Kathy (h)

kathyh@...

At 04:16 AM 9/13/01 -0000, you wrote:

>Hello,

> It is in NJ, and I just needed to vent. My prayers and

>hugs go to all of those affected by this terrible tragedy. (I am the

>mom of 13 year old Mike with ocd, bi-polar, and a bunch of other

>letters!) He just amazes me, which I will post about later. I am so

>grateful to see my sister tonight. She/I am so lucky-she arrived on

>the train in the world trade center Tuesday morning after the first

>plane crashed into the 1st tower. She then walked across the street

>(from the world trade center) to her office on the 25th floor. She

>then saw the 2nd plane crash. Her building was evacuated, she saw

>alot of stuff, poor kid, started running when the first tower started

>to collapse. I am so lucky. It was hours before I heard from her,

>and it was the worst fear I have lived through (no, when my dad was

>in Vietnam, seeing the 'official' car-bad news delivery-on our street

>also terrified me) Mike knew soon after I did that she was ok, but

>when he spoke to her last nite he fell apart-he didn't believe she

>was ok until he heard her himself. Then he confides that he was so

>so scared all day, but didn't call me because he didn't want to know

>forsure if it was bad news. It amazes me how he thinks. For

>anyone who doesn't know what our kids go through when they feel fear,

>let me tell you-I can't explain it. Let me say I thought I knew what

>anxiety was until yesterday. Weird things happen to your mind when

>you are terrified-can't think, eat, focus, remember, and the physical

>feeling of fear is so so so so bad. After yesterday I now know why

>our kids do the things they do, act the way they do(but that still

>doesn't mean it is ok)...to allieviate the fear that drives their

>compulsions. I had to force myself out the door to work today-I just

>want to stay in my house with my family, pack an 'emergency' box,

>etc. And I don't have ocd-or alot of it anyway!!! So I am following

>my own advice that I give my son-get busy. Do something

>constructive. I am waiting for an appointment to give blood. I also

>volunteered to be a relief nurse...and meanwhile forcing myself to

>act calm, keep our normal routine, etc. I keep remembering I am a

>role model for my son and need to model appropriate behavior in

>fearful and stressful times. (darn, I don't want to do what I teach

>him to do) I am so grateful. Mike also wants to do something-his

>job is to put the flag out every morning. I told him to think of

>something...I also told him he would be helping if he kept his

>behavior in check while I was gone (if I go) I told him he would

>have to be in charge of beating back ocd for a couple of days. I am

>sorry I am just running on, just a mess since my family is asleep-and

>I don't have to model good coping skills now. Thanks for listening.

>((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))) in NJ

>p.s. I don't know if you know , that Dr. Fitzgibbons had her

>baby on Friday 9-7=01. A girl. I was told they are both fine.

>(Mike's appointment was cancelled Monday night!!!) Geez, the things

>that I look forward to, just to be able to have a night off from

>appointments!!!

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,

Thanks for sharing with us your feelings of the day. I

know how horrible it must have been to not know if

your sister was ok. Thanks goodness she was. You are

so right that our kids have to operate on a level that

is unbearable sometimes. It is good to keep that into

perspective. Glad to know that Mike was able to get

through such a rough time. There is still so much

uncertainty. I agree that we need to stay strong. I

have actually turned numb. I have been teaching this

week and busy working at the home school program and

have had little time to watch or listen to the news,

but when I do it is an almost unreal feeling. Keep us

updated on how Mike and your family are doing.

Vivian in WA ST

--- lippoliti@... wrote:

> Hello,

> It is in NJ, and I just needed to vent.

> My prayers and

> hugs go to all of those affected by this terrible

> tragedy. (I am the

> mom of 13 year old Mike with ocd, bi-polar, and a

> bunch of other

> letters!) He just amazes me, which I will post

> about later. I am so

> grateful to see my sister tonight. She/I am so

> lucky-she arrived on

> the train in the world trade center Tuesday morning

> after the first

> plane crashed into the 1st tower. She then walked

> across the street

> (from the world trade center) to her office on the

> 25th floor. She

> then saw the 2nd plane crash. Her building was

> evacuated, she saw

> alot of stuff, poor kid, started running when the

> first tower started

> to collapse. I am so lucky. It was hours before I

> heard from her,

> and it was the worst fear I have lived through (no,

> when my dad was

> in Vietnam, seeing the 'official' car-bad news

> delivery-on our street

> also terrified me) Mike knew soon after I did that

> she was ok, but

> when he spoke to her last nite he fell apart-he

> didn't believe she

> was ok until he heard her himself. Then he confides

> that he was so

> so scared all day, but didn't call me because he

> didn't want to know

> forsure if it was bad news. It amazes me how he

> thinks. For

> anyone who doesn't know what our kids go through

> when they feel fear,

> let me tell you-I can't explain it. Let me say I

> thought I knew what

> anxiety was until yesterday. Weird things happen to

> your mind when

> you are terrified-can't think, eat, focus, remember,

> and the physical

> feeling of fear is so so so so bad. After yesterday

> I now know why

> our kids do the things they do, act the way they

> do(but that still

> doesn't mean it is ok)...to allieviate the fear that

> drives their

> compulsions. I had to force myself out the door to

> work today-I just

> want to stay in my house with my family, pack an

> 'emergency' box,

> etc. And I don't have ocd-or alot of it anyway!!!

> So I am following

> my own advice that I give my son-get busy. Do

> something

> constructive. I am waiting for an appointment to

> give blood. I also

> volunteered to be a relief nurse...and meanwhile

> forcing myself to

> act calm, keep our normal routine, etc. I keep

> remembering I am a

> role model for my son and need to model appropriate

> behavior in

> fearful and stressful times. (darn, I don't want to

> do what I teach

> him to do) I am so grateful. Mike also wants to do

> something-his

> job is to put the flag out every morning. I told

> him to think of

> something...I also told him he would be helping if

> he kept his

> behavior in check while I was gone (if I go) I told

> him he would

> have to be in charge of beating back ocd for a

> couple of days. I am

> sorry I am just running on, just a mess since my

> family is asleep-and

> I don't have to model good coping skills now.

> Thanks for listening.

>

((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))

> in NJ

> p.s. I don't know if you know , that Dr.

> Fitzgibbons had her

> baby on Friday 9-7=01. A girl. I was told they are

> both fine.

> (Mike's appointment was cancelled Monday night!!!)

> Geez, the things

> that I look forward to, just to be able to have a

> night off from

> appointments!!!

>

>

>

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treatments ever, I just moved from NY and I miss them so much.

Tell Tommy or Joyce that Josh says hi.

> Does anyone have any suggestions for colonic irritation offices in

> the NYC area. Also, what can I do at home to stay regular.

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Kathy,

You know thats how I feel too! for those of you who dont know, last year

was in Law and Order and it was filmed in the village. a few weeks

ago, they were filming on my son's school block!

gotta love it here!

~ Mom to 12 DS and Diabetes Type 1 and 8 NY

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In a message dated 5/20/2003 7:46:07 PM Eastern Daylight Time, Linman42

writes:

> You know thats how I feel too! for those of you who dont know, last year

> was in Law and Order and it was filmed in the village. a few weeks

> ago, they were filming on my son's school block!

>

> gotta love it here!

>

When I mentioned this to my nephew he said, " that's nothing. they were at my

school three times last season. " He goes to high school in Manhattan.

By the way ... Thanks again for your help and encouragement.

Kathy, Liam's mom( 5)

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HOW COOL IS THAT! I LOVE LAW AND ORDER!

,mom to 9yr(DS),Dayton4yr(DS)and 11months(DS)

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Some years ago they filmed a commercial in our neighborhood, one of

the gals worked for the production company. They had one professional actor and

then used neighborhood kids. It was fun to watch but the actor was the worst

actor in the bunch. The kids did great, he was a mess. Oh, and he was an

adult. Jessie

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Hi

This kind off the wall reminds me that they are going to film a movie here

in our town of Nevada, Mo. It is called " The s " and is supposed to be

a drama/thriller about salesmen. I don't know much about it other than that

but Hollywood was here last week looking around. Maybe they'll knock on our

door looking for extras!

Re: NYC

> Some years ago they filmed a commercial in our neighborhood, one of

> the gals worked for the production company. They had one professional

actor and

> then used neighborhood kids. It was fun to watch but the actor was the

worst

> actor in the bunch. The kids did great, he was a mess. Oh, and he was an

> adult. Jessie

>

>

>

>

>

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Well they filmed the Matrix reloaded and Matrix 3 here in Oz

david shipp wrote:

> Hi

>

> This kind off the wall reminds me that they are going to film a movie here

> in our town of Nevada, Mo. It is called " The s " and is supposed

> to be

> a drama/thriller about salesmen. I don't know much about it other

> than that

> but Hollywood was here last week looking around. Maybe they'll knock

> on our

> door looking for extras!

>

--

Leis.... Aussie mum to 5 ,Natasha 1 and Jellybean due Oct 03

An adventure is only an inconvenience rightly considered. An inconvenience is an

adventure wrongly considered.

G. K. Chesterton (1874 - 1936)

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OMG! I never miss an episode, all my family and friends know when not to

call me!

Sharon H.

Mom to , (11, DS) and , (7)

South Carolina

NYC

>

> No matter how much I complain, NYC is a great place to be. They're

filming a

> Law and Order episode on my block this week!

>

> Kathy, Liam's mom( 5)

>

>

>

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Gracia, sounds like you had a great trip. I LOVE Dean

& DeLuca. You made me homesick. :-(

Roni

--- Gracia <circe@...> wrote:

>

> had a great time, wish I had more money. went to

> ground zero, holocaust museum, the Metropolitan

> museum, Kabuki at Lincoln Center, museum of natural

> history, restaurant called Buroughs, bar called

> Rodeo, Chinatown, Dean and Delucas

> I wasn't near the steam pipe explosion. and new

> yorkers were very friendly.

> Gracia

>

> Gracia!

> You made it out to the city, fabulous! How'd your

> trip go?

>

>

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Gracia-

I'm glad you had a good trip! You went to a lot of cool places.

:-)

In a message dated 7/24/07 1:24:12 AM, circe@... writes:

>

> had a great time, wish I had more money. went to ground zero, holocaust

> museum, the Metropolitan museum, Kabuki at Lincoln Center, museum of natural

> history, restaurant called Buroughs, bar called Rodeo, Chinatown, Dean and

> Delucas

> I wasn't near the steam pipe explosion. and new yorkers were very friendly.

> Gracia

>

> Gracia!

> You made it out to the city, fabulous! How'd your trip go?

>

>

>

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Hi -

I live in Brooklyn and don't have a car. I went today for a free eval. at

cranial technology and they think our 6 month old has a very flat head. Am

trying to figure out where to get the band in NYC. Any advice???

[Guest guest]

Hi la, We went to CT and were very happy with the competence of their

staff and the results that were achieved with the DOCband. Were you not happy

with them and are looking for another provider in Manhattan? I know that some

people have used zipcars in the past to get to Paramus.

If you are looking in Brooklyn, contact Rochelle at Kidi-Splints:

http://www.kidisplint.com/pediatrics_cranial.html

I think they are in Crown Heights by the Kingsboro Hospital.

Luke, 23 months, plagio & brachy

STARband & DOCband grad '09

NYC

>

> Hi -

>

> I live in Brooklyn and don't have a car. I went today for a free eval. at

cranial technology and they think our 6 month old has a very flat head. Am

trying to figure out where to get the band in NYC. Any advice???

>

[Guest guest]

Hi -Thanks for the info! CT seemed good I just can't imagine making the trek to NJ once a week! We don't have a car and live deep in Brooklyn so it just seems insane not to be able to do this in NY!Do you know anyone who has gone to kidisplint?laPlagiocephaly From: babymonkeyny@...Date: Sat, 30 Oct 2010 00:12:35 +0000Subject: Re: NYC

Hi la, We went to CT and were very happy with the competence of their staff and the results that were achieved with the DOCband. Were you not happy with them and are looking for another provider in Manhattan? I know that some people have used zipcars in the past to get to Paramus.

If you are looking in Brooklyn, contact Rochelle at Kidi-Splints: http://www.kidisplint.com/pediatrics_cranial.html

I think they are in Crown Heights by the Kingsboro Hospital.

Luke, 23 months, plagio & brachy

STARband & DOCband grad '09

NYC

>

> Hi -

>

> I live in Brooklyn and don't have a car. I went today for a free eval. at cranial technology and they think our 6 month old has a very flat head. Am trying to figure out where to get the band in NYC. Any advice???

>