Guest guest Posted January 22, 2004 Report Share Posted January 22, 2004 Keltie, Thanks so much for your compassionate and understanding post. Heavy sigh...hubby likes the healthier me but not so confident in the more attractive me. Issues of insecurity, jealousy. Kind of thing that's cute for a very short while then gets real old. You and your hubby have been through so much. Reminds me that this too shall pass. I know how difficult it is to put things off, how frustrating it is to look at that panni every day, deal with the rashes, etc. You're right, we'll get there! We're tough and soon enough we'll be smiling brightly with our flat tummies! (((HUGS))) -- In Graduate-OSSG , Keltie <kabachelor@1...> wrote: >so I'm > not living in a fairy-tale cottage here. But it is disconcerting that > your spouse would not want to see you at your best... and healtiest. > > I've put my tummy tuck off for 3 years now. It's so obvious that I need > a panni... but the year after my RnY, hubby had to deal with cancer > (and he's almost a 2-year survivor. YEAH!). He's had a number of > surgeries that have made me put my own work on the back burner. It'll > come... the most important things first. I can live with backaches and > rashes for just a little while longer. We'll get there, > > Keltie > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 23, 2004 Report Share Posted January 23, 2004 I was in the exact same situation and same tooth - I had had a root canal 20 yrs earlier same tooth. I opted for a new root canal and crown because like you I have been taught that keeping ones own teeth is best. I am now $1500 poorer, but happy with my decision. Amber Root canal & crown vs. extraction? My dentist gave me some food for thought for next week's follow up appointment. Since we are currently without dental insurance, cost unfortunately has to play a role in my decision. Should I opt for a root canal and a crown? Or should I opt for extracting the tooth and putting in an appliance (bridge?) I've always been told it is best to keep your natural teeth as long as you can, if possible. However, I know from experience as my friends and I have gotten more " mature " ...it doesn't always happen that teeth can be saved. The one tooth that needs extensive attention is a molar, tooth #3. It's a big tooth with a big filling that is old. Dentist is 70% certain I'll need the root canal before she can crown it. She'll know next week after doing an " e & e " ...excavation kinda thing. My husband is of no help in this decision, being extremely tight with a $ and having no sense of pride in his teeth...it pains me to admit this to anyone...he got dentures last year (uppers) and rarely wears them. Too much effort for him, I guess. It's a sore spot in our already strained relationship. To me, an attractive smile is a major plus. I don't think I'm being vain in wanting that. He does. So, what to do? Cost-wise would I be better off getting an extraction and opting for a good appliance in the end? Dentist tells me an advantage to crown is that it goes a bit under the gums and gives some support to surrounding teeth. Help! And thanks so much to everyone who's giving feedback on this. I really hoped this would be the year of my tummy tuck. Not the year of the new teeth! Regards, LAP RNY 7/3/02 Homepage: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Graduate-OSSG Unsubscribe: mailto:Graduate-OSSG-unsubscribe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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