lucky spouse

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I will tell you I have a wonderful husband. We have been married for 28 years and have to grown boys in their 20's they are great too!!! But I don't know what to say. What a support he has been, He actually has did the laundry probably for the past 10 years. Yes he does, doesn't iron though (got to teach him that one LOL) We both have always taken turns cooking He is a really good cook, I used to do all the cleaning, I try to still do some of it. Cleaned my bathroom today and it took probably an hour or so with the resting. But he is now doing all the floors, washing and vacuuming. The dusting a do a little at a time (never liked to clean any how) Had a great gal who cleaned every two weeks for me for about 2 years and

they moved back to Peru, haven't been able to replace her, I miss her was a great friend.. Mental support is a little lacking though which is ok, You see if you don't talk about it there is nothing wrong. (OK?). But he is dealing with all this crap the best he can, and that's ok. He tells me that all he wants is for me to do, and go where ever I think they will help me stay the same or get better. What ever I think is best for me and he will agree. The other thing is that I have always been the caregiver and organizer of both families to make sure everyone is ok, and if not I usually make sure they are and its hard for him and really hard for myself to stop being that person which I probably won't, I will be making sure that everyone is ok when the time comes for me to go and you know what that's alright with me.I thank God everynight that I found this air family, because truthfully I don't know what

I would do otherwise. (Probably go crazy)Love Gascoigne SD, 50 yrs old, Renaud's 2008, IPF 7/2009