Family Game for fine/oral/gross motor delays

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I'd like to buy my kids a game for Christmas that we can all enjoy playing.  Son

is NT and 7, daughter is 3 and has severe fine and gross and oral motor delyas. 

For example when we play checkers now (it's the oversized version) we tell her

which checkers to pick up... very simple, but she enjoys being with all of us

and doing a part of the game and my son, of course, loves the strategy part and

we like that we're just sitting down together and doing something quiet and

peaceful .  Any ideas on games?  Thanks  tara