Guest guest Posted March 28, 2008 Report Share Posted March 28, 2008 To anyone that can -please help: Subj: Question for a 63year old fine business man to regain his speech, Please Help My ex husband Mike ____ DOB 12-8-44 lives in a nursing home he is eight months out from his second stroke. I believe he wants to talk and has made sounds with me and tries . His facility has not been providing any speech therapy of substance . I terminated the speech therapist yesterday at a care plan meeting because she could not even tell me when she saw him last or tired to help him also at this care plan meeting she refused to discuss her reasons, she was very disappointing in general and was possibly terminated from the Hospital for poor communication skills herself. As I evaluated her demeanor and Mike together, He did not want her to help him any longer by the way he looked at her and me letting me know she has not been truthful in helping him, her repore was harsh for him and myself , she was curt and annoyed to even be ask a general question.I want him to have therapy that is going to benefit him to regain speech. He is on medicare/state medi medi I think, and under the care of the state. He has no speech therapy and has not had any of any significant form in my opinion, I find this difficult for him on top of the courage it takes for him to preserver , which he has taken great strides with his\ mobility, movement, etc. Now the current facility, ______ in ____ Ca, has suggested I bring in private help. I an not in a position to do that financially I am a chronic cancer survivor myself on disability. My question is what are his options now. Who can help and he is just becoming Mobil but its difficult to get him out of the facility for small outings in general. WE want a good speech therapist to be recommended and supplied , he is going for a swallowing test and I was told this would help determine where he was in speech regain from the test, is this true? I am thanking you for you time and attention to this mans ability to talk again. I am privileged to oversee his care out of genuine concern. Thank You to allow me to speak on his behalf and appreciate all input from all organizations this letter is sent copies to. Thank You everyone. looking forward to suggestions and all responces. Debra ===== Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2008 Report Share Posted March 28, 2008 It would seem if the current facility has terminated their current speech therapist...surely they are actively searching for a replacement. Many nursing homes use contract services as well. I would recommend she discuss this with his case manager. Is it possible Debra might observe some speech sessions to get an idea of what's really going on. Eight months post second stroke is a long time to not receive quality therapy. I don't really understand the comment about the swallow study. This type of study will only tell them if he (Mike) is able to eat and drink by mouth safely without risk of contracting a pneumonia; what diet modifications might need to be made. I would stay in constant and frequent contact with the nursing home; just my two-cents! Alan F. , MS, CCC/SLP Speech-Language Pathologist From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of kiddietalk Sent: Friday, March 28, 2008 1:06 PM Subject: [ ] Please send suggestions here if you have any To anyone that can -please help: Subj: Question for a 63year old fine business man to regain his speech, Please Help My ex husband Mike ____ DOB 12-8-44 lives in a nursing home he is eight months out from his second stroke. I believe he wants to talk and has made sounds with me and tries . His facility has not been providing any speech therapy of substance . I terminated the speech therapist yesterday at a care plan meeting because she could not even tell me when she saw him last or tired to help him also at this care plan meeting she refused to discuss her reasons, she was very disappointing in general and was possibly terminated from the Hospital for poor communication skills herself. As I evaluated her demeanor and Mike together, He did not want her to help him any longer by the way he looked at her and me letting me know she has not been truthful in helping him, her repore was harsh for him and myself , she was curt and annoyed to even be ask a general question.I want him to have therapy that is going to benefit him to regain speech. He is on medicare/state medi medi I think, and under the care of the state. He has no speech therapy and has not had any of any significant form in my opinion, I find this difficult for him on top of the courage it takes for him to preserver , which he has taken great strides with his\ mobility, movement, etc. Now the current facility, ______ in ____ Ca, has suggested I bring in private help. I an not in a position to do that financially I am a chronic cancer survivor myself on disability. My question is what are his options now. Who can help and he is just becoming Mobil but its difficult to get him out of the facility for small outings in general. WE want a good speech therapist to be recommended and supplied , he is going for a swallowing test and I was told this would help determine where he was in speech regain from the test, is this true? I am thanking you for you time and attention to this mans ability to talk again. I am privileged to oversee his care out of genuine concern. Thank You to allow me to speak on his behalf and appreciate all input from all organizations this letter is sent copies to. Thank You everyone. looking forward to suggestions and all responces. Debra ===== Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2008 Report Share Posted March 28, 2008 Alan THANK YOU!!! ===== Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2008 Report Share Posted March 29, 2008 Debra - I suggest Hyperbaric Oxygen Therapy. There is a group entitled NeuroHBOT. I just saw a post for a new group starting that address' how to fund it. So that group may have some answers as to how to afford. Although, under this circumstance, maybe insurance will pay it. To learn about it - get book The Oxygen Revolution - Harsch... and the other one, Hyperbaric Oxygen Therapy - Neubauer is good too. In a nut shell - this therapy is the only thing that can actually heal his brain enough so he can regain function. In fact, look for Dr. Harsch's web site - he's located in Louisiana. He's got a video of the recovery of a boy who sustained a massive brain injury. The boy is not perfect but he was sitting in a wheel chair unable to hold up his head and had no communication skill to I believe walking independantly with a cane and he works a basic job. I did a 40 dive session w/ my globally dypraxic/vaccine injured/heavy metal poisened son in September. There was another group while we were there 2 young men who had strokes, both were speaking and one woman who had MS. Our group had 3 boys w/ CP and my son. Speech therapy is stimulation but that's not going to come close to healing the brain injury. Best of luck, > > To anyone that can -please help: > > Subj: Question for a 63year old fine business man to regain his > speech, Please Help > > My ex husband Mike ____ DOB 12-8-44 lives in a > nursing home he is eight months out from his second stroke. I believe > he wants to talk and has made sounds with me and tries . His facility > has not been providing any speech therapy of substance . I > terminated the speech therapist yesterday at a care plan meeting > because she could not even tell me when she saw him last or tired to > help him also at this care plan meeting she refused to discuss her > reasons, she was very disappointing in general and was possibly > terminated from the Hospital for poor communication skills herself. > As I evaluated her demeanor and Mike together, He did not want her to > help him any longer by the way he looked at her and me letting me > know she has not been truthful in helping him, her repore was harsh > for him and myself , she was curt and annoyed to even be ask a > general question.I want him to have therapy that is going to benefit > him to regain speech. He is on medicare/state medi medi I think, and > under the care of the state. He has no speech therapy and has not had > any of any significant form in my opinion, I find this difficult for > him on top of the courage it takes for him to preserver , which he > has taken great strides with his\ mobility, movement, etc. Now the > current facility, ______ in ____ Ca, has suggested I bring in > private help. I an not in a position to do that financially I am a > chronic cancer survivor myself on disability. My question is what are > his options now. Who can help and he is just becoming Mobil but its > difficult to get him out of the facility for small outings in > general. WE want a good speech therapist to be recommended and > supplied , he is going for a swallowing test and I was told this > would help determine where he was in speech regain from the test, is > this true? I am thanking you for you time and attention to this mans > ability to talk again. > I am privileged to oversee his care out of genuine concern. > Thank You to allow me to speak on his behalf and appreciate all input > from all organizations this letter is sent copies to. Thank You > everyone. looking forward to suggestions and all responces. > Debra > > ===== > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2008 Report Share Posted March 29, 2008 If he is in a facility that does not provide services he needs then you could make an argument about transferring him to another facility. You should speak with his social worker who could explain to you how this is feasible. If speech is his main problem there is no question he should receive speech theapy regardless of his swallowing test. [ ] Please send suggestions here if you have any To anyone that can -please help: Subj: Question for a 63year old fine business man to regain his speech, Please Help My ex husband Mike ____ DOB 12-8-44 lives in a nursing home he is eight months out from his second stroke. I believe he wants to talk and has made sounds with me and tries . His facility has not been providing any speech therapy of substance . I terminated the speech therapist yesterday at a care plan meeting because she could not even tell me when she saw him last or tired to help him also at this care plan meeting she refused to discuss her reasons, she was very disappointing in general and was possibly terminated from the Hospital for poor communication skills herself. As I evaluated her demeanor and Mike together, He did not want her to help him any longer by the way he looked at her and me letting me know she has not been truthful in helping him, her repore was harsh for him and myself , she was curt and annoyed to even be ask a general question.I want him to have therapy that is going to benefit him to regain speech. He is on medicare/state medi medi I think, and under the care of the state. He has no speech therapy and has not had any of any significant form in my opinion, I find this difficult for him on top of the courage it takes for him to preserver , which he has taken great strides with his\ mobility, movement, etc. Now the current facility, ______ in ____ Ca, has suggested I bring in private help. I an not in a position to do that financially I am a chronic cancer survivor myself on disability. My question is what are his options now. Who can help and he is just becoming Mobil but its difficult to get him out of the facility for small outings in general. WE want a good speech therapist to be recommended and supplied , he is going for a swallowing test and I was told this would help determine where he was in speech regain from the test, is this true? I am thanking you for you time and attention to this mans ability to talk again. I am privileged to oversee his care out of genuine concern. Thank You to allow me to speak on his behalf and appreciate all input from all organizations this letter is sent copies to. Thank You everyone. looking forward to suggestions and all responces. Debra ===== Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2008 Report Share Posted March 29, 2008 A swallowing study is usually done to check his swallowing. He could be aspirating when he drinks and sometimes they will recommend using thickened fluids or a tube feeding. **************Create a Home Theater Like the Pros. Watch the video on AOL Home. (http://home.aol.com/diy/home-improvement-eric-stromer?video=15 & ncid=aolhom00030\ 000000001) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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