Guest guest Posted April 30, 2008 Report Share Posted April 30, 2008 That is a terrible story! It sounds like there are 7 accusers so far -- with 1 you might think " crackpot " , but 7? I did a lot of volunteer work with a sexual assault group when I lived in NYC, and I heard many stories of this nature first hand. Virtually every person who was abused as a child did not speak up at the time. The few who did were not taken seriously because they were " just kids " . FYI -- I don't have a link, but from my training I remember that the false accusation rate for all sexual assault is equal to the rate for all crimes, and that's a very low %. This is an excellent reminder for those of us here who see many doctors and therapists in all sorts of settings. There are very few times that a child needs to be alone with an adult behind closed doors. When you will not be with your child, always find out the situation your child will be in: will there be other therapists present? Does the door have a window? (This makes a difference!) Can the session be viewed remotely? Therapists/teachers/doctors should also protect themselves from false accusations as well, by having others present, leaving doors open, etc. Here is a link to information on the group I used to volunteer with. If any of you have unresolved issues from a past sexual assault, contact SAVI and speak to Iona Siegel. She is located in NYC, but I'm sure she could find you appropriate help in your neck of the woods. SAVI provides counseling to sexual assault survivors free of charge, as do most organizations of that type. And Iona is an unsung saint of a woman! She has devoted her life to helping people. http://www.barnard.columbia.edu/bcrw/guide/ST/SAVI.htm in NJ > > Dr. Mel Levine, the writer of various best selling books for > teaching " all kinds of minds " was accused of child abuse from 23 > years ago?! Did anyone see this? > http://youtube.com/watch?v=-hjTU8SzVFY > > Mel Levine, author of " All Kinds of Minds " practiced pediatrics at > Children's Hospital Boston from 1971 to 1985. On March 31, 2008, > attorney Carmen L. Durso filed a lawsuit on behalf of an unnamed > plaintiff, alleging that between 1980 and 1985, Levine performed > repeated and unnecessary physical examinations on his client, > including sexual acts. There are six other plaintiffs in the suit > with similar allegations. > > In explaining the 23-year delay in filing such a suit: > > The plaintiff who filed the lawsuit " was unable to recall and to > understand " the abuse until February 2006, the complaint said. It > says he has been in therapy since. > > After leaving Boston, Levine was a professor at the University of > North Carolina School of Medicine until 2006. In the last two years, > he held an " unpaid appointment as an adjunct professor at the > university, where he continued to see patients twice a month. " UNC > announced that Levine has volunteered not to see any patients until > the suit is resolved. > > In a faxed statement, Levine's lawyer, Mahoney of Boston, said > the doctor is innocent. > > " Dr. Mel Levine has provided pediatric care to more than 15,000 > children over 40 years and categorically denies that he has ever been > abusive in any way toward any patient, " said Mahoney, who questioned > the motives of the lawyer filing the suit. " He adamantly denies these > claims. Dr. Levine is distressed about the distorted or > misinterpreted memories from decades past and questions the > motivations. " > > The plaintiff " was unable to recall and to understand " > http://trusted.md/feed/items/system/2008/04/03/mel_levine_accused_of_s exual_abuse > > The website http://www.allkindsofminds.org/ > > Dr. Mel Levine is a Professor of Pediatrics at the University of > North Carolina Medical School in Chapel Hill, North Carolina. Dr. > Levine is also the co-founder of All Kinds of Minds, a non-profit > Institute for the study of differences in learning, with financier > R. Schwab. In addition, they co-chair the Institute's Board > of Trustees. > > Over the past thirty years Dr. Levine has pioneered programs for the > evaluation of children and young adults with learning, development > and/or behavioral problems. In 1995, Dr. Levine received the C. > Aldrich Award for outstanding contribution to the field of > child development, putting him in the company of Dr. Spock, > Dr. T. Berry Brazelton and Dr. Jerome Kagan, recipients of this > prestigious award in other years. > > Dr. Levine graduated summa cum laude from Brown University and was a > Scholar at Oxford in England. He later graduated from Harvard > Medical School and completed his pediatric training at The Children's > Hospital in Boston. Dr. Levine served for fourteen years as Chief of > the Division of Ambulatory Pediatrics at The Children's Hospital and > was an Associate Professor of Pediatrics at The Harvard Medical > School before moving to North Carolina. > > Dr. Levine's groundbreaking framework for understanding why children > struggle in school provides a straightforward, practical system for > recognizing variations in the way children learn and uses their > strengths to help them become more successful students. Properly > executed, this model can change lives by radically improving > prospects for success in and out of school. > > Publications by Dr. Mel Levine include: > > A Pediatric Approach to Learning Disorders > Developmental Variation and Learning Disorders (2nd Edition) > Developmental-Behavioral Pediatrics (3rd Edition) > All Kinds Of Minds > Educational Care > Keeping A Head In School > Jarvis Clutch - Social Spy > A Mind at a Time > The Myth of Laziness > Ready or Not, Here Life Comes > > More books here > http://www.epsbooks.com/dynamic/catalog/subject.asp?subject=73S > > ===== > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 30, 2008 Report Share Posted April 30, 2008 i have a quesiton about this... WHen I take my kids to their pediatrician - I am in the office with them, so wouldn't the parent know at that point if the dr. was doing something wrong???? Am I naive or something?? Am I the only one who does not leave (nor ever would leave) their kid alone with the pediatrician?? Cristal gtzellner@... [ ] Did anyone hear about Dr. Mel Levine?!!! Dr. Mel Levine, the writer of various best selling books for teaching " all kinds of minds " was accused of child abuse from 23 years ago?! Did anyone see this? http://youtube. com/watch? v=-hjTU8SzVFY Mel Levine, author of " All Kinds of Minds " practiced pediatrics at Children's Hospital Boston from 1971 to 1985. On March 31, 2008, attorney Carmen L. Durso filed a lawsuit on behalf of an unnamed plaintiff, alleging that between 1980 and 1985, Levine performed repeated and unnecessary physical examinations on his client, including sexual acts. There are six other plaintiffs in the suit with similar allegations. In explaining the 23-year delay in filing such a suit: The plaintiff who filed the lawsuit " was unable to recall and to understand " the abuse until February 2006, the complaint said. It says he has been in therapy since. After leaving Boston, Levine was a professor at the University of North Carolina School of Medicine until 2006. In the last two years, he held an " unpaid appointment as an adjunct professor at the university, where he continued to see patients twice a month. " UNC announced that Levine has volunteered not to see any patients until the suit is resolved. In a faxed statement, Levine's lawyer, Mahoney of Boston, said the doctor is innocent. " Dr. Mel Levine has provided pediatric care to more than 15,000 children over 40 years and categorically denies that he has ever been abusive in any way toward any patient, " said Mahoney, who questioned the motives of the lawyer filing the suit. " He adamantly denies these claims. Dr. Levine is distressed about the distorted or misinterpreted memories from decades past and questions the motivations. " The plaintiff " was unable to recall and to understand " http://trusted. md/feed/items/ system/2008/ 04/03/mel_ levine_accused_ of_sexual_ abuse The website http://www.allkinds ofminds.org/ Dr. Mel Levine is a Professor of Pediatrics at the University of North Carolina Medical School in Chapel Hill, North Carolina. Dr. Levine is also the co-founder of All Kinds of Minds, a non-profit Institute for the study of differences in learning, with financier R. Schwab. In addition, they co-chair the Institute's Board of Trustees. Over the past thirty years Dr. Levine has pioneered programs for the evaluation of children and young adults with learning, development and/or behavioral problems. In 1995, Dr. Levine received the C. Aldrich Award for outstanding contribution to the field of child development, putting him in the company of Dr. Spock, Dr. T. Berry Brazelton and Dr. Jerome Kagan, recipients of this prestigious award in other years. Dr. Levine graduated summa cum laude from Brown University and was a Scholar at Oxford in England. He later graduated from Harvard Medical School and completed his pediatric training at The Children's Hospital in Boston. Dr. Levine served for fourteen years as Chief of the Division of Ambulatory Pediatrics at The Children's Hospital and was an Associate Professor of Pediatrics at The Harvard Medical School before moving to North Carolina. Dr. Levine's groundbreaking framework for understanding why children struggle in school provides a straightforward, practical system for recognizing variations in the way children learn and uses their strengths to help them become more successful students. Properly executed, this model can change lives by radically improving prospects for success in and out of school. Publications by Dr. Mel Levine include: A Pediatric Approach to Learning Disorders Developmental Variation and Learning Disorders (2nd Edition) Developmental- Behavioral Pediatrics (3rd Edition) All Kinds Of Minds Educational Care Keeping A Head In School Jarvis Clutch - Social Spy A Mind at a Time The Myth of Laziness Ready or Not, Here Life Comes More books here http://www.epsbooks .com/dynamic/ catalog/subject. asp?subject= 73S ===== Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 30, 2008 Report Share Posted April 30, 2008 I'm always in the room with either of my boys- and we've had both male and female pediatricians both in Jersey and now in Florida. When they did exams (not every exam) every single one at one time or another examined my boys genitals. This is what the abuse is from when the child was 5 one said. I still am not clear what the actual abuse was? Taking too long to examine? This isn't sleeping in bed with children -this is part of a pediatric exam. I guess the only people that would know for sure what constitutes taking " too long " to exam genitals would be another medical doctor. I know in special needs children pediatricians do check this area for another reason too - lack of development can be a sign of certain syndromes. This probably would fall in the same line as a doctor who does a quick vs. a more thorough breast exam to check for changes in the breast tissue. If a doctor does a thorough breast exam could they be slapped with a sexual harassment suit as well? Here's an article I just found that gives both sides Accusations shock doctor's backers Noted pediatrician accused of abuses (Raleigh) News & Observer Boyles' reaction was visceral when she heard last week that Dr. Mel Levine, the pediatrician who treated her son for more than a decade, was accused of fondling patients. " I thought it was ridiculous, " said Boyles, a Raleigh lawyer. " And so did my son. " Levine is a world-famous child development expert credited with revolutionizing his field and propelling thousands of troubled children to success. He has written dozens of well-regarded books and trained teachers and doctors in several states. Last week, accusations that he improperly touched boys during physical exams became widely known when a Boston lawyer held a news conference, saying he represents five former patients in lawsuits against Levine. Since then, lawyers say, 40 people, several of them in North Carolina, have come forward to allege being molested by Levine, 68. Officials at the UNC School of Medicine, which has employed Levine since 1985, say they are investigating a similar complaint, received last weekend. Now, Levine's legions of fans -- patients, doctors and teachers -- are trying to reconcile the man they revere with the allegations that could destroy his career. Many parents see Levine as a savior, the first doctor to understand their children's unique struggles. Levine built his career by defying conventional wisdom about learning disabilities, refusing even to use the word disability or to diagnose children with specific disorders. Instead, he has espoused the idea that each child has a different learning style. He is widely described as a genius. Levine, who lives in Rougemont, declined to comment. " Dr. Levine has received an outpouring of support over the last couple of weeks, " said his Raleigh attorney, Alan Schneider. " For a man who has spent his entire life trying to save troubled families ... these are the worst type of allegations. It's heart wrenching. " Earlier cases dismissed Behind the scenes, such claims are not new to Levine, who has been a pediatrician since 1966, first in Massachusetts and then in Chapel Hill. Seven former patients, all of whom saw him in Massachusetts, have accused Levine of improper conduct. In 1988, a patient filed suit in federal court claiming that, upon every visit to Levine, he was asked to strip naked from the waist down and stand on a stool. Levine inspected the boy's genitals so closely that they touched Levine's face, the suit says. The suit was dismissed. In 1993, a patient who saw Levine for digestive problems filed a complaint with the Massachusetts Board of Registration in Medicine, claiming that Levine handled his genitals excessively. The board dismissed the complaint after Levine laid out a host of medical reasons for genital examinations in such patients. Since 2005, Boston lawyer Carmen Durso has filed five lawsuits that make similar claims. Durso, well known for representing several men who sued Catholic priests in Boston, said his clients had suppressed their experiences for years before having their memories triggered by events such as going to a pediatrician visit with a son or seeing Levine's books. 'The ray of hope' They are damaging allegations against a man whose life has been defined by success and acclaim. A native of New York, Levine graduated from Brown University and was a scholar before getting his medical degree from Harvard Medical School in 1966. He joinedin the Air Force during the Vietnam War and served as a pediatrician at an air base in the Philippines. Even as a teenager, he took an interest in troubled children. Bob Bolderson, now a yacht builder in Fort Lauderdale, Fla., said he was 9 years old when he met Levine, then a student at Brown. Levine was part of a club that mentored boys from poor and broken homes. Bolderson said Levine took him and other boys camping and mountain climbing and introduced them to classical music. " The ray of hope that many of us saw was the time we spent with Mel, " Bolderson said. Bolderson said he has talked to many of the boys Levine mentored at that time, and he has never heard a single allegation of inappropriate conduct. In 1985, UNC-CH recruited Levine from Children's Hospital in Boston. At Chapel Hill, he took over the Clinical Center for the Study of Development and Learning, which specializes in care for children with learning problems. His innovative approach -- he shunned labels such as attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and focused on detailed evaluations and individualized learning plans -- drew patients from across the country. Doctors also flocked to study at Levine's side. Many of Levine's patients were invited to his farm, where he keeps 240 geese, some of them rare and endangered species, along with pheasants, peacocks, swans and donkeys. He and his wife Barbara, known as " Bambi, " have no children. Levine, who submitted a 14-page autobiography to The News & Observer, described himself as a connoisseur of single malt scotches, a lover of poetry and an avid traveler. While in North Carolina, he published 13 widely read books on child development and, in 1995, founded a nonprofit institute called All Kinds of Minds, which offers teacher training and other services. During travels to promote his methods, Levine wrote in his autobiography, he realized " that I have a very vocal, vast, yet decidedly unsought, 'cult following.' " UNC knew of lawsuits Levine retired from UNC-CH, where his yearly salary was $258,000, to work full-time for the institute in 2006. Until the allegations surfaced, he continued to see patients there two days a month for no pay, said McCall, a spokeswoman for the School of Medicine. McCall said the university was aware of the lawsuits against Levine, but there were no judgments against him and, until last weekend, none of his North Carolina patients complained. She declined to comment on whether the university investigated after hearing of the lawsuits. " We thoroughly investigate any complaints and take appropriate action, " McCall said. Durso has enlisted the help of Raleigh lawyer Kuniholm to handle complaints that have surfaced in North Carolina. " I think these are very serious complaints, " Kuniholm said. She said she is weighing the possibility of filing suits in North Carolina, but the state's three-year statute of limitations may stop some of them. She said she will report allegations to the N.C. Medical Board, which licenses and disciplines doctors. Officials at the Medical Board say they are prohibited by state law from disclosing whether they have received complaints about Levine or whether they are investigating him. The board has never disciplined him. Dr. Schoener, a psychologist in Minnesota who treats victims and perpetrators of sex abuse, said abuse victims often suppress memories and come forward only after they hear of other victims. Schoener said that's why widespread molestation by priests went undiscovered for decades. " It's off the map, the number of people who think, 'I was the only one and that must mean that something is wrong with me,' " Schoener said. Allies defend Levine Levine's defenders say they worry that Levine's prominence has attracted people who hope for a payoff. Dr. Edwin Sumpter, a retired pediatrician, said he studied under Levine and watched him treat patients. He never saw anything inappropriate. Sumpter chafed at Durso's contention that genital exams are often unnecessary for children with learning disorders. Sumpter, who lives in Raleigh, said a child's sexual development can be linked to psychological disorders. " When you see a child you need to know the whole child, " Sumpter said. " It's quite different than with a fully formed adult. " Boyles said her son, , saw Levine about twice a year for more than a decade. She said physical exams were key to monitoring her son's progress, and she left the room to give her son privacy. She said Levine helped her son go from struggling in special education to flourishing in college. He is now a student in dental school, and Levine wrote his letter of recommendation. " Mel, when he met with kids, he just told them they could do anything; he inspired them, " Boyles said. " They walked out of there feeling good about themselves. " http://www.charlotte.com/breaking_news/story/577832.html ===== Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 30, 2008 Report Share Posted April 30, 2008 This is what I was wondering as well. Quite honestly-- any parent who DOES leave their child unattended with a medical personnel is just VERY unwise-- and there's no reason for it, so why even tempt fate? These poor kids could have been perfectly fine and protected if their parents just thought for two flat seconds Becky In a message dated 4/30/2008 9:50:17 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, gtzellner@... writes: i have a quesiton about this... WHen I take my kids to their pediatrician - I am in the office with them, so wouldn't the parent know at that point if the dr. was doing something wrong???? Am I naive or something?? Am I the only one who does not leave (nor ever would leave) their kid alone with the pediatrician? **************Need a new ride? Check out the largest site for U.S. used car listings at AOL Autos. (http://autos.aol.com/used?NCID=aolcmp00300000002851) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 1, 2008 Report Share Posted May 1, 2008 We are always present when a doctor sees our kids, but it is not uncommon for kids to be with doctors, therapists, piano teachers, etc. alone. At Children's Specialized, for example, tons of kids get bused there for therapy from daycares and other schools. The bus driver (not a health care profesional or a relative) drives the child, alone, to Children's, then they wait in the lobby while the child sees a therapist, alone, for an hour or more! Some therapy is public, like in the OT gym, but some is not. Speech is in closed- door offices. This is common practice in many places, and molestors are unbelievably good at sniffing out vulnerable children and jobs that provide access to them. Most children will be alone with an adult in authority more than once in their childhood, and they need to be taught what is OK, what is not, and that they can tell you anything. If your child has received pull-out services in a public school, he or she has probably been alone with their therapist. School nurses are alone with various kids all day long. Kids sent to the principal's office -- alone. The examples are endless. in NJ > > This is what I was wondering as well. Quite honestly-- any parent who DOES > leave their child unattended with a medical personnel is just VERY unwise-- > and there's no reason for it, so why even tempt fate? > These poor kids could have been perfectly fine and protected if their > parents just thought for two flat seconds > > > Becky > > > In a message dated 4/30/2008 9:50:17 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, > gtzellner@... writes: > > > > > i have a quesiton about this... WHen I take my kids to their pediatrician - > I am in the office with them, so wouldn't the parent know at that point if the > dr. was doing something wrong???? Am I naive or something?? Am I the only > one who does not leave (nor ever would leave) their kid alone with the > pediatrician? > > > > > > > > > **************Need a new ride? Check out the largest site for U.S. used car > listings at AOL Autos. > (http://autos.aol.com/used?NCID=aolcmp00300000002851) > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 1, 2008 Report Share Posted May 1, 2008 My kids were never alone with any doctor outside of when they were first born that is. Not saying we can't be too careful but I'm afraid of the other extreme which is where we are. What's really sad about this to me is that my son Tanner's favorite teacher 4 years ago from 1st grade used to pat him on the back or rub his head as she walked by which even then most considered a huge " no no " . She was very nurturing with the kids and wouldn't hesitate to give the kids hugs -and they would hug her back. It wasn't just Tanner that loved her -all the children loved her. She was awesome -but the exception today. I have to ask teachers to please give Tanner a tap on the back or a pat on the head as they pass by him - as he loves the sensory input. Due to law suits and allegations -teachers are so afraid to even touch a child - no less hug them! I've been told this.. " afraid " As outraged as I or anyone would be against anyone that would abuse a child -I'm also outraged by how sue crazy so many people are. Some people are even afraid to try to save someone's life because if they do it wrong they can be sued which is why they actually had to create " good Samaritan " laws to protect those that help! How sick is that? " Lawsuits have become commonplace in our society, so it is not surprising that some people fear taking actions to help people, even if it could save a life. Good intentions have sometimes not been rewarded. " http://www.yumasun.com/opinion/people_41225___article.html/surprising_aed.html or http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/153917/Woman_Sued_For_Good_Samaritan_Act Even if you hurt someone that breaks into your home you can be sued. http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,198988,00.html Honestly while I agree there may be many risks against our children - abuse by pediatrician spending too long on a genital exam is low on the list of concerns to me. First of all as many pointed out who would leave thier preschool child alone during any medical exam? Higher on the list is that pediatricians and other doctors become afraid of spending too much time examining the patient for fear of any accusation whether it's true or false that can ruin their career. Therapists and teachers -yes are alone -but pediatricians?! And let's not forget one career is already ruined prior to court. Dr. Mel Levine. What if he's innocent? Here's a letter about abuse by a pediatrician prior to the latest accusation. He better worry about those hugs today or 23 years from now ( Friday, September 08, 2006 Sexual Abuse by Medical Professionals Sexual abuse stories make headlines, especially when they involve the clergy and medical professionals. Doctors and other health care professionals who are accused of violating their oath and patient trust, who may have crossed over that thin line, tend to lose their licenses; and many even go to jail. Some, unfortunately, get away with overt sexual impropriety for years. Some are never caught or even accused. Some are even doing it today. It may have even happened to you. This story happened to a very good friend of mine. While I trust my friend and gave testimony in court on his character, there are always those lingering doubts. Did he violate this trust behind the closed doors of an examination room? Perhaps the only people who know the real truth are the two people that were actually there. One went to jail and lost everything...professional license, family, and savings account. The other bought a new house and car with the malpractice settlement. If he truly did the things he was accused of, then justice was served. If he was the victim of false accusations, then that person is going to have a lot of explaining to do in front of God someday. The medical encounter is a very sacred relationship. Patients not only bare their bodies, but they bare their souls. It is a privilege to care for others, but it is also an awesome responsibility. After my friend went to jail, I was so demoralized that I decided to leave the practice of medicine and go back to full-time medical education. This event changed me as well. I have returned to clinical practice again, after several years as a university professor, partly because I grew weary of whiny 30-year-old masters students, but mostly because I really missed clinical practice. I don't mind the whining of two-year olds. Patients can misinterpret examination components if the medical provider does not explain what they are doing, and why. For instance, a breast examination includes expressing the nipple for discharge or blood. If you don't tell the patient you are going to squeeze their nipple (and why), you could be in big trouble. In my recent Blog about " patients as sheep " , Carolyn wrote about her experience with her endocrinologist. He insisted that she be disrobed above the waist, in a paper gown open in the front, for a thyroid exam (neck). She also felt uncomfortable with the doctor's intimate demeanor. She refused to disrobe on a subsequent visit. Disrobing for a thyroid exam is not necessary. Carolyn listened to that sixth sense that women possess when situations are not what they should be. She stood up to this medical icon. Although she may not know it, but Carolyn may have changed the way this endocrinologist treats women in the future. She did not misinterpret those signals. My friend was accused of being sexually inappropriate during a seemingly-simple back examination for a work-related injury. I won't delve into the complex accusations of this case, but the judge (not a jury trial) felt that my friend did cross over the line, and used his professional status to intimidate a patient for his own sexual needs. My friend felt that he was just being thorough, and that he was set up in some elaborate malpractice insurance scheme for money? The real answers may never be known. In my heart, I felt he was innocent, but I also know that he made some terrible mistakes in judgment. It was his word against the patient, since he performed an intimate exam without a nurse being present to chaperone. He was sentenced to 7 years in prison. The patient (and her husband) was subsequently awarded hundreds of thousands of dollars in the civil suit. He has since completed his prison time and now works as a janitor at a bank. While in prison, he developed prostate cancer. He has gone on with his life, but a very different life than he imagined...a life that changed during one twenty-minute appointment. He will never don that white coat again. A PA friend, now an attorney, explained it to me this way: You are alone in an elevator with a woman. Just before the elevator door opens to a crowded lobby, she rips open her blouse, smears her make- up, and dishevels her hair. The door opens and she is screaming, pointing an accusatory finger at you. Assuming that there is not a surveillance camera in the elevator, you are going to have a difficult time defending an attempted rape charge. Could this same scenario happen in an examination room? You bet. Patients have certainly been victimized by their doctors, and I suspect there have been many doctors who have been victimized by their patients. The problem with human medicine is that both parties are human. Some are good; some are bad. I used to appropriately hug my adult patients without thinking, like the ones that just received some bad medical news. Hugs can heal as well as drugs. The last adult person that I hugged in an examination room was a crying man with his two-year old daughter. His wife, the child's mother, was just killed a few days before. She was struck in a crosswalk by a guy driving too fast while talking on a cell phone. Working in pediatrics, I receive and give a lot of kid hugs. The pediatric examination room is a safe venue since children are always accompanied by parents, grandparents, and siblings. The only real risk of kid hugs that I experience is the infectious disease transmission. I truly love my job and I can't imagine what it would be like to be falsely accused of sexual impropriety, or to lose my license to practice medicine. I don't know if my friend was guilty or not. He is my friend, so I will just hug him anyway. http://blogs.webmd.com/all-ears/2006/09/sexual-abuse-by-medical-professionals.ht\ ml ===== Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 1, 2008 Report Share Posted May 1, 2008 I have to say I had the whole first child going to school angst last year when daughter entered preK. Just general angst not distrust of teacher angst. Her teacher then, 's for next year, is a hugger and I love it. I trust her completely and have no concerns but I feel bad for parents and kids for whom that same trust is broken. This thing cuts both ways and is sad. I hope the story that started this thread gets sorted out and whatever the truth is comes out. > > My kids were never alone with any doctor outside of when they were > first born that is. > > Not saying we can't be too careful but I'm afraid of the other > extreme which is where we are. What's really sad about this to me is > that my son Tanner's favorite teacher 4 years ago from 1st grade used > to pat him on the back or rub his head as she walked by which even > then most considered a huge " no no " . She was very nurturing with the > kids and wouldn't hesitate to give the kids hugs -and they would hug > her back. It wasn't just Tanner that loved her -all the children > loved her. She was awesome -but the exception today. I have to ask > teachers to please give Tanner a tap on the back or a pat on the > head as they pass by him - as he loves the sensory input. Due to law > suits and allegations -teachers are so afraid to even touch a child - > no less hug them! I've been told this.. " afraid " > > As outraged as I or anyone would be against anyone that would abuse a > child -I'm also outraged by how sue crazy so many people are. Some > people are even afraid to try to save someone's life because if they > do it wrong they can be sued which is why they actually had to > create " good Samaritan " laws to protect those that help! How sick is > that? > " Lawsuits have become commonplace in our society, so it is not > surprising that some people fear taking actions to help people, even > if it could save a life. Good intentions have sometimes not been > rewarded. " > http://www.yumasun.com/opinion/people_41225___article.html/surprising_ aed.html > or > http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/153917/Woman_Sued_For_Good_Samar itan_Act > > Even if you hurt someone that breaks into your home you can be sued. > http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,198988,00.html > > Honestly while I agree there may be many risks against our children - > abuse by pediatrician spending too long on a genital exam is low on > the list of concerns to me. First of all as many pointed out who > would leave thier preschool child alone during any medical exam? > Higher on the list is that pediatricians and other doctors become > afraid of spending too much time examining the patient for fear of > any accusation whether it's true or false that can ruin their career. > > Therapists and teachers -yes are alone -but pediatricians?! > And let's not forget one career is already ruined prior to court. > Dr. Mel Levine. What if he's innocent? > > Here's a letter about abuse by a pediatrician prior to the latest > accusation. He better worry about those hugs today > or 23 years from now ( > > Friday, September 08, 2006 > Sexual Abuse by Medical Professionals > > > Sexual abuse stories make headlines, especially when they involve the > clergy and medical professionals. Doctors and other health care > professionals who are accused of violating their oath and patient > trust, who may have crossed over that thin line, tend to lose their > licenses; and many even go to jail. > > Some, unfortunately, get away with overt sexual impropriety for > years. Some are never caught or even accused. Some are even doing it > today. It may have even happened to you. > > This story happened to a very good friend of mine. While I trust my > friend and gave testimony in court on his character, there are always > those lingering doubts. Did he violate this trust behind the closed > doors of an examination room? > > Perhaps the only people who know the real truth are the two people > that were actually there. One went to jail and lost > everything...professional license, family, and savings account. The > other bought a new house and car with the malpractice settlement. If > he truly did the things he was accused of, then justice was served. > If he was the victim of false accusations, then that person is going > to have a lot of explaining to do in front of God someday. > > The medical encounter is a very sacred relationship. Patients not > only bare their bodies, but they bare their souls. It is a privilege > to care for others, but it is also an awesome responsibility. > > After my friend went to jail, I was so demoralized that I decided to > leave the practice of medicine and go back to full-time medical > education. This event changed me as well. I have returned to clinical > practice again, after several years as a university professor, partly > because I grew weary of whiny 30-year-old masters students, but > mostly because I really missed clinical practice. I don't mind the > whining of two-year olds. > > Patients can misinterpret examination components if the medical > provider does not explain what they are doing, and why. For instance, > a breast examination includes expressing the nipple for discharge or > blood. If you don't tell the patient you are going to squeeze their > nipple (and why), you could be in big trouble. > > In my recent Blog about " patients as sheep " , Carolyn wrote about her > experience with her endocrinologist. He insisted that she be disrobed > above the waist, in a paper gown open in the front, for a thyroid > exam (neck). She also felt uncomfortable with the doctor's intimate > demeanor. She refused to disrobe on a subsequent visit. > > Disrobing for a thyroid exam is not necessary. Carolyn listened to > that sixth sense that women possess when situations are not what they > should be. She stood up to this medical icon. Although she may not > know it, but Carolyn may have changed the way this endocrinologist > treats women in the future. She did not misinterpret those signals. > > My friend was accused of being sexually inappropriate during a > seemingly-simple back examination for a work-related injury. I won't > delve into the complex accusations of this case, but the judge (not a > jury trial) felt that my friend did cross over the line, and used his > professional status to intimidate a patient for his own sexual needs. > > My friend felt that he was just being thorough, and that he was set > up in some elaborate malpractice insurance scheme for money? The real > answers may never be known. In my heart, I felt he was innocent, but > I also know that he made some terrible mistakes in judgment. It was > his word against the patient, since he performed an intimate exam > without a nurse being present to chaperone. > > He was sentenced to 7 years in prison. The patient (and her husband) > was subsequently awarded hundreds of thousands of dollars in the > civil suit. > > He has since completed his prison time and now works as a janitor at > a bank. While in prison, he developed prostate cancer. He has gone on > with his life, but a very different life than he imagined...a life > that changed during one twenty-minute appointment. He will never don > that white coat again. > > A PA friend, now an attorney, explained it to me this way: You are > alone in an elevator with a woman. Just before the elevator door > opens to a crowded lobby, she rips open her blouse, smears her make- > up, and dishevels her hair. The door opens and she is screaming, > pointing an accusatory finger at you. Assuming that there is not a > surveillance camera in the elevator, you are going to have a > difficult time defending an attempted rape charge. > > Could this same scenario happen in an examination room? You bet. > > Patients have certainly been victimized by their doctors, and I > suspect there have been many doctors who have been victimized by > their patients. The problem with human medicine is that both parties > are human. Some are good; some are bad. > > I used to appropriately hug my adult patients without thinking, like > the ones that just received some bad medical news. Hugs can heal as > well as drugs. The last adult person that I hugged in an examination > room was a crying man with his two-year old daughter. His wife, the > child's mother, was just killed a few days before. She was struck in > a crosswalk by a guy driving too fast while talking on a cell phone. > > Working in pediatrics, I receive and give a lot of kid hugs. The > pediatric examination room is a safe venue since children are always > accompanied by parents, grandparents, and siblings. The only real > risk of kid hugs that I experience is the infectious disease > transmission. I truly love my job and I can't imagine what it would > be like to be falsely accused of sexual impropriety, or to lose my > license to practice medicine. > > I don't know if my friend was guilty or not. He is my friend, so I > will just hug him anyway. > http://blogs.webmd.com/all-ears/2006/09/sexual-abuse-by-medical- professionals.html > > ===== > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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