His behavior is getting out of control at school. What can we do???

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My 3 year old son, on, is in the PPCD program with our CO-op. He is

learning so much but struggles with his behavior on a daily basis. Time out

doesn't work, rewards given and taken away doesn't work. He hates to do his

work. He has been potty trained for a bit and finds it funny to pee his pants

when he is angry. His teacher and I are almost mortal enemies. Thank goodness

for the Teacher's Aide. She is the only one he feels love from. When she's not

there, we can almost guarentee a total meltdown multiple times throughout the

day. At home, he's not as tempermental. We have struggles but not like at

school. One on one time with him is so wonderful. He si so smart and funny.

Even though his speech is hard to understand- Mom gets it. Dad stills has to

ask me to interpret. When he was younger, the fits were so bad, we kept going

in public to a minimum. I felt like a hostage to his behavior. When he woke up

from his long nap, was he going to be sweet and loving or was he going to be

miserable to be around? I need some help.