Re: upset now

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Thank you. Yes this is definatley the worst year of school for my yet. I do not

know if  my state has that type of school or not. It sounds like a good

alternative though. Well I think one of the problems is the fact my son keeps

mentioning to me he does not like his one on one aide this year. I have tried

several times to have discussions about with the specail ed person at school.

Getting the same thing nothing wrong. Aide talks like a church mouse to my son

she could not be possibly yelling at my son. he tells me she is though. 

 

 My son when he walks inthe door tells me aide (the name) yelled at me today.

But when asked tells me no answer. I look find this note sent home in my sons

daily planner telling me that my son took another students pencil and cut off

the eraser into little pieces for no reason and did it on purpose. plus she

wrote he thought it was funny. Now the note had a few cross outs through the

writing and the way it was written looks like the aide was mad when she wrote

it.

 

I asked my son further questions and he still will not tell  me much. I think 

there must of been something to cause my son to do this . This is such a stupid

and small thing for a kid to do. Take someones pencil and cut the eraser off

into little pieces. I know it was wrong to do.

 

But this note i got sent home to me just seemed in the tone of bbeing way to

upset for sucha little thing. My son has never done anything to require a note

in regards to behavior before. He says she yelled at him. i believe he got

yelled at.

 

He si in sensory overload and reacting int he way to suggest he got yelled at.

He does not do well when yelled at especially in his face. Itscares a lot

when people raise their voice even in conversation. he goe sinto major meltdown

emotionally.

 

Boy do I wish June was hwere. I can not wit for 4th grade to be over.

Jeanne

NH

From: sharon lang <flipperlang@...>

Subject: Re: [ ]

Date: Thursday, January 29, 2009, 12:58 PM

Hi Jeanne,

 

 

I am so sorry to hear about your son's struggles.  That is just sad to hear.

 

I was wondering if there is any type of virtual academy in NH.  In GA the kids

can go to the school over the internet.  It is technically home schooling, but

you don't have to plan any lessons or write tests, it is all done on the

computer.

 

Just a thought.   Hang in there.  We had a year like that .  Every day Maddy

told me she did not want to go and I really blame myself for pushing her.   I

should have listened to her, but she needed the academics.  It was her worst

year by far.  She was not abused, but she was neglected.

 

 

In GA this option is called the virtual academy.  I am sure the DOE in NH will

know if they have something similar or not.

 

Sharon