Guest guest Posted June 2, 2005 Report Share Posted June 2, 2005 In a message dated 6/2/2005 6:58:51 PM Eastern Standard Time, angel_alysn@... writes: Hello all I am trying to get my just 4 year old son set up for school in the fall. I have contacted my counties office of education and they refered me to the proper school district...now what? how do i set up an IEP? is it done through the school between them and I? and what is involved ?? so they do testing? etc..im have no idea what im doing, any info would be greatly appreciated!!! Mandee Hi Mandee, You contact your local school system - the director of student services or the school principal - both should be able to get you started. First, the school will want to do evaluations to determine if your child is eligible for special education services. So that would be the first part - contact them and let them know you have a child with a disability and feel he needs sped services. Get the testing done. Then you will have a meeting to discuss the results of the testing. If the team (including you) feels that he does require sped services, then you and the team will have a meeting to write an IEP. Roxanna ô¿ô Don't take life too seriously; No one gets out alive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 3, 2005 Report Share Posted June 3, 2005 Mandee, Set up an I.E.P. Ask for the Conners set of questions to fill out, for yourself and for his teacher. If that doesn't work, have him neurologically tested by a professional. B. angel_alysn <angel_alysn@...> wrote: Hello all I am trying to get my just 4 year old son set up for school in the fall. I have contacted my counties office of education and they refered me to the proper school district...now what? how do i set up an IEP? is it done through the school between them and I? and what is involved ?? so they do testing? etc..im have no idea what im doing, any info would be greatly appreciated!!! Mandee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 3, 2005 Report Share Posted June 3, 2005 Hi Mandee, Only have a moment. Call the school and ask about their special education services for your son. If he already has a diagnosis, they might just go with it, want a copy of something " official " from the doctor, etc. They might also do their own testing. Have some idea of the areas you think he is weak in, could use help. Speech/language? Motor skills? Help with behavior (whether sitting still, listening to teacher, understanding instructions - oops, that might be language - social problems....just things to point out. Even any suspicions you have that " something " isn't right. Go to www.wrightslaw.com (think it's .com) They're great for IEPs. This is the link to a parent handbook given out in NC. It might help you: http://www.ncpublicschools.org/ec/policy/resources/rights And if the phone call for any reason doesn't go well - write a letter requesting testing/evaluation for special education services. And after that always follow things up in writing, etc., to leave you a paper trail for any problems that might arise. OK, all above jumbled and quickly typed. Let us know how things go. I know others will have much better thought out ideas! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 3, 2005 Report Share Posted June 3, 2005 _Learning Disabilities OnLine: LD In-Depth: Understanding the Special Education Process_ (http://www.ldonline.org/ld_indepth/special_education/sped_overview.html) This article may help a bit. You need to request an evaluation, in writing, to your district's special education office. As of July 1st, the evaluation will need to be conducted within 60 school days, and that now includes summer days. The team will then meet to go over your child's evaluations and eligibility for special education services. If your child is found eligible, the IEP may be written at the same meeting. Just a note, that the evaluation and eligibility process is changing with IDEA. They are trying to lessen the amount of children found eligible and are now engaging in an early response intervention system, which provides " support " for children who are referred for services for 30 days to see if that is enough for them to make process, rather than putting them immediately into special education. It is suppose to be a way to become more aligned with No Child Left Behind and reduce paperwork. Can you tell I just came back from a 3 day summit about the IDEIA 2004 changes? Argghhh... Pam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 3, 2005 Report Share Posted June 3, 2005 In a message dated 6/3/2005 9:00:31 PM Eastern Standard Time, angel_alysn@... writes: My son was already diagnosed by a pediatric neurologist...as dx of AS and a sleep disorder. Does the school still need to do testing for his IEP? Bartelt <doc4843@...> wrote:Mandee, Yes, they will likely do their own testing. They might accept some of your tests and be able to use those. But you will have to decide if you want to share your testing with them and then find out if they can use anything or prefer to do their own. Roxanna ô¿ô Don't take life too seriously; No one gets out alive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 4, 2005 Report Share Posted June 4, 2005 My son was already diagnosed by a pediatric neurologist...as dx of AS and a sleep disorder. Does the school still need to do testing for his IEP? Bartelt <doc4843@...> wrote:Mandee, Set up an I.E.P. Ask for the Conners set of questions to fill out, for yourself and for his teacher. If that doesn't work, have him neurologically tested by a professional. B. angel_alysn <angel_alysn@...> wrote: Hello all I am trying to get my just 4 year old son set up for school in the fall. I have contacted my counties office of education and they refered me to the proper school district...now what? how do i set up an IEP? is it done through the school between them and I? and what is involved ?? so they do testing? etc..im have no idea what im doing, any info would be greatly appreciated!!! Mandee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 5, 2007 Report Share Posted June 5, 2007 Hi. I too have a son with Asperger's. He is 16, 10th grade and doesn't feel he needs to attend school either. He has missed over 30 days of school this year, but goes sporadically when he "feels like it". He is not doing well academically, despite a high IQ. I am including a few links that I would recommend you read through before going to your meeting. Your son is at the "age of Transition" and transition will need to be addressed as part of your IEP meeting. Pam TEACCH - High Functioning Autism IEP Checklist Transition and the IEP See what's free at AOL.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 5, 2007 Report Share Posted June 5, 2007 Hi. I would say that since he's so smart and KNOWS it....hee hee......and the fact that TACT and our kids don't seem to mix,,,,,,,,,,,whether you have an aide with him or not,,,,,there are going to be times when he lets the teachers, etc, know how he feels about school.....so to speak. My main thing is that I would make sure they ALL understand him. That they all understand that this is his way. That when his "intelligence" comes up or like with my son,,,,,,if yours says something to the effect of , "I already know this.......this is insignificant and stupid".....well,,,,,I'd make sure it's in his IEP that he isn't punished for this........corrected and reminded - yes,,,,,,,,,,but not punished. Bottom line for me is that anyone that may deal with Ian,,,,KNOWS Ian.......... Good luck. RobinDarran & <bunchomillers@...> wrote: I need some opinions...I have my ds (HFA) IEP this coming Wednesday andwith the short notice, I want to be prepared as this is my first IEPsince his dx. He is going into 9th grade this fall and I want to be surethat we make this transition into hs goes as smooth as possible. He hasissues with large groups, inappropriate behaviors (verbal and physical),he feels he shouldn't have to attend school since his IQ is 130...I amplanning on requesting an aide for him to help keep him on task andtransportation. What else should I be requesting??? His behaviors are sosimilar to what I have been reading on this group and I just wondered ifanyone can give me some additional assistance/opinions on what would behelpfu.Thank you so much for your time and help Park yourself in front of a world of choices in alternative vehicles.Visit the Auto Green Center. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 5, 2007 Report Share Posted June 5, 2007 Thank you so much for your help with this..... the websites are great and I feel more prepared now than I was before. I've typed up some info to hand out at the meeting. I pray that all goes well.............after all it is the day before summer vacation (how much will anyone be willing to actually work) sorry..........poor attitude. -- Re: ( ) IEP help Hi. I too have a son with Asperger's. He is 16, 10th grade and doesn't feel he needs to attend school either. He has missed over 30 days of school this year, but goes sporadically when he "feels like it". He is not doing well academically, despite a high IQ. I am including a few links that I would recommend you read through before going to your meeting. Your son is at the "age of Transition" and transition will need to be addressed as part of your IEP meeting. Pam TEACCH - High Functioning Autism IEP Checklist Transition and the IEP See what's free at AOL.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 5, 2007 Report Share Posted June 5, 2007 Thanks for your help. I am so prepared to help in any way.......I will over load them with info on his past and what works with Eddie. I am a stay at home mom as I have 4 other children but I have and will make the time to make the calls and the meetings. I have a list of things ready to throw at them in the morning and I will fight for what ever is best for Eddie.....afterall, if I don't fight for him who will??? -- Re: ( ) IEP help Hi. I would say that since he's so smart and KNOWS it....hee hee......and the fact that TACT and our kids don't seem to mix,,,,,,,,,,,whether you have an aide with him or not,,,,,there are going to be times when he lets the teachers, etc, know how he feels about school.....so to speak. My main thing is that I would make sure they ALL understand him. That they all understand that this is his way. That when his "intelligence" comes up or like with my son,,,,,,if yours says something to the effect of , "I already know this.......this is insignificant and stupid".....well,,,,,I'd make sure it's in his IEP that he isn't punished for this........corrected and reminded - yes,,,,,,,,,,but not punished. Bottom line for me is that anyone that may deal with Ian,,,,KNOWS Ian.......... Good luck. RobinDarran & <bunchomillersverizon (DOT) net> wrote: I need some opinions...I have my ds (HFA) IEP this coming Wednesday andwith the short notice, I want to be prepared as this is my first IEPsince his dx. He is going into 9th grade this fall and I want to be surethat we make this transition into hs goes as smooth as possible. He hasissues with large groups, inappropriate behaviors (verbal and physical),he feels he shouldn't have to attend school since his IQ is 130...I amplanning on requesting an aide for him to help keep him on task andtransportation. What else should I be requesting??? His behaviors are sosimilar to what I have been reading on this group and I just wondered ifanyone can give me some additional assistance/opinions on what would behelpfu.Thank you so much for your time and help Park yourself in front of a world of choices in alternative vehicles.Visit the Auto Green Center. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 6, 2007 Report Share Posted June 6, 2007 Just wanted to add that I bought and gave this book to my son's IEP team. Book Order: Unlocking the Puzzle You don't have to buy it. Some people print it out, but it is long. I wanted to give them a hard copy so they could pass it around to each teacher for them to read and understand. Pam :)See what's free at AOL.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 6, 2007 Report Share Posted June 6, 2007 , I just wanted to say good luck at your IEP today. I have our first IEP since our son’s dx a couple of months ago today also. He’s going into 1st grade though. ~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 8, 2010 Report Share Posted July 8, 2010 Anyone have sample letters for a toileting plan, speech plan and OT plan for an IEP. Andy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 If the behaviors are affecting either his education or that of the other kids (highly distracting) then the school needs to put a plan in place. You can make a complaint if you feel that the school is not meeting their legally required responsibility to identify and provide FAPE for your child. Socialization is part of the education process and they can't ignore it. Kathy J. On 4/14/11, michelleS <shellspace71@...> wrote: > My son recently had an evaluation (requested by me after the school denied > him an IEP, it was paid for by the school). The results were NVLD and HF > autism. He is in 2nd grade , 8 yrs old and also has OCD and anxiety. The > school again denied him an IEP because academically he is functioning at a > second grade level ( although testing showed alot of skills to be Much > higher). Behaviorally he has issues which they say are sporadic ( but seem > to happen alot in my opinion) and some such as pulling his private out in > the hall at the school seem rather serious ( he has also tackled girls and > is very easily manipulated by other kids). Do I have a chance getting any > help? They just keep saying since he is functioning at grade level they will > not do any plan. > Thanks, > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 Seek out an advocate. Most are free.Ask other parents.I have never ever paid for an advocate. We have used non-profit places.Sent from my Palm Pre on the Now Network from SprintOn Apr 14, 2011 5:53 PM, Kathy <rrabbits@...> wrote: If the behaviors are affecting either his education or that of the other kids (highly distracting) then the school needs to put a plan in place. You can make a complaint if you feel that the school is not meeting their legally required responsibility to identify and provide FAPE for your child. Socialization is part of the education process and they can't ignore it. Kathy J. On 4/14/11, michelleS <shellspace71@...> wrote: > My son recently had an evaluation (requested by me after the school denied > him an IEP, it was paid for by the school). The results were NVLD and HF > autism. He is in 2nd grade , 8 yrs old and also has OCD and anxiety. The > school again denied him an IEP because academically he is functioning at a > second grade level ( although testing showed alot of skills to be Much > higher). Behaviorally he has issues which they say are sporadic ( but seem > to happen alot in my opinion) and some such as pulling his private out in > the hall at the school seem rather serious ( he has also tackled girls and > is very easily manipulated by other kids). Do I have a chance getting any > help? They just keep saying since he is functioning at grade level they will > not do any plan. > Thanks, > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 , When dealing with a child, a school not only has to deal with academics but behaviors too. If he is having behavior issues they HAVE to deal with those. If his socials skills are low and his pro-vocational skills are low then they should address this with an IEP. You want to handle any behavior issues now while he is still young before he gets older and they might get worse. I would request to speak to the director of special ed for the district. Let him/her know your son's diagnosis and issues and ask what can be done to help him. Behavior issues often impeed on academic skills eventually if it interfers enough. I'm speaking from experience. Good luck and let us know how it goes. ne From: michelleS <shellspace71@...>Subject: ( ) IEP help Date: Thursday, April 14, 2011, 8:07 AM My son recently had an evaluation (requested by me after the school denied him an IEP, it was paid for by the school). The results were NVLD and HF autism. He is in 2nd grade , 8 yrs old and also has OCD and anxiety. The school again denied him an IEP because academically he is functioning at a second grade level ( although testing showed alot of skills to be Much higher). Behaviorally he has issues which they say are sporadic ( but seem to happen alot in my opinion) and some such as pulling his private out in the hall at the school seem rather serious ( he has also tackled girls and is very easily manipulated by other kids). Do I have a chance getting any help? They just keep saying since he is functioning at grade level they will not do any plan. Thanks, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 Does anyone know: Is a school required to give this mom prior written notice if she asks for it since her kid doesn't have an IEP? On Thu, Apr 14, 2011 at 8:38 PM, susanne hansen <s_hansen34@...> wrote: , When dealing with a child, a school not only has to deal with academics but behaviors too. If he is having behavior issues they HAVE to deal with those. If his socials skills are low and his pro-vocational skills are low then they should address this with an IEP. You want to handle any behavior issues now while he is still young before he gets older and they might get worse. I would request to speak to the director of special ed for the district. Let him/her know your son's diagnosis and issues and ask what can be done to help him. Behavior issues often impeed on academic skills eventually if it interfers enough. I'm speaking from experience. Good luck and let us know how it goes. ne From: michelleS <shellspace71@...>Subject: ( ) IEP help Date: Thursday, April 14, 2011, 8:07 AM My son recently had an evaluation (requested by me after the school denied him an IEP, it was paid for by the school). The results were NVLD and HF autism. He is in 2nd grade , 8 yrs old and also has OCD and anxiety. The school again denied him an IEP because academically he is functioning at a second grade level ( although testing showed alot of skills to be Much higher). Behaviorally he has issues which they say are sporadic ( but seem to happen alot in my opinion) and some such as pulling his private out in the hall at the school seem rather serious ( he has also tackled girls and is very easily manipulated by other kids). Do I have a chance getting any help? They just keep saying since he is functioning at grade level they will not do any plan. Thanks, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 If they are refusing her an IEP then Yes, they are required to give her prior written notice as to why they are determining him inelegible. ne From: michelleS <shellspace71@...>Subject: ( ) IEP help Date: Thursday, April 14, 2011, 8:07 AM My son recently had an evaluation (requested by me after the school denied him an IEP, it was paid for by the school). The results were NVLD and HF autism. He is in 2nd grade , 8 yrs old and also has OCD and anxiety. The school again denied him an IEP because academically he is functioning at a second grade level ( although testing showed alot of skills to be Much higher). Behaviorally he has issues which they say are sporadic ( but seem to happen alot in my opinion) and some such as pulling his private out in the hall at the school seem rather serious ( he has also tackled girls and is very easily manipulated by other kids). Do I have a chance getting any help? They just keep saying since he is functioning at grade level they will not do any plan. Thanks, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 14, 2011 Report Share Posted April 14, 2011 They have always said he doesn't fit any criteria even with the behaviors and diagnosis. this is coming from the director of special ed. I have been up against this for 3 years and gain a bit each round but it goes on and on. I got the independent evaluation paid for this round but they aren't even using the iformation they got from this to help him. Very frustrating. > > > From: michelleS <shellspace71@...> > Subject: ( ) IEP help > > Date: Thursday, April 14, 2011, 8:07 AM > > > Â > > My son recently had an evaluation (requested by me after the school denied him an IEP, it was paid for by the school). The results were NVLD and HF autism. He is in 2nd grade , 8 yrs old and also has OCD and anxiety. The school again denied him an IEP because academically he is functioning at a second grade level ( although testing showed alot of skills to be Much higher). Behaviorally he has issues which they say are sporadic ( but seem to happen alot in my opinion) and some such as pulling his private out in the hall at the school seem rather serious ( he has also tackled girls and is very easily manipulated by other kids). Do I have a chance getting any help? They just keep saying since he is functioning at grade level they will not do any plan. > Thanks, > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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