Re: Jeanne Buesser's Husband Passed Away Today

[Guest guest]

What a horrible shock! Their family will be in our prayers.

Nora Middleton

San Diego

On Jan 14, 2010, at 9:49 AM, kiddietalk wrote:

> Jeanne Buesser who has spent the last decade outreaching to all of

> us as a parent advocate for the Cherab Foundation, just let us know

> about a new book she wants to self publish to help raise awareness

> about children with apraxia, who wrote for Exceptional Parent

> magazine " A Parent's Worst Nightmare " about her journey of losing

> her first son Danny to cancer at 4, her middle son Adam is diagnosed

> with apraxia and ADHD, and her youngest Josh is diagnosed with

> autism...walked in to her house today to find her husband Ray dead

> on the floor in their home.

>

> The children (Adam and Josh)are currently still at school right now

> and I'm not in New Jersey to go over to her home to help her. I'm

> sending this out in hopes that some of you will be able to outreach

> to help her as this is a person who's already been through so much -

> who is going to need so much help right now.

>

> This is a young family and I'm sure Jeanne is going to need guidance

> on how to tell the children about the loss of their father.

>

> The following is Jeanne's information if anyone wants to reach out

> to help

>

> Jeanne Buesser

>

> 513 n Lane

>

> Paramus, NJ 07652

>

> (201)-741-4035 (cell)

>

> E-mail jbmistletoe@...

>

> Here's Jeanne's article " A Parent's Worst Nightmare "

> http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_go2827/is_2_32/ai_n6792565/

>

> Unfortunately today is not only a parent's worst nightmare as well,

> but a child's worst nightmare.

>

> =====

>

[Guest guest]

Oh my God... my heart is so heavy right now.  State of shock... Thank you for

letting us know.

Creager

________________________________

From: kiddietalk <kiddietalk@...>

Sent: Thu, January 14, 2010 12:49:08 PM

Subject: [ ] Jeanne Buesser's Husband Passed Away Today

 

Jeanne Buesser who has spent the last decade outreaching to all of us as a

parent advocate for the Cherab Foundation, just let us know about a new book she

wants to self publish to help raise awareness about children with apraxia, who

wrote for Exceptional Parent magazine " A Parent's Worst Nightmare " about her

journey of losing her first son Danny to cancer at 4, her middle son Adam is

diagnosed with apraxia and ADHD, and her youngest Josh is diagnosed with

autism...walked in to her house today to find her husband Ray dead on the floor

in their home.

The children (Adam and Josh)are currently still at school right now and I'm not

in New Jersey to go over to her home to help her. I'm sending this out in hopes

that some of you will be able to outreach to help her as this is a person who's

already been through so much -who is going to need so much help right now.

This is a young family and I'm sure Jeanne is going to need guidance on how to

tell the children about the loss of their father.

The following is Jeanne's information if anyone wants to reach out to help

Jeanne Buesser

513 n Lane

Paramus, NJ 07652

(201)-741-4035 (cell)

E-mail jbmistletoe@ optonline. net

Here's Jeanne's article " A Parent's Worst Nightmare "

http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_go2827/is_2_32/ai_n6792565/

Unfortunately today is not only a parent's worst nightmare as well, but a

child's worst nightmare.

=====

[Guest guest]

Oh, how awful...I can't even imagine...makes my " troubles " seem pale in

comparison.  My prayers go out to her and the children.....

in OH

________________________________

From: kiddietalk <kiddietalk@...>

Sent: Thu, January 14, 2010 12:49:08 PM

Subject: [ ] Jeanne Buesser's Husband Passed Away Today

 

Jeanne Buesser who has spent the last decade outreaching to all of us as a

parent advocate for the Cherab Foundation, just let us know about a new book she

wants to self publish to help raise awareness about children with apraxia, who

wrote for Exceptional Parent magazine " A Parent's Worst Nightmare " about her

journey of losing her first son Danny to cancer at 4, her middle son Adam is

diagnosed with apraxia and ADHD, and her youngest Josh is diagnosed with

autism...walked in to her house today to find her husband Ray dead on the floor

in their home.

The children (Adam and Josh)are currently still at school right now and I'm not

in New Jersey to go over to her home to help her. I'm sending this out in hopes

that some of you will be able to outreach to help her as this is a person who's

already been through so much -who is going to need so much help right now.

This is a young family and I'm sure Jeanne is going to need guidance on how to

tell the children about the loss of their father.

The following is Jeanne's information if anyone wants to reach out to help

Jeanne Buesser

513 n Lane

Paramus, NJ 07652

(201)-741-4035 (cell)

E-mail jbmistletoe@ optonline. net

Here's Jeanne's article " A Parent's Worst Nightmare "

http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_go2827/is_2_32/ai_n6792565/

Unfortunately today is not only a parent's worst nightmare as well, but a

child's worst nightmare.

=====

[Guest guest]

oh my goodness..how tragic! I'll be sure to extend my deepest of sympathy's. She

is the first person that reached out and sent me tons of literature when I found

out my son had apraxia..5 y.o..

From:

[mailto: ] On Behalf Of G

Sent: Thursday, January 14, 2010 1:43 PM

Subject: Re: [ ] Jeanne Buesser's Husband Passed Away Today

Oh, how awful...I can't even imagine...makes my " troubles " seem pale in

comparison. My prayers go out to her and the children.....

in OH

________________________________

From: kiddietalk <kiddietalk@...<mailto:kiddietalk%40>>

To:

<mailto: %40\

>

Sent: Thu, January 14, 2010 12:49:08 PM

Subject: [ ] Jeanne Buesser's Husband Passed Away Today

Jeanne Buesser who has spent the last decade outreaching to all of us as a

parent advocate for the Cherab Foundation, just let us know about a new book she

wants to self publish to help raise awareness about children with apraxia, who

wrote for Exceptional Parent magazine " A Parent's Worst Nightmare " about her

journey of losing her first son Danny to cancer at 4, her middle son Adam is

diagnosed with apraxia and ADHD, and her youngest Josh is diagnosed with

autism...walked in to her house today to find her husband Ray dead on the floor

in their home.

The children (Adam and Josh)are currently still at school right now and I'm not

in New Jersey to go over to her home to help her. I'm sending this out in hopes

that some of you will be able to outreach to help her as this is a person who's

already been through so much -who is going to need so much help right now.

This is a young family and I'm sure Jeanne is going to need guidance on how to

tell the children about the loss of their father.

The following is Jeanne's information if anyone wants to reach out to help

Jeanne Buesser

513 n Lane

Paramus, NJ 07652

(201)-741-4035 (cell)

E-mail jbmistletoe@ optonline. net

Here's Jeanne's article " A Parent's Worst Nightmare "

http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_go2827/is_2_32/ai_n6792565/

Unfortunately today is not only a parent's worst nightmare as well, but a

child's worst nightmare.

=====

[Guest guest]

Oh, no! I'm truly sorry to hear this. My prayers are with Jeanne & her family.

Yvette A.

[ ] Jeanne Buesser's Husband Passed Away Today

Jeanne Buesser who has spent the last decade outreaching to all of us as a

parent advocate for the Cherab Foundation, just let us know about a new book she

wants to self publish to help raise awareness about children with apraxia, who

wrote for Exceptional Parent magazine " A Parent's Worst Nightmare " about her

journey of losing her first son Danny to cancer at 4, her middle son Adam is

diagnosed with apraxia and ADHD, and her youngest Josh is diagnosed with

autism...walked in to her house today to find her husband Ray dead on the floor

in their home.

The children (Adam and Josh)are currently still at school right now and I'm

not in New Jersey to go over to her home to help her. I'm sending this out in

hopes that some of you will be able to outreach to help her as this is a person

who's already been through so much -who is going to need so much help right now.

This is a young family and I'm sure Jeanne is going to need guidance on how to

tell the children about the loss of their father.

The following is Jeanne's information if anyone wants to reach out to help

Jeanne Buesser

513 n Lane

Paramus, NJ 07652

(201)-741-4035 (cell)

E-mail jbmistletoe@...

Here's Jeanne's article " A Parent's Worst Nightmare "

http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_go2827/is_2_32/ai_n6792565/

Unfortunately today is not only a parent's worst nightmare as well, but a

child's worst nightmare.

=====

[Guest guest]

I cannot believe this... My thoughts and my love go out to her and her

children... May her husband RIP.

I'm so deeply sad

{{{{{Jeanne}}}}}

M.

[Guest guest]

I just received this email and am so saddened. I don't know Jeanne and am a

newish member to the group. I'd like to be able to help in some way. What do you

think the best thing to do is? Should I email her and ask what I can do to help?

I feel a little strange contacting her directly if I don't know her as this is a

very difficult time for her....

Thanks so much,

Aliza

________________________________

From: kiddietalk <kiddietalk@...>

Sent: Thu, January 14, 2010 12:49:08 PM

Subject: [ ] Jeanne Buesser's Husband Passed Away Today

Jeanne Buesser who has spent the last decade outreaching to all of us as a

parent advocate for the Cherab Foundation, just let us know about a new book she

wants to self publish to help raise awareness about children with apraxia, who

wrote for Exceptional Parent magazine " A Parent's Worst Nightmare " about her

journey of losing her first son Danny to cancer at 4, her middle son Adam is

diagnosed with apraxia and ADHD, and her youngest Josh is diagnosed with

autism...walked in to her house today to find her husband Ray dead on the floor

in their home.

The children (Adam and Josh)are currently still at school right now and I'm not

in New Jersey to go over to her home to help her. I'm sending this out in hopes

that some of you will be able to outreach to help her as this is a person who's

already been through so much -who is going to need so much help right now.

This is a young family and I'm sure Jeanne is going to need guidance on how to

tell the children about the loss of their father.

The following is Jeanne's information if anyone wants to reach out to help

Jeanne Buesser

513 n Lane

Paramus, NJ 07652

(201)-741-4035 (cell)

E-mail jbmistletoe@ optonline. net

Here's Jeanne's article " A Parent's Worst Nightmare "

http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_go2827/is_2_32/ai_n6792565/

Unfortunately today is not only a parent's worst nightmare as well, but a

child's worst nightmare.

=====

[Guest guest]

That there has put into perpective all of life's little anxieties we make such a

big deal out of.

My heart goes out to her and her children.

>

> I just received this email and am so saddened. I don't know Jeanne and am a

newish member to the group. I'd like to be able to help in some way. What do you

think the best thing to do is? Should I email her and ask what I can do to help?

I feel a little strange contacting her directly if I don't know her as this is a

very difficult time for her....

>

> Thanks so much,

>

> Aliza

>

>

>

>

> ________________________________

> From: kiddietalk <kiddietalk@...>

>

> Sent: Thu, January 14, 2010 12:49:08 PM

> Subject: [ ] Jeanne Buesser's Husband Passed Away Today

>

>

> Jeanne Buesser who has spent the last decade outreaching to all of us as a

parent advocate for the Cherab Foundation, just let us know about a new book she

wants to self publish to help raise awareness about children with apraxia, who

wrote for Exceptional Parent magazine " A Parent's Worst Nightmare " about her

journey of losing her first son Danny to cancer at 4, her middle son Adam is

diagnosed with apraxia and ADHD, and her youngest Josh is diagnosed with

autism...walked in to her house today to find her husband Ray dead on the floor

in their home.

>

> The children (Adam and Josh)are currently still at school right now and I'm

not in New Jersey to go over to her home to help her. I'm sending this out in

hopes that some of you will be able to outreach to help her as this is a person

who's already been through so much -who is going to need so much help right now.

>

> This is a young family and I'm sure Jeanne is going to need guidance on how to

tell the children about the loss of their father.

>

> The following is Jeanne's information if anyone wants to reach out to help

>

> Jeanne Buesser

>

> 513 n Lane

>

> Paramus, NJ 07652

>

> (201)-741-4035 (cell)

>

> E-mail jbmistletoe@ optonline. net

>

> Here's Jeanne's article " A Parent's Worst Nightmare "

> http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_go2827/is_2_32/ai_n6792565/

>

> Unfortunately today is not only a parent's worst nightmare as well, but a

child's worst nightmare.

>

> =====

>

[Guest guest]

I am so sorry to hear about Jeanne's husband. She was so helpful when I

was trying to find the right school for my daughter, Francesca, and I got

to meet her when my daughter attended Hillcrest School. She also sent me

lots of information about Apraxia. If there is anything I can do, please

let me know.

Joanne

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Jeanne Buesser who has spent the last decade outreaching to all of us as a

parent advocate for the Cherab Foundation, just let us know about a new

book she wants to self publish to help raise awareness about children with

apraxia, who wrote for Exceptional Parent magazine " A Parent's Worst

Nightmare " about her journey of losing her first son Danny to cancer at 4,

her middle son Adam is diagnosed with apraxia and ADHD, and her youngest

Josh is diagnosed with autism...walked in to her house today to find her

husband Ray dead on the floor in their home.

The children (Adam and Josh)are currently still at school right now and I'm

not in New Jersey to go over to her home to help her. I'm sending this out

in hopes that some of you will be able to outreach to help her as this is a

person who's already been through so much -who is going to need so much

help right now.

This is a young family and I'm sure Jeanne is going to need guidance on how

to tell the children about the loss of their father.

The following is Jeanne's information if anyone wants to reach out to help

Jeanne Buesser

513 n Lane

Paramus, NJ 07652

(201)-741-4035 (cell)

E-mail jbmistletoe@...

Here's Jeanne's article " A Parent's Worst Nightmare "

http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_go2827/is_2_32/ai_n6792565/

Unfortunately today is not only a parent's worst nightmare as well, but a

child's worst nightmare.

=====

[Guest guest]

Thank you for putting Jeanne's address here.  I was so utterly saddened to hear

about this - Jeanne was there right when Josh and I first started with this

group, all of a little over 7 years ago.  She was there to talk to, offer

advice and support, and she extended her hospitality to me and Josh when we went

to NJ for a visit - she invited us into her home and the boys all played

together.  I cannot understand why some people have to endure so much - she is

definitely a strong person and will undoubtedly find the right way to handle

telling her children - but to also deal with her own grief and loss while

helping the boys - I can only extend her my sympathy and support long distance -

I wish I could be there in person for her.

 

Sherry (and Josh)

From: kiddietalk <kiddietalk@...>

Subject: [ ] Jeanne Buesser's Husband Passed Away Today

Date: Thursday, January 14, 2010, 11:49 AM

 

Jeanne Buesser who has spent the last decade outreaching to all of us as a

parent advocate for the Cherab Foundation, just let us know about a new book she

wants to self publish to help raise awareness about children with apraxia, who

wrote for Exceptional Parent magazine " A Parent's Worst Nightmare " about her

journey of losing her first son Danny to cancer at 4, her middle son Adam is

diagnosed with apraxia and ADHD, and her youngest Josh is diagnosed with

autism...walked in to her house today to find her husband Ray dead on the floor

in their home.

The children (Adam and Josh)are currently still at school right now and I'm not

in New Jersey to go over to her home to help her. I'm sending this out in hopes

that some of you will be able to outreach to help her as this is a person who's

already been through so much -who is going to need so much help right now.

This is a young family and I'm sure Jeanne is going to need guidance on how to

tell the children about the loss of their father.

The following is Jeanne's information if anyone wants to reach out to help

Jeanne Buesser

513 n Lane

Paramus, NJ 07652

(201)-741-4035 (cell)

E-mail jbmistletoe@ optonline. net

Here's Jeanne's article " A Parent's Worst Nightmare "

http://findarticles .com/p/articles/ mi_go2827/ is_2_32/ai_ n6792565/

Unfortunately today is not only a parent's worst nightmare as well, but a

child's worst nightmare.

=====

[Guest guest]

I am so sorry to hear this. I can't imagine the pain she is feeling right now,

and I hope she and her children will find a way to cope with the grief and

troubles that will come. She is in my thoughts and prayers.

>

> Jeanne Buesser who has spent the last decade outreaching to all of us as a

parent advocate for the Cherab Foundation, just let us know about a new book she

wants to self publish to help raise awareness about children with apraxia, who

wrote for Exceptional Parent magazine " A Parent's Worst Nightmare " about her

journey of losing her first son Danny to cancer at 4, her middle son Adam is

diagnosed with apraxia and ADHD, and her youngest Josh is diagnosed with

autism...walked in to her house today to find her husband Ray dead on the floor

in their home.

>

> The children (Adam and Josh)are currently still at school right now and I'm

not in New Jersey to go over to her home to help her. I'm sending this out in

hopes that some of you will be able to outreach to help her as this is a person

who's already been through so much -who is going to need so much help right now.

>

> This is a young family and I'm sure Jeanne is going to need guidance on how to

tell the children about the loss of their father.

>

> The following is Jeanne's information if anyone wants to reach out to help

>

> Jeanne Buesser

>

> 513 n Lane

>

> Paramus, NJ 07652

>

> (201)-741-4035 (cell)

>

> E-mail jbmistletoe@...

>

> Here's Jeanne's article " A Parent's Worst Nightmare "

> http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_go2827/is_2_32/ai_n6792565/

>

> Unfortunately today is not only a parent's worst nightmare as well, but a

child's worst nightmare.

>

> =====

>

[Guest guest]

My heart goes out to Jeanne and her children. I was so sad to hear the news and

send my sincere and heartfelt sympathy.

________________________________

From: southeastdonkey <hrashid@...>

Sent: Thu, January 14, 2010 2:50:38 PM

Subject: [ ] Re: Jeanne Buesser's Husband Passed Away Today

That there has put into perpective all of life's little anxieties we make such a

big deal out of.

My heart goes out to her and her children.

>

> I just received this email and am so saddened. I don't know Jeanne and am a

newish member to the group. I'd like to be able to help in some way. What do you

think the best thing to do is? Should I email her and ask what I can do to help?

I feel a little strange contacting her directly if I don't know her as this is a

very difficult time for her....

>

> Thanks so much,

>

> Aliza

>

>

>

>

> ____________ _________ _________ __

> From: kiddietalk <kiddietalk@ ...>

> @groups. com

> Sent: Thu, January 14, 2010 12:49:08 PM

> Subject: [childrensapraxiane t] Jeanne Buesser's Husband Passed Away Today

>

>

> Jeanne Buesser who has spent the last decade outreaching to all of us as a

parent advocate for the Cherab Foundation, just let us know about a new book she

wants to self publish to help raise awareness about children with apraxia, who

wrote for Exceptional Parent magazine " A Parent's Worst Nightmare " about her

journey of losing her first son Danny to cancer at 4, her middle son Adam is

diagnosed with apraxia and ADHD, and her youngest Josh is diagnosed with

autism...walked in to her house today to find her husband Ray dead on the floor

in their home.

>

> The children (Adam and Josh)are currently still at school right now and I'm

not in New Jersey to go over to her home to help her. I'm sending this out in

hopes that some of you will be able to outreach to help her as this is a person

who's already been through so much -who is going to need so much help right now.

>

> This is a young family and I'm sure Jeanne is going to need guidance on how to

tell the children about the loss of their father.

>

> The following is Jeanne's information if anyone wants to reach out to help

>

> Jeanne Buesser

>

> 513 n Lane

>

> Paramus, NJ 07652

>

> (201)-741-4035 (cell)

>

> E-mail jbmistletoe@ optonline. net

>

> Here's Jeanne's article " A Parent's Worst Nightmare "

> http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_go2827/is_2_32/ai_n6792565/

>

> Unfortunately today is not only a parent's worst nightmare as well, but a

child's worst nightmare.

>

> =====

>

[Guest guest]

oh dear God, this is horrible

I will be calling her and reaching out to her as I am local.

I am horrified to hear this news and just heartbroken for her.

Bek

In a message dated 1/14/2010 9:51:51 P.M. Eastern Standard Time,

lorip1234@... writes:

How terrible. My heart goes out to her and her family. I'll keep she and

her family in my prayers.

>

> Jeanne Buesser who has spent the last decade outreaching to all of us as

a parent advocate for the Cherab Foundation, just let us know about a new

book she wants to self publish to help raise awareness about children with

apraxia, who wrote for Exceptional Parent magazine " A Parent's Worst

Nightmare " about her journey of losing her first son Danny to cancer at 4, her

middle son Adam is diagnosed with apraxia and ADHD, and her youngest Josh is

diagnosed with autism...walked in to her house today to find her husband

Ray dead on the floor in their home.

>

> The children (Adam and Josh)are currently still at school right now and

I'm not in New Jersey to go over to her home to help her. I'm sending this

out in hopes that some of you will be able to outreach to help her as this

is a person who's already been through so much -who is going to need so

much help right now.

>

> This is a young family and I'm sure Jeanne is going to need guidance on

how to tell the children about the loss of their father.

>

> The following is Jeanne's information if anyone wants to reach out to

help

>

> Jeanne Buesser

>

> 513 n Lane

>

> Paramus, NJ 07652

>

> (201)-741-4035 (cell)

>

> E-mail jbmistletoe@ E-

>

> Here's Jeanne's article " A Parent's Worst Nightmare "

> _http://findarticleshttp://findartichttp://finhttp://findhttp://fi_

(http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_go2827/is_2_32/ai_n6792565/)

>

> Unfortunately today is not only a parent's worst nightmare as well, but

a child's worst nightmare.

>

> =====

> Geng

> President CHERAB Foundation

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> 772-335-5135

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>

[Guest guest]

Our hearts, thoughts and prayers go out to Jeanne.

Anja

On Thu, Jan 14, 2010 at 1:43 PM, G <whitmore_dh@...> wrote:

>

>

> Oh, how awful...I can't even imagine...makes my " troubles " seem pale in

> comparison. My prayers go out to her and the children.....

>

> in OH

>

> ________________________________

> From: kiddietalk <kiddietalk@... <kiddietalk%40>>

> < %40>

> Sent: Thu, January 14, 2010 12:49:08 PM

> Subject: [ ] Jeanne Buesser's Husband Passed Away Today

>

>

> Jeanne Buesser who has spent the last decade outreaching to all of us as a

> parent advocate for the Cherab Foundation, just let us know about a new book

> she wants to self publish to help raise awareness about children with

> apraxia, who wrote for Exceptional Parent magazine " A Parent's Worst

> Nightmare " about her journey of losing her first son Danny to cancer at 4,

> her middle son Adam is diagnosed with apraxia and ADHD, and her youngest

> Josh is diagnosed with autism...walked in to her house today to find her

> husband Ray dead on the floor in their home.

>

> The children (Adam and Josh)are currently still at school right now and I'm

> not in New Jersey to go over to her home to help her. I'm sending this out

> in hopes that some of you will be able to outreach to help her as this is a

> person who's already been through so much -who is going to need so much help

> right now.

>

> This is a young family and I'm sure Jeanne is going to need guidance on how

> to tell the children about the loss of their father.

>

> The following is Jeanne's information if anyone wants to reach out to help

>

> Jeanne Buesser

>

> 513 n Lane

>

> Paramus, NJ 07652

>

> (201)-741-4035 (cell)

>

> E-mail jbmistletoe@ optonline. net

>

> Here's Jeanne's article " A Parent's Worst Nightmare "

> http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_go2827/is_2_32/ai_n6792565/

>

> Unfortunately today is not only a parent's worst nightmare as well, but a

> child's worst nightmare.

>

> =====

>

[Guest guest]

How terrible. My heart goes out to her and her family. I'll keep she and her

family in my prayers.

>

> Jeanne Buesser who has spent the last decade outreaching to all of us as a

parent advocate for the Cherab Foundation, just let us know about a new book she

wants to self publish to help raise awareness about children with apraxia, who

wrote for Exceptional Parent magazine " A Parent's Worst Nightmare " about her

journey of losing her first son Danny to cancer at 4, her middle son Adam is

diagnosed with apraxia and ADHD, and her youngest Josh is diagnosed with

autism...walked in to her house today to find her husband Ray dead on the floor

in their home.

>

> The children (Adam and Josh)are currently still at school right now and I'm

not in New Jersey to go over to her home to help her. I'm sending this out in

hopes that some of you will be able to outreach to help her as this is a person

who's already been through so much -who is going to need so much help right now.

>

> This is a young family and I'm sure Jeanne is going to need guidance on how to

tell the children about the loss of their father.

>

> The following is Jeanne's information if anyone wants to reach out to help

>

> Jeanne Buesser

>

> 513 n Lane

>

> Paramus, NJ 07652

>

> (201)-741-4035 (cell)

>

> E-mail jbmistletoe@...

>

> Here's Jeanne's article " A Parent's Worst Nightmare "

> http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_go2827/is_2_32/ai_n6792565/

>

> Unfortunately today is not only a parent's worst nightmare as well, but a

child's worst nightmare.

>

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>

[Guest guest]

geez- that poor family. Yes, these things certainly have a way of making the

rest of us take a step back and look at life with a bit more perspective. Bless

her and her boys. Hoping they have tons of support in their community right now.

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From: kiddietalk <kiddietalk@...>

Sent: Thu, January 14, 2010 12:49:08 PM

Subject: [ ] Jeanne Buesser's Husband Passed Away Today

Jeanne Buesser who has spent the last decade outreaching to all of us as a

parent advocate for the Cherab Foundation, just let us know about a new book she

wants to self publish to help raise awareness about children with apraxia, who

wrote for Exceptional Parent magazine " A Parent's Worst Nightmare " about her

journey of losing her first son Danny to cancer at 4, her middle son Adam is

diagnosed with apraxia and ADHD, and her youngest Josh is diagnosed with

autism...walked in to her house today to find her husband Ray dead on the floor

in their home.

The children (Adam and Josh)are currently still at school right now and I'm not

in New Jersey to go over to her home to help her. I'm sending this out in hopes

that some of you will be able to outreach to help her as this is a person who's

already been through so much -who is going to need so much help right now.

This is a young family and I'm sure Jeanne is going to need guidance on how to

tell the children about the loss of their father.

The following is Jeanne's information if anyone wants to reach out to help

Jeanne Buesser

513 n Lane

Paramus, NJ 07652

(201)-741-4035 (cell)

E-mail jbmistletoe@ optonline. net

Here's Jeanne's article " A Parent's Worst Nightmare "

http://findarticles .com/p/articles/ mi_go2827/ is_2_32/ai_ n6792565/

Unfortunately today is not only a parent's worst nightmare as well, but a

child's worst nightmare.

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[Guest guest]

I do believe this is the updated information- if anyone knows of anything

different please let me know..Jeanne called me yesterday after she found Ray but

her family has requested via fb no phone calls right now so I didn't want to

call.

Services will be held at Louis Suburban Funeral home in Fair Lawn, NJ on Sunday.

I think this is the site http://www.louissuburbanchapel.com

I did find this on Jeanne's wall posted by her family

Donations in Ray's memory in lieu of flowers: Adam and Buesser Family

Memorial Fund, TD Bank. 275 Forest Ave., Paramus, NJ 07652 Acct. # 4246893766.

The funeral will be 1/17/10 at Louis Suburban Funeral Home, Fairlawn, NJ at 10

a.m. - burial to follow immediately. We will sit shiva through Thursday - you

may come to visit between 6 - 9 p.m. at 513 n Lane, Paramus, NJ.

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[Guest guest]

I just spoke to Jeanne, anyone (in the area of course) who could bring food to

her home anytime this week would be great. The kids don't fully understand the

loss of their dad yet. Of course everyone is still in shock over this sudden

and tragic loss and right now her family is all together to mourn. Please see

the last message I sent out (below) for anyone that would like to donate to help

the family:

This just came out in today's paper.

G. BUESSER " Ray "

BUESSER " Ray " G., 49, died suddenly on Thursday, January 14, 2010 in

Paramus. Ray is survived by his loving wife, Jeanne and two sons, Adam and Josh.

He was predeceased by his son, Danny.Ray retired from the Bergen County

Sheriff's Department after working for over twenty-five years in the jail and

the courts. Ray was well-known and loved for his sense of humor, his honesty and

his commitment to doing the best job that he could. He was a loving father,

husband, son, uncle, and friend.In addition to his immediate family he leaves

behind his parents, Dottie and Lou Buesser, his brother and sister -in-law,

Bobby and Dottie Buesser, his brother Buesser, his sisters and

brothers-in-law, and Ed Graichen, Debbie and Carl Tucker, many nieces and

nephews , and great-nieces and great-nephews. Ray also leaves behind his

in-laws, and Carl Schlesinger, his sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law,

and Craig Minor and Tia and Amdurer. Funeral services will be 10

AM, Sunday, January 17, 2010 at the Louis Suburban Chapel, 13-01 Broadway (Route

4 west), Fair Lawn, NJ. Interment will follow at King Cemetery in

Clifton, NJ.In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to a trust that was

established for Adam and Buesser family Fund c/o TD Bank.

Published in The Record and Herald News on January 16, 2010

http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/northjersey/obituary.aspx?n=raymond-g-buesser-r\

ay & pid=138611410

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