Son starting kindergarten. ADVICE?!?

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My son is five and has had speech and special instruction since he was two. This

is his third year in preschool at a school meant for kids with disabilities.

They want him to go to regular kindergarten. He is understood about 10% of the

time just by words. He can give a general idea of what he is talking about by

pointing or gesturing what it is. He cannot say his name or anyone else's info

if he needed to. He seem to have a good memory. After three years of preschool

he still can't consistantly count to five. They say by October in kindergarten

he should be able to count to thirty. How is he going to be able to do that if

he still (after three years of practice) can't count to five. He also can't say

his abc's at all. He refuses to say his abc's at all. When he does try he can't

remember a b c. He'll just start saying randon abc's. I'm really lost on what to

do. There's no way he can do kindergarten at the moment. I'm considering

homeschooling. My family (who is also spends a lot of time with) completely

agree with me on the fact that he is really not ready for kindergarten beyond

just the speech disorder. Some advice would be great!!