Adam and Josh Memorial Fund

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For those that don't know who Jeanne Buesser is please read her article " A

Parent's Worst Nightmare " written for Exceptional Parent magazine

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(Letter from Rose regarding the Adam and Josh Memorial Fund)

The Rose Show -- Disabilities Radio -- www.alltalkradio.net

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7516 Powder River Court

Las Vegas, NV 89131

702-372-9130

January 2010

Dear Ladies and Gentlemen;

G. BUESSER " Ray "

BUESSER " Ray " G., 49, died suddenly on Thursday, January 14, 2010 in

Paramus. Ray is survived by his loving wife, Jeanne and two sons, Adam and Josh.

He was predeceased by his son, Danny. Ray retired from the Bergen County

Sheriff's Department after working for over twenty-five years in the jail and

the courts. Ray was well-known and loved for his sense of humor, his honesty and

his commitment to doing the best job that he could. He was a loving father,

husband, son, uncle, and friend. In addition to his immediate family he leaves

behind his parents, Dottie and Lou Buesser, his brother and sister -in-law,

Bobby and Dottie Buesser, his brother Buesser, his sisters and

brothers-in-law, and Ed Graichen, Debbie and Carl Tucker, many nieces and

nephews, and great-nieces and great-nephews. Ray also leaves behind his in-laws,

and Carl Schlesinger, his sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law, and

Craig Minor and Tia and Amdurer. Funeral services will be 10 AM, Sunday,

January 17, 2010 at the Louis Suburban Chapel, 13-01 Broadway (Route 4 west),

Fair Lawn, NJ. Interment will follow at King Cemetery in Clifton, NJ. In

lieu of flowers, donations may be made to a trust that was established for Adam

and Buesser family Fund c/o TD Bank.

Published in The Record and Herald News on January 16, 2010

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On January 14, 2010 Mr. Ray Buesser passed away unexpectedly. His wife, Jeanne,

found him on the floor when she returned home. Within 45 minutes she had to go

to the bus stop to pick up her children, and Adam, of course they did not

know what happened to their father. Ray Buesser was only 49 years old.

A little while back Ray and Jeanne lost their 4 year old son Danny to Cancer.

Their two remaining sons, and Adam have severe disabilities. Adam, the

middle son, has Apraxia (a severe neurological disorder/Speech Disorder plus

ADHD and , the youngest child, has Autism. Danny, their oldest son, had

died within a week (after exploratory surgery) at 4 years of age. Due to Danny's

death, Jeanne also became a librarian and did volunteer work a Bereavement Group

called Compassionate Friends for parents who lost their children.

Their fight to be sure and Adam's Special Needs are being met has been

financially and emotionally draining and extremely hard on the family. Now with

the death of Ray, Jeanne, his wife, must go it alone with raising her two

disabled boys. With the death of Ray being so unexpected this makes matters

worse for the whole family. She lost her husband and the boys lost their father

who was one of their major supports concerning their upbringing and financial

support.

Jeanne Buesser has been on The Rose Show talking about the disabilities of

her children to have our listeners know what to look for; what treatment is

needed and what services the schools and the government can supply them. She did

not want any other parents to go through what she went through in having her

children diagnosed and then not having any support or knowledge to know what to

do next. She is an amazing woman.

We are beseeching you to help this family out monetarily through your financial

support to the Adam and Buesser Family Memorial Fund.

All checks can be sent to:

Adam and Buesser Family Memorial Fund, TD Bank

275 Forest Avenue

Paramus, NJ 07652

Account number: 4246893766

Any amount of money that you can send to this Memorial Fund will be greatly

appreciated.

Sincerely,

Mrs. Rose

CEO ADHD Child Advocate Services

Talk Show Host -- The Rose Show -- Disability Radio --

www.alltalkradio.net

* To hear Jeanne Buesser's interviews go to www.therosemooreshow.com and click

on:

8-19-06 Jeannie Buesser- Part I Apraxia

Jeannie discusses the diagnoses and the emotional problems of children with

Apraxia. She will be discussing how this disability can be misdiagnosed when in

reality it is a severe neurological disorder / Speech Disorder.

9-02-06 Jeannie Buesser and