Re: Asking for your prayers

[Guest guest]

V98

I am so very sorry to hear about your daughter. May God Bless your family in this

very difficult time.

From: vmorgan98 <vickiem1@...>Subject: ( ) Asking for your prayers Date: Tuesday, December 30, 2008, 10:29 PM

My dear friends,Although, I have not been a frequent "chatter" among this group, I have learned worlds of valuable information from each of you! On Saturday, I very unexpectedly lost my 17 year old Aspie daughter, my best friend and beloved child. We believe that she was playing a very deadly game that many teenagers now participate in, called the choking game and she lost her life. My life will never be the same. She heard about it and believe that she was trying to be accepted. If you would, please pray for my family - my two older daughters, my husband and myself. I may become more active in the group, once again in months to come, as I would like to establish scholarships, in her honor, but for now, I just ask for your prayers for the days ahead.

[Guest guest]

I am so sorry for your loss. This kind of tragedy is heartbreaking.

My prayers are with you and your family.

Vickie

>

> My dear friends,

>

> Although, I have not been a frequent " chatter " among this group, I

have

> learned worlds of valuable information from each of you! On

Saturday,

> I very unexpectedly lost my 17 year old Aspie daughter, my best

friend

> and beloved child. We believe that she was playing a very deadly

game

> that many teenagers now participate in, called the choking game and

she

> lost her life. My life will never be the same. She heard about it

and

> believe that she was trying to be accepted. If you would, please

pray

> for my family - my two older daughters, my husband and myself. I

may

> become more active in the group, once again in months to come, as I

> would like to establish scholarships, in her honor, but for now, I

just

> ask for your prayers for the days ahead.

>

[Guest guest]

I am very, very sorry for your loss. You will be in my prayers.

-CRM

From: vmorgan98 <vickiem1@...>Subject: ( ) Asking for your prayers Date: Tuesday, December 30, 2008, 11:29 PM

My dear friends,Although, I have not been a frequent "chatter" among this group, I have learned worlds of valuable information from each of you! On Saturday, I very unexpectedly lost my 17 year old Aspie daughter, my best friend and beloved child. We believe that she was playing a very deadly game that many teenagers now participate in, called the choking game and she lost her life. My life will never be the same. She heard about it and believe that she was trying to be accepted. If you would, please pray for my family - my two older daughters, my husband and myself. I may become more active in the group, once again in months to come, as I would like to establish scholarships, in her honor, but for now, I just ask for your prayers for the days ahead.

[Guest guest]

I don't know what to say other than, you have our prayers.

So incredibly sorry.

Robin

From: vmorgan98 <vickiem1@...>Subject: ( ) Asking for your prayers Date: Tuesday, December 30, 2008, 10:29 PM

My dear friends,Although, I have not been a frequent "chatter" among this group, I have learned worlds of valuable information from each of you! On Saturday, I very unexpectedly lost my 17 year old Aspie daughter, my best friend and beloved child. We believe that she was playing a very deadly game that many teenagers now participate in, called the choking game and she lost her life. My life will never be the same. She heard about it and believe that she was trying to be accepted. If you would, please pray for my family - my two older daughters, my husband and myself. I may become more active in the group, once again in months to come, as I would like to establish scholarships, in her honor, but for now, I just ask for your prayers for the days ahead.

[Guest guest]

I am very sorry for the loss of your precious daughter. We, too,

suddenly lost our only girl in December of 2006 (medical condition).

It is heart-breaking and amplified of course by the festivities that

surround this time of year. I am glad that you are seeking comfort in

promoting the goodness of her life through scholarships in her

name... I think it is really essential to build something positive

when tragedy strikes. I have become more vocal for the rights of kids

with disabilities and the importance of Family-Centred Care. I am an

Administrator to a website dedicated to my daughter's syndrome as it

was a rare disorder and no such support system existed in Canada

previously.

I hope that this quotation by E. Faust will bring a little

measure of comfort to you as it does to me:

" Everybody in this life has their challenges and difficulties. That is

part of our mortal test. The reason for some of these trials cannot be

readily understood except on the basis of faith and hope because there

is often a larger purpose which we do not always understand. Peace

comes through hope. "

God Bless!!

XO Velvet

http://www.tetrasomy18p.ca/

>

> My dear friends,

>

> Although, I have not been a frequent " chatter " among this group, I

have

> learned worlds of valuable information from each of you! On

Saturday,

> I very unexpectedly lost my 17 year old Aspie daughter, my best

friend

> and beloved child. We believe that she was playing a very deadly

game

> that many teenagers now participate in, called the choking game and

she

> lost her life. My life will never be the same. She heard about it

and

> believe that she was trying to be accepted. If you would, please

pray

> for my family - my two older daughters, my husband and myself. I

may

> become more active in the group, once again in months to come, as I

> would like to establish scholarships, in her honor, but for now, I

just

> ask for your prayers for the days ahead.

>

[Guest guest]

>

> From: vmorgan98 <vickiem1@...>

> Subject: ( ) Asking for your prayers

>

> Date: Tuesday, December 30, 2008, 10:29 PM

>

> Of course. i am so sorry. Words can not describe such a loss. My

husband died suddenly but loosing a child is something else X

>

>

>

>

> My dear friends,

>

> Although, I have not been a frequent " chatter " among this group, I

have

> learned worlds of valuable information from each of you! On

Saturday,

> I very unexpectedly lost my 17 year old Aspie daughter, my best

friend

> and beloved child. We believe that she was playing a very deadly

game

> that many teenagers now participate in, called the choking game and

she

> lost her life. My life will never be the same. She heard about it

and

> believe that she was trying to be accepted. If you would, please

pray

> for my family - my two older daughters, my husband and myself. I

may

> become more active in the group, once again in months to come, as I

> would like to establish scholarships, in her honor, but for now, I

just

> ask for your prayers for the days ahead.

>

[Guest guest]

You are in my prayers. I am so sorry.

Faith never wonders why.

Worry about nothing, pray about everything!

'Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.'

"For every minute you are angry, you lose 60 seconds of happiness."

From: vmorgan98 <vickiem1@...>Subject: ( ) Asking for your prayers Date: Tuesday, December 30, 2008, 10:29 PM

My dear friends,Although, I have not been a frequent "chatter" among this group, I have learned worlds of valuable information from each of you! On Saturday, I very unexpectedly lost my 17 year old Aspie daughter, my best friend and beloved child. We believe that she was playing a very deadly game that many teenagers now participate in, called the choking game and she lost her life. My life will never be the same. She heard about it and believe that she was trying to be accepted. If you would, please pray for my family - my two older daughters, my husband and myself. I may become more active in the group, once again in months to come, as I would like to establish scholarships, in her honor, but for now, I just ask for your prayers for the days ahead.

[Guest guest]

Dear ,

My heart weeps for you and your family....this is the hardest thing to go through in life and my words I know can not take your pain away...only time...God and time. We have no understanding why things happen as they do, but they do.

Please know that I and my family are here for you and your family during this difficult time. If you were here, I would be hugging you and squeezing you and telling you that I am here for you...and I am.

Please look to the Lord during this difficult time....don't shut down....hug your other girls and your husband...get closer to them...appreciate all the good times you had with your daughter and just know that she is in good hands. I know that doesn't really help...as I said time will heal your wounds...but know that everyone is praying for your daughter, you and your family.

God Bless and Keep you.

Hugs and Hugs and more hugs to you.

Always and forever,

Jan

Been there so I know....

Janice Rushen

"I will try to be open to all avenues of wisdom and hope"

From: vmorgan98 <vickiem1@...>Subject: ( ) Asking for your prayers Date: Tuesday, December 30, 2008, 11:29 PM

My dear friends,Although, I have not been a frequent "chatter" among this group, I have learned worlds of valuable information from each of you! On Saturday, I very unexpectedly lost my 17 year old Aspie daughter, my best friend and beloved child. We believe that she was playing a very deadly game that many teenagers now participate in, called the choking game and she lost her life. My life will never be the same. She heard about it and believe that she was trying to be accepted. If you would, please pray for my family - my two older daughters, my husband and myself. I may become more active in the group, once again in months to come, as I would like to establish scholarships, in her honor, but for now, I just ask for your prayers for the days ahead.

[Guest guest]

Thank you... and I do : )

Despite all the sadness, I feel my daughter all around me and I

believe she is not far. Our loved ones are never gone from our heart.

Just yesterday, I noticed a rainbow had spread a ribbon of light

across my china cabinet onto the angel figurines that I keep in

tribute to my daughter. This reminded me of a poem by

Frye that my dad keeps in his wallet and I told my 10 year old son

about it. In return, he said to me: " Oh, that is why you smile

whenever you look at the snow " . I hadn't even realized that I do this:

Do not stand at my grave and weep;

I am not there. I do not sleep.

I am a thousand winds that blow.

I am the diamond glints on snow.

I am the sunlight on ripened grain.

I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you awaken in the morning's hush

I am the swift uplifting rush

Of quiet birds in circled flight.

I am the soft stars that shine at night.

Do not stand at my grave and cry;

I am not there. I did not die.

XO Velvet

> >

> > My dear friends,

> >

> > Although, I have not been a frequent " chatter " among this group,

I

> have

> > learned worlds of valuable information from each of you! On

> Saturday,

> > I very unexpectedly lost my 17 year old Aspie daughter, my best

> friend

> > and beloved child. We believe that she was playing a very deadly

> game

> > that many teenagers now participate in, called the choking game

and

> she

> > lost her life. My life will never be the same. She heard about it

> and

> > believe that she was trying to be accepted. If you would, please

> pray

> > for my family - my two older daughters, my husband and myself. I

> may

> > become more active in the group, once again in months to come, as

I

> > would like to establish scholarships, in her honor, but for now,

I

> just

> > ask for your prayers for the days ahead.

> >

>

[Guest guest]

I am praying for you to find peace and comfort in your memories of

your beautiful child. I had a dear friend lose a young child this

past year and saw the heartache that brought and want you to know

that many are sending you prayers of strength. Clearly she will not

have died in vain - you are already thinking of how to help the

message of her life be a beacon to inspire others.

I wish I could give you a hug.

>

> My dear friends,

>

> Although, I have not been a frequent " chatter " among this group, I

have

> learned worlds of valuable information from each of you! On

Saturday,

> I very unexpectedly lost my 17 year old Aspie daughter, my best

friend

> and beloved child. We believe that she was playing a very deadly

game

> that many teenagers now participate in, called the choking game and

she

> lost her life. My life will never be the same. She heard about it

and

> believe that she was trying to be accepted. If you would, please

pray

> for my family - my two older daughters, my husband and myself. I

may

> become more active in the group, once again in months to come, as I

> would like to establish scholarships, in her honor, but for now, I

just

> ask for your prayers for the days ahead.

>

[Guest guest]

I am very very sorry for your daughter's loss. My heart is with you and your family.

"Life is weaker than death, and death is weaker than love."Selim Atay/Turkey

From: vmorgan98 <vickiem1@...>Subject: ( ) Asking for your prayers Date: Wednesday, December 31, 2008, 6:29 AM

My dear friends,Although, I have not been a frequent "chatter" among this group, I have learned worlds of valuable information from each of you! On Saturday, I very unexpectedly lost my 17 year old Aspie daughter, my best friend and beloved child. We believe that she was playing a very deadly game that many teenagers now participate in, called the choking game and she lost her life. My life will never be the same. She heard about it and believe that she was trying to be accepted. If you would, please pray for my family - my two older daughters, my husband and myself. I may become more active in the group, once again in months to come, as I would like to establish scholarships, in her honor, but for now, I just ask for your prayers for the days ahead.

[Guest guest]

So sorry to hear it. We'll have you firmly in our thoughts and prayers.

"Over-optimism is waiting for you ship to come in when you haven't sent one out."

From: vmorgan98 <vickiem1@...> Sent: Tuesday, December 30, 2008 10:29:04 PMSubject: ( ) Asking for your prayers

My dear friends,Although, I have not been a frequent "chatter" among this group, I have learned worlds of valuable information from each of you! On Saturday, I very unexpectedly lost my 17 year old Aspie daughter, my best friend and beloved child. We believe that she was playing a very deadly game that many teenagers now participate in, called the choking game and she lost her life. My life will never be the same. She heard about it and believe that she was trying to be accepted. If you would, please pray for my family - my two older daughters, my husband and myself. I may become more active in the group, once again in months to come, as I would like to establish scholarships, in her honor, but for now, I just ask for your prayers for the days ahead.

[Guest guest]

Dear Vickie,

I cannot say enough how sorry I am for your loss. I will keep you and

your family in my prayers. Jody

>

> My dear friends,

>

> Although, I have not been a frequent " chatter " among this group, I

have

> learned worlds of valuable information from each of you! On Saturday,

> I very unexpectedly lost my 17 year old Aspie daughter, my best friend

> and beloved child. We believe that she was playing a very deadly game

> that many teenagers now participate in, called the choking game and

she

> lost her life. My life will never be the same. She heard about it and

> believe that she was trying to be accepted. If you would, please pray

> for my family - my two older daughters, my husband and myself. I may

> become more active in the group, once again in months to come, as I

> would like to establish scholarships, in her honor, but for now, I

just

> ask for your prayers for the days ahead.

>

[Guest guest]

Our prayers are with you. We are here for support as you need it - a shoulder

to cry on and an arm to hold you up. When you are ready we will be here to

listen and assist as we can.

Donna

---- MacAllister <smacalli@...> wrote:

> So sorry to hear it.  We'll have you firmly in our thoughts and prayers.

>  

>

>

> " Over-optimism is waiting for you ship to come in when you haven't sent one

out. "

>

>

>

>

> ________________________________

> From: vmorgan98 <vickiem1@...>

>

> Sent: Tuesday, December 30, 2008 10:29:04 PM

> Subject: ( ) Asking for your prayers

>

>

> My dear friends,

>

> Although, I have not been a frequent " chatter " among this group, I have

> learned worlds of valuable information from each of you! On Saturday,

> I very unexpectedly lost my 17 year old Aspie daughter, my best friend

> and beloved child. We believe that she was playing a very deadly game

> that many teenagers now participate in, called the choking game and she

> lost her life. My life will never be the same. She heard about it and

> believe that she was trying to be accepted. If you would, please pray

> for my family - my two older daughters, my husband and myself. I may

> become more active in the group, once again in months to come, as I

> would like to establish scholarships, in her honor, but for now, I just

> ask for your prayers for the days ahead.

>

>

[Guest guest]

>

> My dear friends,

>

> Although, I have not been a frequent " chatter " among this group, I have

> learned worlds of valuable information from each of you! On Saturday,

> I very unexpectedly lost my 17 year old Aspie daughter, my best friend

> and beloved child. We believe that she was playing a very deadly game

> that many teenagers now participate in, called the choking game and she

> lost her life. My life will never be the same. She heard about it and

> believe that she was trying to be accepted. If you would, please pray

> for my family - my two older daughters, my husband and myself. I may

> become more active in the group, once again in months to come, as I

> would like to establish scholarships, in her honor, but for now, I just

> ask for your prayers for the days ahead.

>

I'm so sorry. It doesn't seem like enough to say that, but I can't find any

other words.

My heart and prayers are with you.

Amy

[Guest guest]

I'm so sorry for the sudden loss of your daughter and will be praying

for your family in the days ahead. My oldest child is 17 and has AS

and like you, my son is always in my thoughts, although I wouldn't

call him my best friend. I'm always worrying about him. Our kids are

so vulnerable. I can't imagine what I would do if something should

happen to him. He is such a huge part of my life.

Please keep in touch with this group & let us know what you have

decided in the way of a memorial. I would be happy to contribute

towards a scholarship for AS children.

in California