To Ruthie and all re: causing havoc on another list

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Ruthie (and everyone else),

I just had to write and let you all know something

else about Meagan. She had been emailing me offlist,

and things were okay at first, but then she got really

negative and she began telling me that I should not

live in the environment I do. (With my husband's

aspie-like behavior.)

I had invited her to join the wivesofaspies group on

. So she did. She really got angry at the

women on that group even after like 2 posts, and " went

off " on the women in the group. And left that group as

well-in a " huff " .

She really blasted the women on the group and was

basically yelling at them. She said some really nasty

stuff to them as well. So she had some similiar

behavior on another list.

-Melinda Hall

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How interesting. Sounds like she just likes to cause problems. And what were you supposed to do with your dh? Toss him out the door? LOL.

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( ) To Ruthie and all re: causing havoc on another list

Ruthie (and everyone else),I just had to write and let you all know somethingelse about Meagan. She had been emailing me offlist,and things were okay at first, but then she got reallynegative and she began telling me that I should notlive in the environment I do. (With my husband'saspie-like behavior.)I had invited her to join the wivesofaspies group on. So she did. She really got angry at thewomen on that group even after like 2 posts, and "wentoff" on the women in the group. And left that group aswell-in a "huff". She really blasted the women on the group and wasbasically yelling at them. She said some really nastystuff to them as well. So she had some similiarbehavior on another list.-Melinda Hall

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she sounds really stressed out, or something. it happened to Brittney, I hope they both get help before its too late.. Roxanna <madideas@...> wrote: How interesting. Sounds like she just likes to cause problems. And what were you supposed to do with your dh? Toss him out the door? LOL. RoxannaAutism Happens ( ) To Ruthie and all re: causing havoc on another list Ruthie (and everyone else),I just had to write and let you all know somethingelse about Meagan. She had been emailing me offlist,and things were okay at first, but then she got reallynegative and she began telling me that I should notlive in the environment I do.

(With my husband'saspie-like behavior.)I had invited her to join the wivesofaspies group on. So she did. She really got angry at thewomen on that group even after like 2 posts, and "wentoff" on the women in the group. And left that group aswell-in a "huff". She really blasted the women on the group and wasbasically yelling at them. She said some really nastystuff to them as well. So she had some similiarbehavior on another list.-Melinda Hall

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I'm hoping it won't get to that. We also live a distance for each other.<cmcintosh5@...> wrote: The .. Parents of children on the spectrum forums.. Are indeed fraught with crazies I have also had personal experience with .. Well for lack of a better term NUTJOBS Not only

harrass but stalk me. I don't know what specifically happened here However I think it might be a good idea to start a bit of a list.. Or a Heads up .. On some of these people. -- ( ) To Ruthie and all re: causing havoc on another list Ruthie (and everyone else),I just had to

write and let you all know somethingelse about Meagan. She had been emailing me offlist,and things were okay at first, but then she got reallynegative and she began telling me that I should notlive in the environment I do. (With my husband'saspie-like behavior.)I had invited her to join the wivesofaspies group on. So she did. She really got angry at thewomen on that group even after like 2 posts, and "wentoff" on the women in the group. And left that group aswell-in a "huff". She really blasted the women on the group and wasbasically yelling at them. She said some really nastystuff to them as well. So she had some similiarbehavior on another list.-Melinda Hall

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Wow. That's too bad....for her. Sadly,,,I think what has been said about her being young,,,is true. But also seems like she has some "social issues" as well. I was once young...haa haa..........and I didn't require everyone to agree with me all the time or I'd leave the situation........ I think we really gave it to her,,,,,in a cordial way,,,,,,,but she just didn't seem to "get it". That she wasn't even IN SCHOOL yet,,,,,,,,,she just kept coming back with WHY we all seemed to be having bad experiences........UGH>..... Sad. I think she must be so "confused" with her sons' dx...........or maybe the dx is wrong....and she's so new to it and reading everything she can on it. Learning everthing.......and is almost "on fire" for being able to cure her family and the world. Know what I mean? She's so full of "doing it all right",,,,,,and so sure that she HAS

already,,,,even though her son isn't even in school yet........hee hee.......that she see's all of our replies as negative and almost implying to her that we have failed, so she will, too. Sad. Bottom line that I see now,,,,,though,,,,is that she's definitely got a social issue going on. Hopefully,,,if she seeks help for it, she'll get a perfect team working for her,,,,,,,,,just like her son will for him when he gets in school. (sarcasm, here). Robin Hall Melinda <mlndhall@...> wrote: Ruthie (and everyone else),I just had to write and let you all know somethingelse about Meagan. She had been emailing me offlist,and things were okay at first, but then she got reallynegative and she began telling me that I should notlive in the environment I do. (With my husband'saspie-like behavior.)I had invited her to join the wivesofaspies group on. So she did. She really got angry at thewomen on that group even after like 2 posts, and "wentoff" on the women in the group. And left that group aswell-in a "huff". She really blasted the women on the group and wasbasically yelling at them. She said some really nastystuff to them as well. So she had some similiarbehavior on another list.-Melinda Hall

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ROBIN...WOW, reading your post reminds me of one of my sons teachers he had..amazing!!! (as a teacher, she is great, caring, and good at teaching) but with the parents, I'm not the first to complain about her. but it seemed liked she HATED parents. She told me my son doesn't have autism anymore, and I'm holing him back, that's why he's the way he is... she was as awful to me as she was nice to my son. she didn't believe anything his doctors had to say, HE WAS CURED!!! and she cured him... amazing. she also told this to some of the team that was working with him, that he didn't have autism. She also got one other convinced, that my son was cured. to the point where they said to me, you'll see at his 3 year eval. well, just before the psych did the eval, they were drilling my son with, look at my eyes when you talk to me, and drilled him with facial expressions and their meanings. and who knows what else. well,

he had the testing right in the school and got to speak to the psych before the testing. which wasn't that long. the psych called me at home saying, his teacher doesn't see him as autistic and he looks me in the eyes, he also knows facial expressions, (yes, they drilled him) just before the testing. she, the psych said, lets give him a DX that they can agree on that you son has. The teacher & psych said to me, why would you want to give your son an awful title as that. (like I DXed him)?. This teacher was so upset with me about this DX and didn't want to hear or know anything else. However my son loved her and learned lots from her. she, the teacher, worked really hard with him and kepted him after school because she felt, she would "fix" all this. amazing. well today, a very good well know specialist, (that we had for years) stated in her documentation, that you can't cure autism!!! and he is still

autistic!. amazing...My son went to well know specialist that also does research in autism and they argued with them... LOL I wouldn't be surprised if was that teacher my son had.. and I can't believe how people can get: is ''obsessed'' the right word to use? with this. Obsessed or doesn't believe in autism unless it's the "classic autism". there are still people that believe its poor parenting...I wish those people can take a psych eval...to see if they have concerns themselves.. and/or Robin Lemke <jrisjs@...> wrote: Wow. That's too bad....for her. Sadly,,,I think what has been said about her being young,,,is true. But also seems like she has some "social issues" as well. I was once young...haa haa..........and I didn't require everyone to agree with me all the time or I'd leave the situation........ I think we really gave it to her,,,,,in a cordial way,,,,,,,but she just didn't seem to "get it". That she wasn't even IN SCHOOL yet,,,,,,,,,she just kept coming back with WHY we all seemed to be having bad experiences........UGH>..... Sad. I think she must be so "confused" with her sons' dx...........or maybe the dx is wrong....and she's so new to it and reading everything she can on it. Learning everthing.......and is almost "on fire" for being able to cure her family and the world.

Know what I mean? She's so full of "doing it all right",,,,,,and so sure that she HAS already,,,,even though her son isn't even in school yet........hee hee.......that she see's all of our replies as negative and almost implying to her that we have failed, so she will, too. Sad. Bottom line that I see now,,,,,though,,,,is that she's definitely got a social issue going on. Hopefully,,,if she seeks help for it, she'll get a perfect team working for her,,,,,,,,,just like her son will for him when he gets in school. (sarcasm, here). Robin Hall Melinda <mlndhall > wrote: Ruthie (and everyone else),I just had to write and let you all know somethingelse about Meagan. She had been emailing me offlist,and things were okay at first, but

then she got reallynegative and she began telling me that I should notlive in the environment I do. (With my husband'saspie-like behavior.)I had invited her to join the wivesofaspies group on. So she did. She really got angry at thewomen on that group even after like 2 posts, and "wentoff" on the women in the group. And left that group aswell-in a "huff". She really blasted the women on the group and wasbasically yelling at them. She said some really nastystuff to them as well. So she had some similiarbehavior on another list.-Melinda Hall Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now.

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The .. Parents of children on the spectrum forums.. Are indeed fraught with crazies

I have also had personal experience with .. Well for lack of a better term NUTJOBS

Not only harrass but stalk me. I don't know what specifically happened here

However I think it might be a good idea to start a bit of a list.. Or a Heads up .. On some of these people.

-- ( ) To Ruthie and all re: causing havoc on another list

Ruthie (and everyone else),I just had to write and let you all know somethingelse about Meagan. She had been emailing me offlist,and things were okay at first, but then she got reallynegative and she began telling me that I should notlive in the environment I do. (With my husband'saspie-like behavior.)I had invited her to join the wivesofaspies group on. So she did. She really got angry at thewomen on that group even after like 2 posts, and "wentoff" on the women in the group. And left that group aswell-in a "huff". She really blasted the women on the group and wasbasically yelling at them. She said some really nastystuff to them as well. So she had some similiarbehavior on another list.-Melinda Hall

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I have experienced that in our community too; it is usually the parents that are very firm, over the top, strict supporters of the special diets, and they will e-mail, call me relentlessly, etc. trying to MAKE me do the diet with my kids, and tell me how psycho I am 'cuz we don't want to (we have done the physical testing to ensure we don't have wheat, gluten ,etc issues and it was determinted not; we have tried different foods / ridding of them, and there were NOT any changes, but it was before we were 'harassed' about the diet. I tell them one more anything, I am contacting the police. It CAN be crazy, but I am SOOOOO glad to know this was crazy; I told her in a personal response back that, in my professional experience, (I want to be a therapist and I do have a lot of like experience with that goal in mind for myself), people that 'accuse others' of something are typically that themselves. For this group, someone accuses you of sexual abuse, they typically ARE a sexual abuser; someone accuses you of being vindictive, they are typically vindictive; not always, but that is what human's do. And, I guess I let her get to me for some reason; my husband thought I should not have answered her, but I did ONCE!! And, it is time to move forward.

I am SOOOOOO glad it is a new day; thank you to all of you for your support and encouragement. Today, I got up, ate breakfast with my NT son after a trip to the grocery store locally as we had ice, then sleet, and now it is snowing soooo badly and blizzard like so people are pulling off to get hotel rooms in our city (Cedar Rapids, IA); so, now, I am checking and cleaning this out so I can go box boxes. My husband was supposed to do at least 15 while we were gone for over 2 hours, and he did 3; we are moving next weekend, so we have some work TO DO!!!!

Have a great Sunday.

Ruthie Dolezal

From: cmcintosh5@...Date: Sun, 17 Feb 2008 08:54:24 -0800Subject: Re: ( ) To Ruthie and all re: causing havoc on another list

The .. Parents of children on the spectrum forums.. Are indeed fraught with crazies

I have also had personal experience with .. Well for lack of a better term NUTJOBS

Not only harrass but stalk me. I don't know what specifically happened here

However I think it might be a good idea to start a bit of a list.. Or a Heads up .. On some of these people.

-- ( ) To Ruthie and all re: causing havoc on another list

Ruthie (and everyone else),I just had to write and let you all know somethingelse about Meagan. She had been emailing me offlist,and things were okay at first, but then she got reallynegative and she began telling me that I should notlive in the environment I do. (With my husband'saspie-like behavior.)I had invited her to join the wivesofaspies group on. So she did. She really got angry at thewomen on that group even after like 2 posts, and "wentoff" on the women in the group. And left that group aswell-in a "huff". She really blasted the women on the group and wasbasically yelling at them. She said some really nastystuff to them as well. So she had some similiarbehavior on another list.-Melinda Hall

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Rose, Yeah i know !!!HAHA, and i agree about the wine too,LOL SherryRose <beachbodytan2002@...> wrote: Sherry, ROFL hahaha, I guess that's better that going into the dumpsters/bins. hahaha... but they were clean boxes that worked. hahaha. yes, I also heard of the local wine stores, got some there too and they had lots. some wine doesn't hurt either. *smile*sherry burford <superchick0770 > wrote: Hey Ruthie, I didn't know this but friends of ours just recently moved and we were helping they said the best place around here is the local wine and spirits store,or in the south more commonly known as the ABC store why do they call it that? LOL anyway i thought our friends had decided to get drunk at the thought of moving when i seen all the boxes!!! hee,hee and LOL SherryRose <beachbodytan2002 > wrote: Hi Ruthie, when we had to move several times, I did well with getting boxes out of the bins from Mc's, or other fast food places. Including BJ's, just before they cut them. the ones in the fast food bins, are all different sizes, you just have to tape them together. they only had boxes there and they were clean. RoseBRYAN DOLEZAL

<DOLEZAL123msn> wrote: I have experienced that in our community too; it is usually the parents that are very firm, over the top, strict supporters of the special diets, and they will e-mail, call me relentlessly, etc. trying to MAKE me do the diet with my kids, and tell me how psycho I am 'cuz we don't want to (we have done the physical testing to ensure we don't have wheat, gluten ,etc issues and it was determinted not; we have tried different foods / ridding of them, and there were NOT any changes, but it was before we were 'harassed' about the diet. I tell them one more anything, I am contacting the police. It CAN be crazy, but I am SOOOOO glad to know this was crazy; I told her in a personal response back that, in my professional experience, (I want to be a therapist and I do have a lot of like experience with that goal in mind for

myself), people that 'accuse others' of something are typically that themselves. For this group, someone accuses you of sexual abuse, they typically ARE a sexual abuser; someone accuses you of being vindictive, they are typically vindictive; not always, but that is what human's do. And, I guess I let her get to me for some reason; my husband thought I should not have answered her, but I did ONCE!! And, it is time to move forward. I am SOOOOOO glad it is a new day; thank you to all of you for your support and encouragement. Today, I got up, ate breakfast with my NT son after a trip to the grocery store locally as we had ice, then sleet, and now it is snowing soooo badly and blizzard like so people are pulling off to get hotel rooms in our city (Cedar Rapids, IA); so, now, I am checking and cleaning this out so I can go box boxes. My husband was supposed to do at least 15 while we were gone for over 2 hours, and he did 3; we are

moving next weekend, so we have some work TO DO!!!! Have a great Sunday. Ruthie Dolezal From: cmcintosh5cogeco (DOT) caDate: Sun, 17 Feb 2008 08:54:24 -0800Subject: Re: ( ) To Ruthie and all re: causing havoc on another list The .. Parents of children on the spectrum forums.. Are indeed fraught with crazies I have also had personal experience with .. Well for lack of a better term NUTJOBS Not only harrass but stalk me. I don't know what specifically happened here However I think it might be a good idea to start a bit of a list.. Or a Heads up .. On some of these people. -- ( ) To Ruthie and all re: causing havoc on another list Ruthie (and everyone else),I just had to write and let you all know somethingelse about Meagan. She had been

emailing me offlist,and things were okay at first, but then she got reallynegative and she began telling me that I should notlive in the environment I do. (With my husband'saspie-like behavior.)I had invited her to join the wivesofaspies group on. So she did. She really got angry at thewomen on that group even after like 2 posts, and "wentoff" on the women in the group. And left that group aswell-in a "huff". She really blasted the women on the group and wasbasically yelling at them. She said some really nastystuff to them as well. So she had some similiarbehavior on another list.-Melinda Hall Be a better friend,

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Actually, believe it or not, I am allergic to wine....isn't that nuts? It the sulfates in it (so there are lots of things I can't have now---drats)---I CAN have 'em but I either get sick quickly or have an instant migraine to the point of more than a migraine---even 1/2 a wine cooler....but, if my husband keeps his rate of help up, I may just go to the bar and 'tie one on.' I would then be about as effective......I have a feeling I am boxing alone here?? And, mine you, we've had 8 weeks; most of it I have done but I am asking for help now, and this is just my husband; he gets 'weird' each time we have to move; it's fun....Perhaps I could get into one of the boxes and 'disappear' for the week (and wake up when it's done----LOL----think it'd get done????)

As for boxes, we have been using banker's boxes from Wal-Mart----think we've used about 120 so far but they are great boxes, and no tape needed. My hubby brings 'em home from work, too, and we have bought a lot of new things for the house, so we are using all of those boxes, and I am happy to clean to move; today, I've done 10 huge black 33 gallon trash bags; I am seriously getting rid of junk----and then the 14 year old has to trot down the street in the snow to the dumpster to rid of each one (he is LOVIN' that----it is wet snow but at least that is all he is doing---so he is doing something but if you have them box, that is a disaster as we can't rid of ANYTHING then!!! I'm the collector, so me tossin' is a sight---my husband argues about tossing some of it; I just remind him it's less he has to move Saturday or Sunday next weekend; he smiles, and off he goes again; FUN STUFF!!

Ruthie

From: beachbodytan2002@...Date: Sun, 17 Feb 2008 13:14:01 -0800Subject: RE: ( ) To Ruthie and all re: causing havoc on another list

Sherry,

ROFL hahaha, I guess that's better that going into the dumpsters/bins. hahaha... but they were clean boxes that worked. hahaha. yes, I also heard of the local wine stores, got some there too and they had lots. some wine doesn't hurt either. *smile*sherry burford <superchick0770 > wrote:

Hey Ruthie, I didn't know this but friends of ours just recently moved and we were helping they said the best place around here is the local wine and spirits store,or in the south more commonly known as the ABC store why do they call it that? LOL anyway i thought our friends had decided to get drunk at the thought of moving when i seen all the boxes!!! hee,hee and LOL SherryRose <beachbodytan2002 > wrote:

Hi Ruthie,

when we had to move several times, I did well with getting boxes out of the bins from Mc's, or other fast food places. Including BJ's, just before they cut them. the ones in the fast food bins, are all different sizes, you just have to tape them together. they only had boxes there and they were clean.

RoseBRYAN DOLEZAL <DOLEZAL123msn> wrote:

I have experienced that in our community too; it is usually the parents that are very firm, over the top, strict supporters of the special diets, and they will e-mail, call me relentlessly, etc. trying to MAKE me do the diet with my kids, and tell me how psycho I am 'cuz we don't want to (we have done the physical testing to ensure we don't have wheat, gluten ,etc issues and it was determinted not; we have tried different foods / ridding of them, and there were NOT any changes, but it was before we were 'harassed' about the diet. I tell them one more anything, I am contacting the police. It CAN be crazy, but I am SOOOOO glad to know this was crazy; I told her in a personal response back that, in my professional experience, (I want to be a therapist and I do have a lot of like experience with that goal in mind for myself), people that 'accuse others' of something are typically that themselves. For this group, someone accuses you of sexual abuse, they typically ARE a sexual abuser; someone accuses you of being vindictive, they are typically vindictive; not always, but that is what human's do. And, I guess I let her get to me for some reason; my husband thought I should not have answered her, but I did ONCE!! And, it is time to move forward. I am SOOOOOO glad it is a new day; thank you to all of you for your support and encouragement. Today, I got up, ate breakfast with my NT son after a trip to the grocery store locally as we had ice, then sleet, and now it is snowing soooo badly and blizzard like so people are pulling off to get hotel rooms in our city (Cedar Rapids, IA); so, now, I am checking and cleaning this out so I can go box boxes. My husband was supposed to do at least 15 while we were gone for over 2 hours, and he did 3; we are moving next weekend, so we have some work TO DO!!!! Have a great Sunday. Ruthie Dolezal

From: cmcintosh5cogeco (DOT) caDate: Sun, 17 Feb 2008 08:54:24 -0800Subject: Re: ( ) To Ruthie and all re: causing havoc on another list

The .. Parents of children on the spectrum forums.. Are indeed fraught with crazies

I have also had personal experience with .. Well for lack of a better term NUTJOBS

Not only harrass but stalk me. I don't know what specifically happened here

However I think it might be a good idea to start a bit of a list.. Or a Heads up .. On some of these people.

-- ( ) To Ruthie and all re: causing havoc on another list

Ruthie (and everyone else),I just had to write and let you all know somethingelse about Meagan. She had been emailing me offlist,and things were okay at first, but then she got reallynegative and she began telling me that I should notlive in the environment I do. (With my husband'saspie-like behavior.)I had invited her to join the wivesofaspies group on. So she did. She really got angry at thewomen on that group even after like 2 posts, and "wentoff" on the women in the group. And left that group aswell-in a "huff". She really blasted the women on the group and wasbasically yelling at them. She said some really nastystuff to them as well. So she had some similiarbehavior on another list.-Melinda Hall

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