Re: teenage and aspergers

[Guest guest]

I am having the exact same situation with my 13 yr old Aspie ,, I'm

no help to you , other than to let you know , as I was reading your

post , I thought I wrote it ...OMGosh my son is doing the same

things , only he has actually taken other peoples bras , undies , and

swimsuits , so we have to watch him at other people's house now ...

>

> my son is 14 years old and we are starting to have some pretty big

> issues with him...hes aspergers diagnosed about 2 years ago...cant

> say that he is a very bad behaved kid...just a little on the

> controling part with things that intrest him...video games naruto

> cards things of that sort has to be in control his way or no

> way...doesnt show much anger cept for the temper when hes

confronted

> with something. altho nothing seems to bother him...hard to ground

> him or take anything from him he just replys with so what or i dont

> care...hes on adderall xr to help with attention tends to zone out

> alot...and also on remrun to help him with change and sleep. He

could

> stay up all night if you let him...we have issues where he tries to

> get away with not taking his meds and also showering..he will go

days

> without showering..and also when you do make him get in the shower

he

> fakes it and will sit in there for 2 hours running water and not

even

> get in....recently we've been finding him going onto porn sites on

> the internet (naruto porn) to be exact and have been finding his 12

> year old sisters bras and panties stuffed behind his bed....also he

> has been doing somehting with her bathing suites in the bathroom

and

> hides them in there behind things in the closet...they are wet...we

> arent sure if hes putting them on or what hes doing...we tried to

> talk to him and he admits to putting them there but will not say

why

> just says he dont know we ask what he does with them and he just

> shrugs his shoulder...he has now what is called wrap around

services

> with a TSS and BSC but they are ending his services because they

say

> he has met his goals...but he aslo has a caseworker through another

> agency who feels he needs more and is sending him for an eval with

a

> more intensive agency...some say that they think i'm wrong for

> looking for more help but i think this issue with his sisters stuff

> is too big to ignore...anyone having any issues of this kind or any

> advice on how to handle this? hes my oldest of 6 lkids so i'm

really

> not sure if the attitude is teenage or aspergers or the behaviors

are

> from aspergers?

>

[Guest guest]

What book did you buy? I got one at the library on puberty and he thought it was the dumbest/funniest thing and said he already knew all that and most things he got from the movies. I reminded him if he's learning things from friends, it's not always correct. And if he's getting things from movies, it's not always reality. I told him I prefer he learn things the correct way and I would look for a better book. The one I got from the library was kind of little kiddish.>> my son is 14

years old and we are starting to have some pretty big > issues with him...hes aspergers diagnosed about 2 years ago...cant > say that he is a very bad behaved kid...just a little on the > controling part with things that intrest him...video games naruto > cards things of that sort has to be in control his way or no > way...doesnt show much anger cept for the temper when hes confronted > with something. altho nothing seems to bother him...hard to ground > him or take anything from him he just replys with so what or i dont > care...hes on adderall xr to help with attention tends to zone out > alot...and also on remrun to help him with change and sleep. He could > stay up all night if you let him...we have issues where he tries to > get away with not taking his meds and also showering..he will go days > without showering..and also when you do make him get in the

shower he > fakes it and will sit in there for 2 hours running water and not even > get in....recently we've been finding him going onto porn sites on > the internet (naruto porn) to be exact and have been finding his 12 > year old sisters bras and panties stuffed behind his bed....also he > has been doing somehting with her bathing suites in the bathroom and > hides them in there behind things in the closet...they are wet...we > arent sure if hes putting them on or what hes doing...we tried to > talk to him and he admits to putting them there but will not say why > just says he dont know we ask what he does with them and he just > shrugs his shoulder...he has now what is called wrap around services > with a TSS and BSC but they are ending his services because they say > he has met his goals...but he aslo has a caseworker through another >

agency who feels he needs more and is sending him for an eval with a > more intensive agency...some say that they think i'm wrong for > looking for more help but i think this issue with his sisters stuff > is too big to ignore...anyone having any issues of this kind or any > advice on how to handle this? hes my oldest of 6 lkids so i'm really > not sure if the attitude is teenage or aspergers or the behaviors are > from aspergers?>