teenage and aspergers

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my son is 14 years old and we are starting to have some pretty big

issues with him...hes aspergers diagnosed about 2 years ago...cant

say that he is a very bad behaved kid...just a little on the

controling part with things that intrest him...video games naruto

cards things of that sort has to be in control his way or no

way...doesnt show much anger cept for the temper when hes confronted

with something. altho nothing seems to bother him...hard to ground

him or take anything from him he just replys with so what or i dont

care...hes on adderall xr to help with attention tends to zone out

alot...and also on remrun to help him with change and sleep. He could

stay up all night if you let him...we have issues where he tries to

get away with not taking his meds and also showering..he will go days

without showering..and also when you do make him get in the shower he

fakes it and will sit in there for 2 hours running water and not even

get in....recently we've been finding him going onto porn sites on

the internet (naruto porn) to be exact and have been finding his 12

year old sisters bras and panties stuffed behind his bed....also he

has been doing somehting with her bathing suites in the bathroom and

hides them in there behind things in the closet...they are wet...we

arent sure if hes putting them on or what hes doing...we tried to

talk to him and he admits to putting them there but will not say why

just says he dont know we ask what he does with them and he just

shrugs his shoulder...he has now what is called wrap around services

with a TSS and BSC but they are ending his services because they say

he has met his goals...but he aslo has a caseworker through another

agency who feels he needs more and is sending him for an eval with a

more intensive agency...some say that they think i'm wrong for

looking for more help but i think this issue with his sisters stuff

is too big to ignore...anyone having any issues of this kind or any

advice on how to handle this? hes my oldest of 6 lkids so i'm really

not sure if the attitude is teenage or aspergers or the behaviors are

from aspergers?