Guest guest Posted November 23, 2008 Report Share Posted November 23, 2008 Hi, I am new to this list. My son turned 14 last week and received an educational diagnosis (to qualify for services at school) of asperger's 2 years ago when he was in 7th grade. His primary issues are school avoidance, anxiety, black & white thinking, inflexibility, very strong food preferences (which change, and meeting them are crucial to his being able to cope each day), strong aversion to in-home dental care (although he is gettting dental office cleanings 4x/year and brushing daily now if I pay him $1 each time), depression, and sometimes uncontrollable anger. He skipped first grade so is a year younger than his classmates. He attended school regularly grades K-5 except for missing one month in 5th grade. He missed 30% of 6th, 40% of 7th, 60% of 8th. This year he went to high school the first 4 days and then said (articulating the problem very well), " I can't go to this high school. It's too big for me. " It's taken 2 months but he is now registered at an online school and I am hoping he will start classes next week, but concerned that may not work either. I am very concerned about him getting an education. His counselor has recommended that I apply for social security for him. He has been in counseling and on meds the last 2.5 years. They have helped but in many ways the issues are all still the same, so I am taking a step back and wondering if we should be considering a different approach. We live in a small town and I am wondering if the resources here are not experienced enough with these issues to help him. I'm considering getting him evaluated at the medical school in Portland (which hypothetically is bigger and offers more options) to get some more specific advice about what might help him. Recently the overwhelming anger has resurfaced which is another major concern; he is now as big as I am so I can't hold him and soothe him until it subsides anymore. Meds helped with this before and I'm hoping will help again; I think he is just so uncomfortable he doesn't know what to do and eventually explodes. If you have any ideas you think might help us, I'd very much appreciate hearing about them. Thank you Marilyn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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