Guest guest Posted June 27, 2006 Report Share Posted June 27, 2006 IM sorry to hear that your not feeling so well.i will pray for you .kelly im very gun shy to share what help't my pains and nausea if you want i can share with you priv. what has help't my pains,gerd,stomach etc.i really get alot of good info here and dont want liz's boot up my rear lol.:dTim Parsons knoxville,tn 37931 865-258-2196 cell 865-588-2465 x107 work www.knoxville1.com Sports Fantasy Football ’06 - Go with the leader. Start your league today! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2006 Report Share Posted June 27, 2006 IM sorry to hear that your not feeling so well.i will pray for you .kelly im very gun shy to share what help't my pains and nausea if you want i can share with you priv. what has help't my pains,gerd,stomach etc.i really get alot of good info here and dont want liz's boot up my rear lol.:dTim Parsons knoxville,tn 37931 865-258-2196 cell 865-588-2465 x107 work www.knoxville1.com Sneak preview the all-new .com. It's not radically different. Just radically better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2006 Report Share Posted June 27, 2006 A toe maybe but not a boot hun , lol Re: KELLY IM sorry to hear that your not feeling so well.i will pray for you .kelly im very gun shy to share what help't my pains and nausea if you want i can share with you priv. what has help't my pains,gerd,stomach etc.i really get alot of good info here and dont want liz's boot up my rear lol. Tim Parsons knoxville,tn 37931 865-258-2196 cell 865-588-2465 x107 work www.knoxville1.com Sneak preview the all-new .com. It's not radically different. Just radically better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 20, 2009 Report Share Posted April 20, 2009 I have a 12 yr and we have gone through alot that you have and will go through. If you need to vent you can email me personally at ganectarine2@... It is great that you are seeking him help. Beckysome people just are harder to love than others but they all need it! From: T <tina_jucius@...>Subject: ( ) (unknown) Date: Monday, April 20, 2009, 1:26 PMI had (still have somewhat) this problem with my husband. It delayed megetting my son dx'ed and treated for almost a year. I really wish Ihadn't let him. But, what finally started working is to spoon-feed himsmall amounts of info. My husband only new about autism from the movie'Rain Man', so that's where his perspective was coming from. It tooksome time and slow education, like pointing out something my son didthat really frustrated him and being able to tell him that was anexample of an AS behavior I had just read about in the book I wasreading.. My DH did not/has not taken it upon himself to learn more, itall has to come through me. He first agreed that there was 'something'wrong with , then moved on to accepting that needed help with'some' things. He finally accepted the HFA dx after meeting with theschool and listening to the psychologist at the IEP meeting. I had toset that up all myself, take off of work to drive everywhere heneeded to be, the evals, the meetings...Point is, do what you feel youneed to do, and don't let your DH stop you. It is often this way, wherethe mommy has to do all the work. Find out what your DH needs as far aslearning/understanding what is going on. He may still be in a state ofgrieving as well and is just not ready to come to terms. There are agreat many books available - the Autism Sourcebook and Autism SpectrumDisorders talks a lot about grieving/coping/healing. My DH would neversit down and actually read the books, again, I had to spoon-feed him.They also helped me to understand more his actions/non actions. I dothink that he still secretly thinks this is just temporary, that our sonwill 'outgrow' it, so I'm working on that now...Hope this helps.TJ > > Hi My name is Zapalac and I am new to the group. My son is 13 > and was just diagnosed with AS and everything else that comes along > with it. I really need someone to talk to that knows what to do and > how to handle it. My husband doesn't understand or should I say it > doesn't want to. He thinks that my son is just being like this to > irritate him. He thinks after one therapy session he should know > better. They are just going at with each other in front of our other 2 > children and I had to remove my son and I from the situation so there > would not be any more problems. But like most AS children they are out > of there comfort zone so they don't know how to act. I don't know how to get my husband to > understand. We have only gone to one session but I fell like it is not > fair for the other 2 children (4 and 2) for there time to be ruined. > I feel helpless. Can you help me please. > Thank you, > > ------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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