TSS problems again-should I get rid of him-HELP

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Okay....it is starting up again and to put it mildly ...I am done

with him...I think my son needs a new TSS...am I making the right

decision? Help...I am really ticked off ...

My son started with the stomach ache on Tuesday .....into Tuesday

night...then he said he didn't want to go to school....I told him he

needed to go...it was too early in the year to start this...I asked

him what was wrong and he said NOTHING.....well the next morning...he

kept telling me he wanted to stay home and got me upset and I have to

leave at 6:30 a.m. So, I left angry for work and told him to do what

he wanted ...(I know this is wrong but I was so stressed)....his

father called him and told him he needed to go to school and if he

didn't go...Xbox was gone....so my son decided he better go...but he

ended up missing the bus anyways...he called his father and balled

his eyes out as there was no one around to drive him....

At 3:30 p.m. his TSS shows up and I tell him what happened and he

says no matter what he can't miss school...so they are going to work

in the Aspergers workbook instead of doing something fun...and he

says that on friday night...they are not going to watch smackdown

together....on Thursday he comes again at 3:30 and he and my son work

on his homework and then he mentions going out for pizza...I say no

becuause i don't feel like going out....and I don't have any money.

So they watch some history show on 9/11.

On Friday, he calls at 5 p.m. and says since they are not going to

watch smackdown...why don't I bring him to the Casino for ice

cream...now mind you the casino is 20 min. from my house and there is

a closer place maybe 10 min.. I tell him no I don't want to go

out...he says my son needs to get out....my son doesn't want to

go...so I finally say okay but i'll meet you at 6:30 not 6:15....I

should have said no, he didn't eat dinner yet....anyways, I fall

asleep..so depressed...my son was upset and locked himself in his

room after throwing his earpiece....my husband gets home and I have

him call the TSS and tell him we are not coming. He does but has to

leave a message becuase he probably is on the phone. he calls us

back...at this point i no longer want to talk to him....so my husband

says...we don't want to go up there...and let me talk to my son...so

ken talks to our son...and he finally agrees to go...ken calls the

tss back and he says it is too late now...his son is coming ...so

what was he going to be wiht my son for 15 min....and is that why he

wanted us to go to that ice cream store...because it was convenient

for him...

On Saturday night we went out to dinner to celebrate my husband's

birthday and my son tells us that he had texted his TSS on friday

night. He texted this " don't talk to me anymore Loser " ...that is how

angry my son was....and then on Saturday ...he calmed down and said

he was sorry.

Today, Sunday ...my son called him and the TSS said " Don't text me

anymore " and wanted to talk to me but I was out getting my haircut.

So ...do I call this guy? I know he is going to say ...how wrong and

disrespectful my son was....and maybe we should punish him some

more...

Is my son really disrespectful...or just a child who is depressed and

hurt by his TSS and getting his fustrations out...

I am confused myself....and upset...I don't think this tSS is good

for my son....

Help!!!! What do I do....I really want to call him and blast him out!!

My son is moping around now all day and down in the dumps.

Jan