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I am only 5 1/2 weeks out of surgery, so I don't have a very long perspective.

My swelling went away completely around the 2 week mark. As far as your symptoms

now, I would err on the side that your instincts tell you ... that you disagree

with your doctor's conclusion that " everything is fine. " I do not know what may

be available to you as far as follow-up, but if you are devloping an infection

or other conditions such as you describe, it seems more than reasonable that you

insist on a thorough evaluation so you can get to the root of your problem soon.

I wish you the best in doing so.

Curtis

>

> Has anyone had swelling in their face after having Cholesteatoma removed? It's

been about 5 months and Im getting symptoms back... swelling is from forhead

under eye to my chin (mainly temple, eye,and cheek bone)... Also getting a green

discharge from ear, my bottom teeth hurt, producing extra syliva then mouth will

dry out. went back to Dr. he put powder in my ear and says everything is fine..

I don't agree!!

>

[Guest guest]

Oh my gosh, Donna. I'm soooo sorry.

Does your son have an IEP? Do they recognize his disability?Golly.....I'm trying to think what I'd do in this situation. I don't have an advocate...so I'd call my states' Autism Society as well as the countys' Social Services. Our Social Services has a Disability Center.

Hold on, mom. We're all thinking about you and your son. Keep us posted.

Hugs.

Robin

From: Donna Swearingen <theswears@...>Subject: ( ) ?" " < >Date: Monday, March 7, 2011, 6:31 AM

So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!Any advice?Sent from my iPhone

[Guest guest]

Wow, that is insane!! And he didn't even say he was going to get a bomb but that he wanted someone to give him one, obviously no plan there! I would call a civil rights lawyer...

Carolyn

From: Donna Swearingen <theswears@...>" " < >Sent: Mon, March 7, 2011 6:31:52 AMSubject: ( ) ?

So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!Any advice?Sent from my iPhone

[Guest guest]

Do you have a psychiatrist or therapist that is willing to

at least write a letter on behalf of your son and his needs.

I do not consider a psychiatrist or therapist worth working with if

they are not willing at least to write a letter.

If you don't have a psychiatrist, find a pediatric psychiatrist

that is willing to write an evaluation that states

he has AS or anxiety or dysthemia some diagnosis and have the

doctor specify that he needs a supportive setting to shape

approproiate behaviors.

Make sure that you ask if the psychiatrist will write

an evaluation if not move on to the next docotor.

Stay away from forensic psychiaatrists/therapists they

are appointed sometimes by courts and often (not always)

are not very sympathetic.

Pam

>

> So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit

and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of

his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said " I

wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up! " now they don't

recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would

not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!

>

> Any advice?

>

> Sent from my iPhone

>

[Guest guest]

I got a letter in the mail today saying he is on probation and will be arrested and in AEP for 30 days ( in a orange convict jumper) if he hints a threat! ;( I have been the biggest bawl bag;(Sent from my iPhoneOn Mar 7, 2011, at 1:18 PM, Carolyn Weisbard <ccweisbard@...> wrote:

Wow, that is insane!! And he didn't even say he was going to get a bomb but that he wanted someone to give him one, obviously no plan there! I would call a civil rights lawyer...

Carolyn

From: Donna Swearingen <theswears@...>" " < >Sent: Mon, March 7, 2011 6:31:52 AMSubject: ( ) ?

So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!Any advice?Sent from my iPhone

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We have one but can't get an emergency meeting till next Monday!Sent from my iPhoneOn Mar 7, 2011, at 1:29 PM, "Pamela" <susanonderko@...> wrote:

Do you have a psychiatrist or therapist that is willing to

at least write a letter on behalf of your son and his needs.

I do not consider a psychiatrist or therapist worth working with if

they are not willing at least to write a letter.

If you don't have a psychiatrist, find a pediatric psychiatrist

that is willing to write an evaluation that states

he has AS or anxiety or dysthemia some diagnosis and have the

doctor specify that he needs a supportive setting to shape

approproiate behaviors.

Make sure that you ask if the psychiatrist will write

an evaluation if not move on to the next docotor.

Stay away from forensic psychiaatrists/therapists they

are appointed sometimes by courts and often (not always)

are not very sympathetic.

Pam

>

> So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!

>

> Any advice?

>

> Sent from my iPhone

>

[Guest guest]

In that case, maybe you ought to keep him home for 30 days (if that is within the realm of possibility). He can't make a threat against them if he isn't there. That would also make them hurt for money and maybe you can get your doctor or psych to write a letter to them saying what kind of damage they have done to your son with all this, is he aware of their threats??

Carolyn

From: Donna Swearingen <theswears@...>" " < >Sent: Mon, March 7, 2011 3:17:20 PMSubject: Re: ( ) ?

I got a letter in the mail today saying he is on probation and will be arrested and in AEP for 30 days ( in a orange convict jumper) if he hints a threat! ;( I have been the biggest bawl bag;(Sent from my iPhone

On Mar 7, 2011, at 1:18 PM, Carolyn Weisbard <ccweisbard@...> wrote:

Wow, that is insane!! And he didn't even say he was going to get a bomb but that he wanted someone to give him one, obviously no plan there! I would call a civil rights lawyer...

Carolyn

From: Donna Swearingen <theswears@...>" " < >Sent: Mon, March 7, 2011 6:31:52 AMSubject: ( ) ?

So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!Any advice?Sent from my iPhone

[Guest guest]

He goes to an amazing social skills group... The instructor said they are not recognizing the disability and are breaking laws!Sent from my iPhoneOn Mar 7, 2011, at 12:46 PM, and/or Robin Lemke <jrisjs@...> wrote:

Oh my gosh, Donna. I'm soooo sorry.

Does your son have an IEP? Do they recognize his disability?Golly.....I'm trying to think what I'd do in this situation. I don't have an advocate...so I'd call my states' Autism Society as well as the countys' Social Services. Our Social Services has a Disability Center.

Hold on, mom. We're all thinking about you and your son. Keep us posted.

Hugs.

Robin

From: Donna Swearingen <theswears@...>Subject: ( ) ?" " < >Date: Monday, March 7, 2011, 6:31 AM

So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!Any advice?Sent from my iPhone

[Guest guest]

He goes to an amazing social skills group... The instructor said they are not recognizing the disability and are breaking laws!Sent from my iPhoneOn Mar 7, 2011, at 12:46 PM, and/or Robin Lemke <jrisjs@...> wrote:

Oh my gosh, Donna. I'm soooo sorry.

Does your son have an IEP? Do they recognize his disability?Golly.....I'm trying to think what I'd do in this situation. I don't have an advocate...so I'd call my states' Autism Society as well as the countys' Social Services. Our Social Services has a Disability Center.

Hold on, mom. We're all thinking about you and your son. Keep us posted.

Hugs.

Robin

From: Donna Swearingen <theswears@...>Subject: ( ) ?" " < >Date: Monday, March 7, 2011, 6:31 AM

So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!Any advice?Sent from my iPhone

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He's aware and ask if we can stop talking about it because I would start crying again... he's really awesome!Sent from my iPhoneOn Mar 7, 2011, at 4:02 PM, Carolyn Weisbard <ccweisbard@...> wrote:

In that case, maybe you ought to keep him home for 30 days (if that is within the realm of possibility). He can't make a threat against them if he isn't there. That would also make them hurt for money and maybe you can get your doctor or psych to write a letter to them saying what kind of damage they have done to your son with all this, is he aware of their threats??

Carolyn

From: Donna Swearingen <theswears@...>" " < >Sent: Mon, March 7, 2011 3:17:20 PMSubject: Re: ( ) ?

I got a letter in the mail today saying he is on probation and will be arrested and in AEP for 30 days ( in a orange convict jumper) if he hints a threat! ;( I have been the biggest bawl bag;(Sent from my iPhone

On Mar 7, 2011, at 1:18 PM, Carolyn Weisbard <ccweisbard@...> wrote:

Wow, that is insane!! And he didn't even say he was going to get a bomb but that he wanted someone to give him one, obviously no plan there! I would call a civil rights lawyer...

Carolyn

From: Donna Swearingen <theswears@...>" " < >Sent: Mon, March 7, 2011 6:31:52 AMSubject: ( ) ?

So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!Any advice?Sent from my iPhone

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I agree with Carolyn. Request an independant study (schooling from home). I believe you can do it for up to 30 days. Basically the teacher sends home a bunch of homework that she had planned for the class and he has those 30 days to finish it. I wouldn't want him at school during this time either. Then can misinterpret all sorts of things, or provoke him etc. Also I don't think he should be made to feel that he did something so awful. The weight of the world is on his shoulders right now. Yes he could try to control what words come out of his mouth but it is part of his disorder. Which brings up a point. If he has an IEP and they are aware of his disorder then this could be proven that it was a manisfestation of his disorder. Definately need to call up some help - an advocate or a disability lawyer... someone. Maybe in desperate measures to bring negative attention to the school you could call the news channel ????? just a thought but probably only if you don't plan to return to that school. sorry, I'm probably not much help as I'd like to be.

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So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!Any advice?Sent from my iPhone

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you should find a sped lawyer or at the least, a good advocate.

Roxanna

“Our lives begin to end the day we

become silent about things that matter.†- Luther King, Jr.

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So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!

Any advice?

Sent from my iPhone

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I agree with as well. ANY time they suspend or expell a child with a disability for more than 10 days they HAVE to conduct a manifestation hearing. Any change in the placement from the placement of his IEP requires an IEP meeting unless you agree to the change in placement.

If at the manifestation hearing it is determined that the behavior is part of his disability (which it should be) then he stays put.

Below from the book "All about IEPs" ...

You should write a letter to the director of special education for your distric and copy the principle, and the head of your child's IEP team. Describe the incident that led to the arrest. Request a functional behavior assesment (FBA). Request an IEP meeting to review the FBA. Then request a behavior plan be developed to help address your son's inability to express his frustrations in appropriate ways. They are required to do this....

SEE BELOW FROM IDEA 2004 SECTION 1415 (k)

On the date on which the decision is made to make a removal that constitutes a change of placement of a child with a disability because of a violation of a code of student conduct, the LEA must notify the parents of that decision, and provide the parents the procedural safeguards notice described in 34 CFR 300.504.[34 CFR 300.530(h)] [20 U.S.C. 1415(k)(1)(H)]7. Establish a new standard for manifestation determinations.Within ten school days of any decision to change the placement of a child with a disability because of a violation of a code of student conduct, the LEA, the parent, and relevant members of the child’s IEP Team (as determined by the parent and the LEA) must review all relevant information in the student’s file, including the child’s IEP, any teacher observations, and any relevant information provided by the parents to determine:

If the conduct in question was caused by, or had a direct and substantial relationship to, the child’s disability; or

If the conduct in question was the direct result of the LEA’s failure to implement the IEP.

The conduct must be determined to be a manifestation of the child’s disability if the LEA, the parent, and relevant members of the child’s IEP Team determine that a condition in either 34 CFR 300.530(e)(1)(i) or (1)(ii) was met.[34 CFR 300.530(e)(1) and (2)] [20 U.S.C. 1415(k)(1)(E)]If the LEA, the parent, and relevant members of the child’s IEP Team determine the condition described in 34 CFR 300.530(e)(1)(ii) was met, the LEA must take immediate steps to remedy those deficiencies.[34 CFR 300.530(e)(3)] 8. Add a new provision when there is a determination that the behavior was a manifestation of the disability.If the LEA, the parent, and relevant members of the IEP Team make the determination that the conduct was a manifestation of the child’s disability, the IEP Team must either conduct a functional behavioral assessment, unless the LEA had

conducted a functional behavioral assessment before the behavior that resulted in the change of placement occurred, and implement a behavioral intervention plan for the child or, if a behavioral intervention plan already has been developed, review the behavioral intervention plan, and modify it, as necessary, to address the behavior; and except as provided in 34 CFR 300.530(g), return the child to the placement from which the child was removed, unless the parent and the LEA agree to a change of placement as part of the modification of the behavioral intervention plan.[34 CFR 300.530(f)] [20 U.S.C. 1415(k)(1)(F)]

I hope this helps. You also should get an advocate ASAP. Do you know what agencies offer advocacy assistance in your area? I don't know what state you are in but you can go to yellopagesforkids.com and find services in your state. Good luck and keep us posted! <<hugs>>

ne

Wow, that is insane!! And he didn't even say he was going to get a bomb but that he wanted someone to give him one, obviously no plan there! I would call a civil rights lawyer...

Carolyn

From: Donna Swearingen <theswears@...>" " < >Sent: Mon, March 7, 2011 6:31:52 AMSubject: ( ) ?

So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!Any advice?Sent from my iPhone

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Yeah, he really sounds awesome!!!!!!

Hugs.

Robin

Wow, that is insane!! And he didn't even say he was going to get a bomb but that he wanted someone to give him one, obviously no plan there! I would call a civil rights lawyer...

Carolyn

From: Donna Swearingen <theswears@...>" " < >Sent: Mon, March 7, 2011 6:31:52 AMSubject: ( ) ?

So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!Any advice?Sent from my iPhone

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Get that boy a Lawyer NOW!  Did I miss the where the school was conducting a manifestation hearing first?  Someone needs to file a motion to dismiss the complaint and may wish to consider a suit against the school or a DP complaint per your state’s regs. Very truly yours; Todd B. KotlerAttorney and Counselor at LawPO Box 2041Massillon, Ohio 44646-2041 330-777-0065 Phone / Fax / VoicemailDISCLAIMERThis e-mail contains information intended only for the use of the individual or entity named above and may be protected by attorney-client privilege. However, the mere receipt of this e-mail, alone, is not sufficient to create an attorney-client relationship. If the reader of this e-mail is not the intended recipient or the employee or agent responsible for delivering it to the intended recipient, any dissemination, publication or copying of this e-mail is strictly prohibited. The sender does not accept any responsibility for any loss, disruption or damage to your data or computer system that may occur while using data contained in, or transmitted with, this e-mail. If you have received this e-mail in error, please immediately notify us by return e-mail. Thank you Partners With Youth helps less fortunate children come to camp! Give today by clicking the donation button. From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Donna SwearingenSent: Monday, March 07, 2011 4:17 PM Subject: Re: ( ) ? I got a letter in the mail today saying he is on probation and will be arrested and in AEP for 30 days ( in a orange convict jumper) if he hints a threat! ;( I have been the biggest bawl bag;(Sent from my iPhoneOn Mar 7, 2011, at 1:18 PM, Carolyn Weisbard <ccweisbard@...> wrote: Wow, that is insane!! And he didn't even say he was going to get a bomb but that he wanted someone to give him one, obviously no plan there! I would call a civil rights lawyer...Carolyn From: Donna Swearingen <theswears@...> " " < >Sent: Mon, March 7, 2011 6:31:52 AMSubject: ( ) ? So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said " I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up! " now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!Any advice?Sent from my iPhone

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Thanks ! I took off work yesterday and had found this on the Internet under laws and ARDS (heard later they were supposed to give me a copy) I called and ask for an emergency ARD and have a staff meeting instead at 9:00 this morning to Start Fresh (per director of special services) She told our social skills director, that was holding a copy of the write up and letter talking of the arrest that would happen upon another incident... By the way that was our first write up!;(I had mentioned to the principal that was our first write up and he said they are bringing more in! That there have been other things they are going to write him up now on! WHAT! They call to ask me to bring him another shirt because of static but IF there were other important issues they can't call and tell me?Question???? Do you know how long they have to do a write up?Also, I am worried because he is a transfer to this small school and I think they can revoke him for no reason at all!;(Thanks for all input! I'm at a loss! Sent from my iPhoneOn Mar 7, 2011, at 10:17 PM, susanne hansen <s_hansen34@...> wrote:

I agree with as well. ANY time they suspend or expell a child with a disability for more than 10 days they HAVE to conduct a manifestation hearing. Any change in the placement from the placement of his IEP requires an IEP meeting unless you agree to the change in placement.

If at the manifestation hearing it is determined that the behavior is part of his disability (which it should be) then he stays put.

Below from the book "All about IEPs" ...

You should write a letter to the director of special education for your distric and copy the principle, and the head of your child's IEP team. Describe the incident that led to the arrest. Request a functional behavior assesment (FBA). Request an IEP meeting to review the FBA. Then request a behavior plan be developed to help address your son's inability to express his frustrations in appropriate ways. They are required to do this....

SEE BELOW FROM IDEA 2004 SECTION 1415 (k)

On the date on which the decision is made to make a removal that constitutes a change of placement of a child with a disability because of a violation of a code of student conduct, the LEA must notify the parents of that decision, and provide the parents the procedural safeguards notice described in 34 CFR 300.504.[34 CFR 300.530(h)] [20 U.S.C. 1415(k)(1)(H)]7. Establish a new standard for manifestation determinations.Within ten school days of any decision to change the placement of a child with a disability because of a violation of a code of student conduct, the LEA, the parent, and relevant members of the child’s IEP Team (as determined by the parent and the LEA) must review all relevant information in the student’s file, including the child’s IEP, any teacher observations, and any relevant information provided by the parents to determine:

If the conduct in question was caused by, or had a direct and substantial relationship to, the child’s disability; or

If the conduct in question was the direct result of the LEA’s failure to implement the IEP.

The conduct must be determined to be a manifestation of the child’s disability if the LEA, the parent, and relevant members of the child’s IEP Team determine that a condition in either 34 CFR 300.530(e)(1)(i) or (1)(ii) was met.[34 CFR 300.530(e)(1) and (2)] [20 U.S.C. 1415(k)(1)(E)]If the LEA, the parent, and relevant members of the child’s IEP Team determine the condition described in 34 CFR 300.530(e)(1)(ii) was met, the LEA must take immediate steps to remedy those deficiencies.[34 CFR 300.530(e)(3)] 8. Add a new provision when there is a determination that the behavior was a manifestation of the disability.If the LEA, the parent, and relevant members of the IEP Team make the determination that the conduct was a manifestation of the child’s disability, the IEP Team must either conduct a functional behavioral assessment, unless the LEA had

conducted a functional behavioral assessment before the behavior that resulted in the change of placement occurred, and implement a behavioral intervention plan for the child or, if a behavioral intervention plan already has been developed, review the behavioral intervention plan, and modify it, as necessary, to address the behavior; and except as provided in 34 CFR 300.530(g), return the child to the placement from which the child was removed, unless the parent and the LEA agree to a change of placement as part of the modification of the behavioral intervention plan.[34 CFR 300.530(f)] [20 U.S.C. 1415(k)(1)(F)]

I hope this helps. You also should get an advocate ASAP. Do you know what agencies offer advocacy assistance in your area? I don't know what state you are in but you can go to yellopagesforkids.com and find services in your state. Good luck and keep us posted! <<hugs>>

ne

Wow, that is insane!! And he didn't even say he was going to get a bomb but that he wanted someone to give him one, obviously no plan there! I would call a civil rights lawyer...

Carolyn

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So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!Any advice?Sent from my iPhone

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Ok! Sounds like a plan! Thanks!Sent from my iPhoneOn Mar 8, 2011, at 5:43 AM, "Todd Kotler" <TBKotler@...> wrote:

Get that boy a Lawyer NOW! Did I miss the where the school was conducting a manifestation hearing first? Someone needs to file a motion to dismiss the complaint and may wish to consider a suit against the school or a DP complaint per your state’s regs. Very truly yours; <image001.jpg>Todd B. KotlerAttorney and Counselor at LawPO Box 2041Massillon, Ohio 44646-2041 330-777-0065 Phone / Fax / VoicemailDISCLAIMERThis e-mail contains information intended only for the use of the individual or entity named above and may be protected by attorney-client privilege. However, the mere receipt of this e-mail, alone, is not sufficient to create an attorney-client relationship. If the reader of this e-mail is not the intended recipient or the employee or agent responsible for delivering it to the intended recipient, any dissemination, publication or copying of this e-mail is strictly prohibited. The sender does not accept any responsibility for any loss, disruption or damage to your data or computer system that may occur while using data contained in, or transmitted with, this e-mail. If you have received this e-mail in error, please immediately notify us by return e-mail. Thank you Partners With Youth helps less fortunate children come to camp! Give today by clicking the donation button.<image002.jpg> From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Donna SwearingenSent: Monday, March 07, 2011 4:17 PM Subject: Re: ( ) ? I got a letter in the mail today saying he is on probation and will be arrested and in AEP for 30 days ( in a orange convict jumper) if he hints a threat! ;( I have been the biggest bawl bag;(Sent from my iPhoneOn Mar 7, 2011, at 1:18 PM, Carolyn Weisbard <ccweisbard@...> wrote: Wow, that is insane!! And he didn't even say he was going to get a bomb but that he wanted someone to give him one, obviously no plan there! I would call a civil rights lawyer...Carolyn From: Donna Swearingen <theswears@...>" " < >Sent: Mon, March 7, 2011 6:31:52 AMSubject: ( ) ? So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!Any advice?Sent from my iPhone

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Hi Roxanna:

I can not know what might be said to get some Aspe Teeen get sent to the princiles office. But but I know Adult Aspes freequently are the people who say the truths that no one wants to listen to. They were probablly the first none Jewish people killed in Nazi Germany.

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So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!Any advice?Sent from my iPhone

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What's to stop them writing up the other incidents and backdating the writeups,

to make it look less like they are out to get your son? Hopefully your lawyer

will have an answer to this question.

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> Thanks ! I took off work yesterday and had found this on the Internet

under laws and ARDS (heard later they were supposed to give me a copy) I called

and ask for an emergency ARD and have a staff meeting instead at 9:00 this

morning to Start Fresh (per director of special services) She told our social

skills director, that was holding a copy of the write up and letter talking of

the arrest that would happen upon another incident... By the way that was our

first write up!;(

> I had mentioned to the principal that was our first write up and he said they

are bringing more in! That there have been other things they are going to write

him up now on! WHAT! They call to ask me to bring him another shirt because of

static but IF there were other important issues they can't call and tell me?

> Question???? Do you know how long they have to do a write up?

> Also, I am worried because he is a transfer to this small school and I think

they can revoke him for no reason at all!;(

> Thanks for all input! I'm at a loss!

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> Sent from my iPhone

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I don't know if it's different in your state or with your school but my son was a transfer from anothe district as well. They can revoke the transfer based on academic grades, attendance or behavior but the catch is if he has an IEP almost all behavior can be explained by his disability. Therefore they couldnt actually kick him out of that school for those reasons. But they will try and it will be a constant battle for you. My heart goes out to you. You are in my thoughts and I hope you get this resolved. Keep us posted please!

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Hugs.

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Whoo hoo Donna! That is good news! One small battle won. I am very happy for you. I will pray for you and your son that things continue to get better. Good luck!ne>

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I'm so sorry.I could definitely see my son doing this.  He can say things and not realize what he's saying until after his anger is under control.  I wish you luck.  I can not get an IEP or 504 for my son b/c they say his grades are not affected so he doesn't need assistance.  

Please let us know the outcome.  I am definitely sorry you are going through this.On Mon, Mar 7, 2011 at 7:31 AM, Donna Swearingen <theswears@...> wrote:

 

So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said " I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up! " now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!

Any advice?

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Donna,

Ask for a copy of the school's student code of conduct. In there it should clearly define the districts definition of suspension and what constitutes a suspension. We had this issue this year with suspensions. My son was suspended five times in three months of school and once we were even threatened with juvenille authorities if we didn't pick up our son because he was refusing to do work. One time he was suspended because he had been sent to the office three days in a row!! We finallly had to get an advocate and we wrote a letter to the direcotr of special education dept as well as called the state DOE special ed dept.

Unfortunately some (many) schools will push and push just to see how far they can go. It is dispicable. I am SO glad you got an advocate and that they didn't cut the school any slack. They don't deserve any slack! We had to have the criteria specically described in my son's BIP this time so they will never get away with what they put us through again.

You should do this as well. Make sure in your son's BIP that the criteria for suspension is very specifically described. Also on his IEP under the category "social/emotional" have them put a goal that he will use appropriate methods to express his feelings and manage frustration, then they will be responsible as well for TEACHING him these things.

<<hugs>> again to you both!ne

Wow, that is insane!! And he didn't even say he was going to get a bomb but that he wanted someone to give him one, obviously no plan there! I would call a civil rights lawyer...

Carolyn

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It shouldn't matter if his grades are affected. My son's weren't either. It matters if he has issues that need to be addressed. You should request that they do an assessment of his adaptive and social skills. ne

So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!Any advice?Sent from my iPhone