Guest guest Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 Sue, Are you using crispy nuts? If so, how long are you soaking them? You are right, sometimes nuts can be hard on the gut, and I will only recommend the GAPS diet to my clients with the understanding that all nuts should be soaked or sprouted and then dried before making flour in the food processor, à la NT, in order to remove the enzyme inhibitors. It might be helpful for our son to sprout the nuts (which happens after prolonged soaking), then dry them and use them for recipes. Coconut, at least coconut oil, has a reputation for being more benign, but each person is so different. Sometimes people go through something called a “healing crisis.” I’m not sure if you’re familiar with the term, but for those who are not, it means that when we begin the process of natural healing, the potential is there to feel worse before feeling better. (In homeopathy, it’s called an aggravation.) Bruce Fife has written an entire book on the healing crisis, although I have not read it, so I can’t endorse it. I find that broth is incredibly nourishing during a healing crisis. Likewise, I’ve found that broth can also be filling for hungry bellies! There seems to be a period of adjustment that one goes through when eliminating grains. When we eat grains, we tend to eat larger quantities of food, so when we switch to a diet higher in fat, for example, theoretically we don’t need to consume as much food for the energy and nourishment requirements, yet our stomachs are used to a certain amount of food. That’s where the broth comes in — it’s not only nourishing and healing, but it fills up the stomach in place of the grains. (We’re actually holding off on starting the diet until we get our pig. We’re going to need large quantities of fat and meat on the diet, so we’ve purchased 1/2 pig from TLC Ranch down in ville, and it is currently at Los Gatos Meats being naturally processed. Even though they do MSG- and nitrate-free, we’re getting mostly plain ground pork so that I can make my own bulk sausage. I’ll let you know how it goes.) Good luck, and I hope your son is feeling better. Peace, On 1/8/08 8:12 AM, " sue vican " <svican@...> wrote: HI All, I just started my 18 year old son on the GAPS diet 3 days ago. He has major gut issues as well as mood issues, and has been nonfunctional (as in sleeping or lying on the couch watching TV for 1 1/2 years), and has received multiple diagnoses, tried multiple protocols and medications all to no avail. I am wondering about using so many nuts and coconut, it seems to me that these aren't that easy to digest, but with no grains or dairy, I don't know how else I'd keep him filled up. This morning he woke with horrible burning around his belly button. I'm wondering if this might be from all the nuts/coconut?? Are others finding nuts/coconut problematic, or not? thanks, sue v. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 i have been having a problem with nuts as well. i've found that if i eat nuts that are not soaked and dried then i get bad gas and bloating. i didn't realize soaking the nuts was such a big deal until now. i wonder if you can purchase already soaked nuts? or better yet if you can purchase fresh nuts in bulk then do it yourself? we've been getting nuts from our local health food store but their $7 a pound and not organic. also my breastfeeding son has a problem when i eat nuts that are not soaked, he gets gassy and spits up i wonder why that is? sam > Sue, > > Are you using crispy nuts? If so, how long are you soaking them? You are > right, sometimes nuts can be hard on the gut, and I will only recommend the > GAPS diet to my clients with the understanding that all nuts should be > soaked or sprouted and then dried before making flour in the food processor, > à la NT, in order to remove the enzyme inhibitors. It might be helpful for > our son to sprout the nuts (which happens after prolonged soaking), then dry > them and use them for recipes. Coconut, at least coconut oil, has a > reputation for being more benign, but each person is so different. > > Sometimes people go through something called a ³healing crisis.² I¹m not > sure if you¹re familiar with the term, but for those who are not, it means > that when we begin the process of natural healing, the potential is there to > feel worse before feeling better. (In homeopathy, it¹s called an > aggravation.) Bruce Fife has written an entire book on the healing crisis, > although I have not read it, so I can¹t endorse it. I find that broth is > incredibly nourishing during a healing crisis. > > Likewise, I¹ve found that broth can also be filling for hungry bellies! > There seems to be a period of adjustment that one goes through when > eliminating grains. When we eat grains, we tend to eat larger quantities of > food, so when we switch to a diet higher in fat, for example, theoretically > we don¹t need to consume as much food for the energy and nourishment > requirements, yet our stomachs are used to a certain amount of food. That¹s > where the broth comes in ‹ it¹s not only nourishing and healing, but it > fills up the stomach in place of the grains. > > (We¹re actually holding off on starting the diet until we get our pig. We¹re > going to need large quantities of fat and meat on the diet, so we¹ve > purchased 1/2 pig from TLC Ranch down in ville, and it is currently at > Los Gatos Meats being naturally processed. Even though they do MSG- and > nitrate-free, we¹re getting mostly plain ground pork so that I can make my > own bulk sausage. I¹ll let you know how it goes.) > > Good luck, and I hope your son is feeling better. > > Peace, > > > On 1/8/08 8:12 AM, " sue vican " <svican@...> wrote: > > > HI All, > > > > I just started my 18 year old son on the GAPS diet 3 days ago. He has major > > gut issues as > > well as mood issues, and has been nonfunctional (as in sleeping or lying on > > the couch > > watching TV for 1 1/2 years), and has received multiple diagnoses, tried > > multiple > > protocols and medications all to no avail. I am wondering about using so many > > nuts and > > coconut, it seems to me that these aren't that easy to digest, but with no > > grains or dairy, I > > don't know how else I'd keep him filled up. This morning he woke with > > horrible burning > > around his belly button. I'm wondering if this might be from all the > > nuts/coconut?? > > > > Are others finding nuts/coconut problematic, or not? > > > > thanks, sue v. > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 , thanks for the comments about broth for hungry bellies! We've only been on the diet for a week, but my two boys (ages 7 and 4) have been saying "I'm hungry" constantly, despite my best efforts to fill them up. Since we're in our dairy-free phase, we've also lost the butter, which I used to slather on everything, and they're not overly fond of huge amounts of coconut oil. Anyway, reading your post I am going to try even harder on the broth front. Thanks for the tip! Also, if you come up with some tasty homemade sausage recipes, please pass them on! We tried 's version last weekend, 3 out of 4 of us liked it, but the 4-year-old wouldn't touch it (and ordinarily he LOVES sausage). Sigh. Re: [ ] nuts & coconut on gaps Likewise, I’ve found that broth can also be filling for hungry bellies! There seems to be a period of adjustment that one goes through when eliminating grains. When we eat grains, we tend to eat larger quantities of food, so when we switch to a diet higher in fat, for example, theoretically we don’t need to consume as much food for the energy and nourishment requirements, yet our stomachs are used to a certain amount of food. That’s where the broth comes in — it’s not only nourishing and healing, but it fills up the stomach in place of the grains. .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 i would love some tips on how to stay full as well. we just started the diet too and i feel like i'm starving, i just can't stop eating. even my DH noticed i wonder why that is. i've been craving/ eating a lot of nuts, unsoaked as well as soaked and craving fuit and honey. does anyone know why or what to do? i've also been having problems with gas and bloating but i think that's from the nuts. thanks > , thanks for the comments about broth for hungry bellies! We've only been on the diet for a week, but my two boys (ages 7 and 4) have been saying " I'm hungry " constantly, despite my best efforts to fill them up. Since we're in our dairy-free phase, we've also lost the butter, which I used to slather on everything, and they're not overly fond of huge amounts of coconut oil. Anyway, reading your post I am going to try even harder on the broth front. Thanks for the tip! > > Also, if you come up with some tasty homemade sausage recipes, please pass them on! We tried 's version last weekend, 3 out of 4 of us liked it, but the 4-year-old wouldn't touch it (and ordinarily he LOVES sausage). Sigh. > > > > > Re: [ ] nuts & coconut on gaps > > > > Likewise, I've found that broth can also be filling for hungry bellies! There seems to be a period of adjustment that one goes through when eliminating grains. When we eat grains, we tend to eat larger quantities of food, so when we switch to a diet higher in fat, for example, theoretically we don't need to consume as much food for the energy and nourishment requirements, yet our stomachs are used to a certain amount of food. That's where the broth comes in — it's not only nourishing and healing, but it fills up the stomach in place of the grains. > > Recent Activity > 7New Members > Visit Your Group > Cancer Support > Groups on > Find answers, > connect with others. > Health > Looking for Love? > Find relationship > advice and answers. > > Healthy Eating Zone > Encouraging families > to eat healthy.. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 , Why do nuts need to be dehydrated after soaking? I have been having problems with nuts as well. I am more constipated then usual and my liver is very swollen. I soak my nuts overnight then dehydrate but once I just soaked and put them in the processor while they were still moist because I questioned the need for making crispy nuts as the bread is baked. Another thing I do not understand is that aren't we killing all of the good enzymes when we cook the bread at 300F? I feel like it makes the soaking pointless. Do you know? Thanks! Aimee > Are you using crispy nuts? If so, how long are you soaking them? You are > right, sometimes nuts can be hard on the gut, and I will only recommend the > GAPS diet to my clients with the understanding that all nuts should be > soaked or sprouted and then dried Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 Thanks for all the comments suggestions. And yes, I do soak and dry nuts for crispy nuts and nut flour, I soak them overnight with sea salt per NT. I also soak nuts for nut milk but don't dry them before making the milk. I'm not saying the nuts are making my son feel worse, he was already in great pain before starting the diet. I'm trying him on the diet per the suggestion of one of his doctors, and before we start doing more invasive testing of many body systems to try and figure out what is wrong. I hope the diet will help, but actually am not optimistic, he has already been on a couple other very restrictive diets that didn't help at all, he's been gluten free for over a year, and I probably don't have more than 3 - 4 weeks to do the diet before he will go off of it. It would be much easier if he was younger.... I do make soup with broth every day, but he is a very picky eater, and only eats one kind of soup so I can't give it to him more than once per day or he will get sick of it. There is no way he would drink broth. I have to make muffins, etc. to help fill him up. He will only drink fruit juice with no veges, while my younger healthy son asks for more of the fruit/vege juice combo. My sick son doesn't much like veges so he's not going to fill up on those. That leaves meat and you can only eat so much plain meat... , a butter substitute that you might try is the Green Pastures coconut oil/ghee which has a nice taste and spreading consistency. I think it would be GAP compatible. Sue V. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 Aimee, Truly, the nuts should be soaked in salt water as traditional cultures have done, then dried in the sun (which is not possible this time of year), in an oven set at 150, or in a dehydrator. (Higher temps will kill the enzymes.) As mentioned, raw nuts contain enzyme inhibitors which make it difficult to properly digest and assimilate the plentiful nutrients in the nuts. There seems to be a synergy between the salt and nuts, because soaking the nuts in water alone does not neutralize the inhibitors unless you soak them until they sprout. A terrific resource here is the Nourishing Traditions cookbook by Sally Fallon. For those of you who aren’t familiar with it, it is a veritable encyclopedia of information. For nut info, see the section “Snacks and Finger Foods.” She also has a recipe for sprouting almonds (among other nuts and seeds). While it’s true that the enzymes are killed at 300, what’s more important is that the enzyme inhibitors are neutralized by the soaking in salt water or sprouting (in fresh water). When I make sourdough bread using wheat and rye, for instance, I know that the baking process kills the culture, but the culture has somehow “sacrificed” itself by breaking down much of the gluten in the wheat and rye (making it much more digestible, and allowing for the rising process without yeast). As far as the digestive system is concerned, the liver is the main processor of toxins for the body. When we begin to release a lot of toxins (perhaps in the case of someone on a GAPS diet, gut pathogens that are dying off), the liver has to work overtime. There are several herbs and supplements that can help the liver with this process, although Dr. C-MB seems to rely solely on the GAPS diet. It will be interesting to see how the GAPS protocol evolves as more practitioners become familiar with her work. Peace, On 1/8/08 7:42 PM, " aimee_del " <a.delongchamp@...> wrote: , Why do nuts need to be dehydrated after soaking? I have been having problems with nuts as well. I am more constipated then usual and my liver is very swollen. I soak my nuts overnight then dehydrate but once I just soaked and put them in the processor while they were still moist because I questioned the need for making crispy nuts as the bread is baked. Another thing I do not understand is that aren't we killing all of the good enzymes when we cook the bread at 300F? I feel like it makes the soaking pointless. Do you know? Thanks! Aimee > Are you using crispy nuts? If so, how long are you soaking them? You are > right, sometimes nuts can be hard on the gut, and I will only recommend the > GAPS diet to my clients with the understanding that all nuts should be > soaked or sprouted and then dried Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 What are his symptoms, Sue?Ann MarieOn Jan 8, 2008 8:29 PM, sue <svican@...> wrote: I hope the diet will help, but actually am not optimistic, he has alreadybeen on a couple other very restrictive diets that didn't help at all,he's been gluten free for over a year, and I probably don't have more Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 Sue, I was just thinking about Chinese medicine and wondering if you have ever thought of taking your son to see a pediatric acupuncturist (they don't necessarily use needles)? I am going to take my son to a local ND who is also a acupuncturist, but she uses tuning forks on the points instead of needles with the little ones, and she also does NAET testing, which I'm excited to learn more about. Don't know if you're familiar with Chinese Medicine, but it is a wonderful, ancient healing system and could help look more deeply into your son's issues. I would especially look for a Five Element acupuncturist, but they're harder to find. You can do some research on your own also -- www.acupuncture.com is a great resource I just discovered! So much can be ascertained from simply looking at your son's face, feeling his pulse (a LAc is trained in this), looking at his tongue, noting his habits, emotional state and so on. For instance, raw foods may not be good for your son, even if juicing sounds like such a great thing (and it may be for some people). For people with weak digestive systems, however, eating raw, cold foods can cause more problems, weaken digestion even more, etc. A good Chinese medical doctor could determine all of this and make recommendations and a treatment plan. I know this has nothing to do with the GAPS diet, but it is something that came to mind as I read your last post... M. > > Thanks for all the comments suggestions. And yes, I do soak and dry nuts > for crispy nuts and nut flour, I soak them overnight with sea salt per > NT. I also soak nuts for nut milk but don't dry them before making the > milk. > > I'm not saying the nuts are making my son feel worse, he was already in > great pain before starting the diet. I'm trying him on the diet per the > suggestion of one of his doctors, and before we start doing more invasive > testing of many body systems to try and figure out what is wrong. > > I hope the diet will help, but actually am not optimistic, he has already > been on a couple other very restrictive diets that didn't help at all, > he's been gluten free for over a year, and I probably don't have more > than 3 - 4 weeks to do the diet before he will go off of it. It would > be much easier if he was younger.... > > I do make soup with broth every day, but he is a very picky eater, and > only eats one kind of soup so I can't give it to him more than once per > day or he will get sick of it. There is no way he would drink broth. I > have to make muffins, etc. to help fill him up. He will only drink fruit > juice with no veges, while my younger healthy son asks for more of the > fruit/vege juice combo. My sick son doesn't much like veges so he's not > going to fill up on those. That leaves meat and you can only eat so much > plain meat... > > > , a butter substitute that you might try is the Green Pastures > coconut oil/ghee which has a nice taste and spreading consistency. I > think it would be GAP compatible. > > > Sue V. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 Sue, I am so not looking forward to my children becoming teenagers! Is Dr. Cowan the one who put him on the diet? He is recommending it a lot these days (what a compliment for Dr. C-MB!). I believe that Cowan would also be a good person to have a man-to-man with your son about the role he will play in his own future, or perhaps a favorite teacher who could offer you both support. Obviously an 18-yo is different from an 8 yo. It is much more difficult to impose our good wishes on them. It is really up to him to choose to be healthy. He can change his diet and really commit and get over the pain, or he can have issues the rest of his life. (Have him talk to someone who’s had to clean out their intestines before having a colonoscopy.) Unfortunately it puts you, the parent, in a very difficult, vulnerable position. You work so hard already to provide not only nourishing food but a safe, loving home for your family. I know this already from previous conversations that we have had, and you love your sons as much as any mother I know. In fact, you do a lot more for your sons than a lot of mothers I know. It’s very easy for me to tell you to say “tough doo-doo” when he won’t eat the same soup 2 days in a row. I think my reaction would be to let him starve. (I’ll be seeing clients at the FF Clinic on Monday afternoon if you want to bring him by for a little talking to from someone who went through all of those invasive tests in her 20s...) But I digress... I wonder if any of his food pickiness comes from his gut issues? That was something that Dr. C-MB really stressed at the conference, how much our gut flora affect our cravings and food desires, not to mention our conscious thoughts. She believes that many additions, whether they be to sugar, Mcs, alcohol, or drugs, are a result of pathogenic overgrowth and imbalance in the gut flora. This is particularly magnified in autistic children, who tend to crave the foods that cause them the most “damage” -- i.e., foods like the caseinomorphines — in order to feed the crazy ragamuffins living in their guts. Ok, I hope I make sense. I just got home from a class meeting and am ready for the rain to stop. Peace, On 1/8/08 8:29 PM, " sue " <svican@...> wrote: Thanks for all the comments suggestions. And yes, I do soak and dry nuts for crispy nuts and nut flour, I soak them overnight with sea salt per NT. I also soak nuts for nut milk but don't dry them before making the milk. I'm not saying the nuts are making my son feel worse, he was already in great pain before starting the diet. I'm trying him on the diet per the suggestion of one of his doctors, and before we start doing more invasive testing of many body systems to try and figure out what is wrong. I hope the diet will help, but actually am not optimistic, he has already been on a couple other very restrictive diets that didn't help at all, he's been gluten free for over a year, and I probably don't have more than 3 - 4 weeks to do the diet before he will go off of it. It would be much easier if he was younger.... I do make soup with broth every day, but he is a very picky eater, and only eats one kind of soup so I can't give it to him more than once per day or he will get sick of it. There is no way he would drink broth. I have to make muffins, etc. to help fill him up. He will only drink fruit juice with no veges, while my younger healthy son asks for more of the fruit/vege juice combo. My sick son doesn't much like veges so he's not going to fill up on those. That leaves meat and you can only eat so much plain meat... , a butter substitute that you might try is the Green Pastures coconut oil/ghee which has a nice taste and spreading consistency. I think it would be GAP compatible. Sue V. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 JENNIFER, What are the herbs you mentioned to help the liver, and what are your general dosing recommendations, if you don't mind sharing? I know of some, but I also know I have big-time liver overload/damage and would love any info I can find! Thanks, M. > > > , > > Why do nuts need to be dehydrated after soaking? I have been having problems > > with nuts as > > well. I am more constipated then usual and my liver is very swollen. I soak my > > nuts overnight > > then dehydrate but once I just soaked and put them in the processor while they > > were still > > moist because I questioned the need for making crispy nuts as the bread is > > baked. > > > > Another thing I do not understand is that aren't we killing all of the good > > enzymes when we > > cook the bread at 300F? I feel like it makes the soaking pointless. Do you > > know? > > > > Thanks! > > Aimee > > > >> > Are you using crispy nuts? If so, how long are you soaking them? You are > >> > right, sometimes nuts can be hard on the gut, and I will only recommend the > >> > GAPS diet to my clients with the understanding that all nuts should be > >> > soaked or sprouted and then dried > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 , A lot of the taste of sausage comes from the spices. I would read the label of your old, favorite, store bought sausage, and try to mimic the spicing, using the same pork/egg base. Also, if you come up with some tasty homemade sausage recipes, please pass them on! We tried 's version last weekend, 3 out of 4 of us liked it, but the 4-year-old wouldn't touch it (and ordinarily he LOVES sausage). Sigh. ----- Original Message ----- From: Schmid To: Sent: 1/8/2008 2:24:23 PM Subject: Re: [ ] nuts & coconut on gaps Likewise, I’ve found that broth can also be filling for hungry bellies! There seems to be a period of adjustment that one goes through when eliminating grains. When we eat grains, we tend to eat larger quantities of food, so when we switch to a diet higher in fat, for example, theoretically we don’t need to consume as much food for the energy and nourishment requirements, yet our stomachs are used to a certain amount of food. That’s where the broth comes in — it’s not only nourishing and healing, but it fills up the stomach in place of the grains. .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 From what I have read on Pecanbread, feeling hungry all the time is common as you get used to the diet, and is considered a good sign. Eat often, eat protein and eat fat to help. My kids have some meat or eggs at almost ever meal or snack, and that helps. samadamfamily wrote: i would love some tips on how to stay full as well. we just started the diet too and i feel like i'm starving, i just can't stop eating. even my DH noticed i wonder why that is. i've been craving/ eating a lot of nuts, unsoaked as well as soaked and craving fuit and honey. does anyone know why or what to do? i've also been having problems with gas and bloating but i think that's from the nuts. thanks > , thanks for the comments about broth for hungry bellies! We've only been on the diet for a week, but my two boys (ages 7 and 4) have been saying "I'm hungry" constantly, despite my best efforts to fill them up. Since we're in our dairy-free phase, we've also lost the butter, which I used to slather on everything, and they're not overly fond of huge amounts of coconut oil. Anyway, reading your post I am going to try even harder on the broth front. Thanks for the tip! > > Also, if you come up with some tasty homemade sausage recipes, please pass them on! We tried 's version last weekend, 3 out of 4 of us liked it, but the 4-year-old wouldn't touch it (and ordinarily he LOVES sausage). Sigh. > > > > > Re: [ ] nuts & coconut on gaps > > > > Likewise, I've found that broth can also be filling for hungry bellies! There seems to be a period of adjustment that one goes through when eliminating grains. When we eat grains, we tend to eat larger quantities of food, so when we switch to a diet higher in fat, for example, theoretically we don't need to consume as much food for the energy and nourishment requirements, yet our stomachs are used to a certain amount of food. That's where the broth comes in — it's not only nourishing and healing, but it fills up the stomach in place of the grains. > > Recent Activity > 7New Members > Visit Your Group > Cancer Support > Groups on > Find answers, > connect with others. > Health > Looking for Love? > Find relationship > advice and answers. > > Healthy Eating Zone > Encouraging families > to eat healthy.. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 > > i would love some tips on how to stay full as well. we just started > > the diet too and i feel > > like i'm starving, i just can't stop eating. even my DH noticed i > > wonder why that is. i've > > been craving/ eating a lot of nuts, unsoaked as well as soaked and > > craving fuit and honey. > > does anyone know why or what to do? i've also been having problems > > with gas and > > bloating but i think that's from the nuts. > > thanks > > > > > , thanks for the comments about broth for hungry bellies! > > We've only been on > > the diet for a week, but my two boys (ages 7 and 4) have been saying > > " I'm hungry " > > constantly, despite my best efforts to fill them up. Since we're in > > our dairy-free phase, > > we've also lost the butter, which I used to slather on everything, and > > they're not overly > > fond of huge amounts of coconut oil. Anyway, reading your post I am > > going to try even > > harder on the broth front. Thanks for the tip! > > > > > > Also, if you come up with some tasty homemade sausage recipes, > > please pass them on! > > We tried 's version last weekend, 3 out of 4 of us liked it, but > > the 4-year-old > > wouldn't touch it (and ordinarily he LOVES sausage). Sigh. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Re: [ ] nuts & coconut on gaps > > > > > > > > > > > > Likewise, I've found that broth can also be filling for hungry > > bellies! There seems to be a > > period of adjustment that one goes through when eliminating grains. > > When we eat grains, > > we tend to eat larger quantities of food, so when we switch to a diet > > higher in fat, for > > example, theoretically we don't need to consume as much food for the > > energy and > > nourishment requirements, yet our stomachs are used to a certain > > amount of food. That's > > where the broth comes in -- it's not only nourishing and healing, but > > it fills up the > > stomach in place of the grains. > > > > > > Recent Activity > > > 7New Members > > > Visit Your Group > > > Cancer Support > > > Groups on > > > Find answers, > > > connect with others. > > > Health > > > Looking for Love? > > > Find relationship > > > advice and answers. > > > > > > Healthy Eating Zone > > > Encouraging families > > > to eat healthy.. > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 , Haven't tried Chinese medicine yet, because he doesn't like needles, but I just got referred to a doctor with a chinese medicine background who also does muscle testing, so maybe we will try that. Also, his hypnotherapist has him doing emotional freedom technique where you say an affirmative phrase while tapping on acupressure points, only problem is that he doesn't want to do it. thanks for the suggestion. sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 Sue, The doctor you were referred to sounds wonderful! Muscle testing, if done by a good practitioner, can be very helpful. And with his/her Chinese medicine background he could hopefully be able to pinpoint some underlying causes (looking at the different organ systems and where things are out of balance). Good luck! M. > > , > > Haven't tried Chinese medicine yet, because he doesn't like needles, but > I just got referred to a doctor with a chinese medicine background who > also does muscle testing, so maybe we will try that. Also, his > hypnotherapist has him doing emotional freedom technique where you say an > affirmative phrase while tapping on acupressure points, only problem is > that he doesn't want to do it. > > thanks for the suggestion. > > sue > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 , Thanks for your thoughts and suggestions. Yes, dealing with an 18 year old is way different than with an 8 year old. Since I have a sick kid, I really really wish he was 8 and not 18, it would be way easier, I wouldn't have to get his buy-in. did see Dr. Cowan initially when he got sick and for a long time after that, and I still consult with Dr. C. Dr. Cowan did suggest GAPS, and another doctor ( OD in Santa Cruz) recommended SCD which is essentially the same thing. doesn't want to be on the diet; I want him on the diet to see if it helps, so I see it as my job to try and make the diet palatable and to fill him up. And yes I could say " starve " but then he'd just go help himself to something in the fridge " non-GAP " . And, while his weight is normal now, last year his weight dropped from a normal 160+ to 135 lbs, and he viewed himself as being able to pass for an AIDS patient and we worried that he might be fading away. I think some of the weight loss was due to the restrictive diets and some from a bout of flu. And, you are right, it is easy for someone else to say " get tough " with him, but what you have to understand is that this is a kid who when he first got sick worked very hard to try and get well, stuck religiously to very restrictive diets, etc. etc. and as time has progressed and he has been diagnosed with one thing after another, and had his hopes rise and fall as nothing has worked, and as he sees his life passing, and he knows he is missing good years he can never recover, and his discomfort has turned into pain and sometimes agonzing pain, he has lost all will to do anything. He is depressed and spends all of his time either sleeping or lying on the couch watching tv. He is on opiate pain meds at present. He is waiting to get in to see several specialists. He is really just existing, not living his life, and is in a mindset that since no one can figure out what is wrong with him, and he may never get better, he just wants to be pain free and better yet high. I have thought about taking things away from him to get compliance on several issues, but there isn't much to take away. The take aways would be the TV (and that might push him over the edge mentally because he needs the tv/ipod to distract him from the pain and his anxiety), food, and pain meds. That's it. There is absolutely nothing else to take away. By the way, he already had an endoscopy/colonoscopy last February. Now he is being sent to a neurologist (his current primary care doctor, Win Bertrand at Gordon Medical in Santa thinks he may have neuro issues affecting bowels and bladder), a lumbar MRI, a 3rd gastroenterologist who is a motility specialist, a neurogenic urologist. He's also seeing a hypnotherapist, a pelvic floor PT, and a homeopath. Both and I really like Dr. Bertrand because he's smart and thinks outside the box, and we are very high maintenance patients, and he makes himself very accessible to us---we have his cell phone number, e-mail, he does after hour consults with us, and he works with both pharmaceuticals (which wants because no alternative treatment has ever helped him) and supplements/herbs, etc. I'll let know that you are available for a consult. Thanks for caring, Sue V. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 Sue, Do you have the GAPS book? If yes, I would recommend reading the chapter entitled "Oh no, it's feeding time". Dr C-MB has a son who was autistic and a very picky eater also. She suggests changing their eating habits by rewarding them with their favorite foods and slowly fasing those illegal foods out. I'm sure that it's not easy and takes alot of patience, but I'm sure that most children with these problems can be a challenge at times to say the least. Therese Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 Sue, I will reply to most of your email offlist, but I wanted first to say THANK YOU for such a beautiful, heartfelt email. Wow. Secondly, I wanted to refer all of you to woman I am working with here in CA, although she also works extensively by telephone as well. Her name is Ambler, and she is an Integral Counselor and Coach. I am so amazed by her. The depth of her work is powerful, although I never realize it until we get to the end of our discussion, and then I think, “Holy Cow!” and start laughing, feeling like 20 pounds have been lifted off of my shoulders. She has the uncanny ability to take a thought that is causing me stress or suffering, such as guilt over an action (or inaction), and help me to turn it into a blessing. I have benefited tremendously in the short time that we have been working together, and I find myself much more at peace, particularly in the way that I interact with my children and family. (Because let’s face it, the burden of diet and lifestyle changes, at least in our family, rests mostly on the mother. It is a burden I will gladly carry, but I don’t want to suffer too much from the stress of it!) Perhaps most importantly, she has helped me to realize that my daughter’s health issues since birth are not my fault; they just are, and I can see them as a blessing, and the entire family can benefit and learn and grow, or I can see them as stress, and suffer from them (causing the rest of the family to suffer). Here’s her contact info: Ambler, M.A. 650-804-5300 / www.heatherambler.com Anyway, please forgive the unsolicited referral, but it seemed important. Peace, On 1/9/08 10:14 AM, " sue " <svican@...> wrote: , Thanks for your thoughts and suggestions. Yes, dealing with an 18 year old is way different than with an 8 year old. Since I have a sick kid, I really really wish he was 8 and not 18, it would be way easier, I wouldn't have to get his buy-in. did see Dr. Cowan initially when he got sick and for a long time after that, and I still consult with Dr. C. Dr. Cowan did suggest GAPS, and another doctor ( OD in Santa Cruz) recommended SCD which is essentially the same thing. doesn't want to be on the diet; I want him on the diet to see if it helps, so I see it as my job to try and make the diet palatable and to fill him up. And yes I could say " starve " but then he'd just go help himself to something in the fridge " non-GAP " . And, while his weight is normal now, last year his weight dropped from a normal 160+ to 135 lbs, and he viewed himself as being able to pass for an AIDS patient and we worried that he might be fading away. I think some of the weight loss was due to the restrictive diets and some from a bout of flu. And, you are right, it is easy for someone else to say " get tough " with him, but what you have to understand is that this is a kid who when he first got sick worked very hard to try and get well, stuck religiously to very restrictive diets, etc. etc. and as time has progressed and he has been diagnosed with one thing after another, and had his hopes rise and fall as nothing has worked, and as he sees his life passing, and he knows he is missing good years he can never recover, and his discomfort has turned into pain and sometimes agonzing pain, he has lost all will to do anything. He is depressed and spends all of his time either sleeping or lying on the couch watching tv. He is on opiate pain meds at present. He is waiting to get in to see several specialists. He is really just existing, not living his life, and is in a mindset that since no one can figure out what is wrong with him, and he may never get better, he just wants to be pain free and better yet high. I have thought about taking things away from him to get compliance on several issues, but there isn't much to take away. The take aways would be the TV (and that might push him over the edge mentally because he needs the tv/ipod to distract him from the pain and his anxiety), food, and pain meds. That's it. There is absolutely nothing else to take away. By the way, he already had an endoscopy/colonoscopy last February. Now he is being sent to a neurologist (his current primary care doctor, Win Bertrand at Gordon Medical in Santa thinks he may have neuro issues affecting bowels and bladder), a lumbar MRI, a 3rd gastroenterologist who is a motility specialist, a neurogenic urologist. He's also seeing a hypnotherapist, a pelvic floor PT, and a homeopath. Both and I really like Dr. Bertrand because he's smart and thinks outside the box, and we are very high maintenance patients, and he makes himself very accessible to us---we have his cell phone number, e-mail, he does after hour consults with us, and he works with both pharmaceuticals (which wants because no alternative treatment has ever helped him) and supplements/herbs, etc. I'll let know that you are available for a consult. Thanks for caring, Sue V. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 sue, i hate to add yet another book you should read but it might be helpful its called the makers diet by jordan rubin who is the founder of garden of life supplements. anyway his story sounds very similar to yours and he was healed by a nutritionist in CA. who practiced wapf way of eating. he suffered from crohn's disease and almost died. just a thought, i hope all goes well for you and your family sam > Sue, > > Do you have the GAPS book? If yes, I would recommend reading the chapter > entitled " Oh no, it's feeding time " . Dr C-MB has a son who was autistic and > a very picky eater also. She suggests changing their eating habits by > rewarding them with their favorite foods and slowly fasing those illegal foods > out. I'm sure that it's not easy and takes alot of patience, but I'm sure that > most children with these problems can be a challenge at times to say the > least. > > Therese > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 Sue, Something else you might want to consider, if you haven't already, is cranial or upper cervical problems and therapy for this. Atlas problems (the top cervical vertebra) can cause MAJOR gastrointestinal problems and can cause the pelvis to be out of whack as well. I've had big problems in this area because of orthodontic braces and headgears which really messed up my cranial bones (and then every bone below it compensates with distortions). There are times that if my atlas/occiput is out of whack (the technical term ), my guts feel like something is inside them scraping them with a knife - it can really hurt. Then, I get my neck fixed and the gut pain goes away completely. The vagus nerve controls a lot of gut function. It can get pinched with cranial and upper cervical strains leading to all sorts of gut problems that won't heal with diet alone. It is frequently missed my doctors and practitioners because they aren't trained in it. But, getting a good eval and treatment can be tricky. I have an article I wrote that tries to cover some of the main points (although it is written more from the perspective of helping kids with neurodevelopmental problems). I don't know if I can post this article to this list but if it is ok, I will. OTherwise, email me off the list and I'll send it. If the PT is working on pelvic-structural issues and there is a problem in the atlas/cranial bones, she will just make those worse. My niece developed Chrons after having orthodontic braces. An osteopath I use to see said he'd see this connection all the time - braces and GI problems. The connection between the teeth/cranial/upper cervical and GI function is well known among cranial-oriented docs. I don't know if you son had braces or not but if not, there could still be a cranial/upper cervical problem from birth trauma or other childhood accidents/injuries. Also, gut and liver problems tend to distort the atlas and when there is a long standing GI or liver problem, the atlas will be chronically displaced and cause vagus nerve/gut related problems (making it very hard to heal the gut with diet or nutritional/biochemical interventions). Cranial and upper cervical problems can also cause a lot of anxiety and depression - and general brain toxicity (cerebral spinal fluid can't move well through the brain and carry wastes away). They also have a lot to do with neuroendocrine function and immune function. Barb > , > > Thanks for your thoughts and suggestions. > > Yes, dealing with an 18 year old is way different than with an 8 year > old. Since I have a sick kid, I really really wish he was 8 and not 18, > it would be way easier, I wouldn't have to get his buy-in. > > did see Dr. Cowan initially when he got sick and for a long time > after that, and I still consult with Dr. C. Dr. Cowan did suggest GAPS, > and another doctor ( OD in Santa Cruz) recommended SCD which > is essentially the same thing. > > doesn't want to be on the diet; I want him on the diet to see if it > helps, so I see it as my job to try and make the diet palatable and to > fill him up. > > And yes I could say " starve " but then he'd just go help himself to > something in the fridge " non-GAP " . And, while his weight is normal now, > last year his weight dropped from a normal 160+ to 135 lbs, and he viewed > himself as being able to pass for an AIDS patient and we worried that he > might be fading away. I think some of the weight loss was due to the > restrictive diets and some from a bout of flu. > > And, you are right, it is easy for someone else to say " get tough " with > him, but what you have to understand is that this is a kid who when he > first got sick worked very hard to try and get well, stuck religiously to > very restrictive diets, etc. etc. and as time has progressed and he has > been diagnosed with one thing after another, and had his hopes rise and > fall as nothing has worked, and as he sees his life passing, and he knows > he is missing good years he can never recover, and his discomfort has > turned into pain and sometimes agonzing pain, he has lost all will to do > anything. He is depressed and spends all of his time either sleeping or > lying on the couch watching tv. He is on opiate pain meds at present. > He is waiting to get in to see several specialists. He is really just > existing, not living his life, and is in a mindset that since no one can > figure out what is wrong with him, and he may never get better, he just > wants to be pain free and better yet high. I have thought about taking > things away from him to get compliance on several issues, but there isn't > much to take away. The take aways would be the TV (and that might push > him over the edge mentally because he needs the tv/ipod to distract him > from the pain and his anxiety), food, and pain meds. That's it. There > is absolutely nothing else to take away. > > By the way, he already had an endoscopy/colonoscopy last February. Now > he is being sent to a neurologist (his current primary care doctor, Win > Bertrand at Gordon Medical in Santa thinks he may have neuro issues > affecting bowels and bladder), a lumbar MRI, a 3rd gastroenterologist who > is a motility specialist, a neurogenic urologist. He's also seeing a > hypnotherapist, a pelvic floor PT, and a homeopath. Both and I > really like Dr. Bertrand because he's smart and thinks outside the box, > and we are very high maintenance patients, and he makes himself very > accessible to us---we have his cell phone number, e-mail, he does after > hour consults with us, and he works with both pharmaceuticals (which > wants because no alternative treatment has ever helped him) and > supplements/herbs, etc. > > I'll let know that you are available for a consult. > > Thanks for caring, > > Sue V. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 Sam I would say that means he is not ready for almonds... - then last night he woke up crying and asking for almonds but if i give him whole almonds they come out in pieces when he goes to the bathroom. what does this mean? thanks sam > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 thanks sam, I've read it. It's basically WAPF with a jewish twist---no shellfish or pork---as I recall, and we have been wapf for a long time now. doesn't heal chris. thanks though, sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 very interesting. so do I take him to an osteopath or chiropractor or what? anyone in san francisco you can recommend? thanks, sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 10, 2008 Report Share Posted January 10, 2008 I don't know anyone in San Francisco. I sent you my article off the list which has ideas on how to find someone good. Practitioners vary greatly in their skills. Your best bet is to ask around - ask other natural health practitioners about who is good. Cranial osteopaths or chiropractors with special certs as craniopaths are the best bet (these chiropractors are usually specialized in SOT-sacral occipital technique). Integrative manual therapists can be very good too. I haven't seen the best results with Upledger trained cranial sacral therapists. If you don't get good results with one person, I'd try another though. Some practitioners are best with certain problems and can get great results with certain people but miss the boat with others. Barb very interesting. so do I take him to an osteopath or chiropractor or what? anyone in san francisco you can recommend? thanks, sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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