Non compliant for meds what to do

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Good morning,

I feel so distraught and know there is so much support and wisdom on this group

please advise.

My son is 14 next month and for the last two years has become increasingly more

paranoid, anxiety ridden and controlling. He literally tries and succeeds sadly

most days to run our house. His obesession is to me the mother of the house and

do all the housekeeping, cooking decorating , gardening etc etc..ok i know that

may sound great at first but imagine walking in your kitchen to make your coffee

and breakast and being screamed and pushed on and told he will handle it and if

you try negogiate he becomes tyranical and scary. My husband and I are at wits

end he gets crazy if we do anything in the house as he considers all of it his

domain and believes he is a 57 yo woman and therefore older than us and in

charge.

We kept hoping he would move past this obsession and move onto a new one but he

has been hanging on to this for over 2 years now. His anxiety is thru the roof

and he still has not one friend in the world.

We tried prozac 2 years ago and he became suicidal and now refuses treatment of

any kind.

I spoke to a Dr yesterday who said he needs treatment and if we have to

hospitalize him or even get a court order we need to move fast because at some

point kids even minors leagally can refuse treatment. Does anyone know that age.

We are so distraught we want to help him, he refused help we are constantly

fighting he is miserable and so are we. Meanwhile he does to well in school and

does not have behavioral issues there .

The Psychologist suggested abilify any feedback on that medication?

Any ideas , suggestions, feedback welcome.

Thanks