Guest guest Posted March 5, 2011 Report Share Posted March 5, 2011 ...my advice would be to have an IEP for the new school, and it would probably be helpful if you have a copy for the due process. Take the best draft and start there with your new resource teacher...the two of you can put your heads together and come up with the appropriate accomodations for your son. My son is now 23 and doing well, but I do remember much of what we went thru in school ;-) Not sure what others ion the group would say, but this is just my opinion from someone who has been where you are at the moment. Good luck in the new school and with the hearing...blessings on your day, Gail ( ) help HI everyone, I have been away from the group ;and out of touch, and I apologize. Trying to get my son into a new school. Also we have an agency coming into our home to help us deal with our son in a better way than what we were doing (mainly screaming). With the new school and the new environment at home, my little guy is having a hard time. I wanted to know from anyones experience whether or not we need an IEP. See at our former school, we had 3 IEP drafts, none of them signed due to inadequate accomodations. Now we are at a new school and no one there has offered us a new IEP. Do I need to go through the process from the beginning? I just would like to see some goals written down on paper so we have some data to work off of in getting my son what he needs. We are also in the process of filing for due process with School District. Shouldn't I have a completed IEP in preparation for this hearing? Any suggestions and answers welcome, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 5, 2011 Report Share Posted March 5, 2011 The new school should have used the previous IEP or written their own as soon as your ds came in. Did you let the know he was a child with an IEP or in the process of having an IEP written? If not, you need to write them (send to the director of sped services in your school) and explain that he was in the process of having an IEP written. They will either choose to re-evaluate him or use the evaluations done by the previous school and work with you on writing an IEP. I don't know how to answer your second question. Which school are you filing due process against? The current school? I would think not having an IEP, if they knew he was a child who needed one, would be a point in your complaint against them. You might want to consult an advocate or a sped atty because there are so many variables in each situation when you are filing due process. Roxanna “Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.†- Luther King, Jr. ( ) help HI everyone, I have been away from the group ;and out of touch, and I apologize. Trying to get my son into a new school. Also we have an agency coming into our home to help us deal with our son in a better way than what we were doing (mainly screaming). With the new school and the new environment at home, my little guy is having a hard time. I wanted to know from anyones experience whether or not we need an IEP. See at our former school, we had 3 IEP drafts, none of them signed due to inadequate accomodations. Now we are at a new school and no one there has offered us a new IEP. Do I need to go through the process from the beginning? I just would like to see some goals written down on paper so we have some data to work off of in getting my son what he needs. We are also in the process of filing for due process with School District. Shouldn't I have a completed IEP in preparation for this hearing? Any suggestions and answers welcome, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 6, 2011 Report Share Posted March 6, 2011 My son has the same issues but is 12 and it hasnt stopped, it has just become less often. We have a system so he isnt embarrassed. He gets my attention and winks with his left eye. I quietly get a new pair of underwear and meet him in the bathroom. Nobody knows and he gets to retain his dignity. I dont think there is anything you can really do. We have tried everything, but it is a sensory issue, they do not know it is coming until it is too late. We live on property and sometimes my son comes in and it is too late. He was just too far from the house. I never yell at him because it really isnt his fault. We buy lots of underwear and I just toss the soiled ones. Sycamore Art StudiosSycamore Art SchoolDeborah GustlinGraphic & Web DesignArt classes for K-12www.sycamoreartstudios.comwww.sycamoreartschool.comHome: 408-710-0892 Business: 408-710-6070From: SoCalVal <socalval@...> Sent: Sat, March 5, 2011 9:46:52 PMSubject: ( ) Re: help Yes, my son will be 7 in May. He just started sleeping through the night last year. We don't know why or what changed other than his anxiety seemed to diminish about the same time. ??? As far as bathroom issues he continues to wear underjams at night. During the day he often has "accidents". The #1 accidents stopped about a year ago but #2 accidents still happens - usually for a few days during or after a stressful event (substitute teacher, being yelled at or treated too firmly by school personel etc) but also I sometimes think it's like a pattern, maybe twice a month for a few days each. He says he never feels it coming which leads me to believe it's sensory related. I would also love to know what others are doing about it. I was always going along thinking it is what is normal for ASD kids and that it may improve with maturity but recently I started wondering what I should be doing medically to help him. I'm sure it is started to affect his self esteem.... > > my son has as, odd, adhd, and sensory integration, does anyone else have issues with them not sleeping and using the bathroom? especially at night?? > thanks rachael > > > --------------------------------- > FareChase - Search multiple travel sites in one click. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 6, 2011 Report Share Posted March 6, 2011 My daughter is 10 and still wears PUllups at night. Up until the past month it was rare for her to be dry, but this month she has been dry 4-5 times. She also has occasional #1 and #2 accidents when she is doing an activity or distracted. It helps to know we're not alone. From: SoCalVal <socalval@...>Subject: ( ) Re: help Date: Sunday, March 6, 2011, 12:46 AM Yes, my son will be 7 in May. He just started sleeping through the night last year. We don't know why or what changed other than his anxiety seemed to diminish about the same time. ??? As far as bathroom issues he continues to wear underjams at night. During the day he often has "accidents". The #1 accidents stopped about a year ago but #2 accidents still happens - usually for a few days during or after a stressful event (substitute teacher, being yelled at or treated too firmly by school personel etc) but also I sometimes think it's like a pattern, maybe twice a month for a few days each. He says he never feels it coming which leads me to believe it's sensory related. I would also love to know what others are doing about it. I was always going along thinking it is what is normal for ASD kids and that it may improve with maturity but recently I started wondering what I should be doing medically to help him. I'm sure it is started to affect his self esteem.... >> my son has as, odd, adhd, and sensory integration, does anyone else have issues with them not sleeping and using the bathroom? especially at night??> thanks rachael> > > ---------------------------------> FareChase - Search multiple travel sites in one click. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 6, 2011 Report Share Posted March 6, 2011  It sure does. Thanks for sharing. : ) Curious - is she on any meds? If it helps with distractability I often wonder if it will help with issues like that? We're at a point where we are considering it (for other reasons - not the the toiletting reasons). Any thoughts on that? ( ) Re: help Date: Sunday, March 6, 2011, 12:46 AM Yes, my son will be 7 in May. He just started sleeping through the night last year. We don't know why or what changed other than his anxiety seemed to diminish about the same time. ??? As far as bathroom issues he continues to wear underjams at night. During the day he often has "accidents". The #1 accidents stopped about a year ago but #2 accidents still happens - usually for a few days during or after a stressful event (substitute teacher, being yelled at or treated too firmly by school personel etc) but also I sometimes think it's like a pattern, maybe twice a month for a few days each. He says he never feels it coming which leads me to believe it's sensory related. I would also love to know what others are doing about it. I was always going along thinking it is what is normal for ASD kids and that it may improve with maturity but recently I started wondering what I should be doing medically to help him. I'm sure it is started to affect his self esteem.... >> my son has as, odd, adhd, and sensory integration, does anyone else have issues with them not sleeping and using the bathroom? especially at night??> thanks rachael> > > ---------------------------------> FareChase - Search multiple travel sites in one click. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 6, 2011 Report Share Posted March 6, 2011  I hear you! We just threw out 3 pairs last week and I was at the store yesterday buying new ones. When he was younger I spent too much yukky time washing and sanitizing the soiled ones. Then I read a mom's comment on a different support group that said - no way, it's too much. I agreed and never looked back! : ) ( ) Re: help Yes, my son will be 7 in May. He just started sleeping through the night last year. We don't know why or what changed other than his anxiety seemed to diminish about the same time. ??? As far as bathroom issues he continues to wear underjams at night. During the day he often has "accidents". The #1 accidents stopped about a year ago but #2 accidents still happens - usually for a few days during or after a stressful event (substitute teacher, being yelled at or treated too firmly by school personel etc) but also I sometimes think it's like a pattern, maybe twice a month for a few days each. He says he never feels it coming which leads me to believe it's sensory related. I would also love to know what others are doing about it. I was always going along thinking it is what is normal for ASD kids and that it may improve with maturity but recently I started wondering what I should be doing medically to help him. I'm sure it is started to affect his self esteem.... >> my son has as, odd, adhd, and sensory integration, does anyone else have issues with them not sleeping and using the bathroom? especially at night??> thanks rachael> > > ---------------------------------> FareChase - Search multiple travel sites in one click. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2011 Report Share Posted March 26, 2011 Hi edsproductionsinc and Welcome, Are you using Deca with your Dr. I don't know much about it it not used for Hypogonadism that I know of. Can you post more info as to what is wrong do you test low for Testosterone and your Dr. will not put you on TRT. I need more info as to Deca I don't even think you can get it in the USA with a scripe. If you have labs can you put them scan them on http://imageshack.us/ and put a link in your post or type them in a post with the ranges and units. Co-Moderator Phil > From: Deca Spells <edsproductionsinc@...> > Subject: Help > > Date: Friday, March 25, 2011, 11:34 PM > Hello everyone, > > I have Type 2 Diabetes that was undetected for many years. > I'm getting my blood > sugars under control, but my Dr. says that natural > supplements are very > effective for treatment, but she can NOT recommend or even > talk about them at > ALL. > > > I don't know what to do. I feel that I'm not even HALF a > man now. I'm scared, > and I need help... > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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