Re: SV: daughter cries everyday at school no one plays with her.

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Schools saying that they can't force children to play together is an easy way to excuse "socially acceptable" behavior problems. Schools absolutely can educate children to be empathetic to their peers neurological diversity. We can stand up as a group to stop children from the natual progression of being bullies and forming cliques. Inclusion doesn't mean that you put a kid with a disability in a classroom but you actually INCLUDE them and their differences at every level of the school experience. This might mean that recess and lunch are going to have to have structured activities. If teacher's stood along side these kids the other children wouldn't find it so easy to exclude them. Of course as a parent I see this as easy but it seems almost to be impossible to educators. Sigh... in a

perfect world......

From: Karolina Sjödin <pettson39@...> Sent: Tue, October 27, 2009 2:39:04 AMSubject: SV: ( ) daughter cries everyday at school "no one plays with her".

It is VERY hard to get understanding/ response/ help/support regarding any "invisible disability". ......... ...i tried so hard b/c of my own son once a time i don´t try anymore. it´s true "you can´t force anyone to play with anyone, but the school can do more. So much depends upon yourself as a parent. if you have a good social network around you it´s easier to get understanding. if you don´t have you are bound to be alone and fight alone.....

--- Den mån 2009-10-26 skrev video228 <video228 (DOT) com>:

Från: video228 <video228 (DOT) com>Ämne: ( ) daughter cries everyday at school "no one plays with her".Till: Datum: måndag 26 oktober 2009 23.36

in a world that is taught to not "judge" anyone, why is it my daughter cries all night everyday because when shes at school she says "no one will play with her at reccess".and the teachers say "we cant make people play with her".after hearing so much on not judging people on race, religion, social class and sexual orientation, at what point do we start to teach the children that not everyone acts the same and should all be treated with compassion and tollereance should be given to those children as much as we are mandated to give compassion to all the others i mentioned.my heart breaks every night when my daughter cries, because it is a heartfelt cry and usually makes me want to cry myself. and we just dont know what to do.we heard that there are other children with asperger in our school system, so we figured we could get a play group together with children that wont judge her, but the school system says they cannot let

anyone know who else has autism or asperger because of "privacy policies".has anyone else run into this and solved this issue ?

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[Guest guest]

ITA. With effort, the adults in charge can make this work. I just saw

this website and there is a book as well, discussing how to pair kids

up. We've used this idea before as well with lukewarm results, mostly

because there was a lack of follow up. The idea is great, IMO and

implemented correctly, could do a lot of good. -->

http://specialchildren.about.com/od/inclusion/a/peersupport.htm

Roxanna

" The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do

nothing. " E. Burke

SV: ( ) daughter cries everyday at school " no

one plays with her " .

 

It is VERY hard to get understanding/ response/ help/support regarding

any " invisible disability " . ......... ...i tried so hard b/c of my own

son once a time i don´t try anymore. it´s true " you can´t force anyone

to play with anyone, but the school can do more. So much depends upon

yourself as a parent. if you have a good social network around you it´s

easier to get understanding. if you don´t have you are bound to be

alone and fight alone.....

--- Den mån 2009-10-26 skrev video228 <video228 (DOT) com>:

Från: video228 <video228 (DOT) com>

Ämne: ( ) daughter cries everyday at school " no one

plays with her " .

Till:

Datum: måndag 26 oktober 2009 23.36

 

in a world that is taught to not " judge " anyone, why is it my daughter

cries all night everyday because when shes at school she says " no one

will play with her at reccess " .

and the teachers say " we cant make people play with her " .

after hearing so much on not judging people on race, religion, social

class and sexual orientation, at what point do we start to teach the

children that not everyone acts the same and should all be treated with

compassion and tollereance should be given to those children as much as

we are mandated to give compassion to all the others i mentioned.

my heart breaks every night when my daughter cries, because it is a

heartfelt cry and usually makes me want to cry myself. and we just dont

know what to do.

we heard that there are other children with asperger in our school

system, so we figured we could get a play group together with children

that wont judge her, but the school system says they cannot let

anyone know who else has autism or asperger because of " privacy

policies " .

has anyone else run into this and solved this issue ?

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that is an excellent response. i have never thought of asperger as an " invisible

disability " . i will now be able to use that as an excellent explanation.

the saddest part is the fact that when we have a PPT for my daughter it is

usually attended by people of the school that are " clearly " not educated in

anything that is on the autism spectrum.

it seems that if the child doesnt fall under their criteria of a " vanilla

student " they are completely lost and make up the rules as they go along, just

to shut you up.

and i am possitive that the school " psycologist " has the IQ of an ice cube and

has deffinitely been educated far beyonfd her intelligence capabilities.

>

> It is VERY hard to get understanding/response/help/support regarding any

" invisible disability " .............i tried so hard b/c of my own son once a time

i don´t try anymore. it´s true " you can´t force anyone to play with anyone, but

the school can do more. So much depends upon yourself as a parent. if you have a

good social network around you it´s easier to get understanding. if you don´t

have you are bound to be alone and fight alone.....

>

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> --- Den mån 2009-10-26 skrev video228 <video228@...>:

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> Från: video228 <video228@...>

> Ämne: ( ) daughter cries everyday at school " no one plays with

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> in a world that is taught to not " judge " anyone, why is it my daughter cries

all night everyday because when shes at school she says " no one will play with

her at reccess " .

> and the teachers say " we cant make people play with her " .

>

> after hearing so much on not judging people on race, religion, social class

and sexual orientation, at what point do we start to teach the children that not

everyone acts the same and should all be treated with compassion and tollereance

should be given to those children as much as we are mandated to give compassion

to all the others i mentioned.

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> my heart breaks every night when my daughter cries, because it is a heartfelt

cry and usually makes me want to cry myself. and we just dont know what to do.

>

> we heard that there are other children with asperger in our school system, so

we figured we could get a play group together with children that wont judge her,

but the school system says they cannot let anyone know who else has autism or

asperger because of " privacy policies " .

> has anyone else run into this and solved this issue ?

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i acnt believe all the incredible responses i am getting form all of you kind

people. for the first time my wife and i do not feel so alone.

you are absolutely right about the teachers.

the thing that blows us away is the fact that my daughters social standings were

much better last year due to a fact that her teacher did just that.

this year her teacher (who was supposedly a special education teacher in the

past) is so much more strict with my daughter and is actually allowing the

children to exclude her by making statement to us , such as " we are trying to

get your daughter to act more like the other students " . so basically, istead of

making children that are capable of change to understand my daughters

differences, they are making a child that is pretty much incapable of change to

conform to what other people may accept.

my wife and i have come to the conclusion that the reason why she " used " to be a

special ed. teacher and isnt any longer is because she got sick of not being

able to control them and stopped because she did not have to deal with that any

longer. it almost seems like she is upset they " stuck her with one of THOSE kids

again " .

you know, the ones she stopped dealing with for a reason ?

>

> Schools saying that they can't force children to play together is an easy way

to excuse " socially acceptable " behavior problems. Schools absolutely can

educate children to be empathetic to their peers neurological diversity.. We can

stand up as a group to stop children from the natual progression of being

bullies and forming cliques. Inclusion doesn't mean that you put a kid with a

disability in a classroom but you actually INCLUDE them and their differences at

every level of the school experience. This might mean that recess and lunch are

going to have to have structured activities. If teacher's stood along side these

kids the other children wouldn't find it so easy to exclude them. Of course as a

parent I see this as easy but it seems almost to be impossible to educators.

Sigh... in a perfect world......

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> ________________________________

> From: Karolina Sjödin <pettson39@...>

>

> Sent: Tue, October 27, 2009 2:39:04 AM

> Subject: SV: ( ) daughter cries everyday at school " no one

plays with her " .

>

>  

> It is VERY hard to get understanding/ response/ help/support regarding any

" invisible disability " . .......... ...i tried so hard b/c of my own son once a

time i don´t try anymore. it´s true " you can´t force anyone to play with anyone,

but the school can do more. So much depends upon yourself as a parent. if you

have a good social network around you it´s easier to get understanding. if you

don´t have you are bound to be alone and fight alone.....

>

>

> --- Den mån 2009-10-26 skrev video228 <video228 (DOT) com>:

>

>

> >Från: video228 <video228 (DOT) com>

> >Ämne: ( ) daughter cries everyday at school " no one plays with

her " .

> >Till:

> >Datum: måndag 26 oktober 2009 23.36

> >

> >

> > 

> >in a world that is taught to not " judge " anyone, why is it my daughter cries

all night everyday because when shes at school she says " no one will play with

her at reccess " .

> >and the teachers say " we cant make people play with her " .

> >

> >after hearing so much on not judging people on race, religion, social class

and sexual orientation, at what point do we start to teach the children that not

everyone acts the same and should all be treated with compassion and tollereance

should be given to those children as much as we are mandated to give compassion

to all the others i mentioned.

> >

> >my heart breaks every night when my daughter cries, because it is a heartfelt

cry and usually makes me want to cry myself. and we just dont know what to do.

> >

> >we heard that there are other children with asperger in our school system, so

we figured we could get a play group together with children that wont judge her,

but the school system says they cannot let anyone know who else has autism or

asperger because of " privacy policies " .

> >has anyone else run into this and solved this issue ?

> >

> >

>

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[Guest guest]

thank you. im going to order this book tonight.

>

> ITA. With effort, the adults in charge can make this work. I just saw

> this website and there is a book as well, discussing how to pair kids

> up. We've used this idea before as well with lukewarm results, mostly

> because there was a lack of follow up. The idea is great, IMO and

> implemented correctly, could do a lot of good. -->

> http://specialchildren.about.com/od/inclusion/a/peersupport.htm

>

> Roxanna

>

> " The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do

> nothing. " E. Burke

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> SV: ( ) daughter cries everyday at school " no

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> It is VERY hard to get understanding/ response/ help/support regarding

> any " invisible disability " . ......... ...i tried so hard b/c of my own

> son once a time i don´t try anymore. it´s true " you can´t force anyone

> to play with anyone, but the school can do more. So much depends upon

> yourself as a parent. if you have a good social network around you it´s

> easier to get understanding. if you don´t have you are bound to be

> alone and fight alone.....

>

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>

> --- Den mån 2009-10-26 skrev video228 <video228 (DOT) com>:

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> Från: video228 <video228 (DOT) com>

> Ämne: ( ) daughter cries everyday at school " no one

> plays with her " .

> Till:

> Datum: måndag 26 oktober 2009 23.36

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>

> in a world that is taught to not " judge " anyone, why is it my daughter

> cries all night everyday because when shes at school she says " no one

> will play with her at reccess " .

> and the teachers say " we cant make people play with her " .

>

> after hearing so much on not judging people on race, religion, social

> class and sexual orientation, at what point do we start to teach the

> children that not everyone acts the same and should all be treated with

> compassion and tollereance should be given to those children as much as

> we are mandated to give compassion to all the others i mentioned.

>

> my heart breaks every night when my daughter cries, because it is a

> heartfelt cry and usually makes me want to cry myself. and we just dont

> know what to do.

>

> we heard that there are other children with asperger in our school

> system, so we figured we could get a play group together with children

> that wont judge her, but the school system says they cannot let

> anyone know who else has autism or asperger because of " privacy

> policies " .

> has anyone else run into this and solved this issue ?

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Ha, ha, ha..... our school psychologist seems to be plopped out of that same ice cube mold....I used to sit in the IEP meetings and try to estimate the IQ of the school psychologist.

Re: SV: ( ) daughter cries everyday at school "no one plays with her".

that is an excellent response. i have never thought of asperger as an "invisible disability". i will now be able to use that as an excellent explanation.the saddest part is the fact that when we have a PPT for my daughter it is usually attended by people of the school that are "clearly" not educated in anything that is on the autism spectrum.it seems that if the child doesnt fall under their criteria of a "vanilla student" they are completely lost and make up the rules as they go along, just to shut you up.and i am possitive that the school "psycologist" has the IQ of an ice cube and has deffinitely been educated far beyonfd her intelligence capabilities.>> It is VERY hard to get understanding/response/help/support regarding any "invisible disability".............i tried so hard b/c of my own son once a time i don´t try anymore. it´s true "you can´t force anyone to play with anyone, but the school can do more. So much depends upon yourself as a parent. if you have a good social network around you it´s easier to get understanding. if you don´t have you are bound to be alone and fight alone.....> > > --- Den mån 2009-10-26 skrev video228 <video228@...>:> > > Från: video228 <video228@...>> Ämne: ( ) daughter cries everyday at school "no one plays with her".> Till: > Datum: måndag 26 oktober 2009 23.36> > > > > > > in a world that is taught to not "judge" anyone, why is it my daughter cries all night everyday because when shes at school she says "no one will play with her at reccess".> and the teachers say "we cant make people play with her".> > after hearing so much on not judging people on race, religion, social class and sexual orientation, at what point do we start to teach the children that not everyone acts the same and should all be treated with compassion and tollereance should be given to those children as much as we are mandated to give compassion to all the others i mentioned.> > my heart breaks every night when my daughter cries, because it is a heartfelt cry and usually makes me want to cry myself. and we just dont know what to do.> > we heard that there are other children with asperger in our school system, so we figured we could get a play group together with children that wont judge her, but the school system says they cannot let anyone know who else has autism or asperger because of "privacy policies".> has anyone else run into this and solved this issue ?> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________________> Går det långsamt? Skaffa dig en snabbare bredbandsuppkoppling. > Sök och jämför priser hos Kelkoo.> http://www.kelkoo.se/c-100015813-bredband.html?partnerId=96914325>

[Guest guest]

yeah,

how sad is that ?

unfortunately, because they carry the the title of " psychologist " (even though

is is probably from the same century as sigmund freud) everyone seems to think

that whatever they say must be intelligent and correct.

just because of their title !

so i guess if i walk into a PPT and refer to myself as " the ruler of all that is

stupid, ignorant and awkward " then all the people in the room would have to

listen to me as if i were the expert on them. HA HA HA

> >

> > It is VERY hard to get understanding/response/help/support regarding any

" invisible disability " .............i tried so hard b/c of my own son once a time

i don´t try anymore. it´s true " you can´t force anyone to play with anyone, but

the school can do more. So much depends upon yourself as a parent. if you have a

good social network around you it´s easier to get understanding. if you don´t

have you are bound to be alone and fight alone.....

> >

> >

> > --- Den mån 2009-10-26 skrev video228 <video228@>:

> >

> >

> > Från: video228 <video228@>

> > Ämne: ( ) daughter cries everyday at school " no one plays

with her " .

> > Till:

> > Datum: måndag 26 oktober 2009 23.36

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > in a world that is taught to not " judge " anyone, why is it my daughter

cries all night everyday because when shes at school she says " no one will play

with her at reccess " .

> > and the teachers say " we cant make people play with her " .

> >

> > after hearing so much on not judging people on race, religion, social

class and sexual orientation, at what point do we start to teach the children

that not everyone acts the same and should all be treated with compassion and

tollereance should be given to those children as much as we are mandated to give

compassion to all the others i mentioned.

> >

> > my heart breaks every night when my daughter cries, because it is a

heartfelt cry and usually makes me want to cry myself. and we just dont know

what to do.

> >

> > we heard that there are other children with asperger in our school system,

so we figured we could get a play group together with children that wont judge

her, but the school system says they cannot let anyone know who else has autism

or asperger because of " privacy policies " .

> > has anyone else run into this and solved this issue ?

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> > __________________________________________________________

> > Går det långsamt? Skaffa dig en snabbare bredbandsuppkoppling.

> > Sök och jämför priser hos Kelkoo.

> > http://www.kelkoo.se/c-100015813-bredband.html?partnerId=96914325

> >

>

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"we are trying to get your daughter to act more like the other students"

WOW! That just about left me speechless and it takes A LOT for that to happen. Can you say CLUELESS?

"Over-optimism is waiting for you ship to come in when you haven't sent one out."

From: video228 <video228@...> Sent: Thu, October 29, 2009 10:35:32 PMSubject: Re: SV: ( ) daughter cries everyday at school "no one plays with her".

i acnt believe all the incredible responses i am getting form all of you kind people. for the first time my wife and i do not feel so alone.you are absolutely right about the teachers.the thing that blows us away is the fact that my daughters social standings were much better last year due to a fact that her teacher did just that.this year her teacher (who was supposedly a special education teacher in the past) is so much more strict with my daughter and is actually allowing the children to exclude her by making statement to us , such as "we are trying to get your daughter to act more like the other students". so basically, istead of making children that are capable of change to understand my daughters differences, they are making a child that is pretty much incapable of change to conform to what other people may accept.my wife and i have come to the conclusion that the reason why she "used" to be a special ed. teacher and isnt any

longer is because she got sick of not being able to control them and stopped because she did not have to deal with that any longer. it almost seems like she is upset they "stuck her with one of THOSE kids again".you know, the ones she stopped dealing with for a reason ?>> Schools saying that they can't force children to play together is an easy way to excuse "socially acceptable" behavior problems. Schools absolutely can educate children to be empathetic to their peers neurological diversity.. We can stand up as a group to stop children from the natual progression of being bullies and forming cliques. Inclusion doesn't mean that you put a kid with a disability in a classroom but you actually INCLUDE them and

their differences at every level of the school experience. This might mean that recess and lunch are going to have to have structured activities. If teacher's stood along side these kids the other children wouldn't find it so easy to exclude them. Of course as a parent I see this as easy but it seems almost to be impossible to educators. Sigh... in a perfect world......> > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __> From: Karolina Sjödin <pettson39@. ..>> > Sent: Tue, October 27, 2009 2:39:04 AM> Subject: SV: ( ) daughter cries everyday at school "no one plays with her".> > > It is VERY hard to get understanding/ response/ help/support regarding any "invisible disability".

........... ...i tried so hard b/c of my own son once a time i don´t try anymore. it´s true "you can´t force anyone to play with anyone, but the school can do more. So much depends upon yourself as a parent. if you have a good social network around you it´s easier to get understanding. if you don´t have you are bound to be alone and fight alone.....> > > --- Den mån 2009-10-26 skrev video228 <video228 (DOT) com>:> > > >Från: video228 <video228 (DOT) com>> >Ämne: ( ) daughter cries everyday at school "no one plays with her".> >Till: > >Datum: måndag 26 oktober 2009 23.36> >> >> > > >in a world that is taught to not "judge" anyone, why is it my daughter cries all night everyday because when shes at school she says "no one will play with her at reccess".>

>and the teachers say "we cant make people play with her".> >> >after hearing so much on not judging people on race, religion, social class and sexual orientation, at what point do we start to teach the children that not everyone acts the same and should all be treated with compassion and tollereance should be given to those children as much as we are mandated to give compassion to all the others i mentioned.> >> >my heart breaks every night when my daughter cries, because it is a heartfelt cry and usually makes me want to cry myself. and we just dont know what to do.> >> >we heard that there are other children with asperger in our school system, so we figured we could get a play group together with children that wont judge her, but the school system says they cannot let anyone know who else has autism or asperger because of "privacy policies".> >has anyone else run into this and

solved this issue ?> >> > > > ____________ _________ _________ __> Går det långsamt? Skaffa dig en snabbare bredbandsuppkopplin g.> Sök och jämför priser hos Kelkoo.>

[Guest guest]

Where do you all live? I have had it easier than I thought. My school is more

than willing to give my aspie services. Illinois actually had special

requirements for IEPS involving social education and play with neurotypical

students. These things are monitered by aids and the teachers. I really liked

the emphasis placed on pragmatics and teaching socially correct behaviors so

that the child could have a better chance for forming good relationships with

peers. I feel blessed to be right where I am!

If your daughter is diagnosed, how can they just ignore her social development.

Have you checked your states department of education website and read their

policies on special education and autism? Maybe the school is falling short! I

went to my IEP armed with a list of questions and already knew everything my son

was entitled towith a diagnosis of pdd-nos, aspergers, or autism, but I had to

fight for nothing and all my questions were answered without offense!!

I hope that there are some answeres out there for you...but I would contact the

superintendent of school and the state board of education if you don't find some

from within your school!

Best of Wishes,

Kelley

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> > It is VERY hard to get understanding/response/help/support regarding any

" invisible disability " .............i tried so hard b/c of my own son once a time

i don´t try anymore. it´s true " you can´t force anyone to play with anyone, but

the school can do more. So much depends upon yourself as a parent. if you have a

good social network around you it´s easier to get understanding. if you don´t

have you are bound to be alone and fight alone.....

> >

> >

> > --- Den mån 2009-10-26 skrev video228 <video228@>:

> >

> >

> > Från: video228 <video228@>

> > Ämne: ( ) daughter cries everyday at school " no one plays

with her " .

> > Till:

> > Datum: måndag 26 oktober 2009 23.36

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > in a world that is taught to not " judge " anyone, why is it my daughter

cries all night everyday because when shes at school she says " no one will play

with her at reccess " .

> > and the teachers say " we cant make people play with her " .

> >

> > after hearing so much on not judging people on race, religion, social

class and sexual orientation, at what point do we start to teach the children

that not everyone acts the same and should all be treated with compassion and

tollereance should be given to those children as much as we are mandated to give

compassion to all the others i mentioned.

> >

> > my heart breaks every night when my daughter cries, because it is a

heartfelt cry and usually makes me want to cry myself. and we just dont know

what to do.

> >

> > we heard that there are other children with asperger in our school system,

so we figured we could get a play group together with children that wont judge

her, but the school system says they cannot let anyone know who else has autism

or asperger because of " privacy policies " .

> > has anyone else run into this and solved this issue ?

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

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> > __________________________________________________________

> > Går det långsamt? Skaffa dig en snabbare bredbandsuppkoppling.

> > Sök och jämför priser hos Kelkoo.

> > http://www.kelkoo.se/c-100015813-bredband.html?partnerId=96914325

> >

>

[Guest guest]

Wow, Illinois sounds a lot like New Hampshire. Well, maybe not all of NH.

We're in a town well-known for being great with special education. They even

have their own special olympics and the typical kids in school volunteer to be

buddies to their special needs classmates. The same kids also volunteer to help

with Challenger League baseball which is Little League for kids who have

disabilities. likes baseball but isn't interested in any of the special

olympics sports they do here. We checked out basketball and he said, " Can we

leave now? " Nope, he did not want to do that.

I WISH all of these things could happen in every district everywhere. I don't

get why some schools will do what is needed and others won't. I have a friend

in Texas who was an advocate there. She burned out on it and had to quit. She

also has a son with asperger syndrome. Once she went to some sort of conference

for teachers and there were lawyers there whose sole purpose was to teach

teachers and administrators how to keep from giving any services. My son was in

school down there and the first school was horrible and they really did dig in

their heels about services. Eventually, we were offered placement at a school

with a centralized social skills classroom which was fantastic and they knew

what to do so we got a lot more of the right things for . He still gets

more here in NH, though.

Miriam

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> > > It is VERY hard to get understanding/response/help/support regarding any

" invisible disability " .............i tried so hard b/c of my own son once a time

i don´t try anymore. it´s true " you can´t force anyone to play with anyone, but

the school can do more. So much depends upon yourself as a parent. if you have a

good social network around you it´s easier to get understanding. if you don´t

have you are bound to be alone and fight alone.....

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> > > Ämne: ( ) daughter cries everyday at school " no one plays

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> > > in a world that is taught to not " judge " anyone, why is it my daughter

cries all night everyday because when shes at school she says " no one will play

with her at reccess " .

> > > and the teachers say " we cant make people play with her " .

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> > > after hearing so much on not judging people on race, religion, social

class and sexual orientation, at what point do we start to teach the children

that not everyone acts the same and should all be treated with compassion and

tollereance should be given to those children as much as we are mandated to give

compassion to all the others i mentioned.

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> > > my heart breaks every night when my daughter cries, because it is a

heartfelt cry and usually makes me want to cry myself. and we just dont know

what to do.

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> > > we heard that there are other children with asperger in our school

system, so we figured we could get a play group together with children that wont

judge her, but the school system says they cannot let anyone know who else has

autism or asperger because of " privacy policies " .

> > > has anyone else run into this and solved this issue ?

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