Guest guest Posted December 1, 2010 Report Share Posted December 1, 2010 Im sorry but I had a very had time trying to read what you want to say. But I'm going to take a stab at it any way (If I'm wrong about what happened just ingore me). So I am seeing that your boyfriend's 14 yo son had a fit (rage) about there being cheese on his burger that led to an argument that ended in the cops being called by the son accusing the father of hitting him. And that isn't the case, the father didn't hit the son. Is the child HFA or does he have aspergers? Because my HFA son will FLIP his lid if there are pickles on his burgers he's 4 so its more of a meltdown. But still. And a misunderstanding or misconception of actions and words is very common. Again my 4 yo is hypersentive to what you say and how you say it. And he can (and does) offten misread body cues and what would relate to us as restraint would be violence to my DS. From: <denise092769@...> Sent: Wed, December 1, 2010 9:48:20 AMSubject: ( ) not in reality My boyfriend son 14. Not sure anyone go threw this jd. got into rageover cheese on his hamberger. There were wotds a0 arguments it calm downwhen he got my boy walk the dog went upstair there cops were there theson called say his father hit him he didn't do it I have notice his sonsee things in away that's not reality. I know the child very importantsneeds does any care about parant side what they go thrtow he a goodfather Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 1, 2010 Report Share Posted December 1, 2010 Your correct. He does have aspergers and ocd and suffers from anxiety. He has a lot of meltdowns he acts. Like he 6 yrs. Old. I read a lot. I try to help there no mother. In picture. Thanks for writing. Just worried I wanna help this group helpsSent via BlackBerry from T-MobileFrom: Hukill <gothpunkgurl17@...>Sender: Date: Wed, 1 Dec 2010 13:23:11 -0800 (PST)< >Reply Subject: Re: ( ) not in reality Im sorry but I had a very had time trying to read what you want to say. But I'm going to take a stab at it any way (If I'm wrong about what happened just ingore me). So I am seeing that your boyfriend's 14 yo son had a fit (rage) about there being cheese on his burger that led to an argument that ended in the cops being called by the son accusing the father of hitting him. And that isn't the case, the father didn't hit the son. Is the child HFA or does he have aspergers? Because my HFA son will FLIP his lid if there are pickles on his burgers he's 4 so its more of a meltdown. But still. And a misunderstanding or misconception of actions and words is very common. Again my 4 yo is hypersentive to what you say and how you say it. And he can (and does) offten misread body cues and what would relate to us as restraint would be violence to my DS.From: <denise092769@...> Sent: Wed, December 1, 2010 9:48:20 AMSubject: ( ) not in reality My boyfriend son 14. Not sure anyone go threw this jd. got into rageover cheese on his hamberger. There were wotds a0 arguments it calm downwhen he got my boy walk the dog went upstair there cops were there theson called say his father hit him he didn't do it I have notice his sonsee things in away that's not reality. I know the child very importantsneeds does any care about parant side what they go thrtow he a goodfather Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2010 Report Share Posted December 2, 2010 Ok. I just wanted to make sure I was getting it right. Is he in with any therpist? That really seems to help my son a lot, and I try to get him outside every day for at least 30 minutes. We let him jump on the trampilone and that REALLY seems to help a lot with his anxiety and meltdowns. But only like 15 minutes max at a time. Also with my son it seems to help if we talk about his feelings, when he's calm. DS is hypersentive to verbal communication and body language. By that I mean he has no concept at all of abstract language (I know at 4 that would be limited but he's no where near at age). For expample if I am going to the store and I say "I'm leaving. I love you bye." DS hears "I'm going away and I am not going to come back." And a lot of body is misunderstood like I said. Ex... We (SO and I) will stand in close contact and when he's in the mood we will lightly hold his arms so we have warning of getting hit. DS see that as us trying to hurt him. Not having his mother in the picture is hard on him too. I know with my two oldest daughters (they are Nuro-typical) their mom is very absent and decided a long time ago that drugs and random sex was more important. And I get the blunt end of that one. But gentics do not make a true parent. Keep that in mind! From: "denise092769@..." <denise092769@...> Sent: Wed, December 1, 2010 8:09:55 PMSubject: Re: ( ) not in reality Your correct. He does have aspergers and ocd and suffers from anxiety. He has a lot of meltdowns he acts. Like he 6 yrs. Old. I read a lot. I try to help there no mother. In picture. Thanks for writing. Just worried I wanna help this group helps Sent via BlackBerry from T-Mobile From: Hukill <gothpunkgurl17@...> Sender: Date: Wed, 1 Dec 2010 13:23:11 -0800 (PST) < > Reply Subject: Re: ( ) not in reality Im sorry but I had a very had time trying to read what you want to say. But I'm going to take a stab at it any way (If I'm wrong about what happened just ingore me). So I am seeing that your boyfriend's 14 yo son had a fit (rage) about there being cheese on his burger that led to an argument that ended in the cops being called by the son accusing the father of hitting him. And that isn't the case, the father didn't hit the son. Is the child HFA or does he have aspergers? Because my HFA son will FLIP his lid if there are pickles on his burgers he's 4 so its more of a meltdown. But still. And a misunderstanding or misconception of actions and words is very common. Again my 4 yo is hypersentive to what you say and how you say it. And he can (and does) offten misread body cues and what would relate to us as restraint would be violence to my DS. From: <denise092769@...> Sent: Wed, December 1, 2010 9:48:20 AMSubject: ( ) not in reality My boyfriend son 14. Not sure anyone go threw this jd. got into rageover cheese on his hamberger. There were wotds a0 arguments it calm downwhen he got my boy walk the dog went upstair there cops were there theson called say his father hit him he didn't do it I have notice his sonsee things in away that's not reality. I know the child very importantsneeds does any care about parant side what they go thrtow he a goodfather Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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