Re: Recess fight --any chance of a creative punishment?

[Guest guest]

I don't know how old they are.....but must be young as they have recess...so...how about keeping both boys in and have them play together in the classroom with legos ....of course supervised...put them in there together and nobody else...

Or, bring them together...and talk about it face to face supervised...

just an idea!

Jan

P.S. I will continue to think about this ...really too early for my brain...lol

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[Guest guest]

I agree!!

I was thinking 2 or 3 or maybe a whole week of recesses......together with a teacher.

I don't care what the age.

Have activities planned.

Telling about eachother families.About what they are each good at.......video games, sports, whatever.....have them tell and show.

Bring them together whether the mean kid likes it or not.

Robin

From: rushen janice <jrushen@...>Subject: Re: ( ) Recess fight --any chance of a creative punishment? Date: Sunday, November 22, 2009, 6:46 AM

I don't know how old they are.....but must be young as they have recess...so. ..how about keeping both boys in and have them play together in the classroom with legos ....of course supervised.. .put them in there together and nobody else...

Or, bring them together...and talk about it face to face supervised.. ..

just an idea!

Jan

P.S. I will continue to think about this ...really too early for my brain...lol

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[Guest guest]

I'm a little leery of putting the boys together even if they are supervised,

unless the person doing the supervision has some training in psychology and an

understanding of AS.

I've heard from other parents that sometimes when the two kids are forced to

talk what happens is that the bully will dominate the conversation and say that

the bullying wasn't a big deal and the person being bullied will say something

like the bullying really wasn't that bad - which is just the opposite of what

should happen.

[Guest guest]

No, I don't think so.....I think it could really work...just need to have a good teacher supervise ....they don't have to force them to talk...just be right there and make sure it is only the two boys and adults...no other kids...

Jan

The teacher or para...needs to pay 100% attention....I know it could work...but if you don't feel comfortable ...then don't do it. I think this bully needs to learn to treat everyone with respect!

From: <tamaoki_s@...> Sent: Mon, November 23, 2009 1:14:04 PMSubject: ( ) Re: Recess fight --any chance of a creative punishment?

I'm a little leery of putting the boys together even if they are supervised, unless the person doing the supervision has some training in psychology and an understanding of AS. I've heard from other parents that sometimes when the two kids are forced to talk what happens is that the bully will dominate the conversation and say that the bullying wasn't a big deal and the person being bullied will say something like the bullying really wasn't that bad - which is just the opposite of what should happen.

[Guest guest]

I guess that that's what I was talking about. Having a totally responsible and "team player" aide or para or teacher with them.Maybe playing cards with them. Perhaps not even bringing up what happened. Hey....going for a hike or walk around the school. THings where the boy gets the chance to see that everyone deserves respect and not his "bullying".

Robin

From: rushen janice <jrushen@...>Subject: Re: ( ) Re: Recess fight --any chance of a creative punishment? Date: Monday, November 23, 2009, 7:25 PM

No, I don't think so.....I think it could really work...just need to have a good teacher supervise ....they don't have to force them to talk...just be right there and make sure it is only the two boys and adults...no other kids...

Jan

The teacher or para...needs to pay 100% attention... .I know it could work...but if you don't feel comfortable ...then don't do it. I think this bully needs to learn to treat everyone with respect!

From: <tamaoki_s (DOT) com> Sent: Mon, November 23, 2009 1:14:04 PMSubject: ( ) Re: Recess fight --any chance of a creative punishment?

I'm a little leery of putting the boys together even if they are supervised, unless the person doing the supervision has some training in psychology and an understanding of AS. I've heard from other parents that sometimes when the two kids are forced to talk what happens is that the bully will dominate the conversation and say that the bullying wasn't a big deal and the person being bullied will say something like the bullying really wasn't that bad - which is just the opposite of what should happen.