Son Depressed , I'm depressed

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Oh, woe to be thee ..woe to be me....I feel so lost, so dpressed, so down ...and

my son is feeling the same. He lost his BF ...to another boy who was being home

schooled but is back now. They ride the bus together and my son rides the

smaller bus. So they plan what they are going to do that day and leave him out.

The other day...his BF said he could not come down and that the other kid wasn't

home...lie. My son was on the phone when he heard the other boy...and his BF

would not talk. Then my son jumped on his bike and went down there....his BF

then made up a story that they were going to come up and surprise him. Yeah

right...I don't believe it one bit...his BF has lied to him before.

My son came home yesterday and said he either lost his IPOD or left it in his

locker....I emailed the asst. principal ...have not heard from her yet...and my

son just got home and went straight into his room....he was calling his

BF....but got no answer. In the meantime, I asked him about his IPOD and he

said it was gone. The ear phones were in his backpack....I am wondering if

someone went into his locker and stole it. I am sick over it...my husband said

we could get him a new one for his birthday...I don't want to...he has been rude

and down right NASTY to me and my husband. I truly beleive things are going

wrong with friends in school.

I can't function like this...he is sad and I can't fix it...and he doesn't want

to do school work and he shouts at us and is very nasty.

I feel like running away from all of this ..I just can't handle it.

Help!

jan