Guest guest Posted March 1, 2011 Report Share Posted March 1, 2011 Forst can I just say how many times a day I say “stop Zachary” to my child? And mind you this is me tempering myself not to say it. But my goodness gracious this child does not EVER be quiet. I think sometimes my head is going to shoot RIGHT off my shoulders. I never developed the “mother’s ear”. I cannot tune him out, it is just plain constant! He does not play, he smashes, bangs throws and makes noises all the while. He is not imaginary, there is no role playing or stories, it’s just noises and sounds. Even on the computer he is in constant noise mode. Just noise, not words. And there’s another thing. He is constantly making up nonsense words and repeating them. Thanks for letting me vent. Denel Mom to 6 year old Zachary who is formally diagnosed with Mood Disorder-nos, PDD-nos, Sensory Integreation Disorder and is going in for Aspergers testing in April/May. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 1, 2011 Report Share Posted March 1, 2011 Hi Denel,Oh my, welcome to my world too - my nearly 8 year old girl does almost the very same things - there are days I think if I hear another sound - ANY sound - I will just jettison off into space from the pressure inside! I have "mother's ear" to a degree but Hannah can get past that without too much trouble. I use my "mother's ear" to determine whether the sounds are "just Hannah" or if they indicate a true crisis of some sort. Something else Hannah does is position her hands like puppets and has them "talk" back and forth to each other but she doesn't verbalize the words - she just sort of hums them out - the weird thing is that many times I can understand what's being hummed - yikes. I've tried ear plugs - didn't work. Hang in there....Becky S. in GeorgiaMom to Hannah 8yo Aspergers & Mood disorder NOS (probably bipolar)From: Blessed Mom <blessedmom1305@...> Sent: Tue, March 1, 2011 5:48:40 PMSubject: ( ) Self stimming/Perserverative noises. What do they sound like with your child? Forst can I just say how many times a day I say “stop Zachary†to my child? And mind you this is me tempering myself not to say it. But my goodness gracious this child does not EVER be quiet. I think sometimes my head is going to shoot RIGHT off my shoulders. I never developed the “mother’s earâ€. I cannot tune him out, it is just plain constant! He does not play, he smashes, bangs throws and makes noises all the while. He is not imaginary, there is no role playing or stories, it’s just noises and sounds. Even on the computer he is in constant noise mode. Just noise, not words. And there’s another thing. He is constantly making up nonsense words and repeating them. Thanks for letting me vent. Denel Mom to 6 year old Zachary who is formally diagnosed with Mood Disorder-nos, PDD-nos, Sensory Integreation Disorder and is going in for Aspergers testing in April/May. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 1, 2011 Report Share Posted March 1, 2011 My son is 15 years old. I've read a lot of books about AS and very few have I found with much about the noises. At first I thought the noises my son makes were not due to AS but his Psych thinks so. But I'm still learning. He makes a noise that kindof sounds like a very loud goat. He makes this noise when he is happy. He uses it randomly and sometimes he uses it in place of words. I will pick him up from the YMCA and he will get in the car, look at me and make the goat sound then go on like normal. He also makes a " dohhhhhhh " noise when he hears something he doesn't like. It's almost like he is saying " don't " . He makes a " haaaa " sound, (not to be mistaken for " ha, ha " )when someone gets hurt or makes a mistake. He will also make a loud glupping sound. We call it " the bark. " He also does what we call " the happy dance. " He will clap and slowly spin in a circle. He only does this when he is happy. There is a name for the made up words: neologisms My son seems to have some of those but we think he picked them up from tv so I'm not sure. He will say things like " Can I have some toast plox, plox, lotion, lotion, lotion. " I hope this helps you. I'm also wondering what other parents think of this issue. > > > > Forst can I just say how many times a day I say " stop Zachary " to my child? > And mind you this is me tempering myself not to say it. But my goodness > gracious this child does not EVER be quiet. I think sometimes my head is > going to shoot RIGHT off my shoulders. I never developed the " mother's > ear " . I cannot tune him out, it is just plain constant! > > > > He does not play, he smashes, bangs throws and makes noises all the while. > He is not imaginary, there is no role playing or stories, it's just noises > and sounds. Even on the computer he is in constant noise mode. Just noise, > not words. And there's another thing. He is constantly making up nonsense > words and repeating them. > > > > Thanks for letting me vent. > > > > Denel > > Mom to 6 year old Zachary who is formally diagnosed with Mood Disorder-nos, > PDD-nos, Sensory Integreation Disorder and is going in for Aspergers testing > in April/May. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 2, 2011 Report Share Posted March 2, 2011 My son makes a nasally hum. It's a monotone noise that he has done since he was a baby. It started out that the noise was just when there was a tag to rub between his fingers. Now at 13, he still makes the same noise while concentrating (minus the tags), playing a video game and at chess club. One of the chess club kids asked me if he made that noise to psych out his opposition. bobbie in nj Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 2, 2011 Report Share Posted March 2, 2011 My son just turned 14 and is the same way as 's son. He will make noices for noice sake. He hums, makes clicking noices and sometimes randomly blurts out words or sounds. Sometimes the words are real words and sometimes they are made up. He will also go through spells where he fixates on a word and he will use it all the time even if it doesn't apply or he will repeat it over and over because he likes how it sounds. Right now his word is " epic " . Everything is epic!! Epic, epic epic, OMG!! My suggestion is buy yourself an Ipod or MP3 player if you don't already and put earphones in your ears to tune him out sometimes. You can also use a behavior chart with rewards/incentives for him to earn depending on how long he can remain quiet. You could start with one minute then work your way up from there. ??? Just some thoughs, hope it helps. ne > From: workin_mom123 <keith.stacyhammond@...> > Subject: ( ) Re: Self stimming/Perserverative noises. What do they sound like with your child? > > Date: Tuesday, March 1, 2011, 9:54 PM > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Â > > > > > > > > > > My son is 15 years old. I've read a lot of > books about AS and very few have I found with much about the > noises. At first I thought the noises my son makes were not > due to AS but his Psych thinks so. But I'm still > learning. He makes a noise that kindof sounds like a very > loud goat. He makes this noise when he is happy. He uses it > randomly and sometimes he uses it in place of words. I will > pick him up from the YMCA and he will get in the car, look > at me and make the goat sound then go on like normal. He > also makes a " dohhhhhhh " noise when he hears > something he doesn't like. It's almost like he is > saying " don't " . He makes a " haaaa " > sound, (not to be mistaken for " ha, ha " )when > someone gets hurt or makes a mistake. He will also make a > loud glupping sound. We call it " the bark. " > > > > He also does what we call " the happy dance. " He > will clap and slowly spin in a circle. He only does this > when he is happy. > > > > There is a name for the made up words: neologisms > > > > My son seems to have some of those but we think he picked > them up from tv so I'm not sure. He will say things like > " Can I have some toast plox, plox, lotion, lotion, > lotion. " > > > > I hope this helps you. I'm also wondering what other > parents think of this issue. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Forst can I just say how many times a day I say > " stop Zachary " to my child? > > > And mind you this is me tempering myself not to say > it. But my goodness > > > gracious this child does not EVER be quiet. I think > sometimes my head is > > > going to shoot RIGHT off my shoulders. I never > developed the " mother's > > > ear " . I cannot tune him out, it is just plain > constant! > > > > > > > > > > > > He does not play, he smashes, bangs throws and makes > noises all the while. > > > He is not imaginary, there is no role playing or > stories, it's just noises > > > and sounds. Even on the computer he is in constant > noise mode. Just noise, > > > not words. And there's another thing. He is > constantly making up nonsense > > > words and repeating them. > > > > > > > > > > > > Thanks for letting me vent. > > > > > > > > > > > > Denel > > > > > > Mom to 6 year old Zachary who is formally diagnosed > with Mood Disorder-nos, > > > PDD-nos, Sensory Integreation Disorder and is going in > for Aspergers testing > > > in April/May. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 2, 2011 Report Share Posted March 2, 2011 my son is using the same word at 12.5 years! what a riot, wonder where they both got it from. i for one, am sick of hearing it! Sycamore Art StudiosSycamore Art SchoolDeborah GustlinGraphic & Web DesignArt classes for K-12www.sycamoreartstudios.comwww.sycamoreartschool.comHome: 408-710-0892 Business: 408-710-6070From: susanne hansen <s_hansen34@...> Sent: Wed, March 2, 2011 8:50:44 AMSubject: Re: ( ) Re: Self stimming/Perserverative noises. What do they sound like with your child? My son just turned 14 and is the same way as 's son. He will make noices for noice sake. He hums, makes clicking noices and sometimes randomly blurts out words or sounds. Sometimes the words are real words and sometimes they are made up. He will also go through spells where he fixates on a word and he will use it all the time even if it doesn't apply or he will repeat it over and over because he likes how it sounds. Right now his word is "epic". Everything is epic!! Epic, epic epic, OMG!! My suggestion is buy yourself an Ipod or MP3 player if you don't already and put earphones in your ears to tune him out sometimes. You can also use a behavior chart with rewards/incentives for him to earn depending on how long he can remain quiet. You could start with one minute then work your way up from there. ??? Just some thoughs, hope it helps. ne > From: workin_mom123 <keith.stacyhammond@...> > Subject: ( ) Re: Self stimming/Perserverative noises. What do they sound like with your child? > > Date: Tuesday, March 1, 2011, 9:54 PM > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > My son is 15 years old. I've read a lot of > books about AS and very few have I found with much about the > noises. At first I thought the noises my son makes were not > due to AS but his Psych thinks so. But I'm still > learning. He makes a noise that kindof sounds like a very > loud goat. He makes this noise when he is happy. He uses it > randomly and sometimes he uses it in place of words. I will > pick him up from the YMCA and he will get in the car, look > at me and make the goat sound then go on like normal. He > also makes a "dohhhhhhh" noise when he hears > something he doesn't like. It's almost like he is > saying "don't". He makes a "haaaa" > sound, (not to be mistaken for "ha, ha")when > someone gets hurt or makes a mistake. He will also make a > loud glupping sound. We call it "the bark." > > > > He also does what we call "the happy dance." He > will clap and slowly spin in a circle. He only does this > when he is happy. > > > > There is a name for the made up words: neologisms > > > > My son seems to have some of those but we think he picked > them up from tv so I'm not sure. He will say things like > "Can I have some toast plox, plox, lotion, lotion, > lotion." > > > > I hope this helps you. I'm also wondering what other > parents think of this issue. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Forst can I just say how many times a day I say > "stop Zachary" to my child? > > > And mind you this is me tempering myself not to say > it. But my goodness > > > gracious this child does not EVER be quiet. I think > sometimes my head is > > > going to shoot RIGHT off my shoulders. I never > developed the "mother's > > > ear". I cannot tune him out, it is just plain > constant! > > > > > > > > > > > > He does not play, he smashes, bangs throws and makes > noises all the while. > > > He is not imaginary, there is no role playing or > stories, it's just noises > > > and sounds. Even on the computer he is in constant > noise mode. Just noise, > > > not words. And there's another thing. He is > constantly making up nonsense > > > words and repeating them. > > > > > > > > > > > > Thanks for letting me vent. > > > > > > > > > > > > Denel > > > > > > Mom to 6 year old Zachary who is formally diagnosed > with Mood Disorder-nos, > > > PDD-nos, Sensory Integreation Disorder and is going in > for Aspergers testing > > > in April/May. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 2, 2011 Report Share Posted March 2, 2011 my jd 15 he snaps his fingers and yanks on his hair always has have something in his hands when he watches tv he used bang things a lot grrr i'm from nj alsoFrom: riveryak2003 <riveryak2003@...>Subject: ( ) Re: Self stimming/Perserverative noises. What do they sound like with your child? Date: Wednesday, March 2, 2011, 4:01 PM My son makes a nasally hum. It's a monotone noise that he has done since he was a baby. It started out that the noise was just when there was a tag to rub between his fingers. Now at 13, he still makes the same noise while concentrating (minus the tags), playing a video game and at chess club. One of the chess club kids asked me if he made that noise to psych out his opposition. bobbie in nj Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 4, 2011 Report Share Posted March 4, 2011 My 8 year old daughter makes constant noise too. Mostly hers are real words that she repeats over and over; usually stuff she's picked up from the tv. Occasionally she makes a sound that almost sounds like a roar. I try to tune it out and am usually pretty successful, but then there are days where it feels like I even hear it in my sleep! > > From: riveryak2003 <riveryak2003@...> > Subject: ( ) Re: Self stimming/Perserverative noises. What do they sound like with your child? > > Date: Wednesday, March 2, 2011, 4:01 PM > > > > > > > > Â > > > > > > > > > > My son makes a nasally hum. It's a monotone noise that he has done since he was a baby. It started out that the noise was just when there was a tag to rub between his fingers. Now at 13, he still makes the same noise while concentrating (minus the tags), playing a video game and at chess club. One of the chess club kids asked me if he made that noise to psych out his opposition. > > > > bobbie in nj > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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