AS Teen Boys/Girlfriends/Sex/Anger

April 1, 2011

Hi! I post here and there but it has been a while since I asked for help. My

son, 15 and in 9th grade, has had a terrible 2nd half of the year. He is very

high functioning and appears to be like all the other kids. Adults and teachers

all say...he has Aspergers? But he does...maybe it is mild but it is there.

The problem is that he likes girls, his hormones are raging and the girls are

big teasers. He dated a girl for a month...and then she broke it off...said she

didn't want anything serious. WEll, then her best friend played my son and said

she wanted to go out with him. Turns out she was pulling his leg. He wants a

girlfriend so badly. It has gotten out of control. In fact, I got a call from

his school counselor that my son threatened to kill himself becuase the girl

would not go out with him. Then the school got three more reports like this.

He asked a girl out and she said no but he stilled tried to hold her hand and

asked for a kiss. He was allowed on facebook but no more. That is over. He can

not handle it.

I don't think he would harm himself...but he is very depressed. He lost 15 lbs.

and is now 140 lbs. and he is 5' 11 1/2 " tall. He is on medicine..prozac for

depresion, xanax for anxiety, adderall for ADHD and Geodon for anger. He shuts

himself in his room and keeps the shade down. Barely anyne comes over.

The school called me to come today and told me that they are afraid for

him...they said I can not bring him back to school w/out a note from the

psychiatrist or psychologist. We do have an appt. for Monday.

I don't think my son has the filters to deal with everything going on in

school...the girls are speading rumors about him sayng he beat up his

ex-girlfirend nd wants to beat up this other girl.

It is so bad. What do I do...where do I go from here. Not sure!

help

jan

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