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Um I think your all missing what she said, not he's on probation for 30 days, he's on probation and if slips up he's going AWAY for 30 days. Unless she keeps him home until the probation is over he can be sent away for the 30 days at the juvenile detention center:(From: SoCalVal <socalval@...> Sent: Mon,

March 7, 2011 4:34:02 PMSubject: Re: ( ) ?



I agree with Carolyn. Request an independant study (schooling from home). I believe you can do it for up to 30 days. Basically the teacher sends home a bunch of homework that she had planned for the class and he has those 30 days to finish it. I wouldn't want him at school during this time either. Then can misinterpret all sorts of things, or provoke him etc. Also I don't think he should be made to feel that he did something so awful. The weight of the world is on his shoulders right now. Yes he could try to control what words come out of his mouth but it is part of his disorder. Which brings up a point. If he has an IEP and they are aware of his disorder then this could be proven that it was a manisfestation of his disorder. Definately need to call up some help - an advocate or a disability lawyer... someone. Maybe in desperate measures to bring negative attention to the school you could call the news channel ????? just a thought but probably only if you don't plan to return to that school. sorry, I'm probably not much help as I'd like to be.

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So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!Any advice?Sent from my iPhone

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I don't know why you think I missed what she said.... My point was that if he wasn't at school that he wouldn't have an opportunity to slip up and be "put away".....CarolynSent from my iPadOn Mar 7, 2011, at 7:31 PM, Lawton <lawtonjennifer@...> wrote:

Um I think your all missing what she said, not he's on probation for 30 days, he's on probation and if slips up he's going AWAY for 30 days. Unless she keeps him home until the probation is over he can be sent away for the 30 days at the juvenile detention center:(From: SoCalVal <socalval@...> Sent: Mon,

March 7, 2011 4:34:02 PMSubject: Re: ( ) ?



I agree with Carolyn. Request an independant study (schooling from home). I believe you can do it for up to 30 days. Basically the teacher sends home a bunch of homework that she had planned for the class and he has those 30 days to finish it. I wouldn't want him at school during this time either. Then can misinterpret all sorts of things, or provoke him etc. Also I don't think he should be made to feel that he did something so awful. The weight of the world is on his shoulders right now. Yes he could try to control what words come out of his mouth but it is part of his disorder. Which brings up a point. If he has an IEP and they are aware of his disorder then this could be proven that it was a manisfestation of his disorder. Definately need to call up some help - an advocate or a disability lawyer... someone. Maybe in desperate measures to bring negative attention to the school you could call the news channel ????? just a thought but probably only if you don't plan to return to that school. sorry, I'm probably not much help as I'd like to be.

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So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!Any advice?Sent from my iPhone

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I wasn't signaling you out but my concern was if he was homeschooled for 30 days but on the 31st day he'd go back to school and have another poor choice of words he could end up in the detention center. I'd want to know how long the probation is and in that time try to get the tools in place that would prevent this from reoccuring and for it to be recognized for what is it and dealt with accordingly.

From: Carolyn <ccweisbard@...>" " < >Sent: Mon, March 7, 2011 9:37:10 PMSubject: Re: ( ) ? Clarification

I don't know why you think I missed what she said.... My point was that if he wasn't at school that he wouldn't have an opportunity to slip up and be "put away".....

Carolyn

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On Mar 7, 2011, at 7:31 PM, Lawton <lawtonjennifer@...> wrote:

Um I think your all missing what she said, not he's on probation for 30 days, he's on probation and if slips up he's going AWAY for 30 days. Unless she keeps him home until the probation is over he can be sent away for the 30 days at the juvenile detention center:(

From: SoCalVal <socalval@...> Sent: Mon, March 7, 2011 4:34:02 PMSubject: Re: ( ) ?



I agree with Carolyn. Request an independant study (schooling from home). I believe you can do it for up to 30 days. Basically the teacher sends home a bunch of homework that she had planned for the class and he has those 30 days to finish it. I wouldn't want him at school during this time either. Then can misinterpret all sorts of things, or provoke him etc. Also I don't think he should be made to feel that he did something so awful. The weight of the world is on his shoulders right now. Yes he could try to control what words come out of his mouth but it is part of his disorder. Which brings up a point. If he has an IEP and they are aware of his disorder then this could be proven that it was a manisfestation of his disorder. Definately need to call up some help - an advocate or a disability lawyer... someone. Maybe in desperate measures to bring negative attention to the school you could call the

news channel ????? just a thought but probably only if you don't plan to return to that school. sorry, I'm probably not much help as I'd like to be.

( ) ?

So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!Any advice?Sent from my iPhone

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Oh I didn't understand.

In that case, I would not send my child back.

I would put in writing that you are objecting to the

Behavior Intervention Plan that they proposed.

(I guess they don't have one written down do they?).

Request that a Functional Behavioral Assessment

be done by a certified behaviorist before your

son can return to school.

You don't have to agree with their plans. You can

force them to write down the plan and review it

with your doctors and other professionals.

Pam

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Thanks Pamela! We do have a BIP but it's not being followed!!!! Urgggggg!;(Sent from my iPhoneOn Mar 7, 2011, at 11:06 PM, "Pamela" <susanonderko@...> wrote:

Oh I didn't understand.

In that case, I would not send my child back.

I would put in writing that you are objecting to the

Behavior Intervention Plan that they proposed.

(I guess they don't have one written down do they?).

Request that a Functional Behavioral Assessment

be done by a certified behaviorist before your

son can return to school.

You don't have to agree with their plans. You can

force them to write down the plan and review it

with your doctors and other professionals.

Pam

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No I appreciate you! The probation is just If it happens again... Really! It will happen most likely when they are in his face screaming at him to do work he has already done!!! Urgggggg I was hurt now I'm getting mad! Sent from my iPhoneOn Mar 7, 2011, at 10:47 PM, Lawton <lawtonjennifer@...> wrote:

I wasn't signaling you out but my concern was if he was homeschooled for 30 days but on the 31st day he'd go back to school and have another poor choice of words he could end up in the detention center. I'd want to know how long the probation is and in that time try to get the tools in place that would prevent this from reoccuring and for it to be recognized for what is it and dealt with accordingly.

From: Carolyn <ccweisbard@...>" " < >Sent: Mon, March 7, 2011 9:37:10 PMSubject: Re: ( ) ? Clarification

I don't know why you think I missed what she said.... My point was that if he wasn't at school that he wouldn't have an opportunity to slip up and be "put away".....

Carolyn

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On Mar 7, 2011, at 7:31 PM, Lawton <lawtonjennifer@...> wrote:

Um I think your all missing what she said, not he's on probation for 30 days, he's on probation and if slips up he's going AWAY for 30 days. Unless she keeps him home until the probation is over he can be sent away for the 30 days at the juvenile detention center:(

From: SoCalVal <socalval@...> Sent: Mon, March 7, 2011 4:34:02 PMSubject: Re: ( ) ?



I agree with Carolyn. Request an independant study (schooling from home). I believe you can do it for up to 30 days. Basically the teacher sends home a bunch of homework that she had planned for the class and he has those 30 days to finish it. I wouldn't want him at school during this time either. Then can misinterpret all sorts of things, or provoke him etc. Also I don't think he should be made to feel that he did something so awful. The weight of the world is on his shoulders right now. Yes he could try to control what words come out of his mouth but it is part of his disorder. Which brings up a point. If he has an IEP and they are aware of his disorder then this could be proven that it was a manisfestation of his disorder. Definately need to call up some help - an advocate or a disability lawyer... someone. Maybe in desperate measures to bring negative attention to the school you could call the

news channel ????? just a thought but probably only if you don't plan to return to that school. sorry, I'm probably not much help as I'd like to be.

( ) ?

So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!Any advice?Sent from my iPhone

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I understand I was suggesting the independant home study as a option to help things cool down. I said 30 days just as an example as I think that is maximum that you could do. During that time they can determine a game plan, get the help you need all while he is in the safety and comfort of home. The amount of stress it could take off of shoulders is huge also so wouldn't worry about him as much. We chose to do this for our son who had been suspended then behavior started to escalate.We didn't know what the school was going to pull next. They were trying to send us a message and they were trying to push us out. My son was exhibiting so much stress and at school he would take it out on everybody. He's only 6 and we didn't want anything more on his record. This zero tolerance stuff is getting out of hand and the schools are using it every chance they can. We took a 2 week independant study and our heads and our hearts where clear and able to make some big decisions regarding his emotional well being and his education.

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So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!Any advice?Sent from my iPhone

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Ruthie.. We are in texasSent from my iPhoneOn Mar 8, 2011, at 12:17 PM, Ruthie and Dolezal <DOLEZAL123@...> wrote:

What state are you in? Ruthie (mom of 4 sons, two with Aspergers and more)

From: socalval@...Date: Tue, 8 Mar 2011 07:27:37 -0800Subject: Re: ( ) ? Clarification

 I understand I was suggesting the independant home study as a option to help things cool down. I said 30 days just as an example as I think that is maximum that you could do. During that time they can determine a game plan, get the help you need all while he is in the safety and comfort of home. The amount of stress it could take off of shoulders is huge also so wouldn't worry about him as much. We chose to do this for our son who had been suspended then behavior started to escalate.We didn't know what the school was going to pull next. They were trying to send us a message and they were trying to push us out. My son was exhibiting so much stress and at school he would take it out on everybody. He's only 6 and we didn't want anything more on his record. This zero tolerance stuff is getting out of hand and the schools are using it every chance they can. We took a 2 week independant study and our heads and our hearts where clear and able to make some big decisions regarding his emotional well being and his education.

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So the school wants to have my 9 year old arrested, put into a orange jumpsuit and hauled to juvenile detention... All because his teacher would not get out of his face yelling over homework he had already done! He is aspergers.. He said "I wish someone would give me a bomb so I could blow this place up!" now they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and she would not get out of his face!!! I can't stop crying!Any advice?Sent from my iPhone

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I recommend virtual homeschool. I also post my childs every hour task and at

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they don't recognize his disability and want him arrested! WHAT!!!! He's 9 and

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Um girl... That may be the only option left... What makes my mad is this was his first write up! Small school! He has friends! He's not that broken, empty beaten down hull I used to pick up everyday in 3rd grade! So, I was happy! But if they won't recognize the disability guess I'll be back to looking for a place! A place were our kids can matter! ;( sadSent from my iPhoneOn Mar 10, 2011, at 6:21 AM, "UMgirl" <chevinsea@...> wrote:

I recommend virtual homeschool. I also post my childs every hour task and at the end of the day he earns rewards.

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