Guest guest Posted March 11, 2011 Report Share Posted March 11, 2011 i hate i know with the attitude. out jd is same way he is 15 a lot of musunderstandings at this house i understand the fustration for example he has no sense of time getting him ready for school on time always running late for the bus we tell him move a little faster all you here i knowwww and still moves slow as a turtle sorry if i didnt helpFrom: APGirl <julia.colleen@...>Subject: ( ) Re: judgemental? Date: Thursday, March 10, 2011, 3:36 PM Yes he does seem very irritable. But it's like our communication is just a series of miscommunications. Most things I say to him he misinterprets and gets defensive. He usually think I have some alterior motive to asking a question and seems very confused and mistrusting. He argues constantly and I have to explain every detail to him before he admits that he was wrong. His general attitude is I KNOOOOWWW!!!! Then you have to say well actually no...blah blah blah but I get frustrated because I am his mother and he should just trust me! Rigid thinking- definitely but it does seem like it's getting a bit worse and he's becoming more intolerant of his annoying family who wants to spend time with him. I try not to get my feelings hurt but SHEESH > >> > I am wondering if this is a aspie trait or a "tween" trait. My son (10)has become extremely judgmental. It's like everything is getting much more black and white with nothing in between. My NT daughter is 7 and she is constantly tricking him- but my son has decided she is a liar and is completely intolerant of her. Everyday he says to me, "Mom she lied to me. She said this but it was a lie. All she does is lie. She ALWAYS lies. I can't take it anymore!!" and to me it was no big deal but he is now becoming quite judgmental of my parenting! He will say, "Lying is not ok! She needs a consequence." And then he looks at me sideways if I blow it off. He catches me at any inconsistency- like one day you can have candy and one day not. I think he is thinking I am crazy! Is it the age or the AS or a wicked combo? LOL> > > > > >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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