What can I do? my daugther is being bully at the Boys and Girls club by a special need child.

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Hi,This has been emotionally devastating for my daugther and me. She was unable to sleep until I placed her temporary at the YMCA after school program for this week.The bad part is that the only place I can afford is the boys and girls club.I talked to the program director who bounced the problem around focusing in my daugther screaming when my daugther was trying to explain the problem. I understand my daugther I felt for screaming myself!!My daugther did not have seizure for a while and now she is having seizure again at night because of the stress.I wrote a letter to the director of the club, he has not answered me back yet. If that girl keeps bulling my daugther can I make a complaint to the police dept for that?I hope you guys can guide me through this problem. RE: ( ) homeschooling (new thread)Hi Dawn here new to the group. My eldest son Zak (14) is our Aspergerschild, which his brother Max (10) is not! We have chosen to home school Zak most of his life. Whenever we put him inschool there are disastrous consequences for him emotionally. Beingbullied, called names, told he's "different". By the way these are allprivate and charter schools that he's been in, no public ones. Both of my boys are now home schooled as it's so much easier than getting upat some dark hour in the morning and subjecting them to being taught thingsthey are not interested in, especially Zak. He's very much into computers and has taught himself coding and createswebsites and his own games. But he is lonely. I have heard that is "normal"for Asperger kids and that is something we work on. One of the great thingsabout home schooling and being with other kids that are home schooled isthat none of them treat Zak differently. Off to the home schooling meeting. Namaste Dawn in Tucson, AZ

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Hi,

if you don't want to make an official complaint. You can go to the domestic section in the police dept and explain your situation and say you are seeking advise on what to do to get this to stop. Then, in your letter to the director of the boys & girls club you can explain that you spoke with ??? at the police department and this is what they said.

see if that helps...

From: "tfitzge134@..." <tfitzge134@...> @...Sent: Wed, January 13, 2010 9:06:33 AMSubject: ( ) What can I do? my daugther is being bully at the Boys and Girls club by a special need child.

Hi,This has been emotionally devastating for my daugther and me. She was unable to sleep until I placed her temporary at the YMCA after school program for this week.The bad part is that the only place I can afford is the boys and girls club.I talked to the program director who bounced the problem around focusing in my daugther screaming when my daugther was trying to explain the problem. I understand my daugther I felt for screaming myself!!My daugther did not have seizure for a while and now she is having seizure again at night because of the stress.I wrote a letter to the director of the club, he has not answered me back yet. If that girl keeps bulling my daugther can I make a complaint to the police dept for that?I hope you guys can guide me through this problem. RE: ( ) homeschooling (new thread)Hi Dawn here new to the group. My eldest son Zak (14) is our Aspergerschild, which his brother Max (10) is not! We have chosen to home school Zak most of his life. Whenever we put him inschool there are disastrous consequences for him emotionally. Beingbullied, called names, told he's "different". By the way these are allprivate and charter schools that he's been in, no public ones. Both of my boys are now home schooled as it's so much easier than getting upat some dark hour in the morning and subjecting them to being taught thingsthey are not interested in, especially Zak. He's very much into computers and has taught himself coding and

createswebsites and his own games. But he is lonely. I have heard that is "normal"for Asperger kids and that is something we work on. One of the great thingsabout home schooling and being with other kids that are home schooled isthat none of them treat Zak differently. Off to the home schooling meeting. Namaste Dawn in Tucson, AZ

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Have you spoken with the parents of the abusive child? They know their child best and you may be able to work together to thwart the abusive childs behaviors.

From: Rose <beachbodytan2002@...>Subject: Re: ( ) What can I do? my daugther is being bully at the Boys and Girls club by a special need child. Date: Wednesday, January 13, 2010, 6:41 PM

Hi,

if you don't want to make an official complaint. You can go to the domestic section in the police dept and explain your situation and say you are seeking advise on what to do to get this to stop. Then, in your letter to the director of the boys & girls club you can explain that you spoke with ??? at the police department and this is what they said.

see if that helps...

From: "tfitzge134@..." <tfitzge134@...> @...Sent: Wed, January 13, 2010 9:06:33 AMSubject: ( ) What can I do? my daugther is being bully at the Boys and Girls club by a special need child.

Hi,This has been emotionally devastating for my daugther and me. She was unable to sleep until I placed her temporary at the YMCA after school program for this week.The bad part is that the only place I can afford is the boys and girls club.I talked to the program director who bounced the problem around focusing in my daugther screaming when my daugther was trying to explain the problem. I understand my daugther I felt for screaming myself!!My daugther did not have seizure for a while and now she is having seizure again at night because of the stress.I wrote a letter to the director of the club, he has not answered me back yet. If that girl keeps bulling my daugther can I make a complaint to the police dept for that?I hope you guys can guide me through this problem. RE: ( ) homeschooling (new thread)Hi Dawn here new to the group. My eldest son Zak (14) is our Aspergerschild, which his brother Max (10) is not! We have chosen to home school Zak most of his life. Whenever we put him inschool there are disastrous consequences for him emotionally. Beingbullied, called names, told he's "different". By the way these are allprivate and charter schools that he's been in, no public ones. Both of my boys are now home schooled as it's so much easier than getting upat some dark hour in the morning and subjecting them to being taught thingsthey are not interested in, especially Zak. He's very much into computers and has taught himself coding and

createswebsites and his own games. But he is lonely. I have heard that is "normal"for Asperger kids and that is something we work on. One of the great thingsabout home schooling and being with other kids that are home schooled isthat none of them treat Zak differently. Off to the home schooling meeting. Namaste Dawn in Tucson, AZ