Need help in San Bernardino California

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I just got this from teacher

Dear MOM,

Today MY SON is having a difficult time in PE. He has broken down crying

because he didn't get to do what he wanted to do. He is now crying and

saying that he is going to run away. He has had a hard time readjusting to

school since he came back. He hasn't joined the other students for group

work and stays to himself most of the time. He seems unhappy and hasn't

been completing his work. He went to Mr. TEACHER yesterday for 30 minutes

to complete his work with some individual time and came back very quietly.

He's lost his happy spirit and I'm worried about him. Have you seen

anything like this at home?

Thank you, Mrs. TEACHER

My son will be 9 in March and is in the Advance Learning program (GATE) 3rd

grade. He gets speech and RSP help. I need help finding a place where we can all

go and talk to him about feeling sad or depress. Inland Regional wont take us

cause he is just Aspergers and we just had him diagnose by the school on july.

We dont have him diagnose by a doctor. I need to find a place to take him before

he really gets depress. Any help will be appreciated. I fell lost right now.

thanks

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This is a tough week for kids going back to school after Christmas break. I have gotten an email from the school social worker saying the same thing about my son "n has had a diffcult transition back to school." He's had meltdowns and also pushed another boy yesterday, and got sent to the office for that.

So I would say, give your son a little bit of time to readjust, and talk to him yourself and see what is really bothering him. If things don't improve in the next few weeks, you should talk to his doctor and get a referral for a psychologist/counselor in your area. It doesn't have to be a person associated with the school, it can just be a family counselor who can help your son with his coping skills.

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Suzanne

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From: junepearl14 <junepearl14@...>Subject: ( ) Need help in San Bernardino California Date: Wednesday, January 6, 2010, 12:12 PM

I just got this from teacherDear MOM,Today MY SON is having a difficult time in PE. He has broken down cryingbecause he didn't get to do what he wanted to do. He is now crying andsaying that he is going to run away. He has had a hard time readjusting toschool since he came back. He hasn't joined the other students for groupwork and stays to himself most of the time. He seems unhappy and hasn'tbeen completing his work. He went to Mr. TEACHER yesterday for 30 minutesto complete his work with some individual time and came back very quietly.He's lost his happy spirit and I'm worried about him. Have you seenanything like this at home?Thank you, Mrs. TEACHERMy son will be 9 in March and is in the Advance Learning program (GATE) 3rd grade. He gets speech and RSP help. I need help finding a place where we can all go and talk to him about feeling sad or depress. Inland Regional wont take us cause he is

just Aspergers and we just had him diagnose by the school on july. We dont have him diagnose by a doctor. I need to find a place to take him before he really gets depress. Any help will be appreciated. I fell lost right now.thanks

[Guest guest]

Try http://www.ieautism.org/resource_guide

On page 17 of the resource list there's stuff for Asperger's. Some place in

Alta Loma called Open Doors http://www.opendoorsnow.org/ They seem to be more

into social groups, but they may know someone who can help.

I am in San Diego, not Inland Empire, so I can't give you anything more

specific. Regional Center is useless now anyway. The CA budget crisis has

gutted them. I've been asking everyone for help with my daughter's anxiety

issues. I know how much getting a notice from the teacher twists my gut. Hope

this helps.

>

> I just got this from teacher

>

> Dear MOM,

> Today MY SON is having a difficult time in PE. He has broken down crying

> because he didn't get to do what he wanted to do. He is now crying and

> saying that he is going to run away. He has had a hard time readjusting to

> school since he came back. He hasn't joined the other students for group

> work and stays to himself most of the time. He seems unhappy and hasn't

> been completing his work. He went to Mr. TEACHER yesterday for 30 minutes

> to complete his work with some individual time and came back very quietly.

> He's lost his happy spirit and I'm worried about him. Have you seen

> anything like this at home?

> Thank you, Mrs. TEACHER

>

>

>

> My son will be 9 in March and is in the Advance Learning program (GATE) 3rd

grade. He gets speech and RSP help. I need help finding a place where we can all

go and talk to him about feeling sad or depress. Inland Regional wont take us

cause he is just Aspergers and we just had him diagnose by the school on july.

We dont have him diagnose by a doctor. I need to find a place to take him before

he really gets depress. Any help will be appreciated. I fell lost right now.

>

> thanks

>

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Thank you . I had to go to school today to talk to the principal. The teacher forgot to let me know that my son also said he was going to shoot his head. The principal had a talk with him and he told him we had a gun so I had to come in for a talk. We just have one of those bb gun toy things from walmart cause that's the only gun I let my husband have in the house. I was mad , why didn't the teacher say anything........this year sucks. My son came home and I asked about his day and he was happy he had a good day. He didnt say anything about the gun thing he did tell me that during P.E. some kids got to be Pacman and other got to be ghosts so he was upset because he didn't get to be a ghost and that's all I was able to get out of him.I just take it day by day ..and hope for better

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Bernardino California

Try http://www.ieautism.org/resource_guide

On page 17 of the resource list there's stuff for Asperger's. Some place in Alta Loma called Open Doors http://www.opendoorsnow.org/ They seem to be more into social groups, but they may know someone who can help.

I am in San Diego, not Inland Empire, so I can't give you anything more specific. Regional Center is useless now anyway. The CA budget crisis has gutted them. I've been asking everyone for help with my daughter's anxiety issues. I know how much getting a notice from the teacher twists my gut. Hope this helps.

>

> I just got this from teacher

>

> Dear MOM,

> Today MY SON is having a difficult time in PE. He has broken down crying

> because he didn't get to do what he wanted to do. He is now crying and

> saying that he is going to run away. He has had a hard time readjusting to

> school since he came back. He hasn't joined the other students for group

> work and stays to himself most of the time. He seems unhappy and hasn't

> been completing his work. He went to Mr. TEACHER yesterday for 30 minutes

> to complete his work with some individual time and came back very quietly.

> He's lost his happy spirit and I'm worried about him. Have you seen

> anything like this at home?

> Thank you, Mrs. TEACHER

>

>

>

> My son will be 9 in March and is in the Advance Learning program (GATE) 3rd grade. He gets speech and RSP help. I need help finding a place where we can all go and talk to him about feeling sad or depress. Inland Regional wont take us cause he is just Aspergers and we just had him diagnose by the school on july. We dont have him diagnose by a doctor. I need to find a place to take him before he really gets depress. Any help will be appreciated. I fell lost right now.

>

> thanks

>

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The night before my sons return to school from winter break he came down from

his bedroom in tears. He was upset that vacation was over. He didn't want to

go back to school. I had to lay with him in bed and talk to him for about a 1/2

hour. He was talking about death and accidents and about the world ending

(thanks to the Mayan Calendar 2012). It was very emotional but showed me how

difficult transisions are for him. This was in his mind and ending of

everything that made him happy. Thankfully the school has really eased him back

into the routine and now at the end of the week he is doing much better.

I share all of this to illustrate how difficult transitions can be for our super

sensitive Aspies. They make connections between things that we wouldn't. Ask

him if he is sad about his vacation being over and see if he can talk through

some of this. You may be surprised at what thoughts he has been having all

prompted by a little change in his routine.

If it doesn't improve of course I would talk to a doctor.

Vickie

>

> I just got this from teacher

>

> Dear MOM,

> Today MY SON is having a difficult time in PE. He has broken down crying

> because he didn't get to do what he wanted to do. He is now crying and

> saying that he is going to run away. He has had a hard time readjusting to

> school since he came back. He hasn't joined the other students for group

> work and stays to himself most of the time. He seems unhappy and hasn't

> been completing his work. He went to Mr. TEACHER yesterday for 30 minutes

> to complete his work with some individual time and came back very quietly.

> He's lost his happy spirit and I'm worried about him. Have you seen

> anything like this at home?

> Thank you, Mrs. TEACHER

>

>

>

> My son will be 9 in March and is in the Advance Learning program (GATE) 3rd

grade. He gets speech and RSP help. I need help finding a place where we can all

go and talk to him about feeling sad or depress. Inland Regional wont take us

cause he is just Aspergers and we just had him diagnose by the school on july.

We dont have him diagnose by a doctor. I need to find a place to take him before

he really gets depress. Any help will be appreciated. I fell lost right now.

>

> thanks

>

[Guest guest]

Vickie

I agree with you. My 15yr son just went back to school this week after vacation. He was not happy about going back to school..anxiety. And to top it off, he has finals next week. He perseverates about finals. I talk to him and ensure him that he will do fine and we are so proud of him. Routine at home is off but slowly getting back into it. And yes regarding the Mayan 2012 calendar...aagh!!! That is a topic I know so well from my son. He is on abilify/concerta (the lowest dose). Before meds, it was worse but it is better but with every new situation there are problems which we talk about and help him to understand. Everyday is a learning experience but a great one!

From: baneline1 <baneline1@...>Subject: ( ) Re: Need help in San Bernardino California Date: Friday, January 8, 2010, 8:21 AM

The night before my sons return to school from winter break he came down from his bedroom in tears. He was upset that vacation was over. He didn't want to go back to school. I had to lay with him in bed and talk to him for about a 1/2 hour. He was talking about death and accidents and about the world ending (thanks to the Mayan Calendar 2012). It was very emotional but showed me how difficult transisions are for him. This was in his mind and ending of everything that made him happy. Thankfully the school has really eased him back into the routine and now at the end of the week he is doing much better. I share all of this to illustrate how difficult transitions can be for our super sensitive Aspies. They make connections between things that we wouldn't. Ask him if he is sad about his vacation being over and see if he can talk through some of this. You may be surprised at what thoughts he has been having all prompted by a little change in his

routine.If it doesn't improve of course I would talk to a doctor.Vickie>> I just got this from teacher> > Dear MOM,> Today MY SON is having a difficult time in PE. He has broken down crying> because he didn't get to do what he wanted to do. He is now crying and> saying that he is going to run away. He has had a hard time readjusting to> school since he came back. He hasn't joined the other students for group> work and stays to himself most of the time. He seems unhappy and hasn't> been completing his work. He went to Mr. TEACHER yesterday for 30 minutes> to complete his work with some individual

time and came back very quietly.> He's lost his happy spirit and I'm worried about him. Have you seen> anything like this at home?> Thank you, Mrs. TEACHER> > > > My son will be 9 in March and is in the Advance Learning program (GATE) 3rd grade. He gets speech and RSP help. I need help finding a place where we can all go and talk to him about feeling sad or depress. Inland Regional wont take us cause he is just Aspergers and we just had him diagnose by the school on july. We dont have him diagnose by a doctor. I need to find a place to take him before he really gets depress. Any help will be appreciated. I fell lost right now.> > thanks>

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Thanks- we have notice that its hard for him to back to school after a break. I talked to his doctor today and we are working on it. Catalina ValenzuelaAvon Independent Sales Representative My store is open 24/7 at: www.youravon.com/catalinavalenzuelaFree Shipping Code: FSANYFrom: baneline1

<baneline1@...> Sent: Fri, January 8, 2010 8:21:59 AMSubject: ( ) Re: Need help in San Bernardino California

The night before my sons return to school from winter break he came down from his bedroom in tears. He was upset that vacation was over. He didn't want to go back to school. I had to lay with him in bed and talk to him for about a 1/2 hour. He was talking about death and accidents and about the world ending (thanks to the Mayan Calendar 2012). It was very emotional but showed me how difficult transisions are for him.. This was in his mind and ending of everything that made him happy. Thankfully the school has really eased him back into the routine and now at the end of the week he is doing much better.

I share all of this to illustrate how difficult transitions can be for our super sensitive Aspies. They make connections between things that we wouldn't. Ask him if he is sad about his vacation being over and see if he can talk through some of this. You may be surprised at what thoughts he has been having all prompted by a little change in his routine.

If it doesn't improve of course I would talk to a doctor.

Vickie

>

> I just got this from teacher

>

> Dear MOM,

> Today MY SON is having a difficult time in PE. He has broken down crying

> because he didn't get to do what he wanted to do. He is now crying and

> saying that he is going to run away. He has had a hard time readjusting to

> school since he came back. He hasn't joined the other students for group

> work and stays to himself most of the time. He seems unhappy and hasn't

> been completing his work. He went to Mr. TEACHER yesterday for 30 minutes

> to complete his work with some individual time and came back very quietly.

> He's lost his happy spirit and I'm worried about him.. Have you seen

> anything like this at home?

> Thank you, Mrs. TEACHER

>

>

>

> My son will be 9 in March and is in the Advance Learning program (GATE) 3rd grade. He gets speech and RSP help. I need help finding a place where we can all go and talk to him about feeling sad or depress. Inland Regional wont take us cause he is just Aspergers and we just had him diagnose by the school on july. We dont have him diagnose by a doctor. I need to find a place to take him before he really gets depress. Any help will be appreciated. I fell lost right now.

>

> thanks

>