Teacher asked son to spend the night

[Guest guest]

I don’t know where you live, so I may be geographically

biased, but in California, usa, this would be considered inappropriate. if

it were me, I would record the incidences just in case you need it later, and

report the incidences to the school principal at once. and

file a formal complaint, this way the principal would need to get back to you

with a plan. The principal should also know that you do not want your son

to ever be alone with this teacher and to come up with an action plan for your

son, if this occurs—like he has permission to leave the room and go to

the office, or some sort. Lastly, this is a good time to

empower your son. recently, oprah had a show on pedophiles, where she

interviewed convicted offenders. And what I found to be important is that

the offenders admittedly will quit the grooming process if they believe the

child will “out them”. so their advice is the child should

learn to so “no” or “not interested” with words and or

body language, in as strong of way as needed. And the child should not

worry about hurting the offenders feelings or good manners. You can

practice this with your son at home.

This teacher may have all the best of intentions and if he

does, he needs to learn how to express them in a more appropriate way.

however, my instincts say at best he has social deficits himself, and at worst

he can not be trusted around children.

Regards, melody